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This Is Why Marriage Do Not Last Nowadays by Nobody: 7:17am On Jun 14, 2023
Money matters- it is hard to stay in love in a marriage when money no dey at all-
No one is patient at all. Small arguments and they keep a grudge and no one wants to forgive.
Secrets such as my wife cannot look at my cellphone. What are you hiding? If you are not seeing another woman then there is nothing to worry about. Are you building a house that your spouse doesn't know off?

Stingy to your spouse but very generous to your family members, friends and strangers- that marriage no fit work

No one is faithful like before.

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Re: This Is Why Marriage Do Not Last Nowadays by Natbrowny: 9:56am On Jun 14, 2023
Secrets such as my wife cannot look at my cellphone.

Remove this nonsense from the list.

Its MY smartphone not OUR Smartfone.
U for say because i love my wife, make i dey use same toothbrush with her. My fone is my businessn whether i get secrets or not, she get her own too.
Re: This Is Why Marriage Do Not Last Nowadays by CruelDove(f): 9:59am On Jun 14, 2023
The last point is really something though

It's even common nowadays among some guys. I understand that marriages are not poverty elevation scheme but if you're expecting your wife to be sincere to you, you can as well try to provide at least 90% of her needs.

Not that it will take you at least 2 months before you buy her body cream, or she'll have to beg her mouth out before you give her stipends for upkeepings. And then you'll go about outside doing "The man is good".

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Re: This Is Why Marriage Do Not Last Nowadays by obinna58(m): 10:28am On Jun 14, 2023
Natbrowny:
Secrets such as my wife cannot look at my cellphone.

Remove this nonsense from the list.

Its MY smartphone not OUR Smartfone.
U for say because i love my wife, make i dey use same toothbrush with her. My fone is my businessn whether i get secrets or not, she get her own too.
What are you hide
Transparency is must, not like I’ll be checking your phone always but if I sense anything wrong I’ll have to know all your password, if not fvvk the relationship
Re: This Is Why Marriage Do Not Last Nowadays by Natbrowny: 10:56am On Jun 14, 2023
obinna58:

What are you hide
Transparency is must, not like I’ll be checking your phone always but if I sense anything wrong I’ll have to know all your password, if not fvvk the relationship

And u think checking of fone is transparency, u r joking. Will u allow me check ur fone as well. Why must it a woman checking her husband's fone.

Allow a woman check ur fone once and she turn am to her rights.
Re: This Is Why Marriage Do Not Last Nowadays by obinna58(m): 11:02am On Jun 14, 2023
Natbrowny:


And u think checking of fone is transparency, u r joking. Will u allow me check ur fone as well. Why must it a woman checking her husband's fone.

Allow a woman check ur fone once and she turn am to her rights.
It’s her right actually, she owns your phone, a vice versa situation but you both Will have to do it with respect for each other

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Re: This Is Why Marriage Do Not Last Nowadays by Natbrowny: 1:16pm On Jun 14, 2023
obinna58:

It’s her right actually, she owns your phone, a vice versa situation but you both Will have to do it with respect for each other

Tell most women that checking of phone is ok to do but it has to be vice versa.

Majority will find a way to stop d plan. I no lie oo

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Re: This Is Why Marriage Do Not Last Nowadays by Steady259(m): 1:50pm On Jun 14, 2023
Abi1985:
Money matters- it is hard to stay in love in a marriage when money no dey at all-
No one is patient at all. Small arguments and they keep a grudge and no one wants to forgive.
Secrets such as my wife cannot look at my cellphone. What are you hiding? If you are not seeing another woman then there is nothing to worry about. Are you building a house that your spouse doesn't know off?

Stingy to your spouse but very generous to your family members, friends and strangers- that marriage no fit work

No one is faithful like before.


Post like this just makes me give gratitude to God and sometimes makes me wonder if the woman I married is really from this planet.

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Re: This Is Why Marriage Do Not Last Nowadays by MrPOTUS: 2:46pm On Jun 14, 2023
Abi1985:
Money matters- it is hard to stay in love in a marriage when money no dey at all-
No one is patient at all. Small arguments and they keep a grudge and no one wants to forgive.
Secrets such as my wife cannot look at my cellphone. What are you hiding? If you are not seeing another woman then there is nothing to worry about. Are you building a house that your spouse doesn't know off?

