I am left-handed. My bf's mother slapped me because I tried to use my left hand to give her something.

I called my bf's mother to tell her that I would be visiting her, and she asked me to help her collect her clothes from her fashion designer on my way to the house. When I got to the house, my bf's mother was upstairs taking a bath. I used the waiting time to place a call to a client to discuss an important project. While I was on the call, she came downstairs and asked me for the clothes. I did not realize that I was trying to give her the clothes with my left hand, and the next thing I noticed was a slap on my face. My bf told me to let it go, but I can't marry him if I am not on good terms with his mother. I expect my mother-in-law to treat me like her own daughter. She knew I was left-handed, and she still acted irrationally.

Sorry

Oya come over to me.. mtcheww

If she know you are left handed still slap u then it is very bad, apart from that i see pride in your suppose mother in-law to be because i don't see any reason for her to slap you even if you do it intentionally. My advice is even if you want marry her son that woman go hate you so the choice is yours.

Why seun never ban una IP address sef?

Olasyke:
Why seun never ban una IP address sef?

For what?

Merry100:
I am left-handed. My bf's mother slapped me because I tried to use my left hand to give her something.

I called my bf's mother to tell her that I would be visiting her, and she asked me to help her collect her clothes from her fashion designer on my way to the house. When I got to the house, my bf's mother was upstairs taking a bath. I used the waiting time to place a call to a client to discuss an important project. While I was on the call, she came downstairs and asked me for the clothes. I did not realize that I was trying to give her the clothes with my left hand, and the next thing I noticed was a slap on my face. My bf told me to let it go, but I can't marry him if I am not on good terms with his mother. I expect my mother-in-law to treat me like her own daughter. She knew I was left-handed, and she still acted irrationally.

You knew it's not good but you did it anyway. The circumstances surrounding the situation could trigger such action. She sensed disrespect in the way you gave her the clothes. It is not a matter of she knows you use left hand but circumstances surrounding the situation.

Olasyke:
Why seun never ban una IP address sef?

Traffic.

Coder2Client:


You knew it's not good but you did it anyway. The circumstances surrounding the situation could trigger such action. She sensed disrespect in the way you gave her the clothes. It is not a matter of she knows you use left hand but circumstances surrounding the situation.

I don't see anything wrong in using my left-hand to give something to someone but I have learnt to respect other people's view also.

Even if you are left handed, it's disrespectful to use d hand to give an elderly person something. Courtesy demands you swap the content to right hand before giving the person.

What see do is wrong, but since she is left handed she would have consider that by may be giving her strict warning, by slapping her is very harsh your daughter inlaw to be. Nobody is perfect

tayo60:
Even if you are left handed, it's disrespectful to use d hand to give an elderly person something. Courtesy demands you swap the content to right hand before giving the person.

Everybody victim blaming the OP but did she commit a crime even if she was Right handed, does the BF mother have the right to slap her
The BF mother could have corrected her and tell her she didn't like her using left hand to give her things but choose to disrespect her because she is dating her Son.
What many Nigeria elders dont know is Respect is reciprocal, many elders expect the youth to worship them just because they came out of the womb early and they feel entitled to talk and treat someone younger then them badly because they are older.

I am sure the Bf will tell the OP to lockup and even relatives will tell the OP to leave the issue alone because the woman is older, some will even tell the OP to apologise to the BF mother, they dont know what they are doing is affecting the OP.

Anyway I hope we learn to respect each other regardless of age, if I enter a place I greet everyone, I dont look at their faces to see whether I am older before doing the bare minimum.

Run on time. That woman will give you more slaps even after marriage and your puppet husband will do nothing

Since it's a first time offence what I expect is to caution or give you a stern warning.

Giving you a slap is taking it to the extreme, my advise id for you to call off the relationship otherwise she will not see anything wrong if your boyfriend turns you to a punching bag after you get married to him

Maybe she has never liked you and has been looking for an opportunity for you to fvck up. She should have cautioned you instead of slapping you.

i don't know you from adam, but if you try giving something with left hand, i'll sure woze you even if you're my mate. that's an insult

What i also consider

Anny69:
Maybe she has never liked you and has been looking for an opportunity for you to fvck up. She should have cautioned you instead of slapping you.

To be honest she no get chill 😂😂😂😂😂
It's wrong
Slide the issue
She is hot tempered even if na her daughter she go stil slap

tayo60:
Even if you are left handed, it's disrespectful to use d hand to give an elderly person something. Courtesy demands you swap the content to right hand before giving the person.

You are right handed so you cannot understand. Your brain is use to using your right hand so even if you are distracted you will still give things to people with your right hand, it doesn't work that way for left-handed people.

Sorry about this. That's a red flag now. She doesn't want you, SIMple!. And u can see the handwriting on the wall

Africans and their superstitions is the main reason why the continent has remained a shiit hole.....

Well, op,I love your mentality cha.......

tayo60:
Even if you are left handed, it's disrespectful to use d hand to give an elderly person something. Courtesy demands you swap the content to right hand before giving the person.

u are missing the point. How do you slap a full grown adult whom your aren’t responsible for

Kobicove:
Since it's a first time offence what I expect is to caution or give you a stern warning.

Giving you a slap is taking it to the extreme, my advise id for you to call off the relationship otherwise she will not see anything wrong if your boyfriend turns you to a punching bag after you get married to him

even if it was a third time offense. Why you go slap adult just like dat. I fit return dat slap ooo

Sandralight:
Everybody victim blaming the OP but did she commit a crime even if she was Right handed, does the BF mother have the right to slap her
The BF mother could have corrected her and tell her she didn't like her using left hand to give her things but choose to disrespect her because she is dating her Son.
What many Nigeria elders dont know is Respect is reciprocal, many elders expect the youth to worship them just because they came out of the womb early and they feel entitled to talk and treat someone younger then them badly because they are older.

