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He Refuses To Work But Wants To Marry Me- Woman Regrets 5yr Relationship by Dimaya: 9:41pm On May 21, 2023

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a-xRVjaadKU

In a podcast video that has gone viral, a young lady commented that she held on to a 5yr relationship with a "lazy" man for no reason. He has been unemployed and broke for the past 5 years.

The story flips as she concludes that she now gets annoyed anytime she sees anyone expressing love over phone calls

Watch full the video above.
Re: He Refuses To Work But Wants To Marry Me- Woman Regrets 5yr Relationship by Zigzagman: 9:59pm On May 21, 2023
and when did she realise he was lazy?

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Re: He Refuses To Work But Wants To Marry Me- Woman Regrets 5yr Relationship by Dimaya: 10:11am On May 22, 2023
After she started paying for everything.
Re: He Refuses To Work But Wants To Marry Me- Woman Regrets 5yr Relationship by Dimaya: 10:12am On May 22, 2023
Zigzagman:
and when did she realise he was lazy?

I have always said that women are not designed to take care of men financially
Re: He Refuses To Work But Wants To Marry Me- Woman Regrets 5yr Relationship by Zigzagman: 10:15am On May 22, 2023
What did she expect. The man is from benue state.

The relationship was even long distance.

who engages in a long distance relationship with someone living in benue state?

Dimaya:


I have always said that women are not designed to take care of men financially

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Re: He Refuses To Work But Wants To Marry Me- Woman Regrets 5yr Relationship by Dimaya: 10:21am On May 22, 2023
This generation sha undecided undecided

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Re: He Refuses To Work But Wants To Marry Me- Woman Regrets 5yr Relationship by Zigzagman: 10:22am On May 22, 2023
Dimaya:
This generation sha undecided undecided

Kids grin
Don't worry she'll calm down.
Re: He Refuses To Work But Wants To Marry Me- Woman Regrets 5yr Relationship by Zigzagman: 10:24am On May 22, 2023
When dem dey rush you market, if you get Sense sell am, make He no go be say customer go finish you go come dey regret why you no take some deals.

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Re: He Refuses To Work But Wants To Marry Me- Woman Regrets 5yr Relationship by Dimaya: 10:25am On May 22, 2023
Zigzagman:
When dem dey rush you market, if you get Sense sell am, make He no go be say customer go finish you go come dey regret why you no take some deals.

Dem don serve u breakfast, move on to dinner grin
Re: He Refuses To Work But Wants To Marry Me- Woman Regrets 5yr Relationship by Zigzagman: 10:26am On May 22, 2023
Dimaya:


Dem don serve u breakfast, move on to dinner grin

After my last experience in relationship, I will, don't go for looks or body features, you will end up regretting it...

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Re: He Refuses To Work But Wants To Marry Me- Woman Regrets 5yr Relationship by Dimaya: 10:27am On May 22, 2023
Zigzagman:


After my last experience in relationship, I will, don't go for looks or body features, you will end up regretting it...

Lmao your breakfast was hot ehn? This is just all talk for now when you move on you will go right back to your old ways.

There is a reason billionaires and millionaires go for pretty women. How a man’s woman look is a direct reflection on the man. That is why rich men like to take their pretty wives/gfs to lavish parties etc automatically there’s this level of respect that come with been seen with a pretty woman.
Re: He Refuses To Work But Wants To Marry Me- Woman Regrets 5yr Relationship by Zigzagman: 10:28am On May 22, 2023
Dimaya:


Lmao your breakfast was hot ehn? This is just all talk for now when you move on you will go right back to your old ways.

There is a reason billionaires and millionaires go for pretty women. How a man’s woman look is a direct reflection on the man. That is why rich men like to take their pretty wives/gfs to lavish parties etc automatically there’s this level of respect that come with been seen with a pretty woman.


make i no talk
Re: He Refuses To Work But Wants To Marry Me- Woman Regrets 5yr Relationship by Dimaya: 10:29am On May 22, 2023
Dimaya:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a-xRVjaadKU

In a podcast video that has gone viral, a young lady commented that she held on to a 5yr relationship with a "lazy" man for no reason. He has been unemployed and broke for the past 5 years.

The story flips as she concludes that she now gets annoyed anytime she sees anyone expressing love over phone calls

Watch full the video above.

This right here is a problem…. She’s so full of herself.
Re: He Refuses To Work But Wants To Marry Me- Woman Regrets 5yr Relationship by Zigzagman: 10:30am On May 22, 2023
Zigzagman:


make i no talk

She's obviously still fukin different dicks and monitoring the poor guy's life. What a pity
Re: He Refuses To Work But Wants To Marry Me- Woman Regrets 5yr Relationship by Dimaya: 10:30am On May 22, 2023
Zigzagman:


make i no talk

Women are programmed to believe there is someone better out there for them.
Re: He Refuses To Work But Wants To Marry Me- Woman Regrets 5yr Relationship by Zigzagman: 10:31am On May 22, 2023
Dimaya:


Women are programmed to believe there is someone better out there for them.

What happened was a normal situation and it happened to many, first of all she was young and I bet the marriage would have crashed if the had gone ahead because the feeling of being chocked would have been there, and she would have continue to look for freedom to experience something different. Secondly, she is only regretting because she has experience the other side , if she has not experience the other side, her decision then would have been the best in her mind till now.
Re: He Refuses To Work But Wants To Marry Me- Woman Regrets 5yr Relationship by Zigzagman: 10:33am On May 22, 2023
Okafor’s law is always paramount tho..
Infact, it’s very much alive here. The lady is wanting some d of that ex as we speak..
Re: He Refuses To Work But Wants To Marry Me- Woman Regrets 5yr Relationship by Dimaya: 10:34am On May 22, 2023
Zigzagman:
Okafor’s law is always paramount tho..
Infact, it’s very much alive here. The lady is wanting some d of that ex as we speak..

