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Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by jaxxy(m): 12:18pm On Feb 13, 2023
Fineman2:
So I met this lady 2 weeks ago in school, she came for her project work.

She showed a lot of interest during our conversation which made me to collect her number, thereafter we continued chatting on WhatsApp and calling


She later said she will be coming to school and I told her to let me know so that I will meet her in school because I live very close to our school, infact I invited her to my place but she later postponed it and said she won't be coming again and said I should visit her instead.

I wasn't prepared for such outing that day so I told her to wait till Sunday and she agreed, we continued chatting on WhatsApp till yesterday Sunday morning, she called me early in the morning to inquire if I will still visit her and I said yes, she said by 12pm because she will first go to church.

When it was 11:30, I called her and she asked if I had left home and I told her very soon, she now said I should call her once I get to a particular location and give the phone to bike man so that she will give us the direction to her place.

I left home 12:10 pm, got to the location, negotiated with okada man, called her number but she didn't pick, I called the second time, she didn't answer so I thought maybe she wasn't with her phone.

I waited for her to call back but she didn't, after waiting for awhile without reaching her, I told the bike man to carry another passenger.

The last time I called her, she switched off her phone, I returned back to my house.

She hasn't called to offer any explanation after 20 hours and I'm just surprised.

Here is my question for ladies on this forum, is what she did okay? What do you think made her to behave that way?

I'm not the type that run after ladies up and down, I hardly do such thing, I've avoided women for most part of my life and such ugly experience will surely affect the way I relate with them anywhere I find myself

Don't go visiting a new or strange lady in her house, let her come to u or pick a neutral location.

u said u don't chase girls bt u invited her to ur house after seeing her just once in school?

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Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by samwillyco1(m): 12:18pm On Feb 13, 2023
You no fine, or maybe she was expecting a guy with a nice ride

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Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by ARAS(m): 12:18pm On Feb 13, 2023
seanwilliam:
not only you bro , even my original girlfriend , I always experience heart palpitation anytime she sleeps over.

Last week when one girl visited me, around 3 am cos I was on my phone , she suddenly woke up and started coughing , see I quickly on the light begin Dey shake her o. It happened within 5min , If you see how I was sweating . I don think how many yards my cloth go be for kirikiri grin. I gave her water .
Na this tin dey fear me too 🤣 most girls no too dey healthy. E no dey hard dem go say “wetin u do am”
The following morning she was just laughing saying I’m not man enough . She said she didn’t take enough water that’s why, For my mind I said , na the last time wey me and you go sleep together be this . Oloshi. grin
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by adecz: 12:19pm On Feb 13, 2023
Maybe she set you up for ritualists
to take your head do yahoo plus, but
Las las her conscience no allow her go
ahead, maybe because she discovered
she actually likes you..


Better thank your guardian angel
instead of complaining. And be very
careful in this our Nigeria of today, not
all that glitters is gold. ❗️❗️❗️❗️

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Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by Nobody: 12:19pm On Feb 13, 2023
God saved your life! She simply taught her husband wouldn't be home. Be careful.

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Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by 123yes(m): 12:19pm On Feb 13, 2023
Fineman2:
another guest, I don't think so

But thanks for your advise
My dear the truth of the matter was that the lady came to that place she said you should enter okada to her place and hid some where observing you. She saw you and never picked your calls because she felt you are not her match physically. This has happened to my friend some time ago.

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Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by freemanq(m): 12:20pm On Feb 13, 2023
Let her go, if she call you back pick and hear her out . If she doesn't call move on

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Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by Akeem79(m): 12:20pm On Feb 13, 2023
Fineman2:
Please nobody should call me a simp


We are not of the same tribe, so could that be the reason she changed her mind?

Tribe difference is not the real reason for her action

Her real boyfriend visited unannounced and she has no chance to explain her present situation to you , reason why she put her phone in silent for a while before putting it off

Las las you're a S......

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Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by jaxxy(m): 12:21pm On Feb 13, 2023
adler777:
Sorry bro. She probably had another "guest".

One thing I must tell you as a guy is: never visit ladies, let them do the visiting, there's more respect for you as a guy that way... No matter how compelling she sounds, always let her be the one to visit you.✌🏾

I get ur narrative bt it depends on the type of girl ur dealing with and the circumstances or intent of the relationship.
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by Oscarhakx: 12:21pm On Feb 13, 2023
Jesus christ! This guy is literally pathetic. Nigga you sound homeless and helpless. Infact anything less
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by GodisFirst: 12:22pm On Feb 13, 2023
Fineman2:
So I met this lady 2 weeks ago in school, she came for her project work.

