This my neighbour is seriously heartbroken at the moment. He works as a Farm Supervisor in a livestock farm and also do part-time okada riding. His wife is an auxiliary nurse. The woman has been working in a private hospital where she was paid peanut. Last year October, he got his wife a job as a care-giver to an old woman whose four children are living in abroad. The job is paying well but the woman have changed completely. She no longer care about the husband and thier 3 children. She won't come home even on her off-days, have refused to assist her husband financially as she was doing while earning peanut as hospital assistant. This woman now spends her money on the latest phones which she lied were always sent to her by the children of her employer who are abroad. Her husband told me that he found out that his wife now sees another man, a cab driver who she now spends her time and money with. The husband is not ready to report her to her employer for now so that she won'thave problem there since he believed things can still be sorted out. He came to my house after church this afternoon and complained bitterly about his wife, I called the woman on phone to ask for when I can see her, she just told me she already knew what I wanted to say, that I shouldn't believe her husband stories and that she will see me when she has her day off next saturday. What will this man do now, he is not happy about this development at all?

Looks like you guys haven't gotten to the root of the case.

Get to the root first.

kennybabs1980:
This my neighbour is seriously heartbroken at the moment. He works as a Farm Supervisor in a livestock farm and also do part-time okada riding. His wife is an auxiliary nurse. The woman has been working in a private hospital where she was paid peanut. Last year October, he got his wife a job as a care-giver to an old woman whose four children are living in abroad. The job is paying well but the woman have changed completely. She no longer care about the husband and thier 3 children. She won't come home even on her off-days, have refused to assist her husband financially as she was doing while earning peanut as hospital assistant. This woman now spends her money on the latest phones which she lied were always sent to her by the children of her employer who are abroad. Her husband told me that he found out that his wife now sees another man, a cab driver who she now spends her time and money with. The husband is not ready to report her to her employer for now so that she won'thave problem there since he believed things can still be sorted out. He came to my house after church this afternoon and complained bitterly about his wife, I called the woman on phone to ask for when I can see her, she just told me she already knew what I wanted to say, that I shouldn't believe her husband stories and that she will see me when she has her day off next saturday. What will this man do now, he is not happy about this development at all?

Well you have to wait and hear from her

There after, he can report her to her parents who are in the best position to handle such matter

kennybabs1980:
This my neighbour is seriously heartbroken at the moment. He works as a Farm Supervisor in a livestock farm and also do part-time okada riding. His wife is an auxiliary nurse. The woman has been working in a private hospital where she was paid peanut. Last year October, he got his wife a job as a care-giver to an old woman whose four children are living in abroad. The job is paying well but the woman have changed completely. She no longer care about the husband and thier 3 children. She won't come home even on her off-days, have refused to assist her husband financially as she was doing while earning peanut as hospital assistant. This woman now spends her money on the latest phones which she lied were always sent to her by the children of her employer who are abroad. Her husband told me that he found out that his wife now sees another man, a cab driver who she now spends her time and money with. The husband is not ready to report her to her employer for now so that she won'thave problem there since he believed things can still be sorted out. He came to my house after church this afternoon and complained bitterly about his wife, I called the woman on phone to ask for when I can see her, she just told me she already knew what I wanted to say, that I shouldn't believe her husband stories and that she will see me when she has her day off next saturday. What will this man do now, he is not happy about this development at all?

Wait till you hear her side of the story as well...

Egg donor + surrogate might be a better option for us Nigerian men.

kennybabs1980:
This my neighbour is seriously heartbroken at the moment. He works as a Farm Supervisor in a livestock farm and also do part-time okada riding. His wife is an auxiliary nurse. The woman has been working in a private hospital where she was paid peanut. Last year October, he got his wife a job as a care-giver to an old woman whose four children are living in abroad. The job is paying well but the woman have changed completely. She no longer care about the husband and thier 3 children. She won't come home even on her off-days, have refused to assist her husband financially as she was doing while earning peanut as hospital assistant. This woman now spends her money on the latest phones which she lied were always sent to her by the children of her employer who are abroad. Her husband told me that he found out that his wife now sees another man, a cab driver who she now spends her time and money with. The husband is not ready to report her to her employer for now so that she won'thave problem there since he believed things can still be sorted out. He came to my house after church this afternoon and complained bitterly about his wife, I called the woman on phone to ask for when I can see her, she just told me she already knew what I wanted to say, that I shouldn't believe her husband stories and that she will see me when she has her day off next saturday. What will this man do now, he is not happy about this development at all?

It's very funny how I can almost say I know this person

OP, haven’t you heard? That woman are most women are poor in managing power...
what was she doing with another man when she now have money? Maybe they are praying every night for Nigeria?
You need to talk sense into her brain to change for better and stay with her husband..
shalom!

Mek all of Una rest first.