constancefriday:
Most Celebrity Beefs that you see and hear about are not primarily caused by hate.
Most Fans and spectators watch either pleasurably or with disgust sometimes as two celebrities or public figures get aggressive on each other, sometimes the quarrel is cold and the envious banter is not easily noticed by the fans, while sometimes the quarrel is loud, nasty and unfriendly and the banter is out in the open.
The coldness or loudness of a beef is naturally determined by respect issues.
Celebrity beefs don't start with hate, it starts with envy, just a little speck of it is all it takes to start it. Not everyone you seek to inspire or impress will become inspired and impressed, some will become envious and will begin to attack you with vicious criticisms.
If the issues of envy are not well managed it can degenerate into unpleasant interactions, comparisons and so much more.
It is normal for older celebrities to seek to be some sort or kind of mentor or let's say father figure or matriachal figures of some sort to younger, fast rising celebrities but how the older ones go about it really reflects what it really reflects.
There's this particular church in Lekki that for over a few years, news of a negative interaction between I and them were all over the place. In the peak of the ugly interactions that went on between us both, I never thought an end will come to the issue, but as I speak today, it's history.
Beefs don't last forever. It's either both celebrities reconcile like Jay-Z and Nas or they let the publicly obvious negative interactions die down to avoid portraying a bad image like the beef between 50 Cent and Ja Rule.
Envy is the primary cause of celebrity beefs, then it's worsened by respect issues.
Another cause of celebrity beefs is one celebrity finding it hard to agree and accept that another celebrity whom they least expected has risen in ranks and has become as rich, influential and powerful as no one ever imagined or expected.
The tap root of all kinds of celebrity beefs is the pursuit of power and influence.


A Lecture by;
Apostle (Dr) Constance C. Friday Ani