She showed a lot of interest during our conversation which made me to collect her number, thereafter we continued chatting on WhatsApp and calling


She later said she will be coming to school and I told her to let me know so that I will meet her in school because I live very close to our school, infact I invited her to my place but she later postponed it and said she won't be coming again and said I should visit her instead.

I wasn't prepared for such outing that day so I told her to wait till Sunday and she agreed, we continued chatting on WhatsApp till yesterday Sunday morning, she called me early in the morning to inquire if I will still visit her and I said yes, she said by 12pm because she will first go to church.

When it was 11:30, I called her and she asked if I had left home and I told her very soon, she now said I should call her once I get to a particular location and give the phone to bike man so that she will give us the direction to her place.

I left home 12:10 pm, got to the location, negotiated with okada man, called her number but she didn't pick, I called the second time, she didn't answer so I thought maybe she wasn't with her phone.

I waited for her to call back but she didn't, after waiting for awhile without reaching her, I told the bike man to carry another passenger.

The last time I called her, she switched off her phone, I returned back to my house.

She hasn't called to offer any explanation after 20 hours and I'm just surprised.

Here is my question for ladies on this forum, is what she did okay? What do you think made her to behave that way?

I'm not the type that run after ladies up and down, I hardly do such thing, I've avoided women for most part of my life and such ugly experience will surely affect the way I relate with them anywhere I find myself


she changed her mind. period!
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by texazzpete(m): 12:23pm On Feb 13, 2023
Why are you visiting someone you just met in their house, without telling anyone where you’re going?

You should have pushed to meet in a neutral, public place.

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Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by DatIgalaDude: 12:23pm On Feb 13, 2023
Fineman2:



The last time I called her, she switched off her phone, I returned back to my house.

She hasn't called to offer any explanation after 20 hours and I'm just surprised.

Here is my question for ladies on this forum, is what she did okay? What do you think made her to behave that way?

Don't conclude until you hear from her.
This is naija, shit happens.
To all those ranting, "why would you go visit a girl?" - there are no hard and fast rules in relationship and knacking. What works for one may not work for another.

Just comot mind and move on.
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by faithfull18(f): 12:23pm On Feb 13, 2023
Kobicove:


She abandoned you cos you came with an Okada, she was expecting you to show up with a car.
🙄 A lot of reasons op, another thing some people don't enjoy being visited in their houses, they don't like to visit too and they don't know how to turn you down.

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Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by rottenegg: 12:24pm On Feb 13, 2023
Instead of you to go to church, you dey dream wet dream abi. No go thank God dem change their mind, she for use you for rituals.

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Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by RZArecta(m): 12:26pm On Feb 13, 2023
Na wa The kain problem wey people dey post for Nairaland these days dey even baffle Buhari sef cool
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by djseanjohn77: 12:26pm On Feb 13, 2023
Fineman2:
So I met this lady 2 weeks ago in school, she came for her project work.

She showed a lot of interest during our conversation which made me to collect her number, thereafter we continued chatting on WhatsApp and calling


She later said she will be coming to school and I told her to let me know so that I will meet her in school because I live very close to our school, infact I invited her to my place but she later postponed it and said she won't be coming again and said I should visit her instead.

I wasn't prepared for such outing that day so I told her to wait till Sunday and she agreed, we continued chatting on WhatsApp till yesterday Sunday morning, she called me early in the morning to inquire if I will still visit her and I said yes, she said by 12pm because she will first go to church.

When it was 11:30, I called her and she asked if I had left home and I told her very soon, she now said I should call her once I get to a particular location and give the phone to bike man so that she will give us the direction to her place.

I left home 12:10 pm, got to the location, negotiated with okada man, called her number but she didn't pick, I called the second time, she didn't answer so I thought maybe she wasn't with her phone.

I waited for her to call back but she didn't, after waiting for awhile without reaching her, I told the bike man to carry another passenger.

The last time I called her, she switched off her phone, I returned back to my house.

She hasn't called to offer any explanation after 20 hours and I'm just surprised.

Here is my question for ladies on this forum, is what she did okay? What do you think made her to behave that way?

