Adejoncy01:


I'm broke today. She never even told me why we can't be together, and I never asked.

GreatVocalist:

I also finally let go of someone I made a habit yesterday, so we're both in a similar situation. The difference is we were in a relationship -- a mildly toxic one.

I had "let her go" almost a billion times, but somehow I kept finding myself back with her. She'd say she loves me, but she was very passive, unlike me who was practically head over heels. Whenever I tried to talk about it, she'd give cold shoulders. Each time I walked away, foolish me would follow my heart, forget my head and get back into a relationship I wasn't happy in.

I decided to finally walk away 'cause I got so sick of complaining, she told me I nagged a lot so I had to pipe down. Made so many mistakes too, but I admitted and made the decision to change. However, that decision hinged on her willingness to change, but she didn't. She barely admitted her wrong actions.

Last night, I had it and I had to ghost her. I really hope I stand my ground, 'cause I took a different approach this time around.

Sorry I had to make this about me. Like you, I'm also hurting, and I had no intention to share this anywhere. Reading about your situation urged me.

I also need you to know that you're not alone, and lots of people have been where you are, even in worse situations (like mine). I've decided not to get involved with any lady emotionally for at least 5 years. . Ambitious, but not impossible, and I suggest you do the same bro.

The right one will come at the right time. Just focus on improving yourself to more advanced versions.

Good luck!

advanceDNA:


Daddy's baby girl?? Nigga dont be a pvssy.
.....u made urself over-available to her....so there was nothing else she would get from dating you..
. oh!!! Wait...u were thinking she what of ur love and penís?? No naaaa...when u are an overly attentive and caring guy...u can never be sexually appealing to them......they will just use u as advice-machine, boredom location, free money, free food, and a free place to watch movies/charge phone when there's no light

Bur wait...dont tell us u also spent money on her?? If yes...baba..how much be total??

Justkatty:
I never wanted to reply you but as God liveth you shall have no peace.
The tears of my daughter shall continue to hunt you for the rest of your life.

If you gave me a dime from when I took in till I birthed this girl, I'll have no peace but if you didn't whatever you wish for me, you shall get it in thousands fold.

Ebuka for the last time do not mention me again.
Leave me and leave me alone.

Adejoncy01:


LOL... Calm down. She never jokingly asked for money or anything. Besides, I don't even have to give. My gestures towards her was on my own accord and reward for the things she do for me.

But you are right that I gave her too much attention though. I made it look like she was special even though no one is, actually.

Adejoncy01:


I know. The thing is I fell in love with her before I learnt game. And I couldn't change how I related with her.

Adejoncy01:


I'm broke today. She never even told me why we can't be together, and I never asked.

Justkatty:
Aren't you ashamed of yourself?
Keep embarrassing yourself not my business anymore.
I won't come here to exchange words with you.
Please I'm begging you in the name of God, I thought you are done with me?
Why going about mentioning me on every post?
Please try and rest.
Face your life and leave me alone is that too difficult?

PureFace1:



You made so many mistakes

You are a real AFC and Beta

Never ever put a woman on a pedastal, when you make a woman believe she is special, yes she would believe she is too special to date you, she would believe she can do better and can get a better man than you, she would believe she is not on your level and she is even doing you a favor by interacting with you.

Women don't like dating men they believe is below their level they like dating up.

If you don't learn from your mistakes it will happen again.

Buskynwa:



True

i used the above to know the kinda woman im dealing with,heck i even told her ive never had any romantic relationship with anyone and then put her on pedestal,women fail this a lot
any woman who passes such test is a true woman but i doubt there is

PureFace1:


They can't help but to feel that way.

The interpretation of your words and actions on subconscious level determine the level of attraction women will have for you.

Don't ever reveal the number of women you have been together with when they ask you or say you haven't been in a relationship when they ask you. Find a way around it in a funny way or just tell them you have been in a relationship with some women and you have some women around and leave the rest to their imagination.


Women want what other women want, if you say you haven't been in a relationship. They would wonder why and it would lower their interest in you, they may even think it is because you have issues and it is problems with you, they can't help but to think that way and they would lose interest and attraction for you . Women see men being in a lot of relationships with other women as a sign of high value, it will Pique their interest in you, it is only opposite when it come to men.

Men see women in a lot of relationships with other guys as a slut but reverse is the case with women, women interest and attraction in a guy increase when they notice you are in a relationship with other women, so whenever women ask you a question to know if you have been in a relationship or single, it is a trap. If you must answer it just say you have some women around but nothing serious, don't ever say you don't have any woman around.

Adejoncy01:
So, yesterday, 8th of May, 2023, I finally decided to let go of someone I've made an habit. It's been over six years I met her.

We've been very good friends and kind to each other in our ways. The thing is, I fell in love with her deeply, and she said she doesn't feel the same towards me. We talk for hours. The flow was too smooth. We understand each other to a great level. I still find it difficult to believe she didn't feel a thing for me.

I decided to kill my feelings for her and keep her as a friend. It didn't just work.

I recently knew she's now in a relationship with someone else. She told me.

