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Re: Is It Proper For Your Wife To Insist She Must Be Checking Your Phone Always? by Tallesty1(m): 1:59pm On Jun 13, 2023
LordIsaac:
I think it has to do with how you begin with a woman. Your authority as her head must never be in contention else, you are gone. The Biblical Sarah called her husband Lord...never marry a woman that does not see you as her Lord.
Lmao. Quoting bible to justify nonsense.
Re: Is It Proper For Your Wife To Insist She Must Be Checking Your Phone Always? by GboyegaD(m): 1:59pm On Jun 13, 2023
otuword:
wen u are faithful u hav nothing to fear my phone is always with my wife whenever am at home I don't hav time with phone wen am at home always busy. she knows my password that is nt a problem. back to Ur questions it depends on u.

otuword:

my wife phone is always with m wife whenever am at home she knows my password I hav nothing hiding

I wonder why many only think the sensitive information you have on your phone is when you cheat. If you have friends who confide in you and you share messages, you are only exposing them and destroying friendship because in a bid to be a perfect husband, you lost your senses. Same thing applies if it is the other way round.

That said, marriage is never a concyclic circle. It is more of an intersection that grows over time. There is the me, you, and our in every marriage but when it becomes only our, it eventually chokes.

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Re: Is It Proper For Your Wife To Insist She Must Be Checking Your Phone Always? by maasoap(m): 2:00pm On Jun 13, 2023
Evestar200:
Check What? Some people just want to die before their time.

You check, you do not check who wants to cheat will cheat.
Better to check than allowing your partner to think you're mumu. No hiding of passwords and guarding of phones in the home.
If you still want to be secretive, better stay out of marriage. You can't eat your cake and have it grin grin grin

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Re: Is It Proper For Your Wife To Insist She Must Be Checking Your Phone Always? by isabi2lof: 2:01pm On Jun 13, 2023
Everytime phone wahala, una get problem, if you like have another family, na your cup of tea , I will forever mind my business.
Re: Is It Proper For Your Wife To Insist She Must Be Checking Your Phone Always? by Dracula123: 2:01pm On Jun 13, 2023
What's in the phone that forbids her from checking. Only when you cheat else why will she not have access to your phone
Re: Is It Proper For Your Wife To Insist She Must Be Checking Your Phone Always? by oluwayomisire22: 2:07pm On Jun 13, 2023
wetin concern me
anything way she see she sabi weather good or bad

na so i cry one of my girlfriend go lodge i go buy drink for bar and i was playing music on my phone
but i forgot to lock it na so this babe go dy check my phone as i enter i saw her crying immediately look i where kept
my phone i just smile and i tell her why she check my phone that my phone is onions to girls.
watin concern me i knack her like that IDAN NO DY PITY

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Re: Is It Proper For Your Wife To Insist She Must Be Checking Your Phone Always? by maasoap(m): 2:08pm On Jun 13, 2023
BabaCommander:
I honestly don't understand this type of question.
Why would your wife not know your personal phone password?

Why do people marry if they don't want to be committed?
When I realised that my wife always forgot my ATM pin despite the fact that all our pins are related to different birthdays of individuals in our home, I just wrote everything down (phone code, sim pin, atm pins, apps patterns, banking apps passwords) on a piece of paper and kept it somewhere in the house where she has access to. This life is not permanent, anything can happen at anytime.

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Re: Is It Proper For Your Wife To Insist She Must Be Checking Your Phone Always? by Holluwhakemmy(f): 2:09pm On Jun 13, 2023
talented321:
Your wife will only demand that when you are a simp
She will only demand for that when you are a womaniser
Re: Is It Proper For Your Wife To Insist She Must Be Checking Your Phone Always? by LordIsaac(m): 2:10pm On Jun 13, 2023
Mimicle101:



You are very correct on these.

And I confess that I learnt these the hard way.

The more reason my marriage is in crisis.

Last Sunday my wife called police on me and said I was following her about.