She was just young and naive. She should just move on and take the learning. She should stop blaming herself. That's the cross we as human have to bear especially women. Pray for divine intervention in marital affairs. Parents should also pray for the girl child after doing their best in upbringing
Shalom
Re: He Refuses To Work But Wants To Marry Me- Woman Regrets 5yr Relationship by Zigzagman: 10:35am On May 22, 2023
Dimaya:


She was just young and naive. She should just move on and take the learning. She should stop blaming herself. That's the cross we as human have to bear especially women. Pray for divine intervention in marital affairs. Parents should also pray for the girl child after doing their best in upbringing
Shalom

99% of women only realizes that they were actually the problem in a relationship after break up, while in there they won't accept or realize it.

If you like call the whole community to talk to her, instead of owning up to her mistakes she will use manipulative emotions to curry pity to her side

All these Men-are-Scum feminists are actually the scum in any relationship, they hardly learn!

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Re: He Refuses To Work But Wants To Marry Me- Woman Regrets 5yr Relationship by Dimaya: 10:23am On Jul 06, 2023
Zigzagman:


99% of women only realizes that they were actually the problem in a relationship after break up, while in there they won't accept or realize it.

If you like call the whole community to talk to her, instead of owning up to her mistakes she will use manipulative emotions to curry pity to her side

All these Men-are-Scum feminists are actually the scum in any relationship, they hardly learn!

If the guy had paid for everything, we won't have heard anything o

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Re: He Refuses To Work But Wants To Marry Me- Woman Regrets 5yr Relationship by Dimaya: 6:45pm On Jul 06, 2023
Zigzagman:
What did she expect. The man is from benue state.

The relationship was even long distance.

who engages in a long distance relationship with someone living in benue state?


Benue people will not forgive you o grin

Just saw the shots you fired up there angry

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Re: He Refuses To Work But Wants To Marry Me- Woman Regrets 5yr Relationship by Zigzagman: 1:17pm On Jul 07, 2023
Dimaya:


Benue people will not forgive you o grin

Just saw the shots you fired up there angry

It's true now. Benue men from Gboko are very strong and hardworking. But everybody else, sorry oh
Re: He Refuses To Work But Wants To Marry Me- Woman Regrets 5yr Relationship by pansophist(m): 1:33pm On Jul 07, 2023
There should be a threshold of what you can give during a relationship, and you also need to understand yourself, to know if you can let things go after a breakup. You don put the cart before the horse.

Instead of trying to get things back, give it in the first place. If they leave, they leave with what you are comfortable loosing. She try sha, being with a lazy man.

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Re: He Refuses To Work But Wants To Marry Me- Woman Regrets 5yr Relationship by advanceDNA: 1:40pm On Jul 07, 2023
Dimaya:


If the guy had paid for everything, we won't have heard anything o

Lol..... whats that statement they usually make

" she did not force him naa"..... so madam...did this Benue man force you??

Men don manage score one point against women.. grin ... this does not even compensate for all the years men have been scammed of their hard earned money in the name of dating women that are allergic to paying their own bills

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Re: He Refuses To Work But Wants To Marry Me- Woman Regrets 5yr Relationship by Nobody: 2:00pm On Jul 07, 2023
Benue guys are naturally lazy, come to my hood and see them doing either gigolo,houseboy and gateman jobs in thier youthful age sad wtf!
Re: He Refuses To Work But Wants To Marry Me- Woman Regrets 5yr Relationship by Zigzagman: 4:32pm On Jul 07, 2023
I had to go back to watch the video again to find out that the guy was an Igede man.

Igede men are the laziest men you can ever meet in Benue state. Lazy men. all dem sabi na to f*ck and nothing else.
Re: He Refuses To Work But Wants To Marry Me- Woman Regrets 5yr Relationship by Dimaya: 6:38pm On Jul 07, 2023
Not all igede men
Re: He Refuses To Work But Wants To Marry Me- Woman Regrets 5yr Relationship by Dimaya: 8:10pm On Jul 07, 2023
Zigzagman:
I had to go back to watch the video again to find out that the guy was an Igede man.

Igede men are the laziest men you can ever meet in Benue state. Lazy men. all dem sabi na to f*ck and nothing else.


Wait here let the Benue people catch you
Re: He Refuses To Work But Wants To Marry Me- Woman Regrets 5yr Relationship by orjibra1: 11:30am On Jul 13, 2023
A man can marry a jobless woman, but a woman cannot marry a jobless man. It's a man's world still
Re: He Refuses To Work But Wants To Marry Me- Woman Regrets 5yr Relationship by Anuoluwapo296(m): 11:41am On Jul 13, 2023
bro chill you sound a patriarchy wake up to the ecosystem
tongue tongue tongue
orjibra1:
A man can marry a jobless woman, but a woman cannot marry a jobless man. It's a man's world still
Re: He Refuses To Work But Wants To Marry Me- Woman Regrets 5yr Relationship by skj1377(m): 11:47am On Jul 13, 2023
Is this thread to promote this podcast??. People say all manner of things during podcast. Anyways good luck to her.
Re: He Refuses To Work But Wants To Marry Me- Woman Regrets 5yr Relationship by orjibra1: 11:47am On Jul 13, 2023
Try lose your job first and see how long your wife's love will last

Anuoluwapo296:
bro chill you sound a patriarchy wake up to the ecosystem
tongue tongue tongue

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