So I met this girl over a year ago and we have been dating and I told her how serious I was and would want this relationship serious. She agreed and we kicked off. Everything was going well then I begin to notice she starting to receive unusual calls and chats. I decided to go through her phone, then I find out that, she likes giving other men attention if they like or ask her out. I confronted her, she apologies and swear that it won't happen again. Now, i have been to her place to make my intentions known to her family that I want to marry her. At 1st, the family said, i will have to wait until she finishes her youth service and get a job before they can allow me to marry her. Because I loved her, i agreed. But now I noticed she has started same thing again by giving other men attention and I intended to propose to her, so because of this, I have been scared not to propose because I don't trust her. Please I need your advice. What should I do?

Okay so you know you dont trust her but you still want to propose and marry abi? As girls plenty reach na the one wey you done dey drink BP medicine for you still like dey with. Tomorrow now you go dey catch witch for your family head say na dem dey apoil the marriage..

Better use your sense.

The first question people will ask is did you notice this while dating.? You go say "whern", so then why did you still go ahead.?

Your instincts is telling you something, pls follow it.

Don't come here 5yrs after with kinikan, kinikan stories that touches the heart

She’s probably not used to
Men giving her attention or calling her beautiful, her type will cheat easily as soon some bad boy comes along.

Foodqueen:
Your instincts is telling you something, pls follow it.

Don't come here 5yrs after with kinikan, kinikan stories that touches the heart

Wisest lady in ikorodu... I greet you

Abuchindugba:
because of this, I have been scared not to propose because I don't trust her. Please I need your advice. What should I do?

ignore all the red flags and go ahead with the marriage. she is the one for you.
relationship where you have to be checking phone, what kind of yeye stress is that one?

Trust your spouse/partner at your own peril.

If you can't bear the attention she gives other men go and look for won't. As for trust, nobody is trustworthy.

obviously she still wants to have "fun"... you never marry her, you don dey get high BP... I'm so sorry for you bro.. person wey you never marry, your instincts don dey make you go through her phone... I pity you...

better have multiple options other than her if you value your peace of mind and select the lesser devil amongst them... and let me warn you, don't be so insecure as to let a lady know that you're afraid to lose her... why are you checking her phone? from your actions alone, she should know that the moment she fvcks up, she's gone... if she's doing something that makes you doubt her loyalty, you better let her be. the way you're talking sef, you're already emotionally invested and you value the relationship more than her... just dey play... e go shock you like electricity.

since she knows you're serious about her, she feels she has you hooked and you have nowhere else to go to, so she know even if she misbehaves you'll come back to her... you've commited to her while she's not committed to you... keep playing...

Mr man just move on since you have started seeing red flags

My gender is becoming weak everyday....it's well oo

Indeed,you are Mr dilemma.

You made ur intention known to her parents,they told you to wait till she gets job.

Now, she started giving guys attentions, you wanted to propose, even though she hasn't got job.


If u go back to parents for the second time, what would they tell you?


Ur super story not yet super.

abort mission

You are just insecure, let her be
Na you give yourself HBP by checking her phone, you can help her to get a job so that the wedding can happen quickly

Is that why you are having sleepless night? Creating thread at that hour. Nawa.

A relationship that is not giving you rest of mind should be thrashed. Life is too short to be saddled with an uncomfortable and unhealthy relationship abeg. Any relationship that gives you so much concern and worry is not worth it.

Men are becoming weaker everyday. So sad

I don tire to even advice. I want to deal with real problems, such as saving yourself financially or self-development strategy, not handling stuff like this. Mr man, are you normal? ;

A woman that will become your responsibility after marriage, that will be the prime beneficiary of your empire, you're stressing over. I repeat, are you normal?

If your woman is even a social media addict, that's a huge red flag on its own. Social media to women is like porn to men. No woman will prefer a man that watches porn and masturbat, and you should not accept a woman that is so desperate for social media attention, likes and attention.

See, I get a lot to say, but I will just stop here. If you suffer in this life because of a woman that is for the street, it's your fault. God have given your sense, he won't come and use it for you. If she is for the streets, let her go. Don't. Force it

Guy, u never even marry u don dey give yourself HBP

If you're feeling insecure then leave her. Na this kind insecurity dey coz problems for marriage.

Some girls are just...

You don't trust her and you still want to marry her?

Bros come close. Knee down, raise hands..
Repeat after me.

My father my father, whoever that is using me.
Holy ghost fireeerrr...

Continue praying. Continue..


Bro let me teach you how to read her WhatsApp messages directly on your phone.
Do this for 3-4 weeks anything you see will decide if you should marry her or not.

But you will pay me a token before we start cos it's not free.

Anyone can check my signature for my contact and text me on WhatsApp

Peace ✌️

Shey na by force to marry ni?

If she’s behaving like a fôolish girl, make u sef Dey behave like unserious man, stop bothering her and fool her like hakimi fooled his wife that thought she was fooling him

Stop seeing her life your life partner, she doesn’t see you as such, so comot mind from her, but don’t break up with her, when she’s tired of her games she will move


Marriage no Dey favor men una no Dey hear, Shey be una see hakimi and how his supposed wife tried to reap him, that’s what every girl is capable of if the society or the law permits here in our country


Enjoy your time with them and go face your hustle , no be by force to put them for house as wives

Lol, the babe is keeping her options open, he needs to be smart else hes gonna get dumped

Foodqueen:
Your instincts is telling you something, pls follow it.

Don't come here 5yrs after with kinikan, kinikan stories that touches the heart