Just because I wanted to know where she was staying with my son. After she moved out from my house.

Like eh! The cross is too heavy! Wished I never carried the cross In the first place. Now it's too late as I cherish the cross that am not able to let go even though the cross it's killing me.
I understand your plight perfectly. I used to be in your shoes until God Himself delivered me when I cried unto Him.

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Re: Is It Proper For Your Wife To Insist She Must Be Checking Your Phone Always? by PepeXKermit: 2:20pm On Jun 13, 2023
talented321:
Your wife will only demand that when you are a simp

they all always somehow demand it but the ones that actually succumb are the simps.
Re: Is It Proper For Your Wife To Insist She Must Be Checking Your Phone Always? by Ephatah: 2:21pm On Jun 13, 2023
If fidelity is the goal, then it is not even a problem, he will be open. But when the man wants to cheat, then the phone becomes protected like a fortress. It's really not about checking the phone always it's about trust. If she knows she can trust the man, nothing go concern the woman with the phone sef.
Some men are just opening doors generational curses to Thier families and Thier generation. Centuries later, Thier offspring will be renouncing evil covenants their ancestors made, not knowing the said ancestors are here in the year 2023 justifying infidelity and inviting the devil in. May God have mercy.

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Re: Is It Proper For Your Wife To Insist She Must Be Checking Your Phone Always? by Lexusgs430: 2:22pm On Jun 13, 2023
A man's phone is like onions......... 🤣😜
Re: Is It Proper For Your Wife To Insist She Must Be Checking Your Phone Always? by Patokegod: 2:22pm On Jun 13, 2023
If she dey insist,.make she dey ready wear High Blood Pressure as cloth.

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Re: Is It Proper For Your Wife To Insist She Must Be Checking Your Phone Always? by HayB100(m): 2:23pm On Jun 13, 2023
GboyegaD:


You see why a spouse shouldn't be snooping. My wife has access to my phone but not to the point of trying to go snoop and vice versa. There are many other more sensitive information than cheating that lies in our phones.
Of course, that's why I said it in my comment that you should only try that with person wey get home training ✌️💯
Re: Is It Proper For Your Wife To Insist She Must Be Checking Your Phone Always? by HayB100(m): 2:24pm On Jun 13, 2023
otuword:

since hav been on nairaland u are the first person that have brain

wat u wrote is the perfect truth. I keep my family secrets from my wife no matter wat.hav learn my lesson wen we were dating.
Wow!!! I really appreciate that oh my boss, may we not end up with the wrong person, I also learnt my lesson the hard way, though I ain't married yet, but I will never ever again make such mistake

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Re: Is It Proper For Your Wife To Insist She Must Be Checking Your Phone Always? by Nobody: 2:26pm On Jun 13, 2023
How many times will this topic come up? If you insist on checking my phone the worst that will happen is that I'll send you packing from my house since you want to move mad
Re: Is It Proper For Your Wife To Insist She Must Be Checking Your Phone Always? by Lhimeet(m): 2:27pm On Jun 13, 2023
Evestar200:
Check What? Some people just want to die before their time.

You check, you do not check who wants to cheat will cheat.

Happy Birthday 🎉
Re: Is It Proper For Your Wife To Insist She Must Be Checking Your Phone Always? by shekoduza: 2:28pm On Jun 13, 2023
very proper
Re: Is It Proper For Your Wife To Insist She Must Be Checking Your Phone Always? by biotechshola(m): 2:31pm On Jun 13, 2023
Jorussia:
If i don't have any infidelity i am keeping away from her,why should i be afraid of her checking my phone?

And why should she insist ofln checking your phone if she didn't think you have any infidelity?
Re: Is It Proper For Your Wife To Insist She Must Be Checking Your Phone Always? by Arabk25: 2:35pm On Jun 13, 2023
Go ahead and check anything you see take
Re: Is It Proper For Your Wife To Insist She Must Be Checking Your Phone Always? by Arabk25: 2:36pm On Jun 13, 2023
biotechshola:


And why should she insist ofln checking your phone if she didn't think you have any infidelity?

