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Men Don't Bring Your Rejection Stories Online For God Sake. by VeryKindHearted(m): 5:03pm On Apr 10, 2023
Most males know how to disgrace themselves.

Although I know that some stories of men online bordering on how a woman rejected them are false. Sometimes men do it to catch funs.

But such a fun is very costly to your reputation and the reputation of males in general.

Most women would be saying things bordering on how they are getting male attention, how they are the ones rejecting men's advances(some of the stories are real and some are fake)

But most men stories are on how a girl broke up with him, how a woman rejected his advances, etc.


Unknown to the man bringing these fake or real stories,, women will end up looking down on him because women tend to look down on males who have been rejected, because if the man was attractive/rich/dignified enough, no woman will reject him, according to the female mind.

Announcing that he was rejected will further make women to look down on him and on men in general.

That's why many men make claims of being rejected in order to further throw themselves into disdain in the guise of mocking the male gender.

A woman will never come online to say she was rejected because she believes she will lose value in the sight of men the way a rejected man loses value in the sight of women. But if a woman were to claim she was rejected, most men will not look down on her. But a woman thinks she will be looked down upon because she believes men reason like women when it comes to the issue of being rejected.

Also by coming online to tell stories of being rejected, no woman will call you to try and fill the gap, because the last thing in a woman's mind is to hook up with a man who was found unattractive enough to be kicked out by a woman.

So what is the need of coming online to disgrace yourself? It will not draw any woman to you. Let's assume a woman were to post that she was rejected (which no woman will actually do), many men may even call her and try to fill in the gap. But women will never do that because the idea that you were not found attractive enough for the opposite gender to walk out of the relationship is disgusting to women but not to men.

That's why a man may accept a rejected woman but a woman can only accept a rejected man as the last resort. Maybe she herself was rejected and has no other man to accept.


But by God's grace, soon the veil covering the male gender will get lifted.

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Re: Men Don't Bring Your Rejection Stories Online For God Sake. by VeryKindHearted(m): 5:04pm On Apr 10, 2023
It's like if 2 people are fighting and one beat the other. A dog watching the fight will come and bite the person who is being beaten.

That's how women behave.

Most women support the aggressor against the victim while many men support the victim against the aggressor, although there are some men who support the aggressor.

Towards this understanding, if you play the victim in a relationship, maybe you tell stories of how someone walked out on you, you are the victim and a woman can only sympathize with you but may not want to be in a relationship with you.


That is why one man kept being rejected by women because in his ignorance, anytime he started a new relationship, he would tell the new woman how the previous woman walked out of the relationship.


After few weeks, the new woman would also walk out because women cannot cope with a man who was walked out on by another woman. It's like dogs which hate people who exhibit fear or defeat. The dog will pursue you if you fear. Women will reject you if you are afraid of her or you were defeated in a previous relationship. Maybe the man wanted the new woman to love him more because he was rejected or walked out on. But women don't reason that way.



It was not until the man met a female psychologist who told him to stop revealing that he was rejected in the previous relationship if he wanted to succeed in the next relationship that the man obeyed and started having a lasting relationship.


Men need to know that a woman wants to be in relationship with someone valuable and not with someone invaluable.

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Re: Men Don't Bring Your Rejection Stories Online For God Sake. by Nobody: 5:08pm On Apr 10, 2023
All these ontop faceless forum? I'll advise you stop being emotional on a faceless forum.
Re: Men Don't Bring Your Rejection Stories Online For God Sake. by VeryKindHearted(m): 5:39pm On Apr 10, 2023
VeryKindHearted:
It's like if 2 people are fighting and one beat the other. A dog watching the fight will come and bite the person who is being beaten.

That's how women behave.

Most women support the aggressor against the victim while many men support the victim against the aggressor, although there are some men who support the aggressor.

Towards this understanding, if you play the victim in a relationship, maybe you tell stories of how someone walked out on you, you are the victim and a woman can only sympathize with you but may not want to be in a relationship with you.


That is why one man kept being rejected by women because in his ignorance, anytime he started a new relationship, he would tell the new woman how the previous woman walked out of the relationship.


After few weeks, the new woman would also walk out because women cannot cope with a man who was walked out on by another woman. It's like dogs which hate people who exhibit fear or defeat. The dog will pursue you if you fear. Women will reject you if you are afraid of her or you were defeated in a previous relationship. Maybe the man wanted the new woman to love him more because he was rejected or walked out on. But women don't reason that way.



It was not until the man met a female psychologist who told him to stop revealing that he was rejected in the previous relationship if he wanted to succeed in the next relationship that the man obeyed and started having a lasting relationship.


Men need to know that a woman wants to be in relationship with someone valuable and not with someone invaluable.


If you exhibit fear in the presence of a dog, it will attack you.

If you exhibit fear while trying to woo a woman, she will reject you.