Stingy to your spouse but very generous to your family members, friends and strangers- that marriage no fit work

No one is faithful like before.



I'm sure you're referring to the man here.

On my own opinion, both parties should work, even if the woman is doing petty business.

She should be able to generate cash to get petty things for herself like pad and d rest.

Husband will give her allowance, but not all the time.

Men gat parents too you know, marrying a woman doesn't mean she's now your only life (person wey fit still cheat or divorce you).

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Re: This Is Why Marriage Do Not Last Nowadays by Nobody: 3:33pm On Jun 14, 2023
MrPOTUS:




I'm sure you're referring to the man here.

On my own opinion, both parties should work, even if the woman is doing petty business.

She should be able to generate cash to get petty things for herself like pad and d rest.

Husband will give her allowance, but not all the time.

Men gat parents too you know, marrying a woman doesn't mean she's now your only life (person wey fit still cheat or divorce you).

That is not my intention and agree with you. This goes for husband and wife. There are cases that the wife only spend on her kids and her family members only and hardly buy any thing for her husband and his family members or her parent's in law. Sometimes the wife becomes the bread winners later in the marriage: husband may get sacked or his business is not as profitable as it was and she become stingy. My point is husband and wife should be generous to each other all the time. Sharing is caring

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Re: This Is Why Marriage Do Not Last Nowadays by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 4:34pm On Jun 14, 2023
It is not possible for a man who is virile to continously bang the same toto for over 2 years and not get bored.

Show me a beautiful married women and I will show you a man who is tired of banging her grin
Re: This Is Why Marriage Do Not Last Nowadays by MrPOTUS: 5:10pm On Jun 14, 2023
Abi1985:


That is not my intention and agree with you. This goes for husband and wife. There are cases that the wife only spend on her kids and her family members only and hardly buy any thing for her husband and his family members or her parent's in law. Sometimes the wife becomes the bread winners later in the marriage: husband may get sacked or his business is not as profitable as it was and she become stingy. My point is husband and wife should be generous to each other all the time. Sharing is caring


Very true, 💯 true.

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Re: This Is Why Marriage Do Not Last Nowadays by Nobody: 6:08pm On Jun 14, 2023
DaudaTheSexyGuy:
It is not possible for a man who is virile to continously bang the same toto for over 2 years and not get bored.

Show me a beautiful married women and I will show you a man who is tired of banging her grin

Then marriage if you are christian is not for you. If you are Muslim then you can marry more wives.
Re: This Is Why Marriage Do Not Last Nowadays by egopersonified(f): 7:15pm On Jun 14, 2023
What are you people hiding in your phones? See quarrel over phone matter.

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Re: This Is Why Marriage Do Not Last Nowadays by gialo: 2:46am On Jun 15, 2023
Steady259:



Post like this just makes me give gratitude to God and sometimes makes me wonder if the woman I married is really from this planet.
@ the bolded text...why do you say so sir?
Re: This Is Why Marriage Do Not Last Nowadays by xendra: 4:17am On Jun 15, 2023
Natbrowny:
Secrets such as my wife cannot look at my cellphone.

Remove this nonsense from the list.

Its MY smartphone not OUR Smartfone.
U for say because i love my wife, make i dey use same toothbrush with her. My fone is my businessn whether i get secrets or not, she get her own too.
but your cheap prick is not private o, your wife can look at it

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Re: This Is Why Marriage Do Not Last Nowadays by ExudeLoveToAll: 4:36am On Jun 15, 2023
CruelDove:
The last point is really something though

It's even common nowadays among some guys. I understand that marriages are not poverty elevation scheme but if you're expecting your wife to be sincere to you, you can as well try to provide at least 90% of her needs.

Not that it will take you at least 2 months before you buy her body cream, or she'll have to beg her mouth out before you give her stipends for upkeepings. And then you'll go about outside doing "The man is good".

