For a while now, my friend who I consider a nice- and good-looking guy has been searching for a serious lady. The thing is, he had some ladies in the past but then things just didn't work out. The last relationship he was in, the lady wanted a heavenly wedding, but her attitude is nothing to write home about. She feels entitled to everything. (My friend isn't doing badly - One million naira monthly is something). My friend is a reserved guy who doesn't love showing wealth in anyway, he spends when needed, he is not a stingy guy.

Fast forward to last year December, He met a lady in a place he wouldn't have thought. He got the lady's contact and they have kept communicating daily, they meet at least once every week since then till date. My guy spends at least 25 - 38k on every hangout (money wasn't the problem for him). Not to take anything away for the lady, she has paid once for their hangouts.

Now the issue is, my guy doesn't think chasing a lady (been in talking stage) for more than 3 months is fine especial when both have agreed to all moral principle such as: no sex before marriage, putting God's first etc. He thinks the lady doesn't know what she wants or the lady thinks she bigger than him because she speaks so well (she earns 200K monthly). Today, the lady would express how much she loves him, tomorrow she will say let's take it slow. What pisses my friend off is that she told him to wait for 6 months before she can consider whether to date him or not.

I TOLD HIM TO LET HER GO... A 33-YEAR-OLD LADY SAYING THESE DOESN'T LIKE YOU. Move on my guy...
My guy is 33yrs as well.

There's more about this lady I can't say... but I really feel bad for my guy because this is the first time I will see him this crazy about a lady.

Any advice for my friend?

Such a good guy yet no lady , maybe being good means a different thing to you.

You ar able to mention the girls pay package but you did not mention the guys own

Abi the girl was pass the girl.

If that is the case

Let you friend end the relationship

What pisses my friend off is that she told him to wait for 6 months before she can consider whether to date him or not.



From here we can say that your friend is not the one she is looking for
While it is true that at least 6 months is a fair time for relationships to know exactly what and where it is headed but the statement after 3 Months,shows the two are basically unserious

The guy's pay was mentioned naaa (1M monthly)

mokal:
The guy's pay was mentioned naaa (1M monthly)

Okay my eyes skipped it

baralatie:

From here we can say that your friend is not the one she is looking for

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