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Harsh Truths I Know At 47 I Wish Knew At 27: by SMJay: 11:37am On Jun 05, 2023
Harsh truths I know at 47 I wish knew at 27:

1) As a leader or manager, when something isn’t going to plan, the first step is to look into the mirror.

2) Business can be ruthless. Even if you play fair, don't expect others to do the same.

3) Unlocking your full potential may alienate you. Not everyone will understand or support your drive.

4) “Resilience” isn’t good enough. You must go beyond “resilient”. You must become “antifragile”, whereby the more hits you take the stronger you become.

5) Your journey will be paved with failures, rejections, and heartbreaks. You’re either winning or learning.

6) Leadership isn't about power, control, or status. It's about serving others, even when it's uncomfortable or inconvenient.

7) The world is non-linear. 20% of your actions will create 80% of your results. 20% of the people in your life will lead to 80% of your opportunity. It’s your job to identify the 20%.

cool It’s just as important to decide who you will no longer spend time with, as it is who you will.

9) Your job isn’t to master everything. Your job is to correctly identify that which should be mastered - and then find the person who’s 10x better than you at doing it.

10) Amateurs believe that feeling generates action. Professionals flip the script and know that action generates feeling. Make a decision to “Turn Pro” and take action, whether you feel like it or not.

11) To unlock your full potential, you'll have to face your own demons. It's an inner journey as much as it's an outer one.

12) Perfectionism is nothing more than procrastination in disguise. Practice deliberately “shipping before you’re ready”... that speech, that product, that plan, that presentation.

13) If you’re given 5 extra minutes on your deathbed you won’t use it to close another deal. You’ll hug your loved ones a little longer. You’ll tell them how much you love them. How much you care. Remember this, today.

14) Doing your best on the health and home fronts requires intentionality. Define what best looks like in each. And evidence it daily.

15) Relentless consistency and hard work are cornerstones of success. If you’re not where you’d like to be you’re probably not ticking both of those boxes.

16) Leadership includes making tough, unpopular decisions. It's less about being liked and more about being genuinely respected.

17) Business isn't about making money. It's about creating value. When you focus on value, the money follows.

18) Great leaders listen more than they speak. They appreciate the value of understanding different perspectives.

19) You honestly have no clue what you are capable of. Your full potential is far beyond what you believe it to be. Don't limit yourself.

20) As a leader you must role-model the behaviors you want to see. Don’t expect reliability if you’re unreliable yourself.

20 harsh truths I wish I knew 20 years ago.

Credit: Eric Partaker.

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Re: Harsh Truths I Know At 47 I Wish Knew At 27: by Dangrace01: 12:14pm On Jun 05, 2023
Great

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Re: Harsh Truths I Know At 47 I Wish Knew At 27: by lynxticy: 2:03pm On Jun 05, 2023
Insightful

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Re: Harsh Truths I Know At 47 I Wish Knew At 27: by Nobody: 2:41pm On Jun 05, 2023
Discovered all these and MORE between 29 to 31 Years.

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Re: Harsh Truths I Know At 47 I Wish Knew At 27: by Escapist(f): 6:04pm On Jun 05, 2023
Gospel

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Re: Harsh Truths I Know At 47 I Wish Knew At 27: by Hardcore11: 7:10pm On Jun 05, 2023
Nigeria will kill your dream. I just thank God for Yahoo embarassed I for still be mugu if not for the street

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Re: Harsh Truths I Know At 47 I Wish Knew At 27: by RoadMozart(m): 7:23pm On Jun 05, 2023
hmmmm Word

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Re: Harsh Truths I Know At 47 I Wish Knew At 27: by Chibuezem(m): 8:06pm On Jun 05, 2023
[quote author=SMJay post=123586034][/quote]wonderful
Thank you for giving credit to the author.
Re: Harsh Truths I Know At 47 I Wish Knew At 27: by Jackossky(m): 11:34pm On Jun 05, 2023
Discovered all this when I was 22 grin




Joker

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Re: Harsh Truths I Know At 47 I Wish Knew At 27: by Gppgn(f): 11:45pm On Jun 05, 2023
Hardcore11:
Nigeria will kill your dream. I just thank God for Yahoo embarassed I for still be mugu if not for the street
what's the use of ur filthy wealth? Without Christ you are nothing

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Re: Harsh Truths I Know At 47 I Wish Knew At 27: by OlatunjiJohn(m): 11:57pm On Jun 05, 2023
Thanks
Re: Harsh Truths I Know At 47 I Wish Knew At 27: by Gadafii: 6:25am On Jun 06, 2023
This is very insightful, I am good no to copy and paste them in my note 📝 ad and regularly read them

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Re: Harsh Truths I Know At 47 I Wish Knew At 27: by flokii: 8:40am On Jun 06, 2023
Your number 6 point is called "Servant Leadership" and is the best form of leadership ever.
Whichever leadership position one finds himself/herself should be for service to mankind, not/for show of power or to flex muscle.

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Re: Harsh Truths I Know At 47 I Wish Knew At 27: by Meerahbel: 6:18pm On Jun 13, 2023
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Re: Harsh Truths I Know At 47 I Wish Knew At 27: by Danisaint112(m): 6:28pm On Jun 13, 2023
Hardcore11:
Nigeria will kill your dream. I just thank God for Yahoo embarassed I for still be mugu if not for the street

Like seriously man? You reap people off their hard earned money and you are proud of it? undecided

Karma and curses do follow people oo. The human is a spirit and what happens in the spirit is way bigger than what happens in the physical.

If you are wise you run to God for forgiveness and refund any who have been scammed and reachable.
Re: Harsh Truths I Know At 47 I Wish Knew At 27: by DADYLEED: 8:18pm On Jun 13, 2023
Oganla pls show me small update wet go pay,make I use hold body na.Atkeast I be got family to take care of pls
Hardcore11:
Nigeria will kill your dream. I just thank God for Yahoo embarassed I for still be mugu if not for the street

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Re: Harsh Truths I Know At 47 I Wish Knew At 27: by SMJay: 4:56pm On Jun 18, 2023
wink
Chibuezem:
wonderful
Thank you for giving credit to the author.
Re: Harsh Truths I Know At 47 I Wish Knew At 27: by SMJay: 5:51pm On Jun 18, 2023
Gadafii:
This is very insightful, I am good no to copy and paste them in my note 📝 ad and regularly read them
Yes give credit to the author.
Re: Harsh Truths I Know At 47 I Wish Knew At 27: by Rubyjade: 7:27pm On Mar 17
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Re: Harsh Truths I Know At 47 I Wish Knew At 27: by austine4real(m): 8:28pm On Mar 17
cheesy cheesy

Nice 👍 bro
Re: Harsh Truths I Know At 47 I Wish Knew At 27: by VinnyBaba: 9:10pm On Mar 17
Some Nice points here. 🙂

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