I'm not the type that run after ladies up and down, I hardly do such thing, I've avoided women for most part of my life and such ugly experience will surely affect the way I relate with them anywhere I find myself

Firstly, you should be the one making the arrangement.
You don't know if she stays alone, or the owner of the house.
She probably was somewhere and saw how you are dressed, and she made up her mind.
Lastly, always be the one to initiate the meet, and do it in a public. This goes to both gender.
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by samonak(m): 12:27pm On Feb 13, 2023
DynamicWriter:
grin grin grin

You wan go meet a bani for house. Lmao.

Your mumu no too much.

You don't have a house? You can't tell her to come to your house.

After all your mother prayers for you to be successful in life. You choose to simp in life.


Anyway, in case anyone needs a quality content writer. Kindly check my signature for contact details.
Na so una go de take fail exams, didn't read where he invited her to his house and she declined?

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Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by benqo01(m): 12:27pm On Feb 13, 2023
VISITING A GIRL IN HER HOOD IS RISKY RATHER INVITE HER OVER,OP DONT CALL HER AGAIN ACT AS IF U RE NOT ANGRY BUT WITHIN U SUCH WONT HAPPEN AGAIN

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Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by Zeezenho: 12:27pm On Feb 13, 2023
Oga think! She is a married lady either she wanted to bleep you and repented or her husband came back.

Leave married ladies alone for long life.
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by egunna(m): 12:28pm On Feb 13, 2023
Fineman2:
So I met this lady 2 weeks ago in school, she came for her project work.

She showed a lot of interest during our conversation which made me to collect her number, thereafter we continued chatting on WhatsApp and calling


She later said she will be coming to school and I told her to let me know so that I will meet her in school because I live very close to our school, infact I invited her to my place but she later postponed it and said she won't be coming again and said I should visit her instead.

I wasn't prepared for such outing that day so I told her to wait till Sunday and she agreed, we continued chatting on WhatsApp till yesterday Sunday morning, she called me early in the morning to inquire if I will still visit her and I said yes, she said by 12pm because she will first go to church.

When it was 11:30, I called her and she asked if I had left home and I told her very soon, she now said I should call her once I get to a particular location and give the phone to bike man so that she will give us the direction to her place.

I left home 12:10 pm, got to the location, negotiated with okada man, called her number but she didn't pick, I called the second time, she didn't answer so I thought maybe she wasn't with her phone.

I waited for her to call back but she didn't, after waiting for awhile without reaching her, I told the bike man to carry another passenger.

The last time I called her, she switched off her phone, I returned back to my house.

She hasn't called to offer any explanation after 20 hours and I'm just surprised.

Here is my question for ladies on this forum, is what she did okay? What do you think made her to behave that way?

I'm not the type that run after ladies up and down, I hardly do such thing, I've avoided women for most part of my life and such ugly experience will surely affect the way I relate with them anywhere I find myself
if u don't mind me asking,we're u presentable?as in u dress well?may b she dey around,as u call am,she don size u finish see say u no b her spec.u know that kind thing na,boys dey do am

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Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by NessieRey: 12:28pm On Feb 13, 2023
Fineman2:
So I met this lady 2 weeks ago in school, she came for her project work.

She showed a lot of interest during our conversation which made me to collect her number, thereafter we continued chatting on WhatsApp and calling


She later said she will be coming to school and I told her to let me know so that I will meet her in school because I live very close to our school, infact I invited her to my place but she later postponed it and said she won't be coming again and said I should visit her instead.

I wasn't prepared for such outing that day so I told her to wait till Sunday and she agreed, we continued chatting on WhatsApp till yesterday Sunday morning, she called me early in the morning to inquire if I will still visit her and I said yes, she said by 12pm because she will first go to church.

When it was 11:30, I called her and she asked if I had left home and I told her very soon, she now said I should call her once I get to a particular location and give the phone to bike man so that she will give us the direction to her place.

I left home 12:10 pm, got to the location, negotiated with okada man, called her number but she didn't pick, I called the second time, she didn't answer so I thought maybe she wasn't with her phone.

I waited for her to call back but she didn't, after waiting for awhile without reaching her, I told the bike man to carry another passenger.

The last time I called her, she switched off her phone, I returned back to my house.

She hasn't called to offer any explanation after 20 hours and I'm just surprised.

Here is my question for ladies on this forum, is what she did okay? What do you think made her to behave that way?

