Suspicion does not equate evidence.
No evidence;no crime.
She could say, she edited my world to (your name ) because she was angry with you for not sending her money.

Idea of blocking her is (not so cool to me)
Why not call her and break it off formally rather than going through corners (cutting communication)

Whatever is worth doing, is worth doing well.

Pain am

Kaka118:
stupid talk, I guess your mom is one too

biggy00000:
Suspicion does not equate evidence.
No evidence;no crime.
She could say, she edited my world to (your name ) because she was angry with you for not sending her money.

Idea of blocking her is (not so cool to me)
Why not call her and break it off formally rather than going through corners (cutting communication)

Whatever is worth doing, is worth doing well.

Well you might be right.
Just that I have learn a lesson too many times. I was always wanted to do everything right in the sight of girls.
I'm the one that knows what I passed through. If you have to believe everything they said then automatically they will turn you to a mumu.
Most of these girls are not to be trusted, and I told her if she leaves my place without me seeing her phone that I'm gonna block her everywhere.

If she didn't hide anything then she should have been very free to hand over her phone.

wisdomkid:
Redpiller and you went through that STRESS? I honestly expected more from you. Why all the show of wanting to know? You could have break it off there and asked her to leave your abode with immediate effect.

Nice idea. That's how I should have done. Like wtf, I wonder why most girls are so unfaithful. she can't turn me to mugu. Ever.

sotherefore:

We've heard your part, remain her own. There has to be a reason why she changed.

My bro, many girls belong to the street and will remain there for eternity.

Truth be told, girls of this generation are just promiscuous, I mean ''big time whores'.

Gone are the days they keep to one guy only.
What I do now is to collect my share and move next to the available girl .

That's why the number of runs girls out passes the number of girls into real time relationship.

Every girl want to cash out.
I was talking to a 16 years old girl recently and she told me that I am a small boy and if I try her she will consume me,I just called her one place and gave her stern warning, I don't do minors.

So, bro, Na so the life dey now.
Pelle .

ikeno:
There are things you don't need to bother yourself with like telling her to unlock her phone she has a right to her privacy even though she's your girlfriend.

When they Bleep you up, you will come back here to delete this message

Good one from you,no time to waste

mrcrabs:


When they Bleep you up, you will come back here to delete this message

I don't go through my girl's phone neither does she. To me it's childish and makes me look insecure.

If u are looking for evidence, then u will pay another man pikin to high institution. Becareful and be guided don't play with red flags

sotherefore:


Well you might be right.
Just that I have learn a lesson too many times. I was always wanted to do everything right in the sight of girls.
I'm the one that knows what I passed through. If you have to believe everything they said then automatically they will turn you to a mumu.
Most of these girls are not to be trusted, and I told her if she leaves my place without me seeing her phone that I'm gonna block her everywhere.

If she didn't hide anything then she should have been very free to hand over her phone.

IconicR:
Why are you still angry since you've done the needful

Why does he have to bring what happened between his girlfriend to nairaland.

Guy thunder fire da your mouth! See the kind people whey dem bring insults for genuine redpillers. Persin wey be complete simp dey call himself redpiller.

Bloody werey simp.

sotherefore:


Well you might be right.
Just that I have learn a lesson too many times. I was always wanted to do everything right in the sight of girls.
I'm the one that knows what I passed through. If you have to believe everything they said then automatically they will turn you to a mumu.
Most of these girls are not to be trusted, and[b] I told her if she leaves my place without me seeing her phone that I'm gonna block her everywhere. [/b]

If she didn't hide anything then she should have been very free to hand over her phone.

You have done well. And yes, she's seeing someone else. "O ti lor"
If she comes, and you're comfortable with it, you can keep her for knacks till you get a better one.
If you accept her back fully.... well.. It is not from my mouth that you will hear the king's mother is a witch.

As for those asking why he brought it to NL. I guess he wants to know if he didn't over react and also for others to learn.

sotherefore:
This is the girl i have been dating for almost a year plus but we are not living in the same location cuz her place is just one hour drive from my place. .

I didn't usually have problem with her until she started lying, disrespecting and Even demanding that I send her transport to come over to my place.

When she started showing all these abnormal behaviour, as a redpiller i just know within me that the relationship is over. But I couldn't just break up with her since I didn't have any evidence to present , but my mind was totally out of the relationship. I don't call her and most of the time she's the one that does the calls and when her airtime finish na there I go called and we talked not more than 5minutes.

Recently I invited her over again and she still request that I sent her transport before she turns up . I told her if she can't used her transport to come then she shouldn't bothers calling me cuz I no go send her anything.

Well she later agreed to pay her way to my place. Now this is where the real problems Start.
Omo this girl don lock everything on her phone including radio. I mean a very tight security that you can't even check the last person she calls without putting a security code.

When I saw this I know she was upto something. This is the girl i always used her phone freely without issues.

At this point I collected her phone and asked her to tell me her password. Just immediately a text message entered but I couldn't see what the text was all about because of her tight security settings.

I asked her to tell me her password. She said she can't tell me. Ok I then asked her to unlock it by herself she said no that I can't see when she unlock the phone.
She later said I should give her the phone to clear every password and hand over to me and that I shouldn't sit with her during this time until she's done.

I said no, that I must see what she is doing. She didn't still accept me sitting down with her to unlock the phone.

