As a guy, I just couldn't comprehend the logic behind womanizers.

To even maintain a girl self no dey easy not to talk of having 3-4. I mean how are they maintaining their sanity.

To be a womanizer, you must be a chronic liar cos story must be available to entertain the girls.

What's the logic behind guys having 3-4 girls?

An abundance of babes and spare time.

kenedyx:
An abundance of babes and spare time.

That time in particular is what I am mostly concerned about.

With so many things do with one's time, why should it be wasted on ladies.

Funnily, the womanizers are the most jealous people

If you have three girls you can just set a timetable,
For example you can bring each one every Sunday .

Monogamy:


That time in particular is what I am mostly concerned about.

With so many things do with one's time, why should it be wasted on ladies.

Funnily, the womanizers are the most jealous people

Lols, just few days ago I had this very argument with the boys.

You see bro, what you consider a waste of time might just be the "fuel" that keeps someone else's engine running.

I know a guy that busts his ass day and night at his job and rakes in cool dough .. just so he can spend it all on hard drugs.

For those who didn't know he was a very hard-working guy but for the rest of us who knew well...

Monogamy:
As a guy, I just couldn't comprehend the logic behind womanizers.

To even maintain a girl self no dey easy not to talk of having 3-4. I mean how are they maintaining their sanity.

To be a womanizer, you must be a chronic liar cos story must be available to entertain the girls.

What's the logic behind guys having 3-4 girls?

You will understand, when you make money...

It's a bad habit

Dshocker:


You will understand, when you make money...

Bro this is not about money, cos if it's, I should be having like 5 gfs. Only opportunists use money to attract ladies.

My outings lately be as it get as those girls won't stop coming around but you see the time aspect is what I don't have for them.

While in Uni, there was a time I dated 3 girls at a time, though one was in another, school. This girl can call me 10 times in a day,no jokes, very beautiful girl.

kenedyx:


Lols, just few days ago I had this very argument with the boys.

You see bro, what you consider a waste of time might just be the "fuel" that keeps someone else's engine running.

I know a guy that busts his ass day and night at his job and rakes in cool dough .. just so he can spend it all on hard drugs.


For those who didn't know he was a very hard-working guy but for the rest of us who knew well...

I have some friends that are chronic cheaters. After moneymaking, their next is women..

I just couldn't comprehend wasting time with ladies.

Cerebellum:
While in Uni, there was a tims ate I dated 3 girls at a time, though one was in another, school. This girl which I can say love me pass can call me 10 times in a day,no jokes, very beautiful girl.

I was only once in a partial 2 relationships. Infact I didn't even know when I told my real girl that I am seeing another girl.

I was able to cut is off so early by avoiding sex with the new lady. I just couldn't run 2 ladies at a time. It's time consuming plus unnecessary headache

nothing but waste of time

kelspinall:
nothing but waste of time

Funnily some of those girls don't even have anything upstairs.

Have you eaten, the way I hate that question heh. If I haven't what can you do about it

IyaebeTheGreat:
says illicit the sex addict

I have grown up

illicit:


I have grown up

Good for you

Help me ask.
I don't have that kind of energy.

Monogamy:


Bro this is not about money, cos if it's, I should be having like 5 gfs. Only opportunists use money to attract ladies.

My outings lately be as it get as those girls won't stop coming around but you see the time aspect is what I don't have for them.

@bolded...
Ladies are NATURALLY attracted to men with money, so you saying the bolded is equivalent to saying women who use beauty to attract men are opportunist ...

When it's clear that will NATURALLY be attracted to beautiful women ...

As for the issue of womanizing, na who get time dey womanize o ....

And besides, I don't think womanizing "maintain" multiple women, I think it's more of just keeping them for recreational use only ...

They have free money to waste na.

Monogamy:
As a guy, I just couldn't comprehend the logic behind womanizers.

To even maintain a girl self no dey easy not to talk of having 3-4. I mean how are they maintaining their sanity.

To be a womanizer, you must be a chronic liar cos story must be available to entertain the girls.

What's the logic behind guys having 3-4 girls?

Adventurous!
Is like saying what's the logic behind having 10 sneakers of different colours and shapes ....

Nigga, Go sleep abeg !

Monogamy:


Funnily some of those girls don't even have anything upstairs.

Have you eaten, the way I hate that question heh. If I haven't what can you do about it

You are just too serious with Life.. Many People Ain't.... If you downgrade your mental acumen a Lil bit .. You wouldn't be asking this Question!

Hyper serious is madness

Lower serious is Madness

Balance-Fair is Sanity! ....

Everyone ain't like you that's what makes Life Game Sweet !

There was a time I was in up to ten relationships with different ladies. For me variety is the spice of Life. I love diversity. See me controlling clean and beautiful ladies, ladies that many guys will deem untouchable were dying for me.

There was a time I invited one of my gf with her friend to my lodge and I was romancing (teasing) my gf's friend right in my gf front. LoL. My gf was angry but not for long. I've done really crazy things mhen..

What causes a man to become a womanizer?

It takes two to tango. A guy who either is naturally attractive or has learned to be attractive and to seduce women and women who do not have the skills or inclinations to detect a guy seeking to use them or do not care.

Without the women to participate, there is no possibility of being a womanizer. The men I have known who were seriously hard-core womanizers fell into one of two categories - some were physically attractive, good-talkers and good-listeners, able to read the woman and bring her in. The others were not particularly attractive physically but were funny and engaging, charming, and fun to be with and just charmed the women right into bed.

In general, from my view, the first group of physically attractive guys were superficial, stupid people who barely counted as men but the second group of funny charming people were fun to be around and from watching them I actually learned a lot about what men liked . . . . not that I ever could match their charm candlepower to be a manizer, but at least I learned enough to be less incompetent in meeting men.

