I met her 2yrs ago, she's hard-working and industrious, I love her and she claims to love me which I can't tell 100% as no man can.

I noticed she's always dry down there and no matter how long the pre-intimacy last she will not get wet but will in the course of action (she releases those white juice too) and so a vaseline is always handi and a must before penetration.

She claims she doesn't feel the sex and trust me I'm very very very good at it.

My fear is, how long will this last, how long before she get tired and stop giving me access to that sacred area cos I'm worried, I don't want a case whereby tomorrow she will start saying no to me when she's fed up with the whole sex thing probably after I have officially made her my wife.

She told me her mother circumcised her when she we little.

Experts in the house please advise me if I should go on or abort mission. Thank you.

You're sure you're "very very very good" at it....3 very for your prowess yet you couldn't get it wet! Anyways, you need to add one last very to your efforts to get there

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Mhurfhy:
I met her 2yrs ago, she's hard-working and industrious, I love her and she claims to love me which I can't tell 100% as no man can.

I noticed she's always dry down there and no matter how long the pre-intimacy last she will not get wet but will in the course of action (she releases those white juice too) and so a vaseline is always handi and a must before penetration.

She claims she doesn't feel the sex and trust me I'm very very very good at it.

My fear is, how long will this last, how long before she get tired and stop giving me access to that sacred area cos I'm worried, I don't want a case whereby tomorrow she will start saying no to me when she's fed up with the whole sex thing probably after I have officially made her my wife.

She told me her mother circumcised her when she we little.

Experts in the house please advise me if I should go on or abort mission. Thank you.

I just wish to make few points that may help ;
1. Female circumcision removes only the outer part of the clit. But the clit is as long as some dic.k, but mostly inside the vjay. If she is someone that response to clitoral stimulation, then make effort to discover where the hidden part of the clit is.

2. Every woman response to things differently. Some enjoy clitoral stimulation, leading to clitoral orgasm. Some response to vaginal stimulation, leading to vaginal orgasm.
Try to discover which is hers.

3. Except she has a medical condition, every woman will enjoy sex when the right places in her body are engaged/stimulated.

4. Most ladies who were Circumcised enjoy sex, some enjoy more than the uncircumcised. Sadly, mostly ladies won't accept it openly. But most ladies borne before 1990s from regions where circumcision was done, had their clits removed. But they still enjoyed sex.

5. If she has all the qualities you need in a woman, go ahead and discover her center of gravity. Then go ahead to enjoy your marriage. The ball is in your court.

It then means that you have to up your game cos, your very very very good might not even be good enough for her. Try harder.

And let's say you're presently in a courtship with her, why not have a serious heart-to-heart with her. There're things that we shouldn't let slide in a relationship, especially the one leading to marriage. And one of it is congugal satisfaction in marriage!

If you know you won't be able to cope, if you know you're not sexually compatible, if you know it'll force you to be unfaithful to her during marriage, if you know her interest in sex will eventually deteriorate instead of improve, sort it all out now. A broken engagement is better than a broken marriage. Moreover, a stitch in time, they say, saves nine.

To be forewarned, is to be forearmed!

Think about it.

Shalom!

injuredman:


I just wish to make few points that may help ;
1. Female circumcision removes only the outer part of the clit. But the clit is as long as some dic.k, but mostly inside the vjay. If she is someone that response to clitoral stimulation, then make effort to discover where the hidden part of the clit is.

2. Every woman response to things differently. Some enjoy clitoral stimulation, leading to clitoral orgasm. Some response to vaginal stimulation, leading to vaginal orgasm.
Try to discover which is hers.

3. Except she has a medical condition, every woman will enjoy sex when the right places in her body are engaged/stimulated.

4. Most ladies who were Circumcised enjoy sex, some enjoy more than the uncircumcised. Sadly, mostly ladies won't accept it openly. But most ladies borne before 1990s from regions where circumcision was done, had their clits removed. But they still enjoyed sex.

5. If she has all the qualities you need in a woman, go ahead and discover her center of gravity. Then go ahead to enjoy your marriage. The ball is in your court.

adding more

sex starts in the mind, stimulate the mind for sex

praise eg her behind when she going etc

by the time you go to bef she will
ready mentally and simple touch might get wet easily

sisisioge:
You're sure you're "very very very good" at it....3 very for your prowess yet you couldn't get it wet! Anyways, you need to add one last very to your efforts to get there

be nice

For all the replies so far except well for the FTC I say a very big thank you. Your individual advice means a lot to me and I will look into them. Thank you nairaland.

Mhurfhy:
For all the replies so far except well for the FTC I say a very big thank you. Your individual advice means a lot to me and I will look into them. Thank you nairaland.

let me tell u my personal experience during service, I dated a girl who happens to be circumcised during service n it was far from a good experience

We can do pre-intimacy for 100 hours, she enjoys that well but d moment I insert it gobe go happen

In less than 5 minutes this girl will tell me “Oga do quick n get up” or “Oga u never release” or “ so u think say na bike u dey ride abi”

She will make it feel like I am trying to inconvenient her

I tried my best to make her enjoy it but it got so bad I have to stylishly let her go

Forget the circumcision part, she isn't into you.

You aren't her spec, either financially, physically, materially, whichever the point is : you aren't what she wanted in a man.

No matter the level of circumcision, a woman can get wet by mere staring at u, imagining your presence, holding her hand, the thinnest thing makes a woman that truly loves you wet and keep asking for more.

If she doesn't like u, if u like use all your strength to nack, cut your 👅 and put inside he hoo-ha, she will be feeling irritated and just want it to be over with.

My point is, look for a woman that loves you.

Foodqueen:
Forget the circumcision part, she isn't into you.

You aren't her spec, either financially, physically, materially, whichever the point is : you aren't what she wanted in a man.

No matter the level of circumcision, a woman can get wet by mere staring at u, imagining your presence, holding her hand, the thinnest thing makes a woman that truly loves you wet and keep asking for more.

If she doesn't like u, if u like use all your strength to nack, cut your 👅 and put inside he hoo-ha, she will be feeling irritated and just want it to be over with.

My point is, look for a woman that loves you.

This is so apt! When a lady is in love with a guy, just romantic messages from him will make her wet not to talk of the main koko

One thing I know is, most times they enjoy fore play than penetrative sex. Most of them are Ok when you get married to them. You can sleep with your two eyes closed as a man. When you get married, you will think less of sex, all of those youthful exuberance will reduce . I am talking from experience.

sisisioge:
You're sure you're "very very very good" at it....3 very for your prowess yet you couldn't get it wet! Anyways, you need to add one last very to your efforts to get there

Because that's his destiny 😏

Try to discover other places on her body that could be sensitive b
Probably her breast, you have to make love to her mind as well, talk dirty to her doing the act etc

Mhurfhy:
I met her 2yrs ago, she's hard-working and industrious, I love her and she claims to love me which I can't tell 100% as no man can.

I noticed she's always dry down there and no matter how long the pre-intimacy last she will not get wet but will in the course of action (she releases those white juice too) and so a vaseline is always handi and a must before penetration.

She claims she doesn't feel the sex and trust me I'm very very very good at it.

My fear is, how long will this last, how long before she get tired and stop giving me access to that sacred area cos I'm worried, I don't want a case whereby tomorrow she will start saying no to me when she's fed up with the whole sex thing probably after I have officially made her my wife.

She told me her mother circumcised her when she we little.

Experts in the house please advise me if I should go on or abort mission. Thank you.

Female genital mutilation (circumcision) does not eliminate sexual pleasure totally for every woman who undergoes the procedure, but it does reduce the likely of orgasm.