Raalsalghul:


True.

Environment plays a factor sha.

It just sucks that the Op is in a shithole.

If to say na place like U.K now with social security, na better cash out for the Op.

First off all, NHS go handle antenatal care and birthing.

After she born, she fit request for council housing which is almost free.

Child's education is already free come add government benefits like universal credit, child care benefits, unemployment benefits plus payments from her baby daddy.

Na flexing for the next 16 - 18 years of her life.

Opposite na the case in Nigeria.

I feel for the Op she.

Gbam they even use it as a game to collect money from the government. They more they birth, the more the government gives.

Raalsalghul:


🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Haven't you noticed that simp acts have reduced greatly. I remember before buhari entered if you scroll social media twitter or Instagram e no go reach 3 posts before you see an @onegirl, anon just sent you this. Anon sent you that. Even this last valentine's day no anon. Man go rather use that him last 1500 go Bleep olosho than take am do anon

Yes I am .. shed me as much as you can but I didn't do this alone..Yes I am .. shed me as much as you can but I didn't do this alone.....

emmaodet:
It is funny how a broke and jobless lady will be thinking about sex, pregnancy, love, relationship etc instead of looking for a job.
Poverty no dey tire una?

Exactly.
You hardly see a broke man thinking of sex but you'll see a broke, wretched and miserable Nigerian girl feeling hórny and demanding for marathon sex.

This one carry belle out of wedlock, yet her main concern is how to find love again. Same love that got her in her present situation.

I just don't know, I always feel happy whenever I see a Nigerian girl going through heartbreak or emotionally damaged.

O.P. YOU BEHAVED FOOLISHLY. INSTEAD OF LOOKING FOR TRUE LOVE,YOU THOUGHT YOU COULLD FORCE A MAN TO MARRY YOU BY HOOKING HIM WITH PREGNANCY HE NEVER PLANNED WITH YOU. AT AGE OF 25 YOU DO NOT KNOW THAT UNPROTECTED SEX WILLL RESULT IN PREGNANCY, THEN YOU ARE STUPID. THIS IS BECAUSE WHENEVER YOU WANT TO CROSS A ROAD YOU NORMALLY LOOK LEFT, RIGHT AND LEFT AGAIN BEFORE CROSSING TO AVOID ACCIDENT. BUT ARE YOU SAYING THAT HAVING SEX WILL NOT LEAD TO PREGNANCY OR THAT ANY MAN THAT HAVE SEX WITH A LADY WANT TO MARRY HER AND SO WANTS PREGNANCY? YOU ARE A CHEAP LADY.

Zonefree:

Exactly.
You hardly see a broke man thinking of sex but you'll see a broke, wretched and miserable Nigerian girl feeling hórny and demanding for marathon sex.

This one carry belle out of wedlock, yet her main concern is how to find love again. Same love that got her in her present situation.

I just don't know, I always feel happy whenever I see a Nigerian girl going through heartbreak or emotionally damaged.

Go for deliverance, this is withcraft. Early signs of wizardry at work here.

jesmond3945:
talk to your parents. You wanted a child but he didnt. When having sex always make sure you and your partner are on the same page

Lol the op even sounds kind hearted. These days when they feel time is against them they hunt for guys and get them to have sex with the intention to keep the baby no matter the condition or circumstances surrounding the birth. They even look for excuses to cut u off. Guys need to be careful with whom they fvck these days. Some girls are not smiling. They are stealing babies to intentionally become single moms... We haven't heard from the other person involved. U might be shocked

You're not the first to be a single mother and you won't be the last.

You're not the first to tow this path. Perhaps by now, you're regretting your past actions.

Let me be generous and be of help to you.
Contact me, I have something to support you. The coming months will be quite tough for you. Wish you the best.

tensazangetsu20:


Haven't you noticed that simp acts have reduced greatly. I remember before buhari entered if you scroll social media twitter or Instagram e no go reach 3 posts before you see an @onegirl, anon just sent you this. Anon sent you that. Even this last valentine's day no anon. Man go rather use that him last 1500 go Bleep olosho than take am do anon

I don laugh diiiiiiiiiiiiie!!🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

tensazangetsu20:


Haven't you noticed that simp acts have reduced greatly. I remember before buhari entered if you scroll social media twitter or Instagram e no go reach 3 posts before you see an @onegirl, anon just sent you this. Anon sent you that. Even this last valentine's day no anon. Man go rather use that him last 1500 go Bleep olosho than take am do anon

🤣🤣🤣😂🤣🤣🤣

[Make u no go too fear. mistake na normal thin for life. i go give you street advice now. FIND ONE SOLID CHURCH, LIVING FAITH OR IF YOU BE CATHOLIC RUN GO MEET THEM REV. SISTERS TELL THEM SAY U DON Bleep UP SA BUT NOW U DON LEARN AND U NO WAN COMMIT SIN OF KILLING SAY MAKE THEM HELP U SAY U GO FOLLOW GOD DIE. THEM GO GIVE YOU JOB STILL HELP U IN MANY WAYS. NA UR ESCAPE BE THIS. COMOT SHAME 4 UR FACE LIKE THIS RUN THIS THIN WAY I TELL U

But your mother, father, pastor and society esrned you to close your legs until marriage. Carry your cross.

