A man abandon his girl when she was two weeks pregnant, but return after 4years and begged for apology.
She forgive him, they got engaged. But she disappointed him by not showing up in the wedding day.
#from~facebook

Men should becareful with sigle moms and divorced ladies.

the only person truly losing here is THAT UNFORTUNATE CHILD!

1st he/she was abandonned by the father and lost 4yr of his life being fatherless, and 2nd now that father wants to come back into the picture, instead of keeping that man close, mother is playing yeye games that will make this father abandon his child again for the next 20yrs.

single moms and divorced ladies are irrelevant to the issue at hand....the above is just a very selfish individual.

Poor child is really having a hard time with use#less parent.

But she was a single mom because of him...

So what do you mean men should be careful of single moms when they keep on making their own beds to lie on?

So it is sweet when the man abandoned her first? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣


Y'all are fuking hypocritical clowns, because you always rage on about how women should know the kind of men they fuk with; how some don't forgive and will always get their pound of flesh back.

I mean, a man lied to a lady - who cheated on him - that he's gotten a job for her and that she should quit her current job. She did, he broke up with her and there's no job anywhere. It was wrong, but a lot of men on this NL supported it, with defenses like "know who you play games with. Some people are ruthlessly evil." So a woman cannot bid her time now to take revenge on a man who refused to take responsibility for her pregnancy, stayed away until she carried it to term, went through labour, and raised the child alone for 3 good years, he's now coming to ask for forgiveness (after four years)?

The same way I "understood" that guy's payback is the same way I support this lady's wrong here.

Yes, it is not right, but I thought "we" agreed to allow hurt and offended people to carry out their revenge however they deem fit? I thought we should be careful of people we fuk with? Who can do unimaginable things?



That she stood him up doesn't mean he can't still perform his fatherly duties to his child for all of you going on about how they are messing the child up.

They are both vindictive people from the narration, but you think "marriage" will suddenly make them good parents. Better they stay separate and raise the child together.

If a lady dumped a broke man and came back after four years when he's rich, he forgive her and on the wedding day, he didn't show up, you people will understand that one oo LOL.

I mean no harm, but atleast people will learn from that statement. You been go on break before? Sama

Samantha124:
So what do you mean men should be careful of single moms

What happened to the food and drinks?

I don't understand, what do you mean "you been go on break before?"

talented321:
I mean no harm, but atleast people will learn from that statement.
You been go on break before? Sama

I don't think for the past three days i came across on NL.

Samantha124:
I don't understand, what do you mean "you been go on break before?"

lilvicky68:
What happened to the food and drinks?

How can you be so unserious? 🤣

Magnoliaa:
If a lady dumped a broke man and came back after four years when he's rich, he forgive her and on the wedding day, he didn't show up, you people will understand that one oo LOL.

a child isnt involved in the above, so it is irrelevant to the issue at hand. dont be so selfish and think of the child for once.

There was not much interesting topics for me to comment on.

But I did see you..

talented321:
I don't think for the past three days i came across on NL.

But there was topics i was expecting u because i dey observe the kind of discussion you are mostly interesting.
No wahala na.

Samantha124:
There was not much interesting topics for me to comment on.

But I did see you..

Well, not every topic interests me, especially on Sundays because Sundays are my lazy days...

talented321:
But there was topics i was expecting u because i dey observe the kind of discussion you are mostly interesting.
No wahala na.

Samantha124:
Well, not every topic interests me, especially on Sundays because Sundays are my lazy days...

Treat yourself 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

KK, NORMAL

Samantha124:
Well, not every topic interests me, especially on Sundays because Sundays are my lazy days...

Madam the man was just trying to correct a mistake he did 4years ago, the man deserve an accolade.
Make the girl no regret later because her action is not a good one to me

Samantha124:
But she was a single mom because of him...

So what do you mean men should be careful of single moms when they keep on making their own beds to lie on?