If you're defeated in a fight, a dog standing by will rush and bite you.

If you were defeated in a previous relationship, no woman will accept you.


So men should be very careful what they say because women don't reason like men.


Most women find the aggressor(if he is a male)more attractive than the victim(if he is a male).

But many men find the victim (if she is a female) more attractive than the aggressor(whether male or female)


It boils down to women looking up to get a man. A woman wants a man who is on top.


Many men want women who are below them. Unconsciously, a woman link an aggressor to a person on top and men link a victim to a person below.


Although there are exceptions.

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Re: Men Don't Bring Your Rejection Stories Online For God Sake. by advanceDNA: 5:49pm On Apr 10, 2023
This is a faceless forum.... u take things too seriously oga ade
Re: Men Don't Bring Your Rejection Stories Online For God Sake. by ogbe88(m): 9:35pm On Apr 10, 2023
VeryKindHearted:
Most males know how to disgrace themselves.

Although I know that some stories of men online bordering on how a woman rejected them are false. Sometimes men do it to catch funs.

But such a fun is very costly to your reputation and the reputation of males in general.

Most women would be saying things bordering on how they are getting male attention, how they are the ones rejecting men's advances(some of the stories are real and some are fake)

But most men stories are on how a girl broke up with him, how a woman rejected his advances, etc.


Unknown to the man bringing these fake or real stories,, women will end up looking down on him because women tend to look down on males who have been rejected, because if the man was attractive/rich/dignified enough, no woman will reject him, according to the female mind.

Announcing that he was rejected will further make women to look down on him and on men in general.

That's why many men make claims of being rejected in order to further throw themselves into disdain in the guise of mocking the male gender.

A woman will never come online to say she was rejected because she believes she will lose value in the sight of men the way a rejected man loses value in the sight of women. But if a woman were to claim she was rejected, most men will not look down on her. But a woman thinks she will be looked down upon because she believes men reason like women when it comes to the issue of being rejected.

Also by coming online to tell stories of being rejected, no woman will call you to try and fill the gap, because the last thing in a woman's mind is to hook up with a man who was found unattractive enough to be kicked out by a woman.

So what is the need of coming online to disgrace yourself? It will not draw any woman to you. Let's assume a woman were to post that she was rejected (which no woman will actually do), many men may even call her and try to fill in the gap. But women will never do that because the idea that you were not found attractive enough for the opposite gender to walk out of the relationship is disgusting to women but not to men.

That's why a man may accept a rejected woman but a woman can only accept a rejected man as the last resort. Maybe she herself was rejected and has no other man to accept.


But by God's grace, soon the veil covering the male gender will get lifted.
These males/idiots are kids that don't have sense.

They don't have better things to do apart from talking about women and issues.
Re: Men Don't Bring Your Rejection Stories Online For God Sake. by ogbe88(m): 9:40pm On Apr 10, 2023
advanceDNA:
This is a faceless forum.... u take things too seriously oga ade
U wont learn now to help yourself.

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Re: Men Don't Bring Your Rejection Stories Online For God Sake. by ThatrealestApex: 9:41pm On Apr 10, 2023
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Re: Men Don't Bring Your Rejection Stories Online For God Sake. by advanceDNA: 9:48pm On Apr 10, 2023
ogbe88:
U wont learn now to help yourself.

Learn??
Help my self?? Lol .....
Are you trying to be funny, condescending, or u just over-blowing the importance of a post virtually no one cares about.....
Re: Men Don't Bring Your Rejection Stories Online For God Sake. by VeryKindHearted(m): 10:09pm On Apr 10, 2023
There was a time I lived in one compound. Every young lady in the compound used to call me "Our love"

Why? Because a woman started it and few women join it. Before you know it, all women in the compound wanted me. I really enjoyed those days.

That's how women operate. They like copying other women. Since some women find him attractive, then let me also find him attractive.


I read about a man who married many women at different points in his life, but each of them divorced him because it was known to the women that each time the man married, the wife would divorce him without any reason. So each time he married, he would be divorced. Remember that women like copying other women.

So we must be careful how we degrade ourselves in the presence of women.

VeryKindHearted:



If you exhibit fear in the presence of a dog, it will attack you.

If you exhibit fear while trying to woo a woman, she will reject you.


If you're defeated in a fight, a dog standing by will rush and bite you.

If you were defeated in a previous relationship, no woman will accept you.


So men should be very careful what they say because women don't reason like men.


Most women find the aggressor(if he is a male)more attractive than the victim(if he is a male).

But many men find the victim (if she is a female) more attractive than the aggressor(whether male or female)


It boils down to women looking up to get a man. A woman wants a man who is on top.


Many men want women who are below them. Unconsciously, a woman link an aggressor to a person on top and men link a victim to a person below.


Although there are exceptions.

