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"My Best Friend Stopped Talking To Me Cos I Refused To Marry Her Brother" - Lady by marvelck: 11:30am On Apr 30, 2023
Friendship in the mud, as lady snubs friend after rejecting her brother' marriage proposal

A Nigerian lady recently took to her Facebook page to recount an incident that happened between her and one of her friends, after she rejected her brother's marriage proposal

According to the lady, her so called friend, stopped talking to her because she referred her brother to her and she said no. And as a result, the lady no longer talks to her nor answers her greetings.

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In her words;

This lady stopped talking to me because She referred her brother to me for marriage and I said No.

The first day He came to pick me up..
I already knew in my spirit he wasn't the one for me...

But because the referrer is a close one at that I had to give in... Las Las I don't know how to pretend or hide my feelings...

I opened up to this lady... And also explained to the brother..

Guess what this lady stopped talking to me.. just like that... Saw her on my way to church this morning greeted her she refused answering...

I just heard now from her friend that she said that she doesn't know what I am feeling like... That I rejected her brother... That I can't reject her brother and expect her to accept my greetings...

It is well

Re: "My Best Friend Stopped Talking To Me Cos I Refused To Marry Her Brother" - Lady by Bluezy13(m): 11:33am On Apr 30, 2023
Una problem.

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Re: "My Best Friend Stopped Talking To Me Cos I Refused To Marry Her Brother" - Lady by ojun50(m): 11:43am On Apr 30, 2023
She should thank God for her life. That God has taking her away from bad friend
Re: "My Best Friend Stopped Talking To Me Cos I Refused To Marry Her Brother" - Lady by doggedfighter(f): 11:52am On Apr 30, 2023
You want us to condemn her ? I just can't bring myself to cheesy


She's your friend this can be sorted.

She loves you reason she wants you in her family. grin

She may feel hurt at your rejection of her beloved brother.

Take time and explain to her that you didn't mean it the way she sees it.


One should try and avoid creating unnecessary beefs and enemity .

Explaining why can solve issues.

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Re: "My Best Friend Stopped Talking To Me Cos I Refused To Marry Her Brother" - Lady by Wodu89: 12:05pm On Apr 30, 2023
Yes. My best friend at a time did same. Since then if people hint referrals reject it before seeing the person to not rope yourself
Re: "My Best Friend Stopped Talking To Me Cos I Refused To Marry Her Brother" - Lady by Caramia2020(m): 12:05pm On Apr 30, 2023
It's your choice my dear.
Re: "My Best Friend Stopped Talking To Me Cos I Refused To Marry Her Brother" - Lady by Caramia2020(m): 12:07pm On Apr 30, 2023
It's your choice my dear. Na small pikin sense de worry her.
Re: "My Best Friend Stopped Talking To Me Cos I Refused To Marry Her Brother" - Lady by garriAndsugar: 12:24pm On Apr 30, 2023
I know say na because him no get money you reject am

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Re: "My Best Friend Stopped Talking To Me Cos I Refused To Marry Her Brother" - Lady by Westerhoffe(m): 12:44pm On Apr 30, 2023
She loves her brother and you so much that wanted you in her family, that's why. She wanted more of you than friendship. The rejection made her unhappy.
So just walk up to her and sort things out.

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Re: "My Best Friend Stopped Talking To Me Cos I Refused To Marry Her Brother" - Lady by gasparpisciotta: 12:44pm On Apr 30, 2023
Guys don’t usually like their friends to date or marry their sisters but they don’t beef afterwards.

Women are built differently

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Re: "My Best Friend Stopped Talking To Me Cos I Refused To Marry Her Brother" - Lady by Baronthecelebri: 2:30pm On Apr 30, 2023
Because he's broke

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Re: "My Best Friend Stopped Talking To Me Cos I Refused To Marry Her Brother" - Lady by VinnyBaba: 3:23pm On Apr 30, 2023
Girls Friendships are Always weak like Soft Eba. 😕

If u ask many Ladies to Produce their Childhood friends of 2003 or 2013, they CAN'T.

because they have Quarrelled over Flimsy issues. undecided

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Re: "My Best Friend Stopped Talking To Me Cos I Refused To Marry Her Brother" - Lady by Killerbag36: 3:38pm On Apr 30, 2023
B4 cor
Re: "My Best Friend Stopped Talking To Me Cos I Refused To Marry Her Brother" - Lady by Nobody: 3:41pm On Apr 30, 2023
Is it by force to marry her brother? Friendship is not by force, if it's not clicking again then go your separate ways
Re: "My Best Friend Stopped Talking To Me Cos I Refused To Marry Her Brother" - Lady by Folzye(m): 8:34pm On Apr 30, 2023
Baronthecelebri:
Because he's broke

Lol, na the truth be this... They are always looking for money

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