Prettygirl200:
Whatever you say here won't change the fact that Nigerian men aren't worth dating More than 6month so REST!!!

I don't quite agree with @aswani to some of his point in believeing that the lady is to be blamed for allowing sex in the first place.from my experience when you are in relationships both parties try do do things to make it work which gives rooms for compromise from either or both partners.
In essence no point to judge or blame anyone cos it takes two to make things work also you ladies clamoring for 6 months dating cycle isn't bad though but one size don't fits all (if you get what I mean )so there's need for us to be diplomatic and not rigid in whatever we choose to do . peace out!

aswani:


Make una two softly press di neck abeg

I disagree with you inferring sex between two consenting Naija adults is one doing the other a favour because they both initiate and enjoy it at various times.

Yes. Adult for adult, it's mostly consensual.
But when a man pressurize a woman to give her body before marriage. Saying he must taste what he's pricing or about to buy. You guys play on the mind. I ll keep educating females never to give in. If I can't give in, they can too. My advocating ll help some.

I agree with you, but some women are to be blame. They'll leave responsible guys for bad guys. Well you're talking from experience.😎

Goodlady:

Yes. Adult for adult, it's mostly consensual.
But when a man pressurize a woman to give her body before marriage. Saying he must taste what he's pricing or about to buy. You guys play on the mind. I ll keep educating females never to give in. If I can't give in, they can too. My advocating ll help some.

Granted I am not a woman but like I responded to Anti Prettygirl200, a woman with self esteem so low that she accepts being pressured into sex by a man based on the promise of marriage has bigger problems than we are discussing.

I stand behind you gidigba in saying women should not give in to men asking for sex if they themselves wouldn't enjoy it.

You and I both know that if Davido (for example) posts in this same thread now that he will be at so and so hotel at 11pm tonight and any Naija woman that wants to have (unprotected) sex with him should come and meet him there, ńa prettygirl200 go first reach the queue, you sef go bí second.

Una no go remember say una dey give am free pussy and he no go propose afta six months of nacking. In fact na him bodyguard go chase Una two comot for di room say na anoda babe turn.

I come in peace ó.

Wotoporiously speaking

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Happy Sunday to you too

Though the sorrows may last for a night but joy commeth in the morning 😂

Don't worry your husband is coming, don't cry you hear 😂🤣

aswani:


Granted I am not a woman but like I responded to Anti Prettygirl200, a woman with self esteem so low that she accepts being pressured into sex by a man based on the promise of marriage has bigger problems than we are discussing.

I stand behind you gidigba in saying women should not give in to men asking for sex if they themselves wouldn't enjoy it.

You and I both know that if Davido (for example) posts in this same thread now that he will be at so and so hotel at 11pm tonight and any Naija woman that wants to have (unprotected) sex with him should come and meet him there, ńa prettygirl200 go first reach the queue, you sef go bí second.

Una no go remember say una dey give am free pussy and he no go propose afta six months of nacking. In fact na him bodyguard go chase Una two comot for di room say na anoda babe turn.

I come in peace ó.

just shut it, like I said before you have no point and that makes Nigerian men USELESS!!

Prettygirl200:
Know what you want, six months is long enough for a guy to know you and for you to know a guy and determine or define what u want in that relationship, relationship isn't marriage that you should be with a guy for three to four years doing what exactly? Fucking you continuously for these number of years? These men are time wasters they know you are in your prime and will use sweet word's to keep you in their nest, milking you dry why preparing to get married to another.

Dear ladies it's called relationship, dating which simply means getting to know each other. Six months is enough for you guys to know each other and determine if the guy is ready to marry you or not. Don't waste all of your prime with one man that doesn't deserve you and when he's tired of eating you will quickly go Marry another lady and you will be left heartbroken. These things are the reasons we have so many women that broken 💔 out there because they gave one man their best years which was wasted and ended up not yielding anything.
You should be counting years in marriage not relationships, your prime is the best time to build yourself, if you want to abstain from relationship do that, but if you must date, your dating period shouldn't exceed six months, that's a whole lot of time to know the kind of guy you are with.

Also remember during dating or relationships you are single, you owe no man your loyalty untill you are married to him. You can only be loyal to a man you are very very sure is loyal to you if not, you owe no man any loyalty, you are open to any other relationships. Dating a guy for too long won't make him marry you or take you serious, they will only sleep with you when they get tired they discard you, come online and call you names, you are beautiful ❤️ you don't deserve such men. Please Ladies I know we are emotional beings but it's good you date with your head, and not your emotions it has left a lot of ladies broken,know what you want.