You are contradicting yourself, you can't say you understand that marriage isn't a poverty alleviation scheme and you still go ahead to assert that the poverty alleviation scheme should be in place for the women to be sincere to their partners.

The day people think of what they give in marriage than what they receive that's when most marital issues dissipates.

Marriage is not a poverty alleviation scheme but a means to raising the next generation of societal leaders necessary to fuel developmental milestones of the future. This can only happen when partners put forth their hardwork, enthusiasm, resources, love, perseverance and unity in diversity.

This shouldn't be unidirectional but multidirectional.
Re: This Is Why Marriage Do Not Last Nowadays by AgentGoat: 6:58am On Jun 15, 2023
CruelDove:
The last point is really something though

It's even common nowadays among some guys. I understand that marriages are not poverty elevation scheme but if you're expecting your wife to be sincere to you, you can as well try to provide at least 90% of her needs.

Not that it will take you at least 2 months before you buy her body cream, or she'll have to beg her mouth out before you give her stipends for upkeepings. And then you'll go about outside doing "The man is good".


Look at this poor girl from poor home. Any grown up adult that cannot buy her body cream should not get married.

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Re: This Is Why Marriage Do Not Last Nowadays by CruelDove(f): 7:05am On Jun 15, 2023
AgentGoat:



Look at this poor girl from poor home. Any grown up adult that cannot buy her body cream should not get married.
Since you're an idiot I'd advise you go back and read what I wrote. The post was for married people not for your fuvk and pass female street members.

Any married man who intentionally neglect his wife needs while doing the "man is good" to outsiders and extended family members doe not deserve the wife loyalty.

The marriage might as well be a sham.
Re: This Is Why Marriage Do Not Last Nowadays by CruelDove(f): 7:12am On Jun 15, 2023
ExudeLoveToAll:


You are contradicting yourself, you can't say you understand that marriage isn't a poverty alleviation scheme and you still go ahead to assert that the poverty alleviation scheme should be in place for the women to be sincere to their partners.

The day people think of what they give in marriage than what they receive that's when most marital issues dissipates.

Marriage is not a poverty alleviation scheme but a means to raising the next generation of societal leaders necessary to fuel developmental milestones of the future. This can only happen when partners put forth their hardwork, enthusiasm, resources, love, perseverance and unity in diversity.

This shouldn't be unidirectional but multidirectional.
While I will not like to argue your point with you because from all directions they are right. A normal standard of what marriage should be, a standard socio-scientific definition. I'll ask you this from what I wrote earlier.

Base on the Op last point, is it right for a man to intentionally ignore his wife basic needs while he has the power to provide such needs. Is it right?
Re: This Is Why Marriage Do Not Last Nowadays by Natbrowny: 7:41am On Jun 15, 2023
xendra:
but your cheap prick is not private o, your wife can look at it

So she can go thru chats too and see information about people mayb my family member. Mayb a friend going thru a rough patch and she sees info like that and booom she sees that same friend and she already know all his challenges in life he shared privately with me.
With them having loose mouths, thats if she hasnt downloaded it to her gangs.
So she can see messages between my parents and i and the info it contained. All in the name of transparency.

Make una dey calm down abeg.

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Re: This Is Why Marriage Do Not Last Nowadays by AgentGoat: 9:36am On Jun 15, 2023
CruelDove:
Since you're an idiot I'd advise you go back and read what I wrote. The post was for married people not for your fuvk and pass female street members.

Any married man who intentionally neglect his wife needs while doing the "man is good" to outsiders and extended family members doe not deserve the wife loyalty.

The marriage might as well be a sham.


You are bastaRd with thousand fathers.

Any married woman that cannot buy her cream herself is a failure.
Re: This Is Why Marriage Do Not Last Nowadays by CruelDove(f): 10:52am On Jun 15, 2023
AgentGoat:


You are bastaRd with thousand fathers.

Any married woman that cannot buy her cream herself is a failure.
Then your father wasted his sperm to birth an unfortunate worm like you that lack simple comprehension ability and devoid of common sense.