I'm not the type that run after ladies up and down, I hardly do such thing, I've avoided women for most part of my life and such ugly experience will surely affect the way I relate with them anywhere I find myself
You are an AFC
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by Ubanz: 12:28pm On Feb 13, 2023
You are just too quick to bring ur complaint to Nairaland.
Something that just happened yesterday.you don't even know if she has encountered any unforseen circumstances.
You don't even know if she's alright.
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by Ubanz: 12:29pm On Feb 13, 2023
You are just too quick to bring ur complaint to Nairaland.
Something that just happened yesterday.you don't even know if she has encountered any unforseen circumstances.
You don't even know if she's alright.

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Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by uscofield: 12:29pm On Feb 13, 2023
[b][/b] TRUTH BE TOLD, YOU FAILED.
YOUR APPOINTMENT WAS FOR 12PM, YOU GOT TO THE JUNCTION LATER THAN 12PM, YOU FAILED THE INTERVIEW BRO.
IT SHOWS HOW YOU CAN ADEQUATELY MANAGE TIME.
WORK ON YOURSELF NEXT TIME.

IF NA SHELL OR MOBIL INTERVIEW, WILL YOU WAIT TILL PAST 12PM BEFORE LEAVING YOUR HOUSE?
GUY CHECK AM NAAA
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by Ubanz: 12:29pm On Feb 13, 2023
You are just too quick to bring ur complaint to Nairaland.
Something that just happened yesterday.you don't even know if she has encountered any unforseen circumstances.
You don't even know if she's alright
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by stacyadams: 12:29pm On Feb 13, 2023
Ironically them dey always play hard to get to come my side, but then they invite me over to their place.. grin...I dress up,find bike ,go their house and bang away the destiny of the pooooccie. grin grin
Note

I don even bang married woman for her papa house for villa,,bang married for her husband house grin
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by CirocBoi(m): 12:30pm On Feb 13, 2023
DynamicWriter:
grin grin grin

You wan go meet a bani for house. Lmao.

Your mumu no too much.

You don't have a house? You can't tell her to come to your house.

After all your mother prayers for you to be successful in life. You choose to simp in life.


Anyway, in case anyone needs a quality content writer. Kindly check my signature for contact details.

Lmaooooo

Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by jackie35(m): 12:33pm On Feb 13, 2023
Fineman2:
So I met this lady 2 weeks ago in school, she came for her project work.

She showed a lot of interest during our conversation which made me to collect her number, thereafter we continued chatting on WhatsApp and calling


She later said she will be coming to school and I told her to let me know so that I will meet her in school because I live very close to our school, infact I invited her to my place but she later postponed it and said she won't be coming again and said I should visit her instead.

I wasn't prepared for such outing that day so I told her to wait till Sunday and she agreed, we continued chatting on WhatsApp till yesterday Sunday morning, she called me early in the morning to inquire if I will still visit her and I said yes, she said by 12pm because she will first go to church.


But you haven't heard from her, you never know what happened to her. So don't conclude yet.

When it was 11:30, I called her and she asked if I had left home and I told her very soon, she now said I should call her once I get to a particular location and give the phone to bike man so that she will give us the direction to her place.

I left home 12:10 pm, got to the location, negotiated with okada man, called her number but she didn't pick, I called the second time, she didn't answer so I thought maybe she wasn't with her phone.

I waited for her to call back but she didn't, after waiting for awhile without reaching her, I told the bike man to carry another passenger.

The last time I called her, she switched off her phone, I returned back to my house.

She hasn't called to offer any explanation after 20 hours and I'm just surprised.

Here is my question for ladies on this forum, is what she did okay? What do you think made her to behave that way?

I'm not the type that run after ladies up and down, I hardly do such thing, I've avoided women for most part of my life and such ugly experience will surely affect the way I relate with them anywhere I find myself
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by SAMTOBIJU(m): 12:34pm On Feb 13, 2023
Sniper101:
Her boyfriend must have showed up
at her house unannounced grin

It's a Sunday
... remember?

Your one consolation is the fact that...
I see her calling you on phone or coming to school to find you and apologize about yesterday. I see her asking you to try visiting her again or she asking you when you'll like her to come visit you. I see her allowing you deep your stick inside her canal. I see her steadily cheating on her boyfriend with you; if you were a great fvcka the first time

This I have seen grin


You be legend

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