No matter what you do, don't abort that baby.
And if another man marries you in the future, never let this your run away boyfriend come back to interfere in your marriage.
I know you will not listen to the second advice, but at least you have been advised.
Good luck.

tensazangetsu20:


Haven't you noticed that simp acts have reduced greatly. I remember before buhari entered if you scroll social media twitter or Instagram e no go reach 3 posts before you see an @onegirl, anon just sent you this. Anon sent you that. Even this last valentine's day no anon. Man go rather use that him last 1500 go Bleep olosho than take am do anon

LMAO!

Human23:
My name is Mary.
I am four months pregnant and I got abandoned by my boyfriend. I told him about it when I was three weeks gone and he said he doesn't want to be part of it. When it was time to register for antenatal I told him again and even sent him pictures of the registration. But this time he blocked me on all social media and also blocked my number. I got my friends to reach out to him and he said the same thing. Few days back I got my friend to remind me again on how far I've gone and how hard it has been having to face this pregnancy alone, but still he repeated and said " I am not a party to it".
To the cause of this pregnancy I lost my job.
I live alone and recently my Younger brother came to join me because he needed to complete his fashion training in Abuja .

I have been trying to get a job ever since I lost my previous one but to no avail.. now I'm scared. I made up my mind to have my baby and gradually I've been making plans to prepare me for the future. But I'm scared. Being a single mother at 25 is not what I planned for myself and I sincerely wish to be with a partner. As stupid as it may sound I wish I could find love and the thought of knowing that having this child might scare people away from me is what breaks my heart. I'm stuck at the whole thought of getting a job, having a baby, and finding love again.

Biko I need your advice please.

You have already made a big mistake. You are doing the right thing by keeping the baby. About your fears of finding love in the future. Why don't you put to bed first. It's obvious you have to brace up to face the consequences of your actions and decisions alone. Love will find you at the appropriate time if you have learnt your lessons from this the universe will be kind to you. Even if you abort, you may never find love. There are many single mothers who still do well and find love. Just keep the right attitude and learn from your misdeeds. Wishing you the best.


In all honesty bringing your matter to NL will complicate matters for you, it will leave you more confused than you were. You only need to brace up for the days ahead... I think you already made your choice.

Human23:
My name is Mary.
I am four months pregnant and I got abandoned by my boyfriend. I told him about it when I was three weeks gone and he said he doesn't want to be part of it. When it was time to register for antenatal I told him again and even sent him pictures of the registration. But this time he blocked me on all social media and also blocked my number. I got my friends to reach out to him and he said the same thing. Few days back I got my friend to remind me again on how far I've gone and how hard it has been having to face this pregnancy alone, but still he repeated and said " I am not a party to it".
To the cause of this pregnancy I lost my job.
I live alone and recently my Younger brother came to join me because he needed to complete his fashion training in Abuja .

I have been trying to get a job ever since I lost my previous one but to no avail.. now I'm scared. I made up my mind to have my baby and gradually I've been making plans to prepare me for the future. But I'm scared. Being a single mother at 25 is not what I planned for myself and I sincerely wish to be with a partner. As stupid as it may sound I wish I could find love and the thought of knowing that having this child might scare people away from me is what breaks my heart. I'm stuck at the whole thought of getting a job, having a baby, and finding love again.

Biko I need your advice please.

The deed has been done, the mistake has been made already... Please focus on carrying your pregnancy to term and if you can get something doing to support yourself financially, that will be fine.

Don't worry your head about future life for now... If it will be, it will be

Human23:
My name is Mary.
I am four months pregnant and I got abandoned by my boyfriend. I told him about it when I was three weeks gone and he said he doesn't want to be part of it. When it was time to register for antenatal I told him again and even sent him pictures of the registration. But this time he blocked me on all social media and also blocked my number. I got my friends to reach out to him and he said the same thing. Few days back I got my friend to remind me again on how far I've gone and how hard it has been having to face this pregnancy alone, but still he repeated and said " I am not a party to it".
To the cause of this pregnancy I lost my job.
I live alone and recently my Younger brother came to join me because he needed to complete his fashion training in Abuja .

I have been trying to get a job ever since I lost my previous one but to no avail.. now I'm scared. I made up my mind to have my baby and gradually I've been making plans to prepare me for the future. But I'm scared. Being a single mother at 25 is not what I planned for myself and I sincerely wish to be with a partner. As stupid as it may sound I wish I could find love and the thought of knowing that having this child might scare people away from me is what breaks my heart. I'm stuck at the whole thought of getting a job, having a baby, and finding love again.