Respect yourself small boy and keep quiet. There's fuel subsidy and I have plenty time for shenanigans and trolling.
Re: This Is Why Marriage Do Not Last Nowadays by AgentGoat: 11:36am On Jun 15, 2023
CruelDove:
Then your father wasted his sperm to birth an unfortunate worm like you that lack simple comprehension ability and devoid of common sense.

Respect yourself small boy and keep quiet. There's fuel subsidy and I have plenty time for shenanigans and trolling.


Go get better job. You butt scratching and cotton picking negro. You no go die well. Ashawo kobo kobo.
Re: This Is Why Marriage Do Not Last Nowadays by CruelDove(f): 2:02pm On Jun 15, 2023
AgentGoat:



Go get better job. You butt scratching and cotton picking negro. You no go die well. Ashawo kobo kobo.
If your father died well he won't have raised a rapist who got publicly disgraced like you. In fact he would be rolling in his grave. Now you call your mother ashewo again cause I learnt that you and your siblings have 5 fathers.

Don't worry, I'll make sure to drag your rapist identity all over this platform... Including your rapist alternative monikers.
Re: This Is Why Marriage Do Not Last Nowadays by AgentGoat: 2:20pm On Jun 15, 2023
CruelDove:
If your father died well he won't have raised a rapist who got publicly disgraced like you. In fact he would be rolling in his grave. Now you call your mother ashewo again cause I learnt that you and your siblings have 5 fathers.

Don't worry, I'll make sure to drag your rapist identity all over this platform... Including your rapist alternative monikers.


Stop crying. As you are dragging your incest families around the forum. Make sure you start treating your highly infested smelling vagin@. At least na there you dey see kobo kobo chop
Re: This Is Why Marriage Do Not Last Nowadays by SUFFERInSMILIIN(m): 9:28pm On Jun 15, 2023
Abi1985:
Money matters- it is hard to stay in love in a marriage when money no dey at all-
No one is patient at all. Small arguments and they keep a grudge and no one wants to forgive.
Secrets such as my wife cannot look at my cellphone. What are you hiding? If you are not seeing another woman then there is nothing to worry about. Are you building a house that your spouse doesn't know off?

Stingy to your spouse but very generous to your family members, friends and strangers- that marriage no fit work

No one is faithful like before.

In other African countries it is much better but Nigerian women are totally useless with prostitution mentality
Re: This Is Why Marriage Do Not Last Nowadays by xendra: 7:13pm On Jun 16, 2023
Natbrowny:


So she can go thru chats too and see information about people mayb my family member. Mayb a friend going thru a rough patch and she sees info like that and booom she sees that same friend and she already know all his challenges in life he shared privately with me.
With them having loose mouths, thats if she hasnt downloaded it to her gangs.
So she can see messages between my parents and i and the info it contained. All in the name of transparency.

Make una dey calm down abeg.
ha why una dey marry people wey una no fit love? It's sad sha.
Re: This Is Why Marriage Do Not Last Nowadays by hippyj(m): 7:22pm On Jun 16, 2023
Natbrowny:
Secrets such as my wife cannot look at my cellphone.

Remove this nonsense from the list.

Its MY smartphone not OUR Smartfone.
U for say because i love my wife, make i dey use same toothbrush with her. My fone is my businessn whether i get secrets or not, she get her own too.

I bet my left ball, you are not married yet...
Re: This Is Why Marriage Do Not Last Nowadays by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 9:07pm On Jun 19, 2023
Abi1985:


Then marriage if you are christian is not for you. If you are Muslim then you can marry more wives.

Marriage is bondage.

Me just dey bang dey go grin
Re: This Is Why Marriage Do Not Last Nowadays by RoadMozart(m): 9:09pm On Jun 19, 2023
CruelDove:
The last point is really something though

It's even common nowadays among some guys. I understand that marriages are not poverty elevation scheme but if you're expecting your wife to be sincere to you, you can as well try to provide at least 90% of her needs.

Not that it will take you at least 2 months before you buy her body cream, or she'll have to beg her mouth out before you give her stipends for upkeepings. And then you'll go about outside doing "The man is good".
I love your DP

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