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I Get Laid But Can't Get A Girlfriend by YourWriter: 7:24am On May 12, 2023
Getting a girlfriend for me seems like a rocket science. According to my experience, it's been far more easier for me to get laid than get someone to be in a relationship with me.
There's been 3 instances where I get rejected by the girls I was constantly fucking. Why is this happening to me? I just need my own personal person, I'm tired of these flings!

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Re: I Get Laid But Can't Get A Girlfriend by Reminderz: 7:52am On May 12, 2023
you said there were 3 instances when you were rejected by the women you were having sex with...

I think the problem with most men these days is that, they can't differentiate girls looking for serious relationship from girls just looking for flings or fun... most girls these days are just looking for who they are gonna be fvcking constantly while the guy take them on an adventurous ride... if you approach girls like this for relationship, they will friendzone you because you'll sound low value to them, unless they are the one requesting for the relationship themselves... you're already fvcking these women, if they want more than just sex, they would be the one to bring it up, not you..

see ehn, before you can even be sure of the intention a girl has towards you, you have to role with her first.. I'm not talking in a friendship way, you have to relate with her as if you're already dating or fvcking, that's how you'll get her to open herself to you.. and don't be too quick to formally ask for a relationship from girls, role with them with the bad boy style, when they are reciprocating, they will tell you if they are in just for the fun or for a serious relationship as well... learn game, learn how to deal with women, learn women language, you'll see that they are very easy to role with and not in anyway complicated...

finally, find a purpose which keeps you busy, relationship should be secondary in your life as a man and stay away from fornication..

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Re: I Get Laid But Can't Get A Girlfriend by chatinent: 7:58am On May 12, 2023
As you stumble upon a delicate flower, you extend an invitation to dance with fate, or perhaps let destiny's threads weave their way. But to ravage the petals and then offer a courtship? Even a mere child could discern the wolf in sheep's clothing.

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Re: I Get Laid But Can't Get A Girlfriend by IyaTola: 7:58am On May 12, 2023
First ask yourself why you need a girlfriend?

What do you expect from her? Love? Emotional support? Sex?

If you need something anyone of these then sorry bro you are out of the league. This selfish and cruel world searches for providers for their needs not the needy ones. If you are a provider then you wouldn't have asked this question. You are a needy person and everyone can sense that. Nobody wants to be with a such kind of person. Movies, stories and quotes are for providing dopamine rush. People will say they want to love, provide emotional support bla bla bla but in reality they need those stuffs. Let them speak, don't go by their words.

Instead create your own value, such a high value that you don't need anything from anybody when you will have everything that others need they will come to you and you will become selective to pick the best one.

Best of luck 🤞

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Re: I Get Laid But Can't Get A Girlfriend by QuinModah(f): 8:00am On May 12, 2023
Being single is far better than being in relationship.

Here’s a fun fact, 50% of your male ancestors did not produce offspring but 99% of your female ancestors did. That means half of the men who ever existed never had girlfriends. Women, not men are more selective in their partners meaning that the highest rated individual males in a given category were deemed average by most women. What does this mean? It means you are not alone however given the options, maybe being alone is better.

But it also means you have to compete, romance, have a sense of humor, stay in shape, be social, get outside and into the sun. You need to learn how the world works and memorize all the things. You have to want it and you have to earn it. It will not be given to you.

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Re: I Get Laid But Can't Get A Girlfriend by Solofresh2: 8:47am On May 12, 2023
Stop giving yourself headache about women.If you ask a lady out and she turns you down then you move to the next one.Stop chasing women up and down.You will always meet beautiful women as long as you live and everyone of them cannot turn you down

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Re: I Get Laid But Can't Get A Girlfriend by Karleb(m): 11:35am On May 12, 2023
QuinModah:
Being single is far better than being in relationship.

Here’s a fun fact, 50% of your male ancestors did not produce offspring but 99% of your female ancestors did. That means half of the men who ever existed never had girlfriends. Women, not men are more selective in their partners meaning that the highest rated individual males in a given category were deemed average by most women. What does this mean? It means you are not alone however given the options, maybe being alone is better.

But it also means you have to compete, romance, have a sense of humor, stay in shape, be social, get outside and into the sun. You need to learn how the world works and memorize all the things. You have to want it and you have to earn it. It will not be given to you.

This statistics is mainly for European and American.

Here in Africa, even cripple men have multiple wives and it has been happening since time immemorial.

Our realities are different from the whites.

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Re: I Get Laid But Can't Get A Girlfriend by eepeepook: 11:45am On May 12, 2023
Good. Life is not so difficult.
Re: I Get Laid But Can't Get A Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:46am On May 12, 2023
Maybe you are a one-minute man or you have body odour🤧🤧

Not a husband/boyfriend material
Re: I Get Laid But Can't Get A Girlfriend by MJluv(f): 12:24pm On May 12, 2023
chatinent:
As you stumble upon a delicate flower, you extend an invitation to dance with fate, or perhaps let destiny's threads weave their way. But to ravage the petals and then offer a courtship? Even a mere child could discern the wolf in sheep's clothing.

Very poetic. Are you a poet?

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Re: I Get Laid But Can't Get A Girlfriend by wonder233: 12:33pm On May 12, 2023
I no sure say this your comment na for the simple toto and prick story wey I just read
chatinent:
As you stumble upon a delicate flower, you extend an invitation to dance with fate, or perhaps let destiny's threads weave their way. But to ravage the petals and then offer a courtship? Even a mere child could discern the wolf in sheep's clothing.

