martyns303:



I don’t like how you write, but I am going to reply nonetheless. I know your type, the black tax. As soon as a relative travels abroad, or is doing well, you guys will start sucking the person dry, swear that the guy never reached out or assisted you and mom in anyway, shape or form. That he never sent any money home. Have you bothered how he’s faring in Dubai? I stayed briefly in Dubai for a short course, do you know how tough it is to get a job as a Nigerian in Dubai?

Just because he’s not pouring every dime he made on you, that has made him a simp. About him bringing his wife to Dubai, bros! You do realize your brother have his own life to live right? So he shouldn’t bring his WIFE, he should have looked for another wife in Dubai or what? All that story of the wife not checking on you guys is just an attempt at giving a dog a bad name to hang it.

So he sent his wife to Germany, with the hope of joining her. My good friend sent his wife to the U.K. while he’s in Nigeria, she went and studied nursing, and now he’s gone to join her. Your brother had a good plan, unfortunately he got a bad wife, how does that make him a simp, is he the first man to send or bring a wife abroad and the woman starts misbehaving?

As someone who’s the breadwinner, I can totally understand your brother, at some point he has to look out for himself because if doesn’t, you guys will kill him with black tax and your sense of over entitlement.

Do you have sense at all? See how childishly sentimental you reason..

Did you even read? Folks like yourself are the reason(s) for our backwardness! Finding a balance is everything. Does OP' brother seem to you like he's applied any form of balance?

Person like you go abandon him family, go build house for him mother-in-law, I believe you're doing this currently.. juju go quick catch you from the look of things !

You talked about his brother being a man, a 'man' will know better than to abandon his first family or better still, raise the travel funds by himself, so that he can justifiably be an idiot when he arrives travel point (even though you MUST take care of your loved ones, be that as it may)

Your first family is everything and by that, I mean mama and papa wen born you along with your sibling(s)! Who the heck are you without them you ungrateful thwart! You don nearly spoil my day with your reasoning, I don't like what I hate oo 😌😌

jesmond3945:
this sense of entitlement bro. If you guys helped in order to reap from him and not to establish him then it was a wrong mindset abnitio. He has a family and they are very important to him. When you marry starve your family and send all the moneey back home. Then dont blame anybody when your kids who are supposed to be in oxford by the age of 18 are still in ogbomosho.

You're a very slow person

FairlyUSEDpussy:



"Fool"is exactly who u r.......twas never a mistake I termed u that........or probably stupidity runs in DNA of your family.........

The experience was shared not ridicule anyone.......but to discourage ppl from making same mistake..............and that was what I opened the paragraph with........

Aarindin..........

Last response I'd dignify u l.........u wishy washy,poker faced sophomoric bimbo.......

He's a very silly animal, he's the type to abandon his loved ones.. Pay him no mind

Gerrard59:


It is not an entitlement, but the fairest thing to do. It is an opportunity of cost. By sponsoring him, it is believed he has greater options of maximising the returns. It is an investment in him. People invest in people so that they get a return either directly or indirectly. A grown man who got sponsored by his mother should have commonsense in paying back, especially if his siblings' progress was financially curtailed by it.

Thats because our culture we see our kids as retirement plan. I dont blame our parents, when the government doesnt care about them. This is pure black tax and thats why our diasporains are dying under the weight of demands back home. Have you also found that if the man has found his feet yet?
Why do you think people come down home from abroad after several years just to come and wipe the tears of the family for being patient. Some people want to set up their immediate family before thinking of extended family. We have seen the experience of our fathers who cared about their extended family to the detriment of their own family. Op should go and work and get married, he is very lazy. The first born should see how he can take care of the mum thats paramount.

Jagermeister:


You're a very slow person

just like your mother.

kingthreat:
There are women you should help. There are women you should care for. There are women you should build a family with.
The ones that do not fall within the above category show red flags no matter how pretensive they are. Please do not ignore the red flags. Don't be a fool.
Imagine all the millions your brother has invested in that girl is about to become total zero.
Also stop trying to take care of the education of a woman. It is her parent's responsibility. Not yours.

You nailed it.
I'm a redpiller but I know some women have better core values than others and they deserve your investment as wives. I won't accept anything less. There are two girls on this NL that I would recommend to anyone willing to settle down this year. They are so good, nice and supportive. I have tested them taya and they still passed. Any man who gets them as wives is very very lucky and supported for life.

Oboto700:
Your brother should be killed.. he's an animal

...too harsh, bro.

jesmond3945:
just like your mother.

E pain am!

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