Ladies

Would you pay groom price for your boyfriend?  When a man isn't able to pay bride price, do you think a woman should pay groom price if she can afford it? 

If the groom isn't doing his job to your pleasure do you think you should return him back to his parents and ask for a refund? 

Do you think the relationship would work if the man was bought for a price?

Say whattt? ? ?

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stupid question. stupid post

Whats this, mane?

It's a common practise in India, so it's nothing new.

Goldieluks
You mean Mrs.chima is the poster? cos i'm not amaze cos the question sounds so dumb.

wtf?!

for women only

I think in planet mars

very sick question, but its NL any question is possible,

Em, no, I can't let her pay dowry, or groom price, as you call it. If I do, she will always want to lie on top during sex, will claim the kids as hers, and manize. She may even get me pregnant!

wat is dis topic doin in homepage??

@ OP
You got the men really mad now.

Chei women are really trying to pluck off the pipe, when men too are asking for credit

Do you know how many men will refuse to marry a woman becos she asked them out,

hahaha groom price

no better way to demasculinize a man , too funny

Any wimp that wants a groom price paid for him should be called Sandra [s]and better be ready to take it from behind bloody sissy.[/s]

MyJoe:

Em, no, I can't let her pay dowry, or groom price, as you call it. If I do, she will always want to lie on top during sex, will claim the kids as hers, and manize. She may even get me pregnant!

On my days, i fell off the chair in laughter.

senseless question, I'm out of here.

E be like say dis person never chop for days na him make am dey talk rubbishhhhhhhhhhh

they do this in india so it's not a dumb question to ask,

Look at it from the other side of the table, assuming the requirements of culture were overturned such that the woman has to pay a "groom" price. What's your take on it.

Pay what? mtschew!

WhyAWhy:

they do this in india so it's not a dumb question to ask,  

Look at it from the other side of the table, assuming the requirements of culture were overturned such that the woman has to pay a "groom" price. What's your take on it.

And everything needs to be attended to because its posted?

^^^ see cooking pot calling kettle black

MyJoe:

Em, no, I can't let her pay dowry, or groom price, as you call it. If I do, she will always want to lie on top during sex, will claim the kids as hers, and manize. She may even get me pregnant!

What? I love being on top and on the bottom during sex. Missionary and doggy is the only acceptable position for Nigerian men? Is that what you are intimating here?

Please tell me that- that is NOT what you are trying to say.

Se.x SHOULD NOT BE BORING, mundane, mechanical

Come alive in Christ

Groom price would not be a bad thing if it led to couples being more responsible and accountable.  But as men pay bride price and it doesn't make a blind bit of difference, it would probably be a senseless exercise.

MyJoe:

Em, no, I can't let her pay dowry, or groom price, as you call it. If I do, she will always want to lie on top during sex, will claim the kids as hers, and manize. She may even get me pregnant!

Shy-One:

What?  I love being on top and on the bottom during sex. Missionary and canine is the only acceptable position for Nigerian men?  Is that what you are intimating here?

Please tell me that- that is NOT what you are trying to say.

Se.x SHOULD NOT BE BORING, mundane, mechanical

@ Shy-One. . .maybe they're the only positions he knows 

So lame, why not ask if the ladies can as well get their husband pregnant incase he is not capable of doing so

@ OP

Bride and Groom Price should be paid to BOTH FAMILIES.

A woman isn't the only treasure being given.  Men are breadwinners, leaders and if you get a VERY GOOD ONE - he is worth his weight in gold.

He could have married someone other than you - I think that tradition should be revised so that groom prices are paid to the families who have birthed, educated, trained the man who is also given to the woman.

The woman is given to the man and the man is given to the woman.  They are lucky to have EACH OTHER and the families should be compensated for the years of work that went into the product(s) of that marriage.

Good thread - thanks for opening it.