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Jeeezzz children in adults bodies. My nigga you sound toxic.

Load of baby mamas all over the place and you can’t even resolve a common relationship conflict the toxicity my God.

You can't raise your kids but want to raise somebody else's? You'll regret it

Why not focus on your two kids, Raise them well give them best life and maybe later in the future you can then choose to have a wife.

Why putting your neck into something that will later backfire. 20k each weekend you visit.

Why not spend these money on your kids and yourself growth, Must you Knack for now? If yes why not get a side chick instead

saweide:
My name is Segun Saweide a native of Ondo state,please am depressed and I need a very serios advice.After having 3 failed relationships,two baby mamas ,I have a son for the first baby mama while a girl for the second baby mama
i decided to give it time but just 3 months ago I met a lady on Facebook and when we started we both love ourselves it was a long distance relationship so I do visit her on weekend basis I will arrive on Friday or sometimes Saturday and go back to my destination on Monday moring.
She has visited me only once due to the fact that she is a widow ,she lost her husband three years ago.
So In my mind I love this lady so much that I promised to marry her and have been to one church to pray about it and the man of God said I can go on..but this my visit to her will be the 6th time since we met and I noticed that she is not happy with me this visits so last night when I took her out she started complaining about me that I am too nagging that I pass aggression too much that she is afraid of getting married to me self and what bring this was because she knows the password to my second phone and when I went to her place on Friday she saw my former girlfriend pics on the Facebook page and she deleted the app without my consent and I was angry at her and why she did that ? I spent nothing less than 20k any weekend I went there and she lives with her 2 children in the house there but my concern is that she has changed a lot compared to when we started, I woke up this night and discovered she left me in the room alone and immediately I woke up I took torchlight to search for her and o found her sitting around 1.30am sitting and putting her arms on her chin,I asked her she did not tell me why and I told her to come back inside and during the time she left the room i had a bad dream ,tho I use to snore as well and she complained a lot about it please what should I do to gain back her ...am fed up...also might she be a witch for standing up by my side at midnight like that I don't want to make mistake.please I seriously need advice

You are mentally not ready for marriage. Since you already have kids outside of wedlock I will advise you push your energy into become a high valuable person.
If you can fix your mind and yourself then getting married won't be a issue.
Focus on developing yourself and not looking for a woman to complete you

Ynix:


You are mentally not ready for marriage. Since you already have kids outside of wedlock I will advise you push your energy into become a high valuable person.
If you can fix your mind and yourself then getting married won't be a issue.
Focus on developing yourself and not looking for a woman to complete you

Thanks I appreciate

SPRINCE001:
Why not focus on your two kids, Raise them well give them best life and maybe later in the future you can then choose to have a wife.

Why putting your neck into something that will later backfire. 20k each weekend you visit.

Why not spend these money on your kids and yourself growth, Must you Knack for now? If yes why not get a side chick instead

I tot as much ..thanks so much for advise

Weknowbetter:
You can't raise your kids but want to raise somebody else's? You'll regret it

How? Pls throw more light

Na you be witch sef,not d lady. See rubbish you just typed here. You go carry another man wahala put for head.. wtf man.. You need to grow up,before attempting another relationship... that lady might still be in love with her late husband,so you will just be wasting your time there ,assuming love relationship that is not gonna work..

saweide:
My name is Segun Saweide a native of Ondo state,please am depressed and I need a very serios advice.After having 3 failed relationships,two baby mamas ,I have a son for the first baby mama while a girl for the second baby mama
i decided to give it time but just 3 months ago I met a lady on Facebook and when we started we both love ourselves it was a long distance relationship so I do visit her on weekend basis I will arrive on Friday or sometimes Saturday and go back to my destination on Monday moring.
She has visited me only once due to the fact that she is a widow ,she lost her husband three years ago.
So In my mind I love this lady so much that I promised to marry her and have been to one church to pray about it and the man of God said I can go on..but this my visit to her will be the 6th time since we met and I noticed that she is not happy with me this visits so last night when I took her out she started complaining about me that I am too nagging that I pass aggression too much that she is afraid of getting married to me self and what bring this was because she knows the password to my second phone and when I went to her place on Friday she saw my former girlfriend pics on the Facebook page and she deleted the app without my consent and I was angry at her and why she did that ? I spent nothing less than 20k any weekend I went there and she lives with her 2 children in the house there but my concern is that she has changed a lot compared to when we started, I woke up this night and discovered she left me in the room alone and immediately I woke up I took torchlight to search for her and o found her sitting around 1.30am sitting and putting her arms on her chin,I asked her she did not tell me why and I told her to come back inside and during the time she left the room i had a bad dream ,tho I use to snore as well and she complained a lot about it please what should I do to gain back her ...am fed up...also might she be a witch for standing up by my side at midnight like that I don't want to make mistake.please I seriously need advice

Jesus fuqin Christ dude!!!

You need a therapist!!

DM me...and I will walk you through your shiit. You pay me too.

saweide:

You sound like a failure and a Toxic Individual. You have missed love you shouldn't be focused on been in a relationship what you should do is leave her, forget about relationships take care of your kids and give them the best Life. If along the line someone worthy comes to your life then fine, but this path you are going is wrong and damaging! Don't be st*pid, focus on your kids.

I wish I can unread this what are you?

Just keep yaself and bye this world.

I no too get strength to read everything wey you write but I observe somethings. These are my observations:
1. I'm certain that you would make this other lady your number 3 baby mama
2. You say you dey spend 20K on her whenever you visit abi? Oga, a real man no dey calculate wetin he spend on a woman. If you spend 20K on her and her 2kids whenever you visit, then I think it's not too much. So no be wetin you go dey use boast
3. Shebi you say "your pastor" don say she's the right person for you? Oya marry her na, una wey dey go meet pastor for validation before marriage sef
4. So because you get bad dream when you were with her, does that automatically make her a witch? Oga E sure say na you get the problem
5. You snore heavily and you expect her to sleep comfortably? Why most of una dey so inconsiderate sef?
6. If you be man wey know wetin you want for life, why still keeping the pics of your ex and masturbate with it?
Oga, I see so many red flags in you but I wish to keep quiet due to "bro code". But my only advise for you be say, work on your toxicity and thank me later.

Where are your baby mamas.

luminouz:


Jesus fuqin Christ dude!!!

You need a therapist!!

DM me...and I will walk you through your shiit. You pay me too.

Egbon, don't infect him with your Redpill.

OP, my own concern is your kids, hope they are okay? Both you and the lady are not ready for marriage, she is just insecure. I won't advice you to quit love as "body no be firewood". Sit down and ask yourself what you really want unless you are ready to have third baby mama. No bring children to this world and make them suffer

labake1:



Egbon, don't infect him with your Redpill.

Egbon kee u dia

As you dey read the story, you no dey vex ni? It's annoying na.

labake1:

OP, my own concern is your kids, hope they are okay? Both you and the lady are not ready for marriage, she is just insecure. I won't advice you to quit love as "body no be firewood". Sit down and ask yourself what you really want unless you are ready to have third baby mama. No bring children to this world and make them suffer

See this one "body no be firewood"

😁😁😁😁

40 years old man, you have two kids yet you think a single mum with two kids is best for you because a pastor said so just dey play