Banilla:
But do they know it's not real? Nope. Pornstars for example aren't obsessed with sex, prostitutes too... To them, it's overrated. If they cheat, it's because the other guy is richer, more successful or caring... So maybe we should all allow our girlfriends to explore so when they settle down, they really settle down.

this shows you don’t have sense
You be mugu

Banilla:
Most men have high body counts. I'm sure you aren't a virgin

One...U dont know me....but u are free to assume everyone fvcks around like you...

.two...saying most men have high body count isnt true..thats just fallacy....in fact there are more virgin men than women....
u women get díck weda u are broke or not...u get dick for urgent 2k, for indomie, with real boyfriend, with the guy u are crushing on, at random party u attended, with a neighbor that happened mistakenly ...and the list goes on..


Three....i am not biase so i will advise both men and women same way ......people with riduculously high body count lack discipline..they are not relationship material... they have no business being in serious relationships or marriage cos they are bad market...it basic risk management 101.

Kantebets:
this shows you don’t have sense
You be mugu

Take my advice, it's the best you've received yet.

Everyone goes through the whòre stage. Your wife would in your home, would you like that?

Banilla:
Typical. You're so logical yet you can't counter my 'silly' argument.

I'm female, so what? If you were half as smart as you think you are, you would easily give me an answer...

I can but you are not trying to understand rather you want to argue haha ... On a good day I will engage you but I know you will just be turning it to gbas gbos ... And I just finished argument with one woman offline to come and argue with another one online ... Anyway let me answer your question so you will at least see my perspective.

A man cheats only to satisfy an urge... If he doesn't have the requirements financially to give the sidepiece a good time, he is not getting any action, but a woman cheating is different, a woman cannot cheat unless she has emotional attachment to the person she is cheating with and as such it affects the relationship or marriage in ways a man's cheating cannot... A man can go out and cheat and come back home and still treat his wife with all the respect in the world becasue nothing can replace his wife, and he just sees the sidepiece the same way he sees a toilet bowl, a place to relieve himself ocationally... But if a woman cheats she does it as a replacement for the man in her life.

Banilla:
Correction: boys in their twenties come here to the romance section to complain after having their fragile hearts shattered.

The happily married men on the family section, you think their wives were virgins?

Ok the family men wail in the family section while the boys wail here . Noted
There are more wailings in the family section than happy men .
A prostitute is a prostitute and might never change

advanceDNA:


One...U dont know me....but u are free to assume everyone fvcks around like you...

Did I hurt your feelings? You sound like a bit**.

.two...saying most men have high body count isnt true..thats just fallacy....in fact there are more virgin men than women....
u women get díck weda u are broke or not... u get dick for urgent 2k, for indomie, with real boyfriend, with the guy u are crushing on, at random party u attended, with a neighbor that happened mistakenly ...and the list goes on..

And they are having sex with other women and spirits?

Bolded: if I were an emotional bit** like you, I would ask if you're describing your mother but I won't. Learn

Three....i am not biase so i will advise both men and women same way ......people with riduculously high body count lack discipline..they are not relationship material... they have no business being in serious relationships or marriage cos they are bad market...it basic risk management 101.

If you were smart, you would understand that this is my point.

Autobot05:


Ok the family men wail in the family section while the boys wail here . Noted

Check my profile, I created a thread for them. Most are happy. Ignore the children here

Franzinni:
I can but you are not trying to understand rather you want to argue haha ... On a good day I will engage you but I know you will just be turning it to gbas gbos ... And I just finished argument with one woman offline to come and argue with another one online ... Anyway let me answer your question so you will at least see my perspective.

I'm waiting

Banilla:
Check my profile, I created a thread for them. Most are happy. Ignore the children here

Most are happy ??

Autobot05:


Most are happy ??

Yep! If not, why are millions of people still getting married? Social media isn't real life. People exaggerate on Nairaland, I don't take them seriously. It's all bullsh**.

Banilla:
Yep! If not, why are millions of people still getting married? Social media isn't real life. People exaggerate on Nairaland, I don't take them seriously. It's all bullsh**.

Yeah yeah . goan check the rate of divorce too

Banilla:
Seriously, why should you care how many men your girl has slept with? It's childish.

Lol are you a troll? For most men, it matters. No one is perfect, everyone has enough skeleton in the wardrobe. Not that most men are expecting a Virgin but a woman with a high number of body counts is redflag to many men. For some women, it might not be a big deal because women do not think like men. So try to understand what men wants. . Can a woman with numbers of body date? Yes she can date but the man that she dating should know when trust had been build....

Well from your comments I know your are between 20 and 25.... At this stage for a young woman, you are at your prime so you really think you know it all ... But I will just tell you an open secret

There is nothing a man wants in a woman more that her feminity and her purity... Becasue a hoe mother will have hoe daughters there is no way around it... The apple doesn't fall far from the tree ooo

Bye bye

Autobot05:


Yeah yeah . goan check the rate of divorce too

Amongst the younger generation? Can't you see the pattern?