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Re: Men Don't Bring Your Rejection Stories Online For God Sake. by VeryKindHearted(m): 10:25pm On Apr 10, 2023
The achievement of a man is his dignity.

If your dignity is intact, you will be filled with admiration from people.

If your dignity is questionable, you will be filled with contempt from people.


If therefore the dignity that be in you is zero, how great is that contempt?

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Re: Men Don't Bring Your Rejection Stories Online For God Sake. by drealcivilceno(m): 10:42pm On Apr 10, 2023
VeryKindHearted:
It's like if 2 people are fighting and one beat the other. A dog watching the fight will come and bite the person who is being beaten.

That's how women behave.

Most women support the aggressor against the victim while many men support the victim against the aggressor, although there are some men who support the aggressor.

Towards this understanding, if you play the victim in a relationship, maybe you tell stories of how someone walked out on you, you are the victim and a woman can only sympathize with you but may not want to be in a relationship with you.


That is why one man kept being rejected by women because in his ignorance, anytime he started a new relationship, he would tell the new woman how the previous woman walked out of the relationship.


After few weeks, the new woman would also walk out because women cannot cope with a man who was walked out on by another woman. It's like dogs which hate people who exhibit fear or defeat. The dog will pursue you if you fear. Women will reject you if you are afraid of her or you were defeated in a previous relationship. Maybe the man wanted the new woman to love him more because he was rejected or walked out on. But women don't reason that way.



It was not until the man met a female psychologist who told him to stop revealing that he was rejected in the previous relationship if he wanted to succeed in the next relationship that the man obeyed and started having a lasting relationship.


Men need to know that a woman wants to be in relationship with someone valuable and not with someone invaluable.

Pure Gold

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Re: Men Don't Bring Your Rejection Stories Online For God Sake. by HellVictorinho6(m): 8:34am On Apr 11, 2023
VeryKindHearted:



The achievement of a man is his dignity.

If your dignity is intact, you will be filled with admiration from people.

If your dignity is questionable, you will be filled with contempt from people.


If therefore the dignity that be in you is zero, how great is that contempt?
u asked me to drop account details. 2029155712 uba. please,let me know after sending it .. i am using a friend's account.
Re: Men Don't Bring Your Rejection Stories Online For God Sake. by VeryKindHearted(m): 9:11am On Apr 11, 2023
HellVictorinho6:
u asked me to drop account details. 2029155712 uba. please,let me know after sending it .. i am using a friend's account.

Please what is the account name so that I can be sure? The account looks like First Bank account.
Re: Men Don't Bring Your Rejection Stories Online For God Sake. by HellVictorinho6(m): 10:08am On Apr 11, 2023
VeryKindHearted:


Please what is the account name so that I can be sure? The account looks like First Bank account.
adeleke funmilayo
Re: Men Don't Bring Your Rejection Stories Online For God Sake. by VeryKindHearted(m): 10:36am On Apr 11, 2023
HellVictorinho6:
u asked me to drop account details. 2029155712 uba. please,let me know after sending it .. i am using a friend's account.

I have sent it. When you receive, let me know.
Re: Men Don't Bring Your Rejection Stories Online For God Sake. by HellVictorinho6(m): 10:37am On Apr 11, 2023
VeryKindHearted:


Please what is the account name so that I can be sure? The account looks like First Bank account.
let me know after sending it please.
Re: Men Don't Bring Your Rejection Stories Online For God Sake. by HellVictorinho6(m): 10:38am On Apr 11, 2023
VeryKindHearted:


I have sent it. When you receive, let me know.
confirm the amount sent please
Re: Men Don't Bring Your Rejection Stories Online For God Sake. by HellVictorinho6(m): 10:46am On Apr 11, 2023
VeryKindHearted:


I have sent it. When you receive, let me know.
ok. i just want to be sure, is it 3k u sent ?
Re: Men Don't Bring Your Rejection Stories Online For God Sake. by VeryKindHearted(m): 11:02am On Apr 11, 2023
HellVictorinho6:
ok. i just want to be sure, is it 3k u sent ?

Yes. I sent 3k. You must have received alert by now.
Re: Men Don't Bring Your Rejection Stories Online For God Sake. by HellVictorinho6(m): 11:22am On Apr 11, 2023
VeryKindHearted:


Yes. I sent 3k. You must have received alert by now.
confirmed,thanks.
Re: Men Don't Bring Your Rejection Stories Online For God Sake. by VeryKindHearted(m): 11:25am On Apr 11, 2023
HellVictorinho6:
confirmed,thanks.

You are welcome.
Re: Men Don't Bring Your Rejection Stories Online For God Sake. by Raalsalghul: 10:19pm On Apr 11, 2023
advanceDNA:
This is a faceless forum.... u take things too seriously oga ade

But he has a point.

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