Since she didn't want to unlock the phone I dropped the phone on the bed, I told her If she's not ready to unlock the phone the way I wanted that she can take her phone and leave my place and not to call me ever

We stayed silently for almost an hour, during this time I quickly login to her messenger on my phone cuz I know the password (she told me a long time ago) only to discover that all the chat she had with guys were all deleted. I took the phone, call her number with my phone only to discover that she has changed my name as "myworld" she used to saved as and was saving it with my real name.

At last She later pick her phone and went home that day without unlocking the phone the way i wanted.

I have to block her everywhere. I value my peace of mind more than anything else. I can never beg a girl to be faithful. That's her choice to make. If she can't stay faithful then she belongs to the street.

Bro I read through and I ve this to say...

If you really love a woman pls give her some space and let her be. You don't ve to police her moves, it's called sanity. Know this and know peace

sotherefore:


Well you might be right.
Just that I have learn a lesson too many times. I was always wanted to do everything right in the sight of girls.
I'm the one that knows what I passed through. If you have to believe everything they said then automatically they will turn you to a mumu.
Most of these girls are not to be trusted, and I told her if she leaves my place without me seeing her phone that I'm gonna block her everywhere.

If she didn't hide anything then she should have been very free to hand over her phone.

You are just stressing yourself

Your obsession with what's going on on her phone doesn't make you a redpiller. It just turned you to a whining, controlling and insecure guy.

As long as she is not talking to other guys in your presence and you can still flow or have sex with her without her acting disrespectful and bitchy, you shouldn't be bothering yourself with shits like that.

sotherefore:


Well you might be right.
Just that I have learn a lesson too many times. I was always wanted to do everything right in the sight of girls.
I'm the one that knows what I passed through. If you have to believe everything they said then automatically they will turn you to a mumu.
Most of these girls are not to be trusted, and I told her if she leaves my place without me seeing her phone that I'm gonna block her everywhere.

If she didn't hide anything then she should have been very free to hand over her phone.

Why are you so bother with what she's hiding ?

Can you also swear that you don't have any secrets you are keeping or you are not hiding anything ?

Just because you are boyfriend and girlfriend doesn't mean there shouldn't be space and boundaries between you, you are not husband and wife and it is even an insecure and unattractive behavior, it show you are not confident enough.

Imagine having a girlfriend that's so obsessive with what's going on on your phone and trying so much to make sure you are not hiding anything, she would look so annoying and troublesome to you. That's how you looked to your ex girlfriend, you looked like a whining, needy and an insecure guy.


As long as your girlfriend is still visiting you, not flaky, ignoring you or acting disrespectful, acting bitchy, or you catch her going out on a date with other guys or openly flirting with other guys in your presence or chatting with other guys in your presence or taking calls from other guys that are not work colleagues in your presence and getting intimate with them. You should be good until you have that evidence.

You should have that "i don't care attitude". What if she is talking to other guys ? who cares ? as long as she is not doing it in your presence or canceling plans with you for other things and other guys. Girls will always spin plates and have other guys line up, you should also spin plates and have other girls line up, that's what it mean to be redpill.

You suspect she is talking to other guys ?make more effort to be talking to more girls, as long as you are getting whatever you want from your girl and it is still fun to hang out with her, you shouldn't care until it is no longer fun to hang out with her again and she is becoming troublesome then you can end it and move on to other girls.

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Why are you so bother with what she's hiding ?

Can you also swear that you don't have any secrets you are keeping or you are not hiding anything ?

Just because you are boyfriend and girlfriend doesn't mean there shouldn't be space and boundaries between you, you are not husband and wife and it is even an insecure and unattractive behavior, it show you are not confident enough.

Imagine having a girlfriend that's so obsessive with what's going on on your phone and trying so much to make sure you are not hiding anything, she would look so annoying and troublesome to you. That's how you looked to your ex girlfriend, you looked like a whining, needy and an insecure guy.


As long as your girlfriend is still visiting you, not flaky, ignoring you or acting disrespectful, acting bitchy, or you caught her going out on a date with other guys or openly flirting with other guys in your presence or chatting with other guys in your presence or taking calls from them in your presence, you should be good.

You should have that " i don't care attitude". What if she is talking to other guys ? who cares ? You should also make more effort to be talking to more girls, as long as you are getting whatever you want from your girl and still fun to hang out with her, you shouldn't care until it is no longer fun to hang out with her.




You are just interested to have funds but I'm not really in for just funs. I needs something serious.
I don't force her around. Like I said earlier she started lying, disrespecting.
That's the reason I was curious to know all these things.

I rather break up with her than to stay with someone that might break up with me anytime. So rest.

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It just mean you are needy lol

Only a needy guy look for something serious with girls , it mean you need women in your life to enjoy your life and as long as you are like that, you will always have problems.

Imagine having a girlfriend that's so obsessive with what's going on on your phone ? how would she looked to you ?

The core of redpill is still to enjoy life without needing women. You are looking for something serious ? sound so needy.

Don't call yourself a redpiller when you are looking for a woman for a serious relationship. Women should be the one looking for a serious relationship with you because serious relationships benefits women not men.

Robert Greene 48 laws of power

Desire often creates paradoxical effects: The more you want something, the more you chase after it, the more it eludes you. The more interest you show, the more you repel the object of your desire. This is because your interest is too strong— it makes people awkward, even fearful. Uncontrollable desire makes you seem weak, unworthy, pathetic.