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Why Do Guys Invite Girls Over For Hookup And Do Not Pay by GoldenShowers(f): 12:25pm On Jul 20, 2023
So, this is one thing that beats me. Why would you negotiate with a girl to sleep with her, either a quickie or a night stand, you invite her over to your house or hotel, you have carnal knowledge of her and you leave her stranded, some guys don’t even give tfare just like the story I’m about to narrate.

These are the men who be forming big boys up and down social media, posting photos and videos in parties, clubs, driving posh cars and flying in choice aircrafts, then you see a girl post sexy photos and videos On her status, you initiate the conversation that you want to have sëx with her all night, you both agree a price, she sacrifices her studies and night sleep to come over to your place, you bang her brains out all night. The next morning you come up with a silly story of your bank app not working, asking her to leave your house that you will do the needful later in the day. She calls all day and you ignore calls and go ahead to block her.

Please let’s not get it twisted, the girl in the story below is 20yrs young student in a university in Uyo. And not your regular slay mama doing hookups. She’s from a struggling family and can barely feed, everyone will agree times are hard in our country today. The guy on the other hand has to be at least in his mid thirties or so. Does that justify why he will exploit that poor girl like that ?!? Will be posting everything I know and have received about the story which happened just two nights ago on Tuesday, including photos and screenshots as sent to me here in Abuja. It’s a tale of lust and exploitation. I bring it down to the courts of Nairaland. Beloved members be the judge.

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Re: Why Do Guys Invite Girls Over For Hookup And Do Not Pay by GoldenShowers(f): 12:25pm On Jul 20, 2023
Typing………


So I promised to drop full story without missing out anything and that’s what I will do now. will do my best to paint the picture as it is.

So, this guy see this girl's video on status and actually initiates the conversation as per hooking up with her for the night, girl puts her price at 20k and guy agrees. Each time I recall this part of the story it pains me to my marrow cos the idiot could not even be a gentleman by paying her way to and fro at the very least, who does that?!? Guy lured her in and bangs her senseless all night. when he was done satisfying his lust in the morning, it occurs to him to exploit the girl that’s if he’s not been planning this from the scratch. he tells her to leave that his bank app is malfunctioning, he promises to send her 20k later in the day when he goes to office. Now this is were the girl loose guarded because men in that town do this a lot, I speak from stories I’ve heard, no doubt it’s her first time doing this and it’s ended in regrets. She should have asked for pay first before the deed or insisted on getting paid before leaving that house. I know the girls who would have created a scene and would stop at nothing at collecting their pay before leaving that apartment. Why do some guys always drag theirselves this low ?!? Is that how guys in Uyo behave or is it just him?!

I come online and check her status and she posts his pictures trying to create awareness of his activities, after the man had blocked her.
See below for her status and and my chats with her. Let’s be reminded I only brought this here so we see if this guy acted correctly.

Re: Why Do Guys Invite Girls Over For Hookup And Do Not Pay by Jeffrey22(m): 12:33pm On Jul 20, 2023
If they had the agreement via chat, she should berry the shame and go report to police station
Arrest the fool and make him pay if UBA truly knack ooo
Re: Why Do Guys Invite Girls Over For Hookup And Do Not Pay by Solofresh2: 1:01pm On Jul 20, 2023
Hmmm
nawa for una oo
Re: Why Do Guys Invite Girls Over For Hookup And Do Not Pay by GoldenShowers(f): 3:01pm On Jul 20, 2023
Still typing…….


So I message her and asks what happened, she tells me exactly what transpired between them two. She sent voice notes with her breaking down in tears. See below for screenshots

Re: Why Do Guys Invite Girls Over For Hookup And Do Not Pay by GoldenShowers(f): 3:29pm On Jul 20, 2023
Well, as a lady, getting my law degree, the human rights activists in me springs to life. I put myself in her shoe and I knew exactly were it pinches. So, I request for his contact and slