I and my woman decided to go for genotype test cos we wish to settle down soon, I know mine which is "AS" but she doesn't know hers. And we really wanted to settle down together in fact from the first time I saw her something struck my mine that she's my wife.

Getting there hers happen to "AS" as well, at first we were very sad we got home and cheered up. We both took decision to continue with the relationship and future plan of settling down together, please married people with this scenario what's ur experience please share with us to strengthen us.

Medical experts please advice , I love my woman I don't wanna lose her, thanks everyone .

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I love my woman I don't wanna lose her,

Two years from now, you'll remember this statement and laugh out loud at your silliness.

Zonefree:
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Two years from now, you'll remember this statement and laugh out loud at your silliness.

. Why can't you just wish a brother well for once . Bro,e be like say wetin banny don use your eyes see for this life strong well well oh . And I go like say make you gist me one day one day cha.. Because the way you dey bash bannies for here get as e be..

You just have to find a way to move past her. Doing otherwise will surely put the lives of your future children at risk. Trust me, no woman is worth that stress.

Zeal0000007:
We both took decision to continue with the relationship and future plan of settling down together, please married people with this scenario what's ur experience please share with us to strengthen us.
Medical experts please advice , I love my woman I don't wanna lose her, thanks everyone .

One word, Vasectomy! If you really love your woman as you claim, then you would opt for a vasectomy. It is that simple.

Kobojunkie:
One word, Vasectomy! If you really love your woman as you claim, then you would opt for a vasectomy. It is that simple.

Do you really know the meaning of vasectomy or am I the one not really getting your point? Or you mean IVF?


What's now the purpose of the marriage if child bearing is not involve?

Zeal0000007:
I and my woman decided to go for genotype test cos we wish to settle down soon, I know mine which is "AS" but she doesn't know hers. And we really wanted to settle down together in fact from the first time I saw her something struck my mine that she's my wife.

Getting there hers happen to "AS" as well, at first we were very sad we got home and cheered up. We both took decision to continue with the relationship and future plan of settling down together, please married people with this scenario what's ur experience please share with us to strengthen us.

Medical experts please advice , I love my woman I don't wanna lose her, thanks everyone .

What have you both been discussing from the start that it's now that you're now interested in knowing each other's genotype?


You might have to let go. If you decided to play your card and it backfires, you won't be happy seeing your child suffering because he/she is SS.


You can go for IVF if you have the resources.

Impostorr:
■ Do you really know the meaning of vasectomy or am I the one not really getting your point? Or you mean IVF? What's now the purpose of the marriage if child bearing is not involve?

1. Marriage is not defined by childbearing. A man childless in marriage is still a married man so long as he and his wife remain in a marriage agreement.

Kobojunkie:
1. Marriage is not defined by childbearing. A man childless in marriage is still a married man so long as he and his wife remain in a marriage agreement.

And why would you then selfishly suggest vasectomy whose reversal is a 50/50 chance success and lower as time elapses! Why was the suggestion not contraceptive implants which are easily reversed? Or is the marriage cast in stone? What happens when they are no longer comfortable with the idea of marriage down the line?

b4ball:
■ And why would you then selfishly suggest vasectomy whose reversal is a 50/50 chance success and lower as time elapses! Why was the suggestion not contraceptive implants which are easily reversed? Or is the marriage cast in stone? What happens when they are no longer comfortable with the idea of marriage down the line?

1. Selfishly? Op came seeking advice on what he can do. How is it selfish to tell him exactly how he can do what he wants to?

Poster e be like say u get money tonnattke sickle cell anemia when your children starts coming . Unless you dont want kids with your partner Ad cannot marry As .miraculously you can get one child that is AA.

Kobojunkie:
1. Marriage is not defined by childbearing. A man childless in marriage is still a married man so long as he and his wife remain in a marriage agreement.

And you think someone will intentionally decided to opt in for marriage without child bearing?


I'm not sure the OP would even consider it.

Impostorr:
■ And you think someone will intentionally decided to opt in for marriage without child bearing?
■ I'm not sure the OP would even consider it.

1. There are people who "intentionally" go into marriage for reasons other than child bearing. There are couples out there who are childless by choice. Just because you have never seen or imagined their existence doesn't mean they are not out there.

2. It is a choice for love to make.

Medical technology has improved over the years.
Being married to someone who is AS, while also having the AS genotype is tough.
Child bearing is always going to be a desire and there's a 25% of getting an SS child.
However, if you are committed, and have the money, then intrauterine genetic testing is possible. However, are you ready to make the decision of an abortion?
Maybe there are ways to do the genetic tests and selection prior to uterine insertion and implantation. This is a conversation you and your lady should have with a specialist.
Many of the advancements today were not there when I was faced with the same scenario more than 10 years ago, so we had to give up our love.
I wish you all the best in your travails.