I am sure the Bf will tell the OP to lockup and even relatives will tell the OP to leave the issue alone because the woman is older, some will even tell the OP to apologise to the BF mother, they dont know what they are doing is affecting the OP.

Anyway I hope we learn to respect each other regardless of age, if I enter a place I greet everyone, I dont look at their faces to see whether I am older before doing the bare minimum.

My mother can't do that shit. I'll be so angry with her and wouldn't speak with her until she apologizes. I go vex for am 😡.

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_{Note: My mother is not a poor woman. She commands respect and authority.}

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I was pissed off while reading the story.

Nothing justifies physically abusing another human being, whether a child or an adult.

It is a violation of the dignity of human person, criminal and appalling.

Merry100:
I am left-handed. My bf's mother slapped me because I tried to use my left hand to give her something.

I called my bf's mother to tell her that I would be visiting her, and she asked me to help her collect her clothes from her fashion designer on my way to the house. When I got to the house, my bf's mother was upstairs taking a bath. I used the waiting time to place a call to a client to discuss an important project. While I was on the call, she came downstairs and asked me for the clothes. I did not realize that I was trying to give her the clothes with my left hand, and the next thing I noticed was a slap on my face. My bf told me to let it go, but I can't marry him if I am not on good terms with his mother. I expect my mother-in-law to treat me like her own daughter. She knew I was left-handed, and she still acted irrationally.

Run. That word will save you.

If not it would be had I know.

The mother does not even respect the son.

Because my mother can not try that.

Sometimes as children you need to show some other side of you.

Disrespect to my wife is disrespect to me. Infact it worst disrespect for me.

She only exhibits what she and her son see you as. A temporary thing.

You still dey call the mumu bf.

Well maybe the mom is feeding you both.

Because if the son is independent that can never happen.

Abi which kain play be that.

You self why you go dey go your bf house when the mama dey there.

You no dey shame.

Mothers are very jealous for the son. Now you go dey take all the attention.

Make una dey respect una self

Merry100:
I am left-handed. My bf's mother slapped me because I tried to use my left hand to give her something.

I called my bf's mother to tell her that I would be visiting her, and she asked me to help her collect her clothes from her fashion designer on my way to the house. When I got to the house, my bf's mother was upstairs taking a bath. I used the waiting time to place a call to a client to discuss an important project. While I was on the call, she came downstairs and asked me for the clothes. I did not realize that I was trying to give her the clothes with my left hand, and the next thing I noticed was a slap on my face. My bf told me to let it go, but I can't marry him if I am not on good terms with his mother. I expect my mother-in-law to treat me like her own daughter. She knew I was left-handed, and she still acted irrationally.

N no be only me read through & No SEE "I LEFT" In all Epistle.
U no Fit use ur LFEFT LEG since e go waka Fast

Merry100:
I am left-handed. My bf's mother slapped me because I tried to use my left hand to give her something.

I called my bf's mother to tell her that I would be visiting her, and she asked me to help her collect her clothes from her fashion designer on my way to the house. When I got to the house, my bf's mother was upstairs taking a bath. I used the waiting time to place a call to a client to discuss an important project. While I was on the call, she came downstairs and asked me for the clothes. I did not realize that I was trying to give her the clothes with my left hand, and the next thing I noticed was a slap on my face. My bf told me to let it go, but I can't marry him if I am not on good terms with his mother. I expect my mother-in-law to treat me like her own daughter. She knew I was left-handed, and she still acted irrationally.

Red flags..

Leave that mumu family, end the relationship ASAP.

Merry100:
I am left-handed. My bf's mother slapped me because I tried to use my left hand to give her something.

I called my bf's mother to tell her that I would be visiting her, and she asked me to help her collect her clothes from her fashion designer on my way to the house. When I got to the house, my bf's mother was upstairs taking a bath. I used the waiting time to place a call to a client to discuss an important project. While I was on the call, she came downstairs and asked me for the clothes. I did not realize that I was trying to give her the clothes with my left hand, and the next thing I noticed was a slap on my face. My bf told me to let it go, but I can't marry him if I am not on good terms with his mother. I expect my mother-in-law to treat me like her own daughter. She knew I was left-handed, and she still acted irrationally.

She shouldn’t have slapped you. That one no make sense but you sef, why act like say you no be Naija pikin. You were still on call oo and stretched out your left hand to give her the clothe. You sef reason am na, if na small
Pikin or one smallie wey you know try am with you, how would you feel??…

I see nothing wrong in what she do her own left hand is our right hand so far she too can take something from us with our right hand why can we too take it from her with left hand too?? but come to think of it this way if she is the governor' or tinubu's daughter the mother-in-law will take it with joy from her oooo

Merry100:
I expect my mother-in-law to treat me like her own daughter. She knew I was left-handed, and she still acted irrationally.

You expect your mother-in-law to treat you like her own daughter?? ...Lol... And who told you she doesn't give her own daughter brain resetting slap...??

Ordinary slap..... u dey vex....that's daughter treatment the African way...... U get luck say she no remove slippers from her feet use slap ur dirty mouth ...

. No marry again......other babes dey street wey dey find husband...

Your bf's mum travelled too fast and far

Better run, you're seeing the handwriting clearly on the wall.

Whether you're left or right handed, though disrespectful, still doesn't warrant her slapping you.

She could have corrected and warn you, I'm sure she won't have slapped her child if in your shoes.