Biko I need your advice please.

Since you have gone this far,
You were determined to keep the pregnancy and you have long ago prepared for the tight corner you put yourself in

I blame you for everything that that have happened to you

So be strong and learn from your mistakes

If it gets to the stage you can't handle, go to any nearest orphanage home and register yourself

They will advise you on how to carry your pregnancy to full term and may take care of your antenatal and after birth

After that you will start reasoning with your brain

As for your boyfriend, I don't have anything to say about him because he already made his stand clear from day one of that pregnancy

Lol,

It's pretty Amazing to see we have God here in this forum in the person of Jeromstarks or whatever the name is...☺️


Please God when will your own punishment and Nature's Judgement day come for your misbehaviour on earth? 😄


Nne nothing unusual happened to you and forget about the Useless He-goats that has decided to be useless creatures to Nature (that is your child's father and the other useless one telling you that your life is doomed and blah blah blah blah)


You decided to keep the child and it's best known to you why you have decided to do so.


About Love? Sure you will still find love but that should no longer be your priorities now...

Your priorities right now should be

Your child
Making money
Education

Take care of this 3 things up there and stay dedicated to them and you will find love even much better than most single ladies.


Modified:

If you get money Nne then try leave this Land called Nigeria for the sake of your child and yourself.

Very Important cause Nigerian's are terribly sick upstairs.

Op please, your best bet is to abort the baby! if not you and the baby will suffer considering the fact that you will/might loose your job and this is also going to ruin your chances of seeing a good man and might also ruin your career if you don’t have a supportive family.

I don’t know why some ladies prefer to be a single mother instead of aborting the pregnancy when they know fully that they don’t have the resources to keep the child nor a supportive family.

The stigma attached to being a single mom is far worse than when you abort.

You might ended up being used and dumped by several guys in your quest to get a husband as a single mom .. no reasonable single guy will settle for a single mom.
Those telling you not to abort will not provide any financial support .

Please be guided
*** Do not abort with pills you buy from Chemist or pharmacy , please go to a medical practitioner for a professional procedure. With that you will be safe and have nothing to loose

Note: please I am not using the above to batch single moms! They are very strong in this cold world, I have couples of them around me and I understand how it’s not being easy for them.
I said it so that others will not thread the same path

Human23:
My name is Mary.
I am four months pregnant and I got abandoned by my boyfriend. I told him about it when I was three weeks gone and he said he doesn't want to be part of it. When it was time to register for antenatal I told him again and even sent him pictures of the registration. But this time he blocked me on all social media and also blocked my number. I got my friends to reach out to him and he said the same thing. Few days back I got my friend to remind me again on how far I've gone and how hard it has been having to face this pregnancy alone, but still he repeated and said " I am not a party to it".
To the cause of this pregnancy I lost my job.
I live alone and recently my Younger brother came to join me because he needed to complete his fashion training in Abuja .

I have been trying to get a job ever since I lost my previous one but to no avail.. now I'm scared. I made up my mind to have my baby and gradually I've been making plans to prepare me for the future. But I'm scared. Being a single mother at 25 is not what I planned for myself and I sincerely wish to be with a partner. As stupid as it may sound I wish I could find love and the thought of knowing that having this child might scare people away from me is what breaks my heart. I'm stuck at the whole thought of getting a job, having a baby, and finding love again.

Biko I need your advice please.

call, sms or watssap me. My number is on my signature.

Killerbag36:


Go nd kill ursef its help ok

Be humane for once

jeromestarks:
Op, you're a fool.
Good men approached you but you turned them down and open your pvssy for this guy who has left you. You followed him because he showered you will temporary money.

Now you're looking for a man who you will dump your messed up life on him.
You are looking for a man's life to destroy?

You wish you didn't reject those sincere (maybe not do rich) guy. You wish they came back.

You will never find love. You will raise that illegitimate child alone. Another man will mounted and fvcked you and you will still raise the second and third babies alone.

Note, no child is illegitimate. We only have irresponsible parents. There's always a starting point no matter how hard you fell.

Human23:
My name is Mary.
I am four months pregnant and I got abandoned by my boyfriend. I told him about it when I was three weeks gone and he said he doesn't want to be part of it. When it was time to register for antenatal I told him again and even sent him pictures of the registration. But this time he blocked me on all social media and also blocked my number. I got my friends to reach out to him and he said the same thing. Few days back I got my friend to remind me again on how far I've gone and how hard it has been having to face this pregnancy alone, but still he repeated and said " I am not a party to it".
To the cause of this pregnancy I lost my job.
I live alone and recently my Younger brother came to join me because he needed to complete his fashion training in Abuja .

