Kobojunkie:
1. So these girls do not deserve any good thing, is that your resolve then?

2. But aren't your sons among those patronizing many these same girls? Why do your sons deserve anything better than the girls do?

Albertone:
■ Why will they deserve good things when they have done bad things themselves. Same way a murderer doesn't deserve impunity.
■ My sons are not the ones selling their bodies, the prostitutes are.
■ Also, a good woman can decide not to marry such men if she deems it fit.

benqo01:
Stop the blame game no man forces you into prostitution i hate hearing that shit,it is high time you girls start taking responsibility for your actions

Kobojunkie:
1. Having sex is bad or using sex as a means to survive is bad?

2. Oh, even though your sons are the ones doing the buying, they somehow still come up innocent in the transaction?

3. A "good woman"? Well, so long as we agree that if condemned by the same standard, your sons are no different from the prostitutes.

Kobojunkie:
Sure, but why is it illegal?

Kobojunkie:
In Nigeria, a major contributing factor to poverty, yes! And what makes you think it isn't?

Eagba:
■ having plenty children isn't a cause for poverty in Nigeria.
■ The major cause of poverty In Nigeria, is Nigeria not having passionate leaders. A leader that thinks and act like a lion and be ready to head his pride head first and face first in trying to position his pride (lion pride) in the scheme of things globally. Plenty children can't even stop such a leader,. America can't stop such a leader,. China can't stop such a leader, Brit can't can't stop such a leader. When he roars..... he inspires generations and generations to come

Eagba:
■ Until you lead a protest and the government changes the constitution to allow prostitution, they are both illegal.

Albertone:
1. Why will anyone use sex as a means to survive? Where has your morality gone to? Is selling your body the only way to survive? You don dey fall my hand.
2. If a man sleeps with different women, he will be hailed as a strong man and a woman magnet. If a woman sleeps with different men, she will be condemned as a prostitute. We can never be the same no matter how you try.
3. We can't be condemned by same standards because men and women are not equal. Since time immemorial, men have been having multiple wives and concubines. Tell me how many women have multiple husbands and concubines.

Kobojunkie:
1. Why can't anyone use it to survive? Whose standard of morality are we discussing here... yours or mine? If what a person has to sell if their own body, why is it your business? The buyer and seller are happy with the transaction and society is not impacted by the exchange...so why are you complaining again?

2. So, rather than change the unfair disparities you wish we continue to unfairly clamp down on a particular section of society? Is that any different from what is happening in places like Afghanistan or Iraq? Why not go all the way and implement sharia while we are at it?

3. Keep telling yourself that if it makes you feel better in your conceit. The fact is both men and women are implicated in the trade that is prostitution and until you lot start to realize this, your sons will always end up with some of the same women for wives and there is not a lot you can do about it.

Albertone:
1. And prostitution is illegal in most places to the best of my knowledge.
2. If such lady mistakenly gets pregnant, the man can deny the pregnancy and continue his life. Is it not the lady that'll bear the brunt?
3. This is because prostitution patronage by men is not as shameful as prostitution itself!

Kobojunkie:
1. It is illegal yet it is openly practiced and accepted. What does that tell you about society and the legal system?

2. Learn to mind your own business in such things.

3. Prostitution patronage not being shameful means society accepts prostitution only it does not seem able to properly resolve the fact that prostitution cannot exist without the women folk. Or are you suggesting they be replaced by male prostitutes instead?

Albertone:
1. Prostitution is openly practiced not accepted.
Murder is illegal, yet, it is being done openly and in broad daylight even in your US. So, we should accept murder because it is openly done?
2. This is an argument. We can bring in hypothetical situations to buttress points. So, what is "mind your business"? Will minding my business reverse the fact that women bear the brunt of a denied pregnancy?
3. The existence of prostitution is what brings its patronage. So, the problem is not with prostitutes' patrons but prostitutes themselves.
What is good for the geese is good for the gander. Whether male or female prostitutes, same rules apply: Prostitutes don't deserve good partners.

Kobojunkie:
1. You contradict yourself. Earlier you had stated that men who frequent prostitutes are seen as men simply meeting there needs meaning it is accepted.

2. No hypothetical abeg as I am not in the mood to dig around in your sludge.

3. I am afraid you have it twisted around. Prostitutes exist because men are willing to pay for sex. Demand drives supply.

Albertone:
■ Let's not keep running around in circles since you're unwilling to accept my views.

It's cool reading your views on this.
Ciao!

Kobojunkie:
1. Nigeria is a clear example of how having plenty of children leads directly to a spike in the poverty rate. Denial of this is not helping at all and ignorance is not bliss as over 90% of Nigerians.

2. You don't seem connected at all to the reality of things, are you?

Eagba:
I have to leave you in your bubble

Okoroawusa:
Precious is that really your picture on the profile? You have changed a lot. What happened to the mummy's girl that first came to Nairaland a few years back?

To your topic of discussion....I will be the last person that will tell a girl what to do with her pvssy.

Preshieben:

I've not changed dear

I just grew up

Okoroawusa:

Mmmm... you have grown up into a lovely woman. Keep soaring my dear. You remind me of my daughter

Preshieben:
Remind?

Did something bad happen to her?

Preshieben:
https://www.nairaland.com/1839798/campus-prostitution-growing-concern-nigeria

Good afternoon.. I know most of y'all have seen and commented on this thread plus this particular thread is not getting the views and facts it should... mostly bashers plus it's an old thread

I have seen most comments blaming the men for prostitution and I think it's an actual fact., I mean that's true to some extent.

Meanwhile, I think girls from poor home should be allowed to do whatever they want to do to survive while in campus without condemning them.. I'll have to explain this..
While in school, I've seen poor religious and decent girls drop out of school just because they don't want to get involved in it and I have also seen girls with numerous sugar daddies graduate with flying colors and even working through connections they got from those men.

I think prostitution is really bad when you have the vital things to survive and you're into it because you want to slay or when you have a supportive parent that are capable, but you're not satisfied with what they provide for you.

As a girl from a poor home, I knew what I passed through in school till I decided to have sugar daddies after 4 failed attempts of starting a petty businesses, things became alot easier ... Currently, I'm doing so fine and earning money on my own without sugar daddies..

Please leave these girls alone, times are hard so Is life

Kobojunkie:
1. With poverty levels at over 90%, arguing against prostitution in any corridor amounts to suggesting that the majority do nothing to at least attempt to pull themselves out of poverty.

Kobojunkie:
1. The worth of her body is her business and not yours to decide or delegate upon.

2. A zillion opportunities and means yet the unofficial unemployment rate in Nigeria remains as high as 30% — as high as 50% among the youths— for more than a decade now. Why aren't the many unemployed youths who at least have a degree taking advantage of the zillions of opportunities you are quick to mouth off about?

3. In a country where over 90% of the people exist below the poverty line, it is expected that many will resort to any means available, including prostitution, to try to survive or fight to pull themselves up from under the curse of poverty. That is common knowledge.

omotoshodontee1:
all this mumu guys bashing the OP will always want to get laid b4 helping a girl.wat some of this people does underneath is a bigger threat to humanity compare to oloshoism..d word HYPOCRISY exist because of naija..u are all mad

Newsneako:

Then lemme start killing people for ritual at least to get myself out of poverty . You're so dumb bro

Newsneako:

My question is when the poor girls know she's not capable of higher education what's she doing in university Can't she stay home depend on her family learn a trade tailor, hairdressing, makeup, or any skill till she's stable herself y do prostitute and go to school just for certificate she may never use ??

Kobojunkie:
Your questions which seem more like emotional rants don't make any sense at all.