Question?
Re: Is It Proper For Your Wife To Insist She Must Be Checking Your Phone Always? by capetownboyz(m): 2:42pm On Jun 13, 2023
Men phone de water eyes like onions
Women phone de pepper body like atarodo..
Re: Is It Proper For Your Wife To Insist She Must Be Checking Your Phone Always? by Godfullsam(m): 2:47pm On Jun 13, 2023
LordIsaac:
I think it has to do with how you begin with a woman. Your authority as her head must never be in contention else, you are gone. The Biblical Sarah called her husband Lord...never marry a woman that does not see you as her Lord.

No woman of nowadays will call lord. If a woman call you her lord, it means she is whyning you o shocked.

May be you are pumping her money and you are paying the bills as at when due..

The lordship will vanish into thin air as soon as those benefits are not fort coming

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Re: Is It Proper For Your Wife To Insist She Must Be Checking Your Phone Always? by Adesina18111(m): 2:52pm On Jun 13, 2023
Call it insecurity or immaturity...my wife has access to my phone anytime anyday and I have access to her phone...stop being too bossy to your wife...some women prefer not to check their husband phones because of heartbroken...don't worry....later when you find out the shock of your life outside phone SEBI Hypertension go kill you...I use my wife phone for games...if she has a call...and she is not there I pick for her and she does same to my phone...no issue

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Re: Is It Proper For Your Wife To Insist She Must Be Checking Your Phone Always? by OmolodMilkman93(m): 2:53pm On Jun 13, 2023
What are the odds that the people with the first two comments on this thread have the same birthday?
Re: Is It Proper For Your Wife To Insist She Must Be Checking Your Phone Always? by Vello(m): 2:55pm On Jun 13, 2023
Tpave:
Is it ideal for your wife to insist she knows your password as a husband because she wants to be checking your phone anytime she wishes?

A house wife read on the Internet how a married woman kept another lady outside for 7 years without the wife knowing and he also did not tell the lady he was married.

Some wives on the comment section threatened that they must start checking their husbands phone and he must give them the password.
It is properly ABNORMAL
Re: Is It Proper For Your Wife To Insist She Must Be Checking Your Phone Always? by Vello(m): 2:55pm On Jun 13, 2023
Tpave:
Is it ideal for your wife to insist she knows your password as a husband because she wants to be checking your phone anytime she wishes?

A house wife read on the Internet how a married woman kept another lady outside for 7 years without the wife knowing and he also did not tell the lady he was married.

Some wives on the comment section threatened that they must start checking their husbands phone and he must give them the password.
It is abnormally IMPROPER
Re: Is It Proper For Your Wife To Insist She Must Be Checking Your Phone Always? by diogo23: 2:57pm On Jun 13, 2023
Tpave:
Is it ideal for your wife to insist she knows your password as a husband because she wants to be checking your phone anytime she wishes?

A house wife read on the Internet how a married woman kept another lady outside for 7 years without the wife knowing and he also did not tell the lady he was married.

Some wives on the comment section threatened that they must start checking their husbands phone and he must give them the password.
You started it, why will you allowed it in the first place
Re: Is It Proper For Your Wife To Insist She Must Be Checking Your Phone Always? by Wealthoptulent(m): 2:58pm On Jun 13, 2023
Tpave:
Is it ideal for your wife to insist she knows your password as a husband because she wants to be checking your phone anytime she wishes?

A house wife read on the Internet how a married woman kept another lady outside for 7 years without the wife knowing and he also did not tell the lady he was married.

Some wives on the comment section threatened that they must start checking their husbands phone and he must give them the password.

No go simp oo bro.. its unhealthy for u n her!
If I must start with: is the Gamer, player u should watch out for.

U see say e no dey healthy ?

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