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He Can’t Marry Me Because Of My Tribe After Dating For 5years. People Are Evil by Wittyglam(f): 8:03pm On Jul 07, 2023
If you feel your parents will like you to marry from a particular tribe then why do you waste the time of people that aren’t from that tribe?

Imagine dating someone for a 2years and they wake up to tell you their parents wants them to marry for a particular tribe.

I have met so many people that got depressed after dating a man/woman for 5years when it got to the time for them to get married parents refused because of tribe.
In this video I shared two tips on how to handle such situations.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x-XbVjZRip0
Re: He Can’t Marry Me Because Of My Tribe After Dating For 5years. People Are Evil by TemplarLandry: 8:05pm On Jul 07, 2023
grin
Re: He Can’t Marry Me Because Of My Tribe After Dating For 5years. People Are Evil by thesicilian: 8:06pm On Jul 07, 2023
Not every dating has to lead to marriage. The important thing is to spell out the expectations from both parties ab initio.

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Re: He Can’t Marry Me Because Of My Tribe After Dating For 5years. People Are Evil by Toktee(m): 8:07pm On Jul 07, 2023
Wittyglam:
If you feel your parents will like you to marry from a particular tribe then why do you waste the time of people that aren’t from that tribe?

Imagine dating someone for a 2years and they wake up to tell you their parents wants them to marry for a particular tribe.

I have met so many people that got depressed after dating a man/woman for 5years when it got to the time for them to get married parents refused because of tribe.
In this video I shared two tips on how to handle such situations.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x-XbVjZRip0
. Na lie Abeg.


Wetin make the dude escape from you is untold.

Tell him we need him here for his side of the story.

For now i and my comrades are in doubt.

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Re: He Can’t Marry Me Because Of My Tribe After Dating For 5years. People Are Evil by God1000(m): 8:08pm On Jul 07, 2023
I am an advocate of interethnic marriage but some don't end well in Nigeria, and so many factors are responsible


Do you know that it is very difficult to date a Yoruba or Igbo girl if you are not from their tribe, not even marriage

And our parents are making it worse by the day.

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Re: He Can’t Marry Me Because Of My Tribe After Dating For 5years. People Are Evil by izonborn098(m): 8:09pm On Jul 07, 2023
Where is the comrade we gat hear his own side of the story.
Women disappoint men more in a relationship, yet they make the loudest noise whenever the same fate happen to them.
When the only thing you gats offer in the marriage is your over used worn out p*ssy then the best option is to left u behind.
Fish brains
Btw all my four sugar moms is from my tribe, i no too like another tribe girls esp igbos.

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Re: He Can’t Marry Me Because Of My Tribe After Dating For 5years. People Are Evil by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:09pm On Jul 07, 2023
its called UPGRADING.... while using parents/tribe BS as an excuse.

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Re: He Can’t Marry Me Because Of My Tribe After Dating For 5years. People Are Evil by Absuchat(m): 8:55pm On Jul 07, 2023
If you are not from my tribe, I don't consider you an opposite sex of mine. Hoohaaa
Re: He Can’t Marry Me Because Of My Tribe After Dating For 5years. People Are Evil by TimiMore: 8:58pm On Jul 07, 2023
God1000:
I am an advocate of interethnic marriage but some don't end well in Nigeria, and so many factors are responsible


Do you know that it is very difficult to date a Yoruba or Igbo girl if you are not from their tribe, not even marriage

And our parents are making it worse by the day.




Care to explain your second paragraph? How is it difficult?
Re: He Can’t Marry Me Because Of My Tribe After Dating For 5years. People Are Evil by advanceDNA: 8:58pm On Jul 07, 2023
thesicilian:
Not every dating has to lead to marriage. The important thing is to spell out the expectations from both parties ab initio.

Be like u never sabi women....it must lead to marriage ooo once u enter the place...unless they themselves dont want to marry you....

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Re: He Can’t Marry Me Because Of My Tribe After Dating For 5years. People Are Evil by poshestmina(f): 2:48am On Jul 08, 2023
Personally ,there are some tribes I won't consider being entangled with..

The differences in some cultures even here in Nigeria are too much to ignore (for me).

But five years of wasting someone's time is much oh undecided.

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Re: He Can’t Marry Me Because Of My Tribe After Dating For 5years. People Are Evil by Acidosis(m): 3:45am On Jul 08, 2023
I don't see a problem here. Marrying a tribalist or someone who doesn't like your people is suicidal.
Re: He Can’t Marry Me Because Of My Tribe After Dating For 5years. People Are Evil by YorubaNinja: 5:39am On Jul 08, 2023
Marry anything Igbo and you're a goner! angry angry angry

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Re: He Can’t Marry Me Because Of My Tribe After Dating For 5years. People Are Evil by Savedday2: 6:28am On Jul 08, 2023
Stop fooling yourself. It's not about the tribe! The guy already knew you are an ashawo but because of luv for your kpekus, he kept you for constant knacking till he belle-full.

So deal with ur ashawo nature and let the innocent man be!