And I can no longer remain friends with her.

So, I finally decided to let go of someone I've made an habit. I needed to.

I'm saying this here, maybe the pain will go out a little bit.


I feel so much pains. Farewell, girl. I'd miss you. Let me wish you well, from afar.

Do know that Daddy wish you well always, Daddy's baby girl.

We meet to part...

Adejoncy01:
So, yesterday, 8th of May, 2023, I finally decided to let go of someone I've made an habit. It's been over six years I met her.

We've been very good friends and kind to each other in our ways. The thing is, I fell in love with her deeply, and she said she doesn't feel the same towards me. We talk for hours. The flow was too smooth. We understand each other to a great level. I still find it difficult to believe she didn't feel a thing for me.

I decided to kill my feelings for her and keep her as a friend. It didn't just work.

I recently knew she's now in a relationship with someone else. She told me.

And I can no longer remain friends with her.

So, I finally decided to let go of someone I've made an habit. I needed to.

I'm saying this here, maybe the pain will go out a little bit.


I feel so much pains. Farewell, girl. I'd miss you. Let me wish you well, from afar.

Do know that Daddy wish you well always, Daddy's baby girl.

We meet to part...

Tenrack:
bro this wasn't necessary.

Autobot05:


You should work on The bolded... work on being emotionally mature to continue the friendship on your own terms ... ( make it a once in a while thingy )
Now you also work on being the best version of yourself and become a better person in all ways including looks and finance.

She'll come back one day ... but be ready and yunno what to do na nack her with all ur strength till you pass out

Check my siggy

Lvgirl:
So painful

When will you commite suicide

advanceDNA:


Chaii...u also lost money??
If na guy....una go pay for each other drink from time to time....hang out and have fun...business fit show....una fit borrow each other money... reasin serious things....

But Women!! U date them ..u will lose...
U are just a friend...they will still collect...

Bros..how much in total?..just audit urself and let us know how u mumu for that girl ..no lie ooo

Adejoncy01:
So, yesterday, 8th of May, 2023, I finally decided to let go of someone I've made an habit. It's been over six years I met her.

We've been very good friends and kind to each other in our ways. The thing is, I fell in love with her deeply, and she said she doesn't feel the same towards me. We talk for hours. The flow was too smooth. We understand each other to a great level. I still find it difficult to believe she didn't feel a thing for me.

I decided to kill my feelings for her and keep her as a friend. It didn't just work.

I recently knew she's now in a relationship with someone else. She told me.

And I can no longer remain friends with her.

So, I finally decided to let go of someone I've made an habit. I needed to.

I'm saying this here, maybe the pain will go out a little bit.


I feel so much pains. Farewell, girl. I'd miss you. Let me wish you well, from afar.

Do know that Daddy wish you well always, Daddy's baby girl.

We meet to part...

Adejoncy01:



Like, the thought of disconnecting from the girl alone is so painful. This is someone I've made an habit. I've never gotten close to a girl like her before. I just didn't know why that girl didn't yield. She was too kind to tell me she didn't have any feelings for me.

FREDCLSSICO7:

for him not to tell you how much
I believe say that guy spend a lot on that babe
he invested so much on her fah
school fees, house rent and feeding fee😂
after all this the babe no even pity am cut kpekus give am even if na one rounds to do

Mcslize:
With what is going on in this country, some guys are still having the mind to fall in love.

Wonder they say will never.....

Sweetvie:
Bro, how una take dey catch this kind feelings sef? I wan learn🤧🤦
Mak I dey wait for one girl for 6years...

FREDCLSSICO7:


the guy too dey emotional

FREDCLSSICO7:

lol
the thing sef dey wonder me o

FREDCLSSICO7:

I swear
all this small pikin love
the guy too dey emotional

GrammarNazi1:

Normally, women are not capable of love.

Women are only capable of survival.

GreatVocalist:

I also finally let go of someone I made a habit yesterday, so we're both in a similar situation. The difference is we were in a relationship -- a mildly toxic one.

I had "let her go" almost a billion times, but somehow I kept finding myself back with her. She'd say she loves me, but she was very passive, unlike me who was practically head over heels. Whenever I tried to talk about it, she'd give cold shoulders. Each time I walked away, foolish me would follow my heart, forget my head and get back into a relationship I wasn't happy in.

I decided to finally walk away 'cause I got so sick of complaining, she told me I nagged a lot so I had to pipe down. Made so many mistakes too, but I admitted and made the decision to change. However, that decision hinged on her willingness to change, but she didn't. She barely admitted her wrong actions.

Last night, I had it and I had to ghost her. I really hope I stand my ground, 'cause I took a different approach this time around.

Sorry I had to make this about me. Like you, I'm also hurting, and I had no intention to share this anywhere. Reading about your situation urged me.

I also need you to know that you're not alone, and lots of people have been where you are, even in worse situations (like mine). I've decided not to get involved with any lady emotionally for at least 5 years. . Ambitious, but not impossible, and I suggest you do the same bro.

The right one will come at the right time. Just focus on improving yourself to more advanced versions.

Good luck!