You cannot train a woman in school to end up with you. It used to work in the days of our parents but not now.

Instead of you to embark on that fruitless venture, train your sisters or female cousins in school. The return on investment is better.

Because you have a savior complex, you want to pay school fees for 4 years and send upkeep money so you will be the centre of her world and expect her loyalty as an expression of her gratitude but you're wrong.

As a student, she will cheat on you on her fellow jobless students while you're still paying her fees. When she graduates, she will go for NYSC and meet young male corpers with very bright futures and around her age range. She will prefer to gamble with growing with someone like that than end up with an old man like you.

If she doesn't leave you then, during and after her service year she will be privileged to meet younger and richer men with even more prospects than you. It's a no brainer that she would forsake the idea of a flamboyant future and stick with you because you paid school fees for her.

It doesn't mean she's not grateful to you oh that you saw her through school, it just means that she is now educated and exposed enough to decide for herself that she cannot commit her future to a marriage with you because she wants to express her gratitude.

The years and money that you expended on a fruitless venture would have been better put into meeting a woman who has already completed her education and settling down with her.

Give for charity not for overrated kpekus

Especially if were knacking the kpekus steady while you were training her.

It'll feel like you have taken the reward for your training.