MEN ARE TIME WASTERS!!!!

So if a girl and a guy have sex, it is only the guy that benefits, why the girl is being used? 🤡

Girls, don't put your eggs in one basket, in other words; Have multiple partners... 🤡

As a girl, always change partners every 6 months... 🤡

Prettygirl200:
just shut it, like I said before you have no point and that makes Nigerian men USELESS!!

OK no vex, na Goodlady go bi number 1 for dat Davido queue, you yaself go bí number 2.

My point stands regardless, women enjoy sex as much as men if not more. Una no go tok say di man useless wen he wan kill himself as he dey Jack una well well and una dey enjoy am.

Prettygirl200:
That's my point, these men know this lady is not marriageable oh I can't tolerate her, I can't manage her why not just let her go? They won't do that they did continue to give her hope making her to believe she's good enough and will end up wasting the innocent Ladies time. That's why am telling them, dating for too long is rubbish, it doesn't make any sense.

What is @bolded doing here?

Goodlady:
If you say that again I ll press your neck.

cum 'n press

Dzzzz:
Please madam be honest...What have you ever done in your relationship for you to wake up and say this??..Mention the things you have done for a man in your life?

Most people who rant about marriage in 6months don't have any means to support billings that come with marriage. Infact most are unemployed or underemployed especially in society like Nigeria.

Making a marriage decision isn't just what you wake up and do, you need to have your short term and long term marriage goals in play before venturing and incorporating all financial liabilities and assets to be incurred during the pendency of the marriage.

I'm sure if you ask those shouting marriage in 6months to foot all the bills in the first year of marriage they all will run away into their closets.

They want another to incure responsibilities and liabilities while putting themselves off and still refer to it as partnership, no that's sole proprietorship. The sole proprietor should be allowed to determine the timeline the business venture will kick-off.

All I see are just ran through oloshos that nobody wants to marry see how they are crying...they claim marriage is not an achievement yet they want us to date with purpose...shior? Olosho dey talk say make we date them with purpose😂😂 Dey play

Prettygirl200:
Know what you want, six months is long enough for a guy to know you and for you to know a guy and determine or define what u want in that relationship, relationship isn't marriage that you should be with a guy for three to four years doing what exactly? Fucking you continuously for these number of years? These men are time wasters they know you are in your prime and will use sweet word's to keep you in their nest, milking you dry why preparing to get married to another.

Dear ladies it's called relationship, dating which simply means getting to know each other. Six months is enough for you guys to know each other and determine if the guy is ready to marry you or not. Don't waste all of your prime with one man that doesn't deserve you and when he's tired of eating you will quickly go Marry another lady and you will be left heartbroken. These things are the reasons we have so many women that broken 💔 out there because they gave one man their best years which was wasted and ended up not yielding anything.
You should be counting years in marriage not relationships, your prime is the best time to build yourself, if you want to abstain from relationship do that, but if you must date, your dating period shouldn't exceed six months, that's a whole lot of time to know the kind of guy you are with.

Also remember during dating or relationships you are single, you owe no man your loyalty untill you are married to him. You can only be loyal to a man you are very very sure is loyal to you if not, you owe no man any loyalty, you are open to any other relationships. Dating a guy for too long won't make him marry you or take you serious, they will only sleep with you when they get tired they discard you, come online and call you names, you are beautiful ❤️ you don't deserve such men. Please Ladies I know we are emotional beings but it's good you date with your head, and not your emotions it has left a lot of ladies broken,know what you want.

MEN ARE TIME WASTERS!!!!

Repeatedly calling men time wasters as if you wont still marry a man..a man can marry you after 1 month of knowing you and divorce you the next month. nothing is guaranteed in life..these things have no formula. Just pray to meet a good and compatible partner, someone who will cherish and respect you. its the end that matters.

stop misleading people here please.

ExudeLoveToAll:



Most people who rant about marriage in 6months don't have any means to support billings that come with marriage. Infact most are unemployed or underemployed especially in society like Nigeria.

Making a marriage decision isn't just what you wake up and do, you need to have your short term and long term marriage goals in play before venturing and incorporating all financial liabilities and assets to be incurred during the pendency of the marriage.

I'm sure if you ask those shouting marriage in 6months to foot all the bills in the first year of marriage they all will run away into their closets.

They want another to incure responsibilities and liabilities while putting themselves off and still refer to it as partnership, no that's sole proprietorship. The sole proprietor should be allowed to determine the timeline the business venture will kick-off.