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Re: I Get Laid But Can't Get A Girlfriend by FalseProphet1(m): 12:36pm On May 12, 2023
You have a Spirit wife and each time you want to get a girlfriend, she becomes jealous. I would suggest that you come to my spiritual center so that I can offer prayers for you and banished the agents of the dark forces operating in your love life.

This I have seen.

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Re: I Get Laid But Can't Get A Girlfriend by Nobody: 1:35pm On May 12, 2023
You live a wayward life
Re: I Get Laid But Can't Get A Girlfriend by MasterShifu010(m): 1:59pm On May 12, 2023
You don’t need girlfriend as long as your getting laid whenever you want , unless your ready for marriage .

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Re: I Get Laid But Can't Get A Girlfriend by Drifter02: 2:18pm On May 12, 2023
QuinModah:
Being single is far better than being in relationship.

Here’s a fun fact, 50% of your male ancestors did not produce offspring but 99% of your female ancestors did. That means half of the men who ever existed never had girlfriends. Women, not men are more selective in their partners meaning that the highest rated individual males in a given category were deemed average by most women. What does this mean? It means you are not alone however given the options, maybe being alone is better.

But it also means you have to compete, romance, have a sense of humor, stay in shape, be social, get outside and into the sun. You need to learn how the world works and memorize all the things. You have to want it and you have to earn it. It will not be given to you.

Compete? On top say man dey find girlfriend? Utter rubbish.

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Re: I Get Laid But Can't Get A Girlfriend by ProphetM0hammad: 5:42pm On May 12, 2023
QuinModah:
Being single is far better than being in relationship.

Here’s a fun fact, 50% of your male ancestors did not produce offspring but 99% of your female ancestors did. That means half of the men who ever existed never had girlfriends. Women, not men are more selective in their partners meaning that the highest rated individual males in a given category were deemed average by most women. What does this mean? It means you are not alone however given the options, maybe being alone is better.

But it also means you have to compete, romance, have a sense of humor, stay in shape, be social, get outside and into the sun. You need to learn how the world works and memorize all the things. You have to want it and you have to earn it. It will not be given to you.

So you are saying he doesn't make the cut in the dating world now

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Re: I Get Laid But Can't Get A Girlfriend by QuinModah(f): 8:59pm On May 14, 2023
undecided
Drifter02:


Compete? On top say man dey find girlfriend? Utter rubbish.

Re: I Get Laid But Can't Get A Girlfriend by QuinModah(f): 8:59pm On May 14, 2023
Karleb:


This statistics is mainly for European and American.

Here in Africa, even cripple men have multiple wives and it has been happening since time immemorial.

Our realities are different from the whites
.
lipsrsealed

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Re: I Get Laid But Can't Get A Girlfriend by THEGALADIMA(m): 11:28pm On May 16, 2023
I love your write up here.
Easy to understand words and so catchy, it shows you are a top-notch writer.







chatinent:
As you stumble upon a delicate flower, you extend an invitation to dance with fate, or perhaps let destiny's threads weave their way. But to ravage the petals and then offer a courtship? Even a mere child could discern the wolf in sheep's clothing.
Re: I Get Laid But Can't Get A Girlfriend by chatinent: 11:46pm On May 16, 2023
THEGALADIMA:
I love your write up here.
Easy to understand words and so catchy, it shows you are a top-notch writer.







❤️
Re: I Get Laid But Can't Get A Girlfriend by anthonyuncle(m): 10:05am On May 17, 2023
I was once in a similar situation.

it basically boils down to value and personality.

should I go deeper?
Re: I Get Laid But Can't Get A Girlfriend by YourWriter: 5:31am On May 20, 2023
anthonyuncle:
I was once in a similar situation.

it basically boils down to value and personality.

should I go deeper?

Yes, please.
Re: I Get Laid But Can't Get A Girlfriend by anthonyuncle(m): 12:59pm On May 25, 2023
YourWriter:


Yes, please.

ok.
while in school, I used to be the guy who kept relationships/ friendship with ladies in different categories of: sex only, academics only, spiritual or church only, and food only.
I didn't mix both at a time.
if I'm having an academic relationship with a lady, all our discussions and engagements will be centered on academics only.

it was a good way to build up my personality(so I thought) until one day, I was discussing with a lady I was having a sexual relationship with and she said: "if no be because of your big prick, wetin I go dey use you dey do" .
I felt insulted.
this means that the only value she saw that I had to offer was sex and intimacy.
I was top 10 in my department (there were some courses that even the best come to me for clarifications).
I was the leader of a group in my church.
I was the exemplary youth in terms of modesty where I stay(both in school and home).
I was a solid shoulder to lots of people(young and old).
yet, to this lady, I was just an item of pleasure.
when she looks at me, every other part of me is invincible except my d!ck.
it wasn't her fault but mine because, that was what I showed her.

this opened my eyes to the fact that I wasn't offering sustainable value to lots of people around me.
from then, I made a resolution to give sustainable value to people.
I also decided never to have sex with someone that I can't marry.
(before then, I have never seen sex or women as a trophy).
but this decision on sex made me scrutinise a lady way more(like I want to marry her) before deciding to bed her.
sex to me was no longer an issue of the number of times I had it or its frequency, but an issue of the person I was having it with.
it also help me to increase my desired standard in women very high to the extent that ladies in the youth groups i belonged to in my church gossiped between themselves that they were below the standard I wanted(I got to know about this few months ago).


since then till date,
i offer my brains first.
if you are not comfy with it, you won't get the other parts of me.

ladies are the major beneficiaries of sex.
if you know, accept and practice this as a guy, sexual intercourse won't be a big deal to you.

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