I have been trying to get a job ever since I lost my previous one but to no avail.. now I'm scared. I made up my mind to have my baby and gradually I've been making plans to prepare me for the future. But I'm scared. Being a single mother at 25 is not what I planned for myself and I sincerely wish to be with a partner. As stupid as it may sound I wish I could find love and the thought of knowing that having this child might scare people away from me is what breaks my heart. I'm stuck at the whole thought of getting a job, having a baby, and finding love again.

Biko I need your advice please.

The deed has been done and what you need to do is to focus like you said you have make some plans. Maybe start looking for upwork or freelance work so that you can work from home.

Human23:
My name is Mary.
I am four months pregnant and I got abandoned by my boyfriend. I told him about it when I was three weeks gone and he said he doesn't want to be part of it. When it was time to register for antenatal I told him again and even sent him pictures of the registration. But this time he blocked me on all social media and also blocked my number. I got my friends to reach out to him and he said the same thing. Few days back I got my friend to remind me again on how far I've gone and how hard it has been having to face this pregnancy alone, but still he repeated and said " I am not a party to it".
To the cause of this pregnancy I lost my job.
I live alone and recently my Younger brother came to join me because he needed to complete his fashion training in Abuja .

I have been trying to get a job ever since I lost my previous one but to no avail.. now I'm scared. I made up my mind to have my baby and gradually I've been making plans to prepare me for the future. But I'm scared. Being a single mother at 25 is not what I planned for myself and I sincerely wish to be with a partner. As stupid as it may sound I wish I could find love and the thought of knowing that having this child might scare people away from me is what breaks my heart. I'm stuck at the whole thought of getting a job, having a baby, and finding love again.

Biko I need your advice please.

Its not the end of life...
Keep believing...
See It as a blessing in do

Shalom

Exceed15:


Note, no child is illegitimate. We only have irresponsible parents. There's always a starting point no matter how hard you fell.

Use your dictionary.
A child born outside marriage is a BASTARD!
An illegitimate child is a Bastard.
She is pregnant with a BASTARD!

Human23:
My name is Mary.
I am four months pregnant and I got abandoned by my boyfriend. I told him about it when I was three weeks gone and he said he doesn't want to be part of it. When it was time to register for antenatal I told him again and even sent him pictures of the registration. But this time he blocked me on all social media and also blocked my number. I got my friends to reach out to him and he said the same thing. Few days back I got my friend to remind me again on how far I've gone and how hard it has been having to face this pregnancy alone, but still he repeated and said " I am not a party to it".
To the cause of this pregnancy I lost my job.
I live alone and recently my Younger brother came to join me because he needed to complete his fashion training in Abuja .

I have been trying to get a job ever since I lost my previous one but to no avail.. now I'm scared. I made up my mind to have my baby and gradually I've been making plans to prepare me for the future. But I'm scared. Being a single mother at 25 is not what I planned for myself and I sincerely wish to be with a partner. As stupid as it may sound I wish I could find love and the thought of knowing that having this child might scare people away from me is what breaks my heart. I'm stuck at the whole thought of getting a job, having a baby, and finding love again.

Biko I need your advice please.

Focus on the baby first, after that get a job love will find you but don't be desperate else you will fall into the wrong hand.

jeromestarks:

Use your dictionary.
A child born outside marriage is a BASTARD!
An illegitimate child is a Bastard.
She is pregnant with a BASTARD!

The moment u mentioned dictionary I laughed and knew you are a just a kid or behaving like one ..Learn to question things and be rational. Your statement spills bitterness and hatred.. e be like say one girl don wound u before

Exceed15:



The moment u mentioned dictionary I laughed and knew you are a just a kid or behaving like one ..Learn to question things and be rational. Your statement spills bitterness and hatred.. e be like say one girl don wound u before

What would you call a child born outside marriage?
A child who's mother fvcked a man because of two eggs and indomie?
A child who his father left his mother because of her worthlessness?


A BASTARD!

MasterShifu010:


I don’t think it’s the consequences of sleeping with a broke man , it’s the consequences of sleeping with a man with zero conscience,
How can you as a man , get a girl pregnant and say you are not a party to it , like what we’re you expecting to happen when you were releasing inside her , Abi dem tell you say sperm na antibiotic ?,
Besides a rich guy can still deny pregnancy , or better still , a rich guy can pay for abortion …

Even a man with conscience and no cash will run away.

When a guy is young and broke, if he impregnate a girl , there is 98% chance that he will run away or deny the pregnancy

Good for you.

You go get sense by force.

I just dey pity the unborn child.

Another menace added to the society.

Sorry you have to go Tru this. If you can Whatsapp this number we can talk, I might just offer some help 07055494470

Nasty little boys have taken over what use to be a great forum. You could see their ugliness, depression, deprivation, poverty levels just by reading their comments. 🤢