Franzinni:
Well from your comments I know your are between 20 and 25.... At this stage for a young woman, you are at your prime so you really think you know it all ... But I will just tell you an open secret

There is nothing a man wants in a woman more that her feminity and her purity... Becasue a hoe mother will have hoe daughters there is no way around it... The apple doesn't fall far from the tree ooo

Bye bye

That's the thing. People have unrealistic expectations. Women want multimillionaires, doesn't that mean they are right to broke-shame poor men?

The apple doesn't fall far from the tree? Okay. Why don't you think the girls learnt from their fathers?

Again, if humans are creatures of habit, does that mean men who aren't virgins are more likely to cheat while married?

Banilla:
Amongst the younger generation? Can't you see the pattern?

Thank God you said amongst the younger generation.
When i say our mothers were not like this generation of women..yall will start going offensive

Banilla:
That's the thing. People have unrealistic expectations. Women want multimillionaires, doesn't that mean they are right to broke-shame poor men?

The apple doesn't fall far from the tree? Okay. Why don't you think the girls learnt from their fathers?

Again, if humans are creatures of habit, does that mean men who aren't virgins are more likely to cheat while married?

girls learn this from thier father's .... If he is a good father she would learn what to look for in the type of man she chooses for herself ... And if he is a useless father the opposite applies unless she is a useless daughter to start with ... If a girl has her father in her life growing, there is a very very high chance that she will not be a hoe.

Also about me with high body count ... A man will cheat regardless my sister ... Anyman who doesn't cheat is only being like that because he doesn't have all that it takes, but the desire is there constantly ... That is why once a poor man become rich .. he becomes a dog!!

But for a man cheating is different for a woman ... A man cheats like someone who feels like eating suya, he can afford it so he goes out buys it and eats ..then he goes home to his wife's cooking. But a woman cheats with emotions they fall in love with someone new, and use thier body to prove to the person that they love them ... It's different

Franzinni:

But for a man cheating is different for a woman ... A man cheats like someone who feels like eating suya, he can afford it so he goes out buys it and eats ..then he goes home to his wife's cooking. But a woman cheats with emotions they fall in love with someone new, and use thier body to prove to the person that they love them ... It's different

Women cheat with emotions?

Including...

Prostitutes? Women who have sex with strangers? Married women who cheat so well that they are never suspected?

Autobot05:


Thank God you said amongst the younger generation.
When i say our mothers were not like this generation of women..yall will start going offensive

Wrong. Men are the head of the family, no? They are responsible. It's unlikely a man would divorce his wife, so obviously they are the ones messing up.

Banilla:
Wrong. Men are the head of the family, no? They are responsible. It's unlikely a man would divorce his wife, so obviously they are the ones messing up.

Men divorce
Women divorce too
Thats not the topic here ... the topic is you advised men to marry prostitutes.
Why do women go into sleeping around in the first place = greed . Y'all should keep yourselves in check

Banilla:
Did I hurt your feelings? You sound like a bit**.

And they are having sex with other women and spirits?

Bolded: if I were an emotional bit** like you, I would ask if you're describing your mother but I won't. Learn

If you were smart, you would understand that this is my point.

Its clear u have nothing to say.......i think i have chatted with u here u b4.u swith to insults for no reason like someone is paying u money..
....i am not interested in insulting people's mother or u can try someone else

Banilla:
Women cheat with emotions?

Including...

Prostitutes? Women who have sex with strangers? Married women who cheat so well that they are never suspected?

I will start with married women, many of them cheat and get away only becasue the husband is absent on the relationship ... Or he is not meeting her emotional or sexual needs and I don't blame her becasue if he is present in body and mind he will read the change on her body language... For your information, human beings communicate 70% with body language.

And for the prostitutes, they are paid to play so it's not cheating .. to her she is selling a good time for some money ... I dare say all girlfriend that are sexually active are prostitutes becasue they are selling a good time for thier boyfriend for what he can offer them ... The only difference is they agree to to privatize each other...

So if you have a boyfriend that is piping you down .... Hmmm. It is well!!!

Banilla:
Seriously, why should you care how many men your girl has slept with? It's childish.

1. A woman with high body count is considered to be low hanging fruit. No man would want that.

2. Except you choose to be naive, habits are very difficult to change. A woman who was easy to fucck by anyone before marriage won’t magically change after.

3. Okafor’s law is REAL. Deny it all you want. But a high body count increases your wife’s chances of cheating if any of the previous diggers deem it fit to dig again.

4. Risk factor for HPV. Throat cancer in the future if you foolishly give them head.

5. Possible fertility issues from Asherman’s syndrome from numerous surgical abortions. Most promiscuous ladies hate condoms. They claim it makes them dry + how many postinor can one swallow sef. Some are now on family planning sha.

