Good day, my people. Pls I really need advice from u guys. I am 34 years plus, never been in a relationship. As a matter of fact, I am a virgin.
Presently, there is a particular family in which the mother wants me to date her daughter. I just lost my job,I don't have much of cash presently, and going into a relationship now, I am really confused. The girl is really into me. I really don't know if I should accept this. I am just confused.Pls help me out.

Modified

Relationship kick-started.After like three days,
She just told me last night that she loves me via a message.I have not even replied up till now.I am beginning to sense that I may lose my virginity soonest o.

Star4lyf:
Good day, my people. Pls I really need advice from u guys. I am 34 years plus, never been in a relationship. As a matter of fact, I am a virgin.
Presently, there is a particular family in which the mother wants me to date her daughter. I just lost my job,I don't have much of cash presently, and going into a relationship now, I am really confused. The girl is really into me. I really don't know if I should accept this. I am just confused.Ple help me out.

Your confusion will last for many years. Why? Because you don't have experience dating Nigerian girls. You need at least 5-7 years experience before you consider marriage

Star4lyf:
Good day, my people. Pls I really need advice from u guys. I am 34 years plus, never been in a relationship. As a matter of fact, I am a virgin.
Presently, there is a particular family in which the mother wants me to date her daughter. I just lost my job,I don't have much of cash presently, and going into a relationship now, I am really confused. The girl is really into me. I really don't know if I should accept this. I am just confused.Ple help me out.

Whats the cause of this ur panic?
Is it ur lack of experience?? Or ur lack of job...u need money to pay her for agreeing to date you abi??

What if u have a job now..and u start dating and later lose the job.....u go kii yourself...??

Low self worth is worrying you.... women eat men like u for breakfast

Draslo:

Your confusion will last for many years. Why? Because you don't have experience dating Nigerian girls. You need at least 5-7 years experience before you consider marriage

34 plus, hv never been in a relationship before so what u can't do for yourself someone now giving it to you for free no stress at all, you now come nairaland come dey stress urself.....see guy everybody get matter to fix this ur type I no understand walai

Guy,Leave that woman and her daughter and run to the nearest SEMINARY Convent....You no need person to tell you, you'll be useful to the faith.

Star4lyf:
Good day, my people. Pls I really need advice from u guys. I am 34 years plus, never been in a relationship. As a matter of fact, I am a virgin.
Presently, there is a particular family in which the mother wants me to date her daughter. I just lost my job,I don't have much of cash presently, and going into a relationship now, I am really confused. The girl is really into me. I really don't know if I should accept this. I am just confused.Ple help me out.

u shld try her out, but not before u sit her down nd explain the kinda person u are nd ur true financial position....

and also prepare ur mind sh will later dump u...thats if u dont piick up urself in 6-8 months....its normal eith ladies, they date for opportunities not for love..only men love

Being jobless and going into a relationship are two things that shouldn't be thought of . Op, don't be deceived into believing that true love doesn't matter whether there's money or not......Las las,money beautifies love..., without money,fvck love...

Star4lyf:
Good day, my people. Pls I really need advice from u guys. I am 34 years plus, never been in a relationship. As a matter of fact, I am a virgin.
Presently, there is a particular family in which the mother wants me to date her daughter. I just lost my job,I don't have much of cash presently, and going into a relationship now, I am really confused. The girl is really into me. I really don't know if I should accept this. I am just confused.Ple help me out.

My brother pls start with ashawo first 1k per round. That is where we great men all started from. They will teach you the basics. What do I mean. After smiling with you outside she will start shouting at u inside to do fast. Some will call u dog. It's all good , we all pass thru it. After u are done for like 3years then u can start dating secondary sch girls . This one's will teach you patience cos of too much drama. After this university girls , this one's will teach u how to spot a liar. This will happen after you have been.lied to several times. Then single mothers, this one comes with entitlement mentality. After all this process you will be qualified for married/dating Nigeria girls.
After marriage please proceed to older women. This should happen after many years of marriage. They are the PENCOM of dating. A very sure and reliable retirement plan for every dude.

