smart woman

Bahamas95:
Ya. I can only say irrelevant things online to catch cruise, not revealing sensitive information.

If my girlfriend offend me I will NEVER say anything about it online not to talk of my wife. Some people can't just keep their mouths shut, I have seen netizens upload baby bumps online. They even go as far as recording and uploading childbirth online, that's madness.

You are very correct. Some post the almost nude pix online which I considered absolute madness

Litigator


Does she have the right to put up the house for rent if the house was in the husband's name?

Is it also legal for one to bug their spouse's phone?

Can someone sue another person if their phone got bugged?

tremilatre:
100% made up. Believe what you see online at your peril, everyone is chasing online content.
Story doesn't add up cos the man must have travelled for over a month for her to have carried out all she did. There wouldn't have been enough time to clear out the house, remortgage it for let, put it on the let market, organise viewings, complete a let agreement and tenants move in, all before oga returned from his dick-cation.
Moral of the story is sha fear abroad women, they've been the downfall of many an unsuspecting man.

Read the story again from the beginning

Fuckyoumod:
This woman is mad!

How can you wire tap your husband and children without their knowledge?

Spying on his calls and messages?
That's mad!.

I know the reason the man is cheating.
See, you married women. You can not push your husband's into the arms of another woman ( side chics) and then come here to embarrass and bring shame to them.

To hell with this woman!

Everything is wrong about spying and tapping the calls and messages of your husband without his knowledge. Are in a police dictative?

He should have divorced her instead of cheating

OyeofIkoTuN:
Oga just act like you agree ooo....e dey pain but 2 can play that game..

Let her feel comfortable bringing the kids to your new location,wait it out 6 months,play the fool...e dey pain but no worry, 10 months keep playing the fool..Let her keep bringing your kids for weekends and vacations.. after the 11th month, you should have everything ready for the kids to be in Nigeria.....After you have japa to naija with the kids...Let me see how she wanna do the magic

Two can play this game perfectly

Shebi na 1yr? No yawa

Na so

OyeofIkoTuN:
Oga just act like you agree ooo....e dey pain but 2 can play that game..

Let her feel comfortable bringing the kids to your new location,wait it out 6 months,play the fool...e dey pain but no worry, 10 months keep playing the fool..Let her keep bringing your kids for weekends and vacations.. after the 11th month, you should have everything ready for the kids to be in Nigeria.....After you have japa to naija with the kids...Let me see how she wanna do the magic

If he japa to Nigeria, it will amount to a downgrade in standard of life for the man and his children. And I am sure that his children will curse him if he tried that. His best bet is to change his ways of life, and mend his relationship with his wife. In America and Europe, women rules.

OyeofIkoTuN:
Oga just act like you agree ooo....e dey pain but 2 can play that game..

Let her feel comfortable bringing the kids to your new location,wait it out 6 months,play the fool...e dey pain but no worry, 10 months keep playing the fool..Let her keep bringing your kids for weekends and vacations.. after the 11th month, you should have everything ready for the kids to be in Nigeria.....After you have japa to naija with the kids...Let me see how she wanna do the magic

Which man established in USA will think of taking his American kids bank to Nigeria and even relocate back to Nigeria because of broken marriage. That man is definitely stupid to ever think of that. Nigeria is the last place any sane person that has papers abroad will think of going back to except for just a little visit to see family especially if mother or father is still alive. If not, any man that has kids abroad and decide to relocate them to Nigeria is a very wicked father.

G00DHardDick:


This is exactly why Men are the prize.

The woman in the story knows better and decided not to divorced the man hence na she go lose if she try am. When a woman cheats, she should get ready to cater for herself by herself, provide her shelter, feed herself, pay her bills and do everything herself.

A man and a woman can never be the same. Of course men are the prize to be won. You girls need to go extra Miles to please us otherwise we'll look elsewhere. Men are the Golden prize to be won

Only in Nigeria.

In America and Europe, women rules in marital matters.

You have rather advised the woman to tighten her rope on the man's neck

TONYE001:
So satisfying.

Don't care if this even truly happened or not, but the whole story is very, very satisfying.

If you know you can't stick to your spouse, don't bother about getting married. Don't do to others what you can't tolerate if done to you. She is even considerate. She had the option of filing for divorce immediately and clearing everything for her and the kids.

He's an irresponsible individual, and should have no business being a husband or a father.

What is he going to teach his children (especially his sons)?

Serves the gentleman right.

The woman Is a black beauty

OyeofIkoTuN:
Oga just act like you agree ooo....e dey pain but 2 can play that game..

