After planning on how to bleep this banny I discovered that she was virgin with no experience with sex
She's always uncomfortably tight no matter the pre-intimacy and her willingness
I have never push her but every time she insists on trying, cries in pain, gives up then cries for feeling useless and sexless
Her gynecologist said the cause is psychological but she's too scared to visit a psychotherapist
She's extremely self aware about it and feels inadequate and tries to "make up" in other means but I want her to feel comfortable with herself
What can I do to help her?

This yeye boy again

Tell her to chill and stop putting pressure on herself to have sex now. When the right time and person comes along it won't be this mentally draining. She doesn't have any psychological or whatever issue you think she has. The anxiety she's feeling may just be indicative of the fact that it's not the right time and/or person. So she should chill.

Trophy 🏆 beer will do the needful