I wish u all the best

advanceDNA:


Whats the cause of this ur panic?
Is it ur lack of experience?? Or ur lack of job...u need money to pay her for agreeing to date you abi??

What if u have a job now..and u start dating and later lose the job.....u go kii yourself...??

Low self worth is worrying you.... women eat men like u for breakfast

Not that I am having low self esteem,but I really don't know if the timing isn't right or because of my financial challenge.

Draslo:

Your confusion will last for many years. Why? Because you don't have experience dating Nigerian girls. You need at least 5-7 years experience before you consider marriage

I really don't have experience,but I have been close to ladies.Anyways, what u said is a big blow o

blacksam01:



u shld try her out, but not before u sit her down nd explain the kinda person u are nd ur true financial position....

and also prepare ur mind sh will later dump u...thats if u dont piick up urself in 6-8 months....its normal eith ladies, they date for opportunities not for love..only men love

Tanx very much.I will try dat.Thumbs up

Star4lyf:

I really don't have experience,but I have been close to ladies.Anyways, what u said is a big blow o

It's the truth. Experience matters

Lvgirl:




My brother pls start with ashawo first 1k per round. That is where we great men all started from. They will teach you the basics. What do I mean. After smiling with you outside she will start shouting at u inside to do fast. Some will call u dog. It's all good , we all pass thru it. After u are done for like 3years then u can start dating secondary sch girls . This one's will teach you patience cos of too much drama. After this university girls , this one's will teach u how to spot a liar. This will happen after you have been.lied to several times. Then single mothers, this one comes with entitlement mentality. After all this process you will be qualified for married/dating Nigeria girls.
After marriage please proceed to older women. This should happen after many years of marriage. They are the PENCOM of dating. A very sure and reliable retirement plan for every dude.

I wish u all the best

Na so experience dey be? Na suicide be dat. The one I dey fight against na to carry body go ashawo center. My caution for long na make ashowo no be the person wey go make me lose my virginity.That one go make person addicted to them.

Sonnobax15:

Being jobless and going into a relationship are two things that shouldn't be thought of . Op, don't be deceived into believing that true love doesn't matter whether there's money or not......Las las,money beautifies love..., without money,fvck love...

So what is your advice for me na?

Lvgirl:




My brother pls start with ashawo first 1k per round. That is where we great men all started from. They will teach you the basics. What do I mean. After smiling with you outside she will start shouting at u inside to do fast. Some will call u dog. It's all good , we all pass thru it. After u are done for like 3years then u can start dating secondary sch girls . This one's will teach you patience cos of too much drama. After this university girls , this one's will teach u how to spot a liar. This will happen after you have been.lied to several times. Then single mothers, this one comes with entitlement mentality. After all this process you will be qualified for married/dating Nigeria girls.
After marriage please proceed to older women. This should happen after many years of marriage. They are the PENCOM of dating. A very sure and reliable retirement plan for every dude.

I wish u all the best

Which kind of nonsensical advice is this one? We are looking for ways to curb the moral decadence in the society this day. Here you're dishing out an advice to mar the situation.

Star4lyf:
Good day, my people. Pls I really need advice from u guys. I am 34 years plus, never been in a relationship. As a matter of fact, I am a virgin.
Presently, there is a particular family in which the mother wants me to date her daughter. I just lost my job,I don't have much of cash presently, and going into a relationship now, I am really confused. The girl is really into me. I really don't know if I should accept this. I am just confused.Ple help me out.

See if the girl is really into you, please give it a chance and see how it goes. For the mother to approve her daughter to date means she is ok with you personality and character. Don’t let your financial issues stop you trying, infact you'll build natural love and bonding when you don't involve money spending and S3x. Just try it.

Please don't listen to those saying go and explore first. There is nothing to explore there. And where is it written in the holy book that one must involve in premarital s3x before he/she can enjoy sexual life?

All this things are natural and ordained from God to make marriage blissful and any couple who are sexually attracted to each other before marriage will know how to do anything.