Let her feel comfortable bringing the kids to your new location,wait it out 6 months,play the fool...e dey pain but no worry, 10 months keep playing the fool..Let her keep bringing your kids for weekends and vacations.. after the 11th month, you should have everything ready for the kids to be in Nigeria.....After you have japa to naija with the kids...Let me see how she wanna do the magic

That is if he doesn't want to stay in the UK again.
Cause by fire by force he must bring them back

Cutehector:


Litigator


Does she have the right to put up the house for rent if the house was in the husband's name?

Is it also legal for one to bug their spouse's phone?

Can someone sue another person if their phone got bugged?

Good questions.

On renting .... it seems the property is not in his name. She is too smart to rent it if is ... or owned by both of them because he can go to court and win.

On bugging someone else's phone it is illegal.... a federal offence. Note... she said she is tech savvy and her husband is not. It's not bugging his phone. There are phone "family plans" where one person can have like up to 5 phones ... only one bill to the name on the account. People do this a lot instead of 5 persons of the family having individual accounts and each paying like $50/month when the bill on the family plan may just be $125. She being the owner of the phones ... she can legally monitor all of them.... phone calls .... texts ... and locations. Seems this is the case.

That's nice.

no problem, peter obi, and atiku will straighten the issue out. tinubu will mediate on the husband's behalf

Bvlgari:
How i got back at my cheating Nigerian husband - US based lady


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nrNIZV096Q4

https://www.instagram.com/p/CofhiAgrGle/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

How a U.S-based Liberian woman dealt with her cheating Nigerian husband
A Liberian woman has explained how she had the ultimate revenge on her cheating Nigerian Husband.

According to her, she revealed that she has been married to the Nigerian man for over 8 years, and he has been cheating on her over the years but she finally had enough when he decided to travel back to Nigeria to spend time with a lover.

She revealed she had set up their phones in a way she could monitor what the other partner was doing.

Instead of confronting her husband before his trip, she let him believe she was in the dark and he traveled while she mapped out her plan for revenge.

So when the man finally traveled to Nigeria, she decided to move out of their big house to a two bedroom apartment and put up their big house for rent ($1,275 per month).

She moves all their property to a storage and took just what she and her three kids needed.

Upon her husband’s return after two months, he found out he had no access to the house and called her.

She then broke the news to the shocked man. She also said she won’t divorce him but will be separated from him for one year. If he changes in a year, they could get back together, if he doesn’t, she’ll sell the house.

Franzinni:
Madam unless you want to die alone with 12 cats better hold your man tight.... Ask around from women of nowadays, to get a man is harder than getting visa to the north pole ... Men are now the price.

Men are now a precious commodity, if you have one it means you dey do normal!!!!

Guys this is the best time to pick women with a fine tooth comb ...

Pick selfishly too.... For example pick the daughter of a billionaire, or someone with international citizenship, or someone who can benefit you in a way that even if you break up,... The return of your investment will last you a life time..... Don't pick for love... Love is a mental disorder, don't pick out of pity becasue if the roles were reversed you will be in friend zone .

Man power !!!!

nonsense post. If not for sex and having kids, what does a woman need a man for? 😡😡😡😡

BigDawsNet:



I pray no one will face that issue...
She can claim it was a fraud marraige...

Na big deal for the guy

She would have to prove that in court. If they had lived together as couple for some time, it becomes harder to prove

TONYE001:
So satisfying.

Don't care if this even truly happened or not, but the whole story is very, very satisfying.

If you know you can't stick to your spouse, don't bother about getting married. Don't do to others what you can't tolerate if done to you. She is even considerate. She had the option of filing for divorce immediately and clearing everything for her and the kids.

He's an irresponsible individual, and should have no business being a husband or a father.

What is he going to teach his children (especially his sons)?

Serves the gentleman right.

That's why I tell pipu calling out Annie Idibia here some time ago, that, if to say na US 2baba dey, maybe e for don go bankrupt.

Originalsly:


Good questions.

On renting .... it seems the property is not in his name. She is too smart to rent it if is ... or owned by both of them because he can go to court and win.

On bugging someone else's phone it is illegal.... a federal offence. Note... she said she is tech savvy and her husband is not. It's not bugging his phone. There are phone "family plans" where one person can have like up to 5 phones ... only one bill to the name on the account. People do this a lot instead of 5 persons of the family having individual accounts and each paying like $50/month when the bill on the family plan may just be $125. She being the owner of the phones ... she can legally monitor all of them.... phone calls .... texts ... and locations. Seems this is the case.

alright, thanks so much for the detailed explanation.

Anyways, i'm not supporting cheating though, as long as the wife's reactions are not illegal then she is good to go, but if her reactions are illegal, then she should be reprimanded.

In this case, it seems the wife is smarter than him..

Matters arising

OyeofIkoTuN:
Oga just act like you agree ooo....e dey pain but 2 can play that game..