..When your ready you have 2big stout and 1 asun for my hand..Those who have nothing to offer make too much noise...You want a man to waste all his money on a goat that has nothing to offer except pussy and cravings..

Dzzzz:
..When your ready you have 2big stout and 1 asun for my hand..Those who have nothing to offer make too much noise...You want a man to waste all his money on a goat that has nothing to offer except pussy and cravings..

Women weren't created to offer much other than satisfy you dogs sexually, re-procreate and be a companion, therefore you can't force women to offer more than what they are created to offer. You as an animal is to offer the financial support, so do what you were created for and stop blabbing like a lunatic.

@op, good advice. But,

The idea that because a lady is not married to a man, she should not be loyal to him is where I disagree. Let's turn the table round, will you accept it?

That a man you're dating refuse to be exclusive to you just because he hasn't married you yet?

Marriage only certify your commitment to each other, and commitment doesn't start in marriage, it starts from dating.

Manuelson665:
I just read the op's position, see you ladies don't know nothing. So u would date a man for 6 months, and if he's not compatible or ready, you'll move to another.

Right??

Wow what a thought! I don't even know what to write, No wonder Shiloh is always filled with lots of your kind.... I'm just all smiles.

So, what should they continue doing together if they don't find each other compatible? Is the agenda not to move to another that she/he may find compatible in the event of finding out that they have separate values? Why are you asking slow questions?

Anyways, you are another time waster. Nothing here to see.

zed7:
You may be right, if a man is wasting your time, you're probably not his choice, he's managing you.

Women select whom to date, men select whom to marry. If he never mentions marriage or hints at a future with you, then you're a bed warmer.

Same way for men, if she's always billing you, then she's a time waster. A woman who cares will be considerate about wasting your finances.

👌💯

negaiyke:
Its a no-brainer

Any Lady that says these such things like the op and her cronies here are ladies in their late twenties and thirties.... it's an age long manipulative trick.... They use that line to progress their selfish agenda..which is to get a man to hurry and hook their spent and misused life.

A Lady in her late teens or early twenties won't wish to hurry and get married after 6 months cause their still young, so why the hurry.

But such ladies like the op would say those young girl dont know want they want...when they themselves were once young and rejected men that want short 6 mnths dating...hypocrites

Solipsism is grand display. Very typical of her kind.

I wish that men/women that date men/women for six months without marriage would be jailed. And if the time exceeds six months, the longer the time, the more severe the punishment should be.

The rules of identifying this as a crime would be that the guilty party can be proven to have made the victim believe they would marry them, then cut out of the deal after wasting their six months or more in a deliberate and callous manner, with no attempt at peacemaking or compensation.

Punishment for using another human being and wasting their time simply out of wickedness.

Prettygirl200:
Women weren't created to offer much other than satisfy you dogs sexually, re-procreate and be a companion, therefore you can't force women to offer more than what they are created to offer. You as an animal is to offer the financial support, so do what you were created for and stop blabbing like a lunatic.

...The Diary of a Nigerian broke girl...The ones out there making waves for themselves are catfish right?..Stay there and keep repping the useless gang..Cry to God to help your life and stop blaming men for your inability to strive in life.

purples25:
I wish that men/women that date men/women for six months without marriage would be jailed. And if the time exceeds six months, the longer the time, the more severe the punishment should be.

The rules of identifying this as a crime would be that the guilty party can be proven to have made the victim believe they would marry them, then cut out of the deal after wasting their six months or more in a deliberate and callous manner, with no attempt at peacemaking or compensation.

Punishment for using another human being and wasting their time simply out of wickedness.

Chineke, jailing men because they are dating longer than 6 months.

I don't even know how to start tackling this.

aswani:


Chineke, jailing men because they are dating longer than 6 months.

I don't even know how to start tackling this.

Yes. Don't you know it's a human beings time you are wasting? Besides, check the conditions which make it a crime.

Jennyclay:
Men are not time wasters, you just decided to put all your eggs in one basket and it’s wrong

A song write said, good plan is a Plan A, better plan is a Plan B. If possible you can also have a plan C

It’s good to always have a plan A,B ,C and play your card well. Honestly I’m wiser now!!

Thank God for wisdom!!

You look good.

Jennyclay:
Men are not time wasters, you just decided to put all your eggs in one basket and it’s wrong

A song write said, good plan is a Plan A, better plan is a Plan B. If possible you can also have a plan C

It’s good to always have a plan A,B ,C and play your card well. Honestly I’m wiser now!!

Thank God for wisdom!!

You are a clown, Jenny.

But, you fine sha.

