Note: This isn't a redpill stuff.
Some of you might not know it, know it now.
Women put you in the friendzone because they like you and see a possible picture with you.
When I mean friendzone, I don't mean those forced friendship you carry on your shoulder as if your entire being depends on it, I am talking about the friendzone that she gets worried when you don't call her for a day.

Keeping you in the friendzone means that they are saving you for when they are ready; by ready I mean done weighing their other options, in a more provocative tone- when they are done messing around.

You might be confused in this zone, you might have even kissed her self, but she doesn't want to let you go, and you also you don't want to leave.
When she is ready she will end up picking you, in a more provocative tone- settling for you.
If she settles for you, it means after weighing her options, she found someone better and committed to her as much as you are committed to her.

If you find yourself in this situation what should you do?
- Let her know her plans, and make her know you have understanding of what's going on.

-Tell her you are not a spare, so you will move on

- If she tells you let her think about it, give her at most 3 days, she can use that to buy time.

-move on with your life and be a distant friend. No need to block her, she isn't your enemy.

- If you are finding it difficult to move on, engage yourself in some activities that will make you buy time, so time can heal you.

It's okay to move on when you and another person are not on thesame stage in a relationship. I mean you might be in a stage of commitment while she is in a stage of friendship, if it happens there will be friction, and one person will be emotionally strained.

Don't allow anyone guilt you into thinking you left because of sex or relationship. It isn't selfishness, it's being self aware of what you want.

Some men does this as well, they passively date a lady till they are done and ready to settle and they become all of a sudden serious.
You begin to wonder you dated a man for 3 years and after breakup he gets married in 4 months after breakup.
If you are doing this male or female please stop, it isn't healthy at all.

Hmmm

NO MAN ON THIS GOOD GREEN EARTH SHOULD ACCEPT TO BE SECOND BEST (aka SPARE TYRE) TO ANOTHER MAN.... any woman who doesnt want you NOW should be forgotten on the spot and you should move on with your life. being second best is not only an insult, it is also a confirmation that you will never be #1 to that woman. the day someone better comes along, she will quickly drop your sorry self for the better dude. have some dignity, accept it and jejely walk away when a woman doesnt want you.

i call men like that....TOTO WARMERS, they are just there to keep to toto warm for the next brotha.... and/or because these babe cant get better men (at that time) and someone got to pay for that babe's immediate needs.

Lol. You can miss me with the victim mentality of men when it comes to friendzoning.

There are some men that get rejected by women and ask if they can instead be friends in a desperate attempt to maintain some connection.

What about men that pretend to be a woman's friend knowing they truly wanted something deeper? What's that all about?

Men place themselves in the friendzone , so please.

1Sharon:
Lol. You can miss me with the victim mentality of men when it comes to friendzoning.

There are some men that get rejected by women and ask if they can instead be friends in a desperate attempt to maintain some connection.

What about men that pretend to be a woman's friend knowing they truly wanted something deeper? What's that all about?

Men place themselves in the friendzone , so please.

I was talking to men and women who find themselves in a friendzone, if you read it properly, I clearly stated not forced friendship.
Not everything is about men vs women.
It is wrong for people to always think black and white. Learn to free yourself from unnecessary drama and enjoy things in life.
I am not a redpiller I am giving advice from the numerous experience I have seen.
Maybe later I will talk about forced friendship.

soundOsonic:

I was talking to men and women who find themselves in a friendzone, if you read it properly, I clearly stated not forced friendship.
Not everything is about men vs women.
It is wrong for people to always think black and white. Learn to free yourself from unnecessary drama and enjoy things in life.
I am not a redpiller I am giving advice from the numerous experience I have seen.
Maybe later I will talk about forced friendship.

The topic is about why WOMEN put MEN in the friendzone. You already made it about gender.

Like i said before, It doesn't always happen like that.

Men intentionally place themselves there for ulterior motives.

1Sharon:
Lol. You can miss me with the victim mentality of men when it comes to friendzoning.

There are some men that get rejected by women and ask if they can instead be friends in a desperate attempt to maintain some connection.

What about men that pretend to be a woman's friend knowing they truly wanted something deeper? What's that all about?

Men place themselves in the friendzone , so please.

I agree with all what you said especially your last line... men who don't have values or know their worth place themselves in the friendzone... men who knows their worth can't be found in such position... alpha fvcks, beta bucks... weak men lose, powerful men win!.

1Sharon:


The topic is about why WOMEN put MEN in the friendzone. You already made it about gender.

Like i said before, It doesn't always happen like that.

Men intentionally place themselves there for ulterior motives.

sure, they intentionally place themselves there thinking one day she will eventually consider me... "let me be nice to her, let me be kind, I don't want her to see that it's only sex I'm after"... and that's the begining of their failure...

Friend zoning is a blessing in disguise, cause my money will not be wasted on another wasted wide hole. And me and my guys can smoke more weed and drink shacet..

Reminderz:

I agree with all what you said especially your last line... men who don't have values or know their worth place themselves in the friendzone... men who knows their worth can't be found in such position... alpha fvcks, beta bucks... weak men lose, powerful men win!.

That's what I'm trying to say. So why do men always talk about women doing this to them. When they friend zone themselves?

It's for this same reason women are naive and think that men can be friends with us because they say "let's be friends" but men don't believe they can be just friends with women

1Sharon:


That's what I'm trying to say. So why do men always talk about women doing this to them. When they friend zone themselves?

It's for this same reason women are naive and think that men can be friends with us because they say "let's be friends" but men don't believe they can be just friends with women

a woman and a man can't be just friends... sooner or later, feelings and emotions will get in the way... the man saying a woman friendzoned him is actually the one who volunteered to be put in that position, so in cases like this, they should blame themselves and not the women...

1Sharon:


The topic is about why WOMEN put MEN in the friendzone. You already made it about gender.

Like i said before, It doesn't always happen like that.

Men intentionally place themselves there for ulterior motives.

Nawa o, you never hear of clickbait before?
You live in a cave or something?

Gals knows the kind of guys they keep on friends zone. You can never keep an intelligent nigga that knows his worth on friend zone.
If such nigga plays along, just know he's taking you for a fool.

soundOsonic:

Nawa o, you never hear of clickbait before?
You live in a cave or something?

Click bait??🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

What a pathetic way to cop out.