maasoap:

That's why I hate marriage. I never wanted to marry. Well I would divorce this Portuguese woman after 2 years, let me just get citizenship first.

madridguy:


Same fate awaits every men out there with good job/business but still doing me and my wife.

As a man, as you are striving for your children, sending them to best schools, taking them for international vacation, don't forget to also invest in your old age.

Secure your old age by having 2nd and if possible 3rd wife if you have the power to do so.

By the time your children from your first wife are graduating from the higher institutions, the second wife children will be finishing with their primary school and secondary schools.

When your first wife started going for omugwo in Canada, UK or US you won't be left alone with house maids or left alone in your mansion.

Fathers hardly go to their children house when they are married, either male or female so its our mothers that enjoy such benefits.

To our brothers in abroad, those planning to Jakpa too, please remember your old age too when the weather there will be too harsh for your old age, when your children and their mother will not follow you back to Nigeria, it is time for you to setup another base here in Nigeria.

Our old age is very important and we must plan towards it.

I have never seen a more silly advise.
Note; children can never abandon a father that loved and cared for them and their mother .#fact#

jmoore:
Another poorly fabricated tale that makes no sense.

Oga, it is the reality of life.
This is more with men that are not heavily loaded in their old age and have their kids sustaining them. The wives keep staying with the kids abroad, afterall that is where the sustainance comes from. Most of those wives then see they can get jobs as nannies, care givers etc. The husband is then abandoned in naija.
A wealthy man likely will have his wife with him, they both travel when they wish to ie together, the wife after doing omugwo for 2 weeks is already tired as she is used to been waited on by her workers back home. She has money and the nanny work abroad is not attractive as the money is peanuts.
So many of those old lonely men are in my estate, one the wife just got back from Canada after 1 year, omo, I sorry for the baba.

I’m so sorry you honestly think it’s because she now has money. With that mentality one will never find love. It’s about how the man treats her behind closed doors. You really think that a woman who is doted upon would leave the man when he needs her most? Women love to be needed. We nuture. It’s our nature.

nedekid:

Oga, it is the reality of life.
This is more with men that are not heavily loaded in their old age and have their kids sustaining them. The wives keep staying with the kids abroad, afterall that is where the sustainance comes from. Most of those wives then see they can get jobs as nannies, care givers etc. The husband is then abandoned in naija.
A wealthy man likely will have his wife with him, they both travel when they wish to ie together, the wife after doing omugwo for 2 weeks is already tired as she is used to been waited on by her workers back home. She has money and the nanny work abroad is not attractive as the money is peanuts.
So many of those old lonely men are in my estate, one the wife just got back from Canada after 1 year, omo, I sorry for the baba.

😢 but the question is why will his own kids abandon him while they take care of their mum? Is there something they are not telling us?

Nothing to tell here. A man who sponsored his kids overseas can certainly not be a bad father!!

CeeCeeWigs:
I’m so sorry you honestly think it’s because she now has money. With that mentality one will never find love. It’s about how the man treats her behind closed doors. You really think that a woman who is doted upon would leave the man when he needs her most? Women love to be needed. We nuture. It’s our nature.

OK Ohh..

Stevenbright:
■ Nothing to tell here. A man who sponsored his kids overseas can certainly not be a bad father!!

See logic for Pete's sake!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