Some men sef.

Only five fvcks are enough for you to determine whether or not to retain the toto. If it stinks or too elastic, find the one that suits your preek.

Prettygirl200:
Know what you want, six months is long enough for a guy to know you and for you to know a guy and determine or define what u want in that relationship, relationship isn't marriage that you should be with a guy for three to four years doing what exactly? Fucking you continuously for these number of years? These men are time wasters they know you are in your prime and will use sweet word's to keep you in their nest, milking you dry why preparing to get married to another.

Dear ladies it's called relationship, dating which simply means getting to know each other. Six months is enough for you guys to know each other and determine if the guy is ready to marry you or not. Don't waste all of your prime with one man that doesn't deserve you and when he's tired of eating you will quickly go Marry another lady and you will be left heartbroken. These things are the reasons we have so many women that broken 💔 out there because they gave one man their best years which was wasted and ended up not yielding anything.
You should be counting years in marriage not relationships, your prime is the best time to build yourself, if you want to abstain from relationship do that, but if you must date, your dating period shouldn't exceed six months, that's a whole lot of time to know the kind of guy you are with.

Also remember during dating or relationships you are single, you owe no man your loyalty untill you are married to him. You can only be loyal to a man you are very very sure is loyal to you if not, you owe no man any loyalty, you are open to any other relationships. Dating a guy for too long won't make him marry you or take you serious, they will only sleep with you when they get tired they discard you, come online and call you names, you are beautiful ❤️ you don't deserve such men. Please Ladies I know we are emotional beings but it's good you date with your head, and not your emotions it has left a lot of ladies broken,know what you want.

MEN ARE TIME WASTERS!!!!

You are saying that during the first 6 months, she can still date other men?

Prettygirl200:
Know what you want, six months is long enough for a guy to know you and for you to know a guy and determine or define what u want in that relationship, relationship isn't marriage that you should be with a guy for three to four years doing what exactly? Fucking you continuously for these number of years? These men are time wasters they know you are in your prime and will use sweet word's to keep you in their nest, milking you dry why preparing to get married to another.

Dear ladies it's called relationship, dating which simply means getting to know each other. Six months is enough for you guys to know each other and determine if the guy is ready to marry you or not. Don't waste all of your prime with one man that doesn't deserve you and when he's tired of eating you will quickly go Marry another lady and you will be left heartbroken. These things are the reasons we have so many women that broken 💔 out there because they gave one man their best years which was wasted and ended up not yielding anything.
You should be counting years in marriage not relationships, your prime is the best time to build yourself, if you want to abstain from relationship do that, but if you must date, your dating period shouldn't exceed six months, that's a whole lot of time to know the kind of guy you are with.

Also remember during dating or relationships you are single, you owe no man your loyalty untill you are married to him. You can only be loyal to a man you are very very sure is loyal to you if not, you owe no man any loyalty, you are open to any other relationships. Dating a guy for too long won't make him marry you or take you serious, they will only sleep with you when they get tired they discard you, come online and call you names, you are beautiful ❤️ you don't deserve such men. Please Ladies I know we are emotional beings but it's good you date with your head, and not your emotions it has left a lot of ladies broken,know what you want.

MEN ARE TIME WASTERS!!!!

In other claims this can work but in Nigeria its a no no no six months is not enough to know an average Nigerian girl. Remember Nigeria girls can pretend, once they start hurrying u then you should know there is danger. Sandra nearly lure me into marriage that year whereas she was actively hoeing in the hood. Men pls five years is okay or else u will marry Sandra

My dear, before you start ranting here how Faithful were you to your bf? where you submissive to him? did you do everything to please him? Did you ever discuss about were the relationship is leading to?if so, It's only a non sensible guy that will behave irrational when he sees a girl with a good heart.
There's is dis word that said, a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.... So pick-up the little pieces of your heart and move on with life.... it's never the end of d world for you.

Prettygirl200:
Women weren't created to offer much other than satisfy you dogs sexually, re-procreate and be a companion, therefore you can't force women to offer more than what they are created to offer. You as an animal is to offer the financial support, so do what you were created for and stop blabbing like a lunatic.

it is refreshing to know that sensible girls who knows what they want and what the true purpose of relationship should be still exist.
Not trying to sound like a religious bigot, but to the best of my knowledge, this exactly is how Islam intends it to be, courtship for a maximum of 6 months but with the agreement and under the supervision of the girl's parents/guardian, something I don't think Christianity mandates.
Can I DM you please @ Prettygirl200 ? Let us rub minds on the subject.