6. The shame of men you know already signing her register. Eg. If your wife fuccked around in school e go hard make she allow you escort am go reunion.

7. Possible fertility issues from recurring Pelvic inflammatory diseases from STDs acquired

8. A woman who fuccked around most likely settled for her husband. She’ll never give you him her best. Plus this issue with pair bonding (don’t know how true it is).

9. Her husband never benefits from her sexual experience. Never. She feeds him crumbs, vanilla flavored crumbs. Cos she is mostly tired of all that by the time she is ready to settle down.

Reasons choke. Add your own.

Hed0nist:


1. A woman with high body count is considered to be low hanging fruit. No man would want that.

2. Except you choose to be naive, habits are very difficult to change. A woman who was easy to fucck by anyone before marriage won’t magically change after.

3. Okafor’s law is REAL. Deny it all you want. But a high body count increases your wife’s chances of cheating if any of the previous diggers deem it fit to dig again.

4. Risk factor for HPV. Throat cancer in the future if you foolishly give them head.

5. Possible fertility issues from Asherman’s syndrome from numerous surgical abortions. Most promiscuous ladies hate condoms. They claim it makes them dry + how many postinor can one swallow sef. Some are now on family planning sha.

6. The shame of men you know already signing her register. Eg. If your wife fuccked around in school e go hard make she allow you escort am go reunion.

7. Possible fertility issues from recurring Pelvic inflammatory diseases from STDs acquired

8. A woman who fuccked around most likely settled for her husband. She’ll never give you him her best. Plus this issue with pair bonding (don’t know how true it is).

9. Her husband never benefits from her sexual experience. Never. She feeds him crumbs, vanilla flavored crumbs. Cos she is mostly tired of all that by the time she is ready to settle down.

Reasons choke. Add your own.

Autobot05:


Men divorce
Women divorce too
Thats not the topic here ... the topic is you advised men to marry prostitutes.
Why do women go into sleeping around in the first place = greed . Y'all should keep yourselves in check

Not the topic? But we were talking about marriage...

Franzinni:


I will start with married women, many of them cheat and get away only becasue the husband is absent on the relationship ... Or he is not meeting her emotional or sexual needs and I don't blame her becasue if he is present in body and mind he will read the change on her body language... For your information, human beings communicate 70% with body language.

And for the prostitutes, they are paid to play so it's not cheating .. to her she is selling a good time for some money ... I dare say all girlfriend that are sexually active are prostitutes becasue they are selling a good time for thier boyfriend for what he can offer them ... The only difference is they agree to to privatize each other...

So if you have a boyfriend that is piping you down .... Hmmm. It is well!!!

You don't get it.

Prostitutes have sex with hundreds of men. That should tell you something. Women can cheat with men they don't even like. Same goes for the married women who cheat. It's just for sex.

So your argument makes no sense. I'm sorry.

Men who think women fall in love with those they have sex with are naive...

Banilla:
That's the thing. People have unrealistic expectations. Women want multimillionaires, doesn't that mean they are right to broke-shame poor men?

The apple doesn't fall far from the tree? Okay. Why don't you think the girls learnt from their fathers?

Again, if humans are creatures of habit, does that mean men who aren't virgins are more likely to cheat while married?

Banilla:
Not the topic? But we were talking about marriage...

You don't get it.

Prostitutes have sex with hundreds of men. That should tell you something. Women can cheat with men they don't even like. Same goes for the married women who cheat. It's just for sex.

So your argument makes no sense. I'm sorry.

Men who think women fall in love with those they have sex with are naive...

Any man that marries because of s3x alone is a fool
Marriage isn't about s3x alone.
Saying a womans body count is tantamount to sating a man should marry a prostitute that has been with many men

Banilla:
Not the topic? But we were talking about marriage...

You don't get it.

Prostitutes have sex with hundreds of men. That should tell you something. Women can cheat with men they don't even like. Same goes for the married women who cheat. It's just for sex.

So your argument makes no sense. I'm sorry.

Men who think women fall in love with those they have sex with are naive...

u won't have sex with me , isn't it because u don't like me u don't want to have me near ur bed , this post must be annoying to u , so annoying that u feel am talking shit, u know who u prefer, well, if i remain a virgin till i reach 60, i won't blame u, i will take it as life doing me.

Look up pair bonding.

HellVictorinho7:
u won't have sex with me , isn't it because u don't like me u don't want to have me near ur bed , this post must be annoying to u , so annoying that u feel am talking shit, u know who u prefer, well, if i remain a virgin till i reach 60, i won't blame u, i will take it as life doing me.

Banilla:

can u ever have sex with me?

HellVictorinho7:
can u ever have sex with me?

No.