She's bin seeing dis guy for the past 3 to 4yrs nw, and he's alwys told her that he doesn't trust her cos of his last relatnshp, but she rely loved him so much dat she gave him all her passwrd to all her social website jst for him to trust again and knw dat all is well, but dis guy's song is always (I DON'T TRUST U) so he eventually broke up wif her yestrday nite, and she's being crying her eyes out. Av tried to console her but each tym she jst goes on and on and i dnt knw wat to tell her anymre, can sumone plssssssssssss tell me hw to console her because she rely did luv dis guy.

Unfortunate but she simply has to move on.
By the way, u sound to me like u want her. Try ur luck Bro. wishing u the best.

sure not

there's more behind the break-up.its not just 'no trust' issues.

you have to be honest with your friend and tell her that SHE GOT WHAT SHE DESERVED!!!!
she knew the guy was insecure, she decided to stick with him rather than to deal with the problem at hands.
she was not the problem, HE was!
HE was the one that should have been fixed, when she didnt do anything about "the problem", he dumped her.

an insecure jealous low self esteem person will ALWAYS find something wrong, will ALWAYS think your are doing something fishy, will ALWAYS blame YOU for their issues.

she needs to forget about him cuz he's not worth it if he cant trust her after all she has done then he does not deserve her

The guy was always bent on leaving her,
he only used the trust card to make it sound like the fault was d girls'.
Move on and better luck with the next one to come

Sometimes life can be very cruel. Life is not fair. Life does not give you what you deserve. All you need to tell her, is to have hope, and move on. Take solace in the word of God,meditate on the scripture,believe God for a change. Hope for great things. Never,never, never GIVE UP. God bless you. God2man.

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give me her fone nos so i can console her

Sincerely she shd have left him since. All thesame tell her to move on. You can equally fill the vacuum.

I have never experience this before but I do know how it feels to be in a insecure relationship but I refuse
to believe he left her because of trust issues. Continuing to tell her it was "trust issues" was a cop out to leave her.

After 3-4 years he should be asking her hand in marriage. I feel men know within the first year if his girlfriend is an option
for marriage. Maybe he just no longer wanted the relationship and didn't know how to tell her so he is definitely considered a coward at this point.

Getting over him will definitely be hard but with patience and time she will eventually get over him. There is really no way to console her outside of
being supportive and being there for her. She will have to go through similar stages of losing a loved one b/c that's what has happened. She has lost her Fiance
and she is trying to cope. My heart goes out to because I can relate how it feels. The first couple of weeks will be difficult but with support from
friends and loved ones she will get over him. Just be her friend and be there for her.

I wish her nothing but the best and I will pray for her.

Tell her to saddle her horse. If a guy could keep you and cherish you for 3-4 yrs, then you must have all the qualities he must have been missing. Move on and I assure her she's gonna get someone better

remind her that when one door closes, God always opens a bigger and better door.... His going is for the best now true happiness will definately find her.

MRbrownJAY: you have to be honest with your friend and tell her that SHE GOT WHAT SHE DESERVED!!!!
she knew the guy was insecure, she decided to stick with him rather than to deal with the problem at hands.
she was not the problem, HE was!
HE was the one that should have been fixed, when she didnt do anything about "the problem", he dumped her.

an insecure jealous low self esteem person will ALWAYS find something wrong, will ALWAYS think your are doing something fishy, will ALWAYS blame YOU for their issues.

Great answer dude.
Are you by any chance a relationship expert??