scoobyblogspot:
Hello Nairalanders,

Need your advice. I have known this friend for many years through entertainment, we got so close due to the fact that I am an emcee and he’s an artist. So we always go to shows together and every time I hype him before introducing him, it dazes him. My issue with him in summary is he has issues with woman.
I mentioned to him about the attention I have being getting from this lady, and he said I should ask her out which I did, she agreed and behind me he went for the same girl and asked to take her out that if it got late they could lounge, she was shocked and turn down his offer and told me what my friend had said. I challenged him and he denied it. We didn’t talk for about two year then one day he called me to apologize, I forgive him. Again we went to the club and a lady got attraction to me we exchanged numbers.. only for him go behind me while I was dancing and flexing and whisper to her that she should ignore me that I am stingy, she told me this before him and I laughed at it like it was a joke so when we left the venue I fought with him and we never spoke for like 5months.
He called again to apologize, during his return I was having issues with my gf.. in fact we broke up and he said since myself and my ex are no longer together that he can be f*CKn* her then… I was angry and he said it was just a joke. He knows all my friends and always wants to come around, he lies a lot and loves drinking and talks only talks about P***sY nothing else. Anything under skirt is his nick name. Recently, he came to my place , we went out and another chick that I was ignoring but have intention during a hang out, he went behind told one of the local boys to link him up with her and got their number. He loves going out to were bitches can be found.

Guys, how do I get this mother fucker out of my life as his energy is evening causing a lot of download for me and I don’t want him around and I don’t like his kind of live and influence but he will always come since he knows my friends? His married, I know nothing about his wife even though I know her then while they were dating before they married and he moved but still comes around.

IconicR:
Why is cutting people off a difficult thing to do? You should build a strong walls around you and be cautious of people you let into your closet. Wipe his number off your phone and block him, tell him you ain't comfortable with being friends with him. Backstabbers everywhere reason I keep a very small circle, I know all the numbers in my phone offhand, if my phone rings I already know who is calling. Small circle is bae