osmosis101:



Gambling or drugs?

I resemble drug addict
Gambling 30 percent
Family prob 70 percent

Davizee:

My younger brother misplaced the sim card I used for registration so the only way is to Print the original slip which I haven't been able to raise money for.
I learned a little of graphic design, I tried saving money to get a laptop but all my savings blew in the wind
Now I am confused and frustrated

Okay. I believe the first step is to get your old SIM card replaced and check your JAMB result. I believe that is what you can talk to your parents about because your JAMB result is the most important at this moment. They should help you sort that out.

On a related note, where are you based in Nigeria?

Fembleez1:


Okay. I believe the first step is to get your old SIM card replaced and check your JAMB result. I believe that is what you can talk to your parents about because your JAMB result is the most important at this moment. They should help you sort that out.

On a related note, where are you based in Nigeria?

They have no help to render and I don't have the money
If you check my previous post you will see the kind of situation I am in
I stay in lagos and I am looking for somebody I can work under for an interim period
I just want to leave that house
I don't know if you can help me sir
I hate it when parents compare their children to other children which their parents support but they can't help

osmosis101:
U go automatically forget ur papa and mama training and take the hustle like do or die affair

What is the first move to make please

Davizee:

They have no help to render and I don't have the money
If you check my previous post you will see the kind of situation I am in
I stay in lagos and I am looking for somebody I can work under for an interim period
I just want to leave that house
I don't know if you can help me sir
I hate it when parents compare their children to other children which their parents support but they can't help

You have to get a CV and look for a job, even if it is a Cleaning job or Sales Attendant, so you can save up or get going. If you need my assistance with applying for jobs, I can do that for you. You see, you have to take some first steps in life so people can help you. I started looking for jobs at 17 almost a year after I left secondary school with my friends in Lagos, and that way I saved up for some exams I wrote then, and a lot of other stories I will not divulge right now.

You don't have to leave your parent's House at 19 except if you want to end up a nuisance and a thief or go into illegal activities. And there is really no coming back once you choose to head along that path, except for God's redemption. Going to work daily is enough respect that your parents will appreciate, and will help you reduce the insults you face from them.

Fembleez1:


You have to get a CV and look for a job, even if it is a Cleaning job or Sales Attendant, so you can save up or get going. If you need my assistance with applying for jobs, I can do that for you. You see, you have to take some first steps in life so people can help you. I started looking for jobs at 17 almost a year after I left secondary school with my friends in Lagos, and that way I saved up for some exams I wrote then, and a lot of other stories I will not divulge right now.

You don't have to leave your parent's House at 19 except if you want to end up a nuisance and a thief or go into illegal activities. And there is really no coming back once you choose to head along that path, except for God's redemption. Going to work daily is enough respect that your parents will appreciate, and will help you reduce the insults you face from them.

Okay sir
I will need your assistance in getting one.
Are you in lagos sir

Davizee:

Okay sir
I will need your assistance in getting one.
Are you in lagos sir

Yes.

I noticed I have read one of your threads before and I had to just go back and read all your topics. Many people have offered to help you in the past, why are you still stuck and still lamenting with different threads? Sincerely, you need to change your mindset and get something tangible doing before it becomes too late for you. You are a boy and will soon be a man. You have to have motivations that you want to be better than your dad or right the wrongs in your family. Whining each and every day without taking positive steps will render you useless one day and you will be worst than your dad. At 19, there are values you can add to yourself.

See, poverty or the poor has no friend or sympathy. If you do not take the baton to fight it, you will be worst for it. And when I say there is no sympathy for a poor man. If you are hungry and you steal just a loaf of bread, you will be sent to prison. Your motive (hunger) will be irrelevant.

I don't know what you are doing gambling when you have no source of income or what to fall back on.

You are the architect of your own life. A time will come when your father will be no more to blame for your woes, and it will dawn on you that you are the one to blame.

You see I hate negative people in my life. So if you know you are not going to change or make headway with your life, I have no business with you. So decide what you plan to do with your life young man.

frozen70:


Honestly I will if that's what he wants

Make I paste aza baami, belle don tear 🙏🙏

Fembleez1:


Yes.

I noticed I have read one of your threads before and I had to just go back and read all your topics. Many people have offered to help you in the past, why are you still stuck and still lamenting with different threads? Sincerely, you need to change your mindset and get something tangible doing before it becomes too late for you. You are a boy and will soon be a man. You have to have motivations that you want to be better than your dad or right the wrongs in your family. Whining each and every day without taking positive steps will render you useless one day and you will be worst than your dad. At 19, there are values you can add to yourself.