Star4lyf:

Not that I am having low self esteem,but I really don't know if the timing isn't right or because of my financial challenge.

I asked u earlier...what if u have already started dating her before losing u your job....??

Does that mean u will break up immediately and call her back when u get another job again??

Dont carry the mentality that u must have plenty money to pay a woman to be in a relatiinship with you......its whats making u feel less than capable or insecure of going into a relatiinship now.....

Una go dey put broke women wey no get anything untop high pedestal, making them feel u are not qualified to even talk to them because u dont have plenty money to pay....

Give it a chance first naaa..she go kii you because u are searching for another job?? Abi she ask for ur bank statement??

This may sound funny, but it's the truth. I know two guys who are virgins, one is 27yrs and the other, 30yrs old who have never kissed a girl. I can swear for one though.

But my honest opinion, never rush into marriage because the mom and daughter sees you as good. What is their reason, focus and grow yourself first.

Is she your spec?
Do you see yourself settling down with her soonest?

You should be more focused on sorting out your finances. The reason they’re into you is because they think you still have a job, don’t be deceived!

Star4lyf:
Good day, my people. Pls I really need advice from u guys. I am 34 years plus, never been in a relationship. As a matter of fact, I am a virgin.
Presently, there is a particular family in which the mother wants me to date her daughter. I just lost my job,I don't have much of cash presently, and going into a relationship now, I am really confused. The girl is really into me. I really don't know if I should accept this. I am just confused.Ple help me out.

Baba, listen to this guy's story and you will figure out what to do. He was exactly in your situation. Thank me later


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sryz0jjIXlU

Star4lyf:
Good day, my people. Pls I really need advice from u guys. I am 34 years plus, never been in a relationship. As a matter of fact, I am a virgin.
Presently, there is a particular family in which the mother wants me to date her daughter. I just lost my job,I don't have much of cash presently, and going into a relationship now, I am really confused. The girl is really into me. I really don't know if I should accept this. I am just confused.Ple help me out.

Making money is simple sha, just know where the world is heading to and arrive there earlier. Get soft skills, buy a land, even if you make six figures, pls lieeee o... Lie to the lady and your folks that you make half of your actual Money, so that you can have peace and also you can see true colors. I feel you're an introvert, so you need extrovert friends.

You need real nigggaaa friends who gat your back. They can arrange from SFS or codedrunnns for you and the lady will have mind-blowing sex with you to help your life.

Dont date family friend daughter oooooo because it will Guilt trip you into marriage.


Biko run from family friend daughter. Because no matter what goes wrong.... Na beggi beggi them go use manipulate you.

If you were in delta state, i could have taken you to churches where you can straff female pastors, virgin sisters, and choir members till you're tired.

You need to master the ways of women so you can create your own technique to manipulate the manipulators.

Asides that, make sure any girl you sleep with or date is farr from your home location and not a mutual friend to any mutual person you may know. To avoid nonsense.

For me i work remotely, so i am free to bleep women easily and since i drink lots of healthy herbal drinks, even secondary schools girls are still loyal to me years after gaining university admissions because i know how to out them to sleep after making their legs shake.

fyzaila:



See if the girl is really into you, please give it a chance and see how it goes. For the mother to approve her daughter to date means she is ok with you personality and character. Don’t let your financial issues stop you trying, infact you'll build natural love and bonding when you don't involve money spending and S3x. Just try it.

Please don't listen to those saying go and explore first. There is nothing to explore there. And where is it written in the holy book that one must involve in premarital s3x before he/she can enjoy sexual life?

All this things are natural and ordained from God to make marriage blissful and any couple who are sexually attracted to each other before marriage will know how to do anything.

Tanx for this.I am really thinking starting a relationship with her without engaging in sex, or we leave sex for now,but maybe later. May God help me o.....But she desires sex in the relationship. According to what she told me. She even said that it's not all the time.

advanceDNA:


I asked u earlier...what if u have already started dating her before losing u your job....??

Does that mean u will break up immediately and call her back when u get another job again??