I would say that the converse is also true. There are any number of women who have the attractive power to engage a number of guys, get what they want from the short term relationship and move on . . . . and I expect that there are an even larger number of guys who do not care if they are just a bit player in the woman's game.


By definition a womanizer is an archetype who falls in love temperarily with all the women he is dating. He is a multiple partner man and will not be satiated by a single partner no matter how good you are. He is not interested in a relationship or love affair its the chaze that keeps him going, the mating game. Once you are won he moves on to his next target.

He is the most smooth talking charmer who has incredible sense of humour and makes you feel so special. You have a great time with him and hence his personality is almost addictive. Hence more the pain to let go. While he is the special one for you but for him you are just another pleasure till he gets you.

Initially they often show you tall promises, shower you with so much attention which you may have never experienced, will make castles in the air for you, all the dreams you saw as a little girl it would for a moment of time seems almost getting fulfilled. They will use all the right words like soul mate, twin flame, other half, love, sweetheart, darling however their is no underline integrity or action supporting their talks.

Once they have won you, they may suddenly turn cold or will find reasons to dump you even rationlizing it for you.

Girls don't fall in this honey trap ! They will never change. Just like chronic alcoholism is a diseased state similarly chronic womanizing is a deeply rooted diseased state of mind. They are shallow people with unresolved trauma or issues.

Along with womanizing comes chronic lie's as they always have to cover up their act. Along with it comes insincere, selfish motives. Its a complete package of disaster.

And you are not here acting as a rehabilitation centre to get them to act with integrity. You have a life to live a future to chaze. Pls don't kill your life trying to adopt a mentally diseased man and spend rest of your life sulking in hell.

Move on ! You deserve better. This is attachment and this shall also GO. Let it GO !! Life is calling you.

Monogamy:
As a guy, I just couldn't comprehend the logic behind womanizers.

To even maintain a girl self no dey easy not to talk of having 3-4. I mean how are they maintaining their sanity.

To be a womanizer, you must be a chronic liar cos story must be available to entertain the girls.

What's the logic behind guys having 3-4 girls?

Continue with your monogamy and leave us womanizers alone

IyaTola:
What causes a man to become a womanizer?

It takes two to tango. A guy who either is naturally attractive or has learned to be attractive and to seduce women and women who do not have the skills or inclinations to detect a guy seeking to use them or do not care.

Without the women to participate, there is no possibility of being a womanizer. The men I have known who were seriously hard-core womanizers fell into one of two categories - some were physically attractive, good-talkers and good-listeners, able to read the woman and bring her in. The others were not particularly attractive physically but were funny and engaging, charming, and fun to be with and just charmed the women right into bed.

In general, from my view, the first group of physically attractive guys were superficial, stupid people who barely counted as men but the second group of funny charming people were fun to be around and from watching them I actually learned a lot about what men liked . . . . not that I ever could match their charm candlepower to be a manizer, but at least I learned enough to be less incompetent in meeting men.

I would say that the converse is also true. There are any number of women who have the attractive power to engage a number of guys, get what they want from the short term relationship and move on . . . . and I expect that there are an even larger number of guys who do not care if they are just a bit player in the woman's game.


By definition a womanizer is an archetype who falls in love temperarily with all the women he is dating. He is a multiple partner man and will not be satiated by a single partner no matter how good you are. He is not interested in a relationship or love affair its the chaze that keeps him going, the mating game. Once you are won he moves on to his next target.

He is the most smooth talking charmer who has incredible sense of humour and makes you feel so special. You have a great time with him and hence his personality is almost addictive. Hence more the pain to let go. While he is the special one for you but for him you are just another pleasure till he gets you.

Initially they often show you tall promises, shower you with so much attention which you may have never experienced, will make castles in the air for you, all the dreams you saw as a little girl it would for a moment of time seems almost getting fulfilled. They will use all the right words like soul mate, twin flame, other half, love, sweetheart, darling however their is no underline integrity or action supporting their talks.

Once they have won you, they may suddenly turn cold or will find reasons to dump you even rationlizing it for you.

Girls don't fall in this honey trap ! They will never change. Just like chronic alcoholism is a diseased state similarly chronic womanizing is a deeply rooted diseased state of mind. They are shallow people with unresolved trauma or issues.

Along with womanizing comes chronic lie's as they always have to cover up their act. Along with it comes insincere, selfish motives. Its a complete package of disaster.

And you are not here acting as a rehabilitation centre to get them to act with integrity. You have a life to live a future to chaze. Pls don't kill your life trying to adopt a mentally diseased man and spend rest of your life sulking in hell.

Move on ! You deserve better. This is attachment and this shall also GO. Let it GO !! Life is calling you.

You called me, well here I am

Try get backup in case issue occurs he get why extra tyre dey inside vehicle.

Try mitigate against break up.

Monogamy:
As a guy, I just couldn't comprehend the logic behind womanizers.

To even maintain a girl self no dey easy not to talk of having 3-4. I mean how are they maintaining their sanity.

To be a womanizer, you must be a chronic liar cos story must be available to entertain the girls.

What's the logic behind guys having 3-4 girls?

Enemies won't know whom you love, whom they could use to manipulate you. There by giving them multiple targets

Monogamy:


Funnily some of those girls don't even have anything upstairs.

Have you eaten, the way I hate that question heh. If I haven't what can you do about it

Monogamy:
As a guy, I just couldn't comprehend the logic behind womanizers.

To even maintain a girl self no dey easy not to talk of having 3-4. I mean how are they maintaining their sanity.

To be a womanizer, you must be a chronic liar cos story must be available to entertain the girls.

What's the logic behind guys having 3-4 girls?

3 or 4? Sooo why did wisest King Solomon have 1000??

Womanizer:


You called me, well here I am

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