See, poverty or the poor has no friend or sympathy. If you do not take the baton to fight it, you will be worst for it. And when I say there is no sympathy for a poor man. If you are hungry and you steal just a loaf of bread, you will be sent to prison. Your motive (hunger) will be irrelevant.

I don't know what you are doing gambling when you have no source of income or what to fall back on.

You are the architect of your own life. A time will come when your father will be no more to blame for your woes, and it will dawn on you that you are the one to blame.

You see I hate negative people in my life. So if you know you are not going to change or make headway with your life, I have no business with you. So decide what you plan to do with your life young man.

I stopped gambling a long time ago
Speaking of help, nobody rendered me help
I was working somewhere before where they pay me 10k but I had to stop just to prepare for JAMB in which the preparation wasn't effective
I just pray the result is positive
I started gambling out of desperation to make ends meet bu. I learnt my lesson
As it stands now I am ready to do any work
I stay around alimosho LGA

Davizee:

I stopped gambling a long time ago
Speaking of help, nobody rendered me help
I was working somewhere before where they pay me 10k but I had to stop just to prepare for JAMB in which the preparation wasn't effective
I just pray the result is positive
I started gambling out of desperation to make ends meet bu. I learnt my lesson
As it stands now I am ready to do any work
I stay around alimosho LGA

I thought Chatinent sent you an email to help teach you writing. And you were learning a skill with a laptop before, where is the laptop?

Davizee:
What is the first move to make please

U go far away from home

Fembleez1:

I thought Chatinent sent you an email to help teach you writing. And you were learning a skill with a laptop before, where is the laptop?

He actually gave me his whatsapp number but after my bigger Android got spoilt I couldn't follow up
I learnt the skill in a cyber Cafe
Thought I will be able to afford a laptop so that I learn and start remote jobs but it didn't work out

Fembleez1:


You have to get a CV and look for a job, even if it is a Cleaning job or Sales Attendant, so you can save up or get going. If you need my assistance with applying for jobs, I can do that for you. You see, you have to take some first steps in life so people can help you. I started looking for jobs at 17 almost a year after I left secondary school with my friends in Lagos, and that way I saved up for some exams I wrote then, and a lot of other stories I will not divulge right now.

You don't have to leave your parent's House at 19 except if you want to end up a nuisance and a thief or go into illegal activities. And there is really no coming back once you choose to head along that path, except for God's redemption. Going to work daily is enough respect that your parents will appreciate, and will help you reduce the insults you face from them.

I'm following your advice and concern dear. You're really trying to change his and other people's lives

Peacecore:
I'm following your advice and concern dear. You're really trying to change his and other people's lives

Great to hear.

Davizee:

He actually gave me his whatsapp number but after my bigger Android got spoilt I couldn't follow up
I learnt the skill in a cyber Cafe
Thought I will be able to afford a laptop so that I learn and start remote jobs but it didn't work out

Why not still follow up with him by email when you have another phone?

Fembleez1:


Why not still follow up with him by email when you have another phone?

I did but I didn't get any reply

Fembleez1:


Great to hear.

Keep it up!

Davizee:

I did but I didn't get any reply

Okay. What course did you fill in JAMB? I am giving you a few days to decide what you want to do. Then reach out to me via mention or send me a message through my email on Nairaland Send Message features.

Fembleez1:


Okay. What course did you fill in JAMB? I am giving you a few days to decide what you want to do. Then reach out to me via mention or send me a message through my email on Nairaland Send Message features.

Computer science
I am very enthusiastic to learn anything pertaining to computer

Davizee:

Computer science
I am very enthusiastic to learn anything pertaining to computer

Okay. Tech skills are what you may want to consider but you don't have a laptop. Anyways, take the first step, get a CV, and let me know what's up.

Gadafii:
■ Leaving your comfort zone to go face reality, many things you go learn for street, te best university in the world can’t teach you

When you enter street, and learn the ropes well, you are supposed to be wise on many fronts, your hustling spirit go tight because nobody go send your papa for street, some people dey aje am Conor fro streets enter highbrow and porshe neighborhood, some Dey perish for there, I pray we all make it out of the streets, because we don too dey inside mud too much we deserve to sparkle 💖

How many people you know of entered streets and came back the way you describe?

as a male child dont waste ur time applying for admision in nigerian university when there is no body willing and able to finance ur studies until you graduate. even if u manage to start, u wil eventually drop out at some point due to lack of finance to continue and by then the money and time that uve invested already wil be in vain. i recomend male children whose parent cannot support their university education to go learn a skill or trade upon graduation from secondary education. they can go to university part-time later when they are financialy stable.

Fembleez1:


Okay. Tech skills are what you may want to consider but you don't have a laptop. Anyways, take the first step, get a CV, and let me know what's up.