Dont carry the mentality that u must have plenty money to pay a woman to be in a relatiinship with you......its whats making u feel less than capable or insecure of going into a relatiinship now.....

Una go dey put broke women wey no get anything untop high pedestal, making them feel u are not qualified to even talk to them because u dont have plenty money to pay....

Give it a chance first naaa..she go kii you because u are searching for another job?? Abi she ask for ur bank statement??

It would be nice starting without money in mind.Let me see how it will go.I just hope she understands.

Zigzagman:


Baba, listen to this guy's story and you will figure out what to do. He was exactly in your situation. Thank me later


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sryz0jjIXlU

Tanx.I will check it out.

woginid967:


Making money is simple sha, just know where the world is heading to and arrive there earlier. Get soft skills, buy a land, even if you make six figures, pls lieeee o... Lie to the lady and your folks that you make half of your actual Money, so that you can have peace and also you can see true colors. I feel you're an introvert, so you need extrovert friends.

You need real nigggaaa friends who gat your back. They can arrange from SFS or codedrunnns for you and the lady will have mind-blowing sex with you to help your life.

Dont date family friend daughter oooooo because it will Guilt trip you into marriage.


Biko run from family friend daughter. Because no matter what goes wrong.... Na beggi beggi them go use manipulate you.

If you were in delta state, i could have taken you to churches where you can straff female pastors, virgin sisters, and choir members till you're tired.

You need to master the ways of women so you can create your own technique to manipulate the manipulators.

Asides that, make sure any girl you sleep with or date is farr from your home location and not a mutual friend to any mutual person you may know. To avoid nonsense.

For me i work remotely, so i am free to bleep women easily and since i drink lots of healthy herbal drinks, even secondary schools girls are still loyal to me years after gaining university admissions because i know how to out them to sleep after making their legs shake.

You have a point der.But I don't have the luxury of time to want to be bleeping around, so help me God. I don't have much years at my disposal.Let me just try her out.

Star4lyf:
Good day, my people. Pls I really need advice from u guys. I am 34 years plus, never been in a relationship. As a matter of fact, I am a virgin.
Presently, there is a particular family in which the mother wants me to date her daughter. I just lost my job,I don't have much of cash presently, and going into a relationship now, I am really confused. The girl is really into me. I really don't know if I should accept this. I am just confused.Ple help me out.

Sonnobax15:

Being jobless and going into a relationship are two things that shouldn't be thought of . Op, don't be deceived into believing that true love doesn't matter whether there's money or not......Las las,money beautifies love..., without money,fvck love...

What if the new girl will bring him luck. He has nothing to lose. He should give that girl a trial. It's better for the girl to love the guy more as in this case. This is a window, grab it

Star4lyf:
Good day, my people. Pls I really need advice from u guys. I am 34 years plus, never been in a relationship. As a matter of fact, I am a virgin.
Presently, there is a particular family in which the mother wants me to date her daughter. I just lost my job,I don't have much of cash presently, and going into a relationship now, I am really confused. The girl is really into me. I really don't know if I should accept this. I am just confused.Ple help me out.

Son..u want us to help u find puccccccci BECOZ u r confuse... correct? Ok we are confuse. are u confuse BECUZ u are confuse by confusing Yor sef confused by the whole confusion confusing confuse issue or u juss cofusely confused by confirmation to confuse sir?(no offenscce)

wisdomkid:
This may sound funny, but it's the truth. I know two guys who are virgins, one is 27yrs and the other, 30yrs old who have never kissed a girl. I can swear for one though.

But my honest opinion, never rush into marriage because the mom and daughter sees you as good. What is their reason, focus and grow yourself first.

Is she your spec?
Do you see yourself settling down with her soonest?

Not that I am rushing into marriage.It is just a relationship I have never been into.At least, relationship comes first before thinking of marriage when we both are compatible.If not, no marriage o

eniolorunfe:
You should be more focused on sorting out your finances. The reason they’re into you is because they think you still have a job, don’t be deceived!

Hmmmmmm. I will tell her how it is.If she wants to continue no problem. I am presently learning a course which I hope will help me financially in distance time.