Before sacrificing to make the best out of your family and closed ones, make sure you are putting more efforts to make the best of yourself first.

in the end you will realise that all your sacrifices, the certificates and job opportunities you forfeited just to make sure your loved ones are properly fed or educated or health challenges been taken care of means nothing to them.
you will last last realise that all the fun you denied yourself, all the designers you refused to wear not because you are not fashionable but just because you have to make provision for that loved one.

in the end, you will realise that these sacrifices that has altered your life means so little or nothing at all to these people you did it all for.
don't blame them, they are not being ungrateful, it is in our nature as blacks to see help from mostly elderly relatives and loved once as rights and obligation, it is the black man nature, if you were in their shoes you would also act same.

the best is to always put YOU first in all that you do, act wise.
develop yourself first.

if na street, last last some of these people will tell you, 'guy, you looseguard'

normal brother.. as a guy man, you need to take care of yourself first... you can't take water from an empty container... you need to be okay first before you can extend an helping hand, else you'll die before your time..

this is why I laugh at broke men or simp adding a girlfriend to their responsibility when they are not okay themselves.. it's a shame.

put yourself first, because in the end, only you care about you.. what you eat into your body and do for yourself is what you can comfortably claim to be yours...

Reminderz:
normal brother.. as a guy man, you need to take care of yourself first... you can't take water from an empty container... you need to be okay first before you can extend an helping hand, else you'll die before your time..

this is why I laugh at broke men or simp adding a girlfriend to their responsibility when they are not okay themselves.. it's a shame.

put yourself first, because in the end, only you care about you.. what you eat into your body and do for yourself is what you can comfortably claim to be yours...

you know as e dey go baba.

Reminderz:
normal brother.. as a guy man, you need to take care of yourself first... you can't take water from an empty container... you need to be okay first before you can extend an helping hand, else you'll die before your time..

this is why I laugh at broke men or simp adding a girlfriend to their responsibility when they are not okay themselves.. it's a shame.

put yourself first, because in the end, only you care about you.. what you eat into your body and do for yourself is what you can comfortably claim to be yours...

You deserve a Grammy award on this.... You just won my heart!!❤️