From my observation as king of single moms, the man take a good decision by considering the woman because of his past mistake, he has now cure his guiltyness.
It is left for the woman, she is a winner today but in time to come she will regret her action.

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Very childish


She just wasted her own time


She should have told him onset she's no more interested



Why wait so long ?

Proserpina:
And mumu added "Avoid single mum and divorced women " lol

If he say you should avoid single mom avoid single mom na.

.

Manchi why are you insulting me, are u a single mom or divorced, did i call ur name.
Respect yourself this morning.

Proserpina:
And mumu added "Avoid single mum and divorced women " lol

Magnoliaa:


How can you be so unserious? 🤣

People gathered for hours to cook and nobody is asking what happened to the food? It's unfair na

Good.......You can't eat your cake and have it back.......

Magnoliaa:
So it is sweet when the man abandoned her first? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣


Y'all are fuking hypocritical clowns, because you always rage on about how women should know the kind of men they fuk with; how some don't forgive and will always get their pound of flesh back.

I mean, a man lied to a lady - who cheated on him - that he's gotten a job for her and that she should quit her current job. She did, he broke up with her and there's no job anywhere. It was wrong, but a lot of men on this NL supported it, with defenses like "know who you play games with. Some people are ruthlessly evil." So a woman cannot bid her time now to take revenge on a man who refused to take responsibility for her pregnancy, stayed away until she carried it to term, went through labour, and raised the child alone for 3 good years, he's now coming to ask for forgiveness (after four years)?

The same way I "understood" that guy's payback is the same way I support this lady's wrong here.

Yes, it is not right, but I thought "we" agreed to allow hurt and offended people to carry out their revenge however they deem fit? I thought we should be careful of people we fuk with? Who can do unimaginable things?



That she stood him up doesn't mean he can't still perform his fatherly duties to his child for all of you going on about how they are messing the child up.

They are both vindictive people from the narration, but you think "marriage" will suddenly make them good parents. Better they stay separate and raise the child together.

Most guys on NL are kids and their comments on this forum is basically narcissistic.. Don't take their comments seriously.

Grandma, who believe she get sense. Nairaland.

dalass:


Most guys on NL are kids and their comments on this forum is basically narcissistic.. Don't take their comments seriously.

talented321:
Grandma, who believe she get sense. Nairaland.

Run along little narcissist

MrBrownJay1:
the only person truly losing here is THAT UNFORTUNATE CHILD!

1st he/she was abandonned by the father and lost 4yr of his life being fatherless, and 2nd now that father wants to come back into the picture, instead of keeping that man close, mother is playing yeye games that will make this father abandon his child again for the next 20yrs.

single moms and divorced ladies are irrelevant to the issue at hand....the above is just a very selfish individual.

Any man that has the heart to abandon a woman he impregnated for 4 years deserve to be castrated. That innocent child deserves better. If she and the child can live without him for 4 years, then he's practically useless. Revenge well served.

I know you are one of those kids that leave their parent's house at a very tender age to go do hookup, the way you type shows u lack home training.

dalass:


Run along little narcissist

GodWrites:
Any man that has the heart to abandon a woman he impregnated for 4 years deserve to be castrated. That innocent child deserves better. If she and the child can live without him for 4 years, then he's practically useless. Revenge well served.

as much as we can all debate on whether what he did was right/wrong (while possibly "wrongly" assuming what led this man to run away), NOBODY should ever say that a child deserve to be raised without his biological father in his life, until you get the full story. thats so wrong of you, and probably the reason why so many people fail in this issue.

i dont care if that guy was the most evil immature bastard in this world, it is NEVER too late, he is STILL that child's biological father and deserves a second/third or even 100th chance to be with his child. how dare you wanna take such a drastic SELFISH decision in saying that that child should not have contact with his biological father?! in what world do you live that children are better without their biological father?! lets stop assuming rubbish and look at whats best FOR THE CHILD.thats the only person affected here, and when mama fails as a single parent, you will now claim that mama is a bad mother... while the only thing that this child was missing is the answers that only his father could provide him.