Okay sir
I still have two copies of CV left

Davizee:

Okay sir
I still have two copies of CV left

Do you have a soft copy of it that you can send?

In addition, to hasten the process. As we send out CVs online, I will want you to approach any of those guys that work as cleaners in the Bank. Talk to them and ask that you will also like to work as a cleaner if the person can direct you to any of their agencies or Boss, whom you can submit your CV to.

Two, make copies of the CV. Well, when you send me a soft copy, I will see if there is a need for any adjustments. After making copies of it, you look for any eatery such as Chicken Republic, Tastee Fried Chicken, or any of those top eateries, ask for their HR or ask the security or anyone who works there that you will like to submit your CV for a job and they should kindly direct you to the person you can submit your CV to.

Thirdly, go to any supermarket around and do the same as number two above.

Kindly note that you will have to attach an application letter to the CV you will be submitting as stated above. To the Bank, "Application for the post of a Cleaner," For the Eatery, it could be "Application for the position of a Sales Attendant" or "Application for the post of a Cleaner," For The supermarket, you use any of the above or "Application for the Position of a Cashier."

If you really are serious about getting a job and leaving your comfort zone, you are not lazy and you are willing to work with me as directed and make it a target you want to get a job before the end of June, you will get it.

And keep all these plans to yourself and pray to God to show you his favour before the end of June.

Fembleez1:


Do you have a soft copy of it that you can send?

In addition, to hasten the process. As we send out CVs online, I will want you to approach any of those guys that work as cleaners in the Bank. Talk to them and ask that you will also like to work as a cleaner if the person can direct you to any of their agencies or Boss, whom you can submit your CV to.

Two, make copies of the CV. Well, when you send me a soft copy, I will see if there is a need for any adjustments. After making copies of it, you look for any eatery such as Chicken Republic, Tastee Fried Chicken, or any of those top eateries, ask for their HR or ask the security or anyone who works there that you will like to submit your CV for a job and they should kindly direct you to the person you can submit your CV to.

Thirdly, go to any supermarket around and do the same as number two above.

Kindly note that you will have to attach an application letter to the CV you will be submitting as stated above. To the Bank, "Application for the post of a Cleaner," For the Eatery, it could be "Application for the position of a Sales Attendant" or "Application for the post of a Cleaner," For The supermarket, you use any of the above or "Application for the Position of a Cashier."

If you really are serious about getting a job and leaving your comfort zone, you are not lazy and you are willing to work with me as directed and make it a target you want to get a job before the end of June, you will get it.

And keep all these plans to yourself and pray to God to show you his favour before the end of June.

Okay sir
Thank you very much, I really appreciate sir
I will try to send a soft copy
God bless Sir

Davizee:

Okay sir
Thank you very much, I really appreciate sir
I will try to send a soft copy
God bless Sir

Please update me on the steps you have taken so far by Thursday. Thanks and Regards

donbachi:
Where people do wrong for good reason and do good for the wrong reasons.

It's a lie, it depends on what you are entering street for.

Sometimes people enter street to go and do yahoo, other times it can mean leaving office or salary work to go and hustle.


For me, I was an office worker on a 60k salary a month but I wasn't satisfied, while on the job I was still attending interviews until one day I decided to quit and used my little savings to start up something. I told myself I would be entering streets to hustle like a school dropout and that I did and I am glad I made that decision.

I am into business now and 10 times better than before

Anonymoususher:


It's a lie, it depends on what you are entering street for.

Sometimes people enter street to go and do yahoo, other times it can mean leaving office or salary work to go and hustle.


For me, I was an office worker on a 60k salary a month but I wasn't satisfied, while on the job I was still attending interviews until one day I decided to quit and used my little savings to start up something. I told myself I would be entering streets to hustle like a school dropout and that I did and I am glad I made that decision.

I am into business now and 10 times better than before

in all sincerity?

donbachi:
in all sincerity?

Yes, with all sincerity but I look darker compared to before because of sun battering but I look well fed now

Anonymoususher:


Yes, with all sincerity but I look darker compared to before because of sun battering but I look well fed now

What kind of business is very profitable

You should be ready to do jobs your friends will consider stressful.
You have to lower your ego, forget your school cert and do jobs like bricklaying, carpentry, hawking, akara Frying, welding, driving etc

At first, people will look down on you and make you feel you are worthless, but the moment you are cashing out from your hustle and start achieving things, dem go humble and start respecting you.

Fembleez1:


Please update me on the steps you have taken so far by Thursday. Thanks and Regards

Goodday sir
I wasn't able to get a soft copy of my CV
Will a picture of it be useful sir?