Asalam alaikum j'ama

There is this particular Muslim sister living in the area I have my house her husband died when she gave birth to their fourth child. Fortunately for her, she was matched make with an old man of fifty eight years by a very big and widely known cleric (alfa) though the lady is just thirty three years and was thirty when her husband had the accident and gave up the ghost as a result. The late hubby was older than the lady with just two years, meaning that they are age bracket.


The present old man taking care of this woman has been so kind to the extent that all the four children are being tended to both financially and physically by this man. The last kid who was just a few months old when the father died is now three years and every finance has been on the fifty eight years old man who has his well built fenced house in my area as well. All the four children are living under the roof of the old man and he has been seeing to their education. The man is a business man, and a little nikai was done to keep them together religiously and legally.


Presently, the woman has been complaining of not conceiving for the man, that is, the man has not been able to impregnate her all the while and because of this, she's no more interested in the man and ready to part ways with him despite this man taking very good care of her and all her four children and with the fact that he's not the owner of the children. This man has only one son residing in UK. He has never married before but had the son when he was young from a woman presently based in London and legally married with children now.


We have been asking what might be the reason why this woman has been deciding to cut the relationship between her and her helper short. Is it that the man is not satisfying her sexually? She said the man is a bulldozer when it come to sex. Is he not having time for her and her children? She said in fact, her children especially the youngest of them do not even know that their biological father is no more and that he is the best father any child could have in life and a lovely husband as well. The last child of the four children who does not know how the real biological father look like takes the old man as the real father. Indeed the man is a father figure to them.


After so many search and unravelling of what could have been the reason for this woman's thought and action, she came out secretly to an ally of hers who is also close to their match maker and her point is that, the man has not been able to impregnate her all the while they've been together. She complained that for the fact that she is not working apart from selling cold drinks at home, eating and getting all she want she should be carrying her fifth child now and the fact that the rich man cannot get her womb protruded, then she will be having her way. Upon unravelling more from the woman's close ally, she said the woman is now into the alfa who was employed to take the children of the woman in Arabic and Qur'an lesson at home. The alfa with two wives and eight children is just a teacher at a Modrasa and do part time arabic teaching in these people's house. Now the woman is planning to marry him and part ways with her benevolent man to be a third wife and doing rivalry with the other wives of the alfa.


My concerns are:

- is it a right thing for a woman to leave a man just because the man is not putting her in a family way after having four children in her first marriage?

- Is it not the man that is suppose to be complaining?

- is it a good thing for a woman to choose to be a third wife and form rival with two others?

- how can I advise this woman from the same fate?

You won't see them here to advice this fellow, rather they'll be busy in the other room fighting religious war with Christians on NL

ANTISLAM:
You won't see them here to advice this fellow, rather they'll be busy in the other room fighting religious war with Christians on NL

Because their is no advice to be given and as for you, you should have better places to be.

Raheeqilmaktoom:


Because their is no advice to be given and as for you, you should have better places to be.

So your people have no advice to give but they can disturb other people as if they know more than dem

What does woman want?

Baba supposed to complain that you and your children are chopping his money, he didn't.

The head that will chop Iko (Knock) will surely.

premierlead:
Asalam alaikum j'ama

There is this particular Muslim sister living in the area I have my house her husband died when she gave birth to their fourth child. Fortunately for her, she was matched make with an old man of fifty eight years by a very big and widely known cleric (alfa) though the lady is just thirty three years and was thirty when her husband had the accident and gave up the ghost as a result. The late hubby was older than the lady with just two years, meaning that they are age bracket.


The present old man taking care of this woman has been so kind to the extent that all the four children are being tended to both financially and physically by this man. The last kid who was just a few months old when the father died is now three years and every finance has been on the fifty eight years old man who has his well built fenced house in my area as well. All the four children are living under the roof of the old man and he has been seeing to their education. The man is a business man, and a little nikai was done to keep them together religiously and legally.


Presently, the woman has been complaining of not conceiving for the man, that is, the man has not been able to impregnate her all the while and because of this, she's no more interested in the man and ready to part ways with him despite this man taking very good care of her and all her four children and with the fact that he's not the owner of the children. This man has only one son residing in UK. He has never married before but had the son when he was young from a woman presently based in London and legally married with children now.


We have been asking what might be the reason why this woman has been deciding to cut the relationship between her and her helper short. Is it that the man is not satisfying her sexually? She said the man is a bulldozer when it come to sex. Is he not having time for her and her children? She said in fact, her children especially the youngest of them do not even know that their biological father is no more and that he is the best father any child could have in life and a lovely husband as well. The last child of the four children who does not know how the real biological father look like takes the old man as the real father. Indeed the man is a father figure to them.


After so many search and unravelling of what could have been the reason for this woman's thought and action, she came out secretly to an ally of hers who is also close to their match maker and her point is that, the man has not been able to impregnate her all the while they've been together. She complained that for the fact that she is not working apart from selling cold drinks at home, eating and getting all she want she should be carrying her fifth child now and the fact that the rich man cannot get her womb protruded, then she will be having her way. Upon unravelling more from the woman's close ally, she said the woman is now into the alfa who was employed to take the children of the woman in Arabic and Qur'an lesson at home. The alfa with two wives and eight children is just a teacher at a Modrasa and do part time arabic teaching in these people's house. Now the woman is planning to marry him and part ways with her benevolent man to be a third wife and doing rivalry with the other wives of the alfa.


My concerns are:

- is it a right thing for a woman to leave a man just because the man is not putting her in a family way after having four children in her first marriage?

- Is it not the man that is suppose to be complaining?

- is it a good thing for a woman to choose to be a third wife and form rival with two others?

- how can I advise this woman from the same fate?

Ahnie, where are you here?

Leave her alone Allah will provide for the man good wife