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Re: He Can’t Marry Me Because Of My Tribe After Dating For 5years. People Are Evil by ratiani6: 6:30am On Jul 08, 2023
This is bad.
Re: He Can’t Marry Me Because Of My Tribe After Dating For 5years. People Are Evil by UptownVibes(m): 6:35am On Jul 08, 2023
Them don catch this one for hookup,she do video twisting the story.. cheesy Wahala Wahala
Re: He Can’t Marry Me Because Of My Tribe After Dating For 5years. People Are Evil by Makamatic: 8:23am On Jul 08, 2023
Absuchat:
If you are not from my tribe, I don't consider you an opposite sex of mine. Hoohaaa

But why do your tribe have lots of single yellow old ladies
Re: He Can’t Marry Me Because Of My Tribe After Dating For 5years. People Are Evil by Absuchat(m): 8:50am On Jul 08, 2023
Makamatic:


But why do your tribe have lots of single yellow old ladies
Maybe you should also ask me why there are millions of black old unmarried women from your tribe
Re: He Can’t Marry Me Because Of My Tribe After Dating For 5years. People Are Evil by Quality20(m): 2:15pm On Jul 08, 2023
Maybe he was told that women from ur tribe ate too wise or easily prone to hookup. For instance, we from our side hardly marry from Benue or southern Kaduna because of their free prodtitution culture
Re: He Can’t Marry Me Because Of My Tribe After Dating For 5years. People Are Evil by Dimaya: 3:36pm On Jul 08, 2023
Quality20:
Maybe he was told that women from ur tribe ate too wise or easily prone to hookup. For instance, we from our side hardly marry from Benue or southern Kaduna because of their free prodtitution culture

hmmn
Re: He Can’t Marry Me Because Of My Tribe After Dating For 5years. People Are Evil by Makamatic: 4:54pm On Jul 08, 2023
Absuchat:

Maybe you should also ask me why there are millions of black old unmarried women from your tribe

My tribe no they cut men head if we want marry na . But your tribe most of the ladies they do beer parlor , then come get Belle for one ysgm / okeyson driver wey no pay bride Price because she done born out of wedlock
Re: He Can’t Marry Me Because Of My Tribe After Dating For 5years. People Are Evil by Absuchat(m): 5:15pm On Jul 08, 2023
Makamatic:


My tribe no they cut men head if we want marry na . But your tribe most of the ladies they do beer parlor , then come get Belle for one ysgm / okeyson driver wey no pay bride Price because she done born out of wedlock
Tell us more... You seem to be a product of this kind of union
Re: He Can’t Marry Me Because Of My Tribe After Dating For 5years. People Are Evil by Makamatic: 6:49pm On Jul 08, 2023
Absuchat:

Tell us more... You seem to be a product of this kind of union

I lie . Ozour no fit talk again .
Re: He Can’t Marry Me Because Of My Tribe After Dating For 5years. People Are Evil by Dimaya: 7:05pm On Jul 08, 2023
Did he just find out she's from that tribe?
Re: He Can’t Marry Me Because Of My Tribe After Dating For 5years. People Are Evil by Proserpina: 7:09pm On Jul 08, 2023
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Re: He Can’t Marry Me Because Of My Tribe After Dating For 5years. People Are Evil by Wittyglam(f): 6:27pm On Jul 10, 2023
thesicilian:
Not every dating has to lead to marriage. The important thing is to spell out the expectations from both parties ab initio.
very important.
Re: He Can’t Marry Me Because Of My Tribe After Dating For 5years. People Are Evil by Wittyglam(f): 6:30pm On Jul 10, 2023
God1000:
I am an advocate of interethnic marriage but some don't end well in Nigeria, and so many factors are responsible


Do you know that it is very difficult to date a Yoruba or Igbo girl if you are not from their tribe, not even marriage

And our parents are making it worse by the day. That is why your intentions have to be clear from the beginning.

I have met some ladies that will date a guy for years know fully well she will not to be allowed to marry from his tribe.


Re: He Can’t Marry Me Because Of My Tribe After Dating For 5years. People Are Evil by Wittyglam(f): 6:31pm On Jul 10, 2023
Toktee:
. Na lie Abeg.


Wetin make the dude escape from you is untold.

Tell him we need him here for his side of the story.

For now i and my comrades are in doubt.
I’m ready but creating awareness cause I have see people that got broken from this act.
Re: He Can’t Marry Me Because Of My Tribe After Dating For 5years. People Are Evil by Wittyglam(f): 6:33pm On Jul 10, 2023
poshestmina:
Personally ,there are some tribes I won't consider being entangled with..

The differences in some cultures even here in Nigeria are too much to ignore (for me).

But five years of wasting someone's time is much oh undecided.
that is why I’m creating awareness and asking people to tell the other party you can’t marry her cause of tribe then to date for years and play the tribe card.

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Re: He Can’t Marry Me Because Of My Tribe After Dating For 5years. People Are Evil by Wittyglam(f): 6:35pm On Jul 10, 2023
UptownVibes:
Them don catch this one for hookup,she do video twisting the story.. cheesy Wahala Wahala
the one some of you think is crazy. I made a video creating awareness because of various stories I have heard. I’m married child.
Re: He Can’t Marry Me Because Of My Tribe After Dating For 5years. People Are Evil by Wittyglam(f): 6:36pm On Jul 10, 2023
Dimaya:
Did he just find out she's from that tribe?
No from what she narrated to me. Tribe just seen to be the problem all of a sudden.

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