I met a great guy sometimes November 2022, we got talking and got to know we have a lot of things in common. He’s intelligent and respects me a whole lot and never fails to tell me how much he cares about me. But then, i am scared of giving love a try again. This attention feels so good to be true.

I like IK too but I feel too guarded to go all the way. This doesn’t tell well since we are both grown adults and would not want to keep playing these teenagers game.

We spoke about this, about moving on and giving all a rest, he said it will be best for him and I too agrees and want to truly search to see if I can really start to feel happy, IK deserves better and I shouldn’t be a block without a definite answer as to if there will be us in the nearest future.

But then, why do I feel really off and weird that it’s the end of the road for us?

Ladder ladder ladder ladder ... our lord jesus is our ladder

That's the life of women from one man to another before they get married.

BRIMBRAM:
That's the life of women from one man to another before they get married.

Even after they get married.

You need to make an attempt at loving again else you would go through life with some big regrets.

Want to share some reasons you both decided to go separate? Must be painful for him if I read you right.

Give it some time and hopefully you will heal and you both remain cordial.

Make him proud 🦚 he met you by becoming a better you.

If you know you are still hurt and you can’t give your love to him yet. Let him know and let him be.

Don’t use your issues to damage a good guy. Let him be!!!

Always confused as usual

last bicch drained and killed anything love in me, nowadays i guide my heart with everything i have,am prepared for anything from any human being but in times of giving someone a chance to penetrate into my heart is really tough, I don't want to.
i know of a gal that The feeling seems mutual but I don't want to make her my ex.she's beautiful and caring,pure heart and kind,a youngie for thaa matter but I have to ignore her..

my point:
heartbreak hurts,it changes human,it can kill if you can't endure,it leads to depression and makes one change the way of viewing things in life.you don't have this experience and remain the same no..

i understand you don't want to give it a try because you're still healing,its good but this is life surely you will give it a try... peace