Let her feel comfortable bringing the kids to your new location,wait it out 6 months,play the fool...e dey pain but no worry, 10 months keep playing the fool..Let her keep bringing your kids for weekends and vacations.. after the 11th month, you should have everything ready for the kids to be in Nigeria.....After you have japa to naija with the kids...Let me see how she wanna do the magic

If the kids are us citizens, she will go and complain of kidnapping and u know us don't joke with their citizens. They will use interpol to track n bring them back, arrest the man too n jail him.

He has lost. He should just move on.

Oga. She is right. Very right. She even pitied him. Another woman would have shot him dead. He is a lucky man. He should start begging her and become a good man. He should have been smarter. She outsmarted gim.

OyeofIkoTuN:
Oga just act like you agree ooo....e dey pain but 2 can play that game..

Let her feel comfortable bringing the kids to your new location,wait it out 6 months,play the fool...e dey pain but no worry, 10 months keep playing the fool..Let her keep bringing your kids for weekends and vacations.. after the 11th month, you should have everything ready for the kids to be in Nigeria.....After you have japa to naija with the kids...Let me see how she wanna do the magic

Beremx:
nonsense post. If not for sex and having kids, what does a woman need a man for? 😡😡😡😡

I don't mean to make you angry with my comment.

Fuckyoumod:
This woman is mad!

How can you wire tap your husband and children without their knowledge?

Spying on his calls and messages?
That's mad!.

I know the reason the man is cheating.
See, you married women. You can not push your husband's into the arms of another woman ( side chics) and then come here to embarrass and bring shame to them.

To hell with this woman!

Everything is wrong about spying and tapping the calls and messages of your husband without his knowledge. Are in a police dictative?

All her foolish evidences will not be admissible in court because she breached his privacy

Ekugbeh:
Still same scenario.
The law recognizes same sex but not polygamy

It doesn't recognize polygamy in all forms either same sex or opposite sex

It is when you separate that you think he won't cheat ba, be showing your hard sef, I don't understand someone would travel to another continent just to eat jollof rice, out of respect for you, now that you're separate he would weigh his options and eat fried rice locally. Obviously it is either his one eye snake is troubling him or you are giving him unnecessary wahala at home.... We await the man's response, we won't judge him listening to one side of the story.

Elyonwings:
You have rather advised the woman to tighten her rope on the man's neck

Not really.

If there's any rope around the man's neck, the rope was placed by the man himself.

Cecero:


Taa! Mechie gị ọnụ there! I say mechie ọnụ nsị there! Goan marry fes and f**k wan toto all ur life make we know.
yen yen yen yen yen...small boys wey get multiple gehfrens dey teach married men how to marry wan wife. Azị gbakwa unu dia! Ụmụ aparị!

It's rather disappointing that you can't communicate without being civil and polite. I honestly wish you and I can hold a clean and respectful conversation. No need to throw all these abuses at me because they won't do anything.

Anyway, I refer you to your Nairaland signature, and I implore you to live by it.

OyeofIkoTuN:
Oga just act like you agree ooo....e dey pain but 2 can play that game..

Let her feel comfortable bringing the kids to your new location,wait it out 6 months,play the fool...e dey pain but no worry, 10 months keep playing the fool..Let her keep bringing your kids for weekends and vacations.. after the 11th month, you should have everything ready for the kids to be in Nigeria.....After you have japa to naija with the kids...Let me see how she wanna do the magic

lol very funny.all it takes is to contact the US government at the embassy.when oyinbo hand touch am he go know say them no dey Carry narcissistic behaviour reach oyinbo man land neither do they joke with CHILDREN or women.if you know say to dey do community penis still dey hungry you then don't marry.you cannot eat your cake and have it neither can you use your own indiscretion to inflict pain on another.

OyeofIkoTuN:
Ediot

lol because she gave him a taste of his own medicine

If more women were this vengeful,the number of undisciplined, unreasonable and sociopathic men will reduce in africa.they will either not get married or if they decide to get married put their penis Under control

TONYE001:
So satisfying.

Don't care if this even truly happened or not, but the whole story is very, very satisfying.

If you know you can't stick to your spouse, don't bother about getting married. Don't do to others what you can't tolerate if done to you. She is even considerate. She had the option of filing for divorce immediately and clearing everything for her and the kids.

He's an irresponsible individual, and should have no business being a husband or a father.

What is he going to teach his children (especially his sons)?

Serves the gentleman right.

this thread reveals that narcissistic men still plenty for Nigeria .to accept responsibility for their fvck ups dey always hard them.they want to always eat their cakes and have it.

See the one even suggesting he makes her feel comfortable till he brings the kids to nigeria.if he now brings the kids to Nigeria,who want take care of the kids? Before you know it one funny looking slay Queen who's possibly a girlfriend to the unfortunate man will be under the care of the girl and that one Will be inflicting all manner of abuse on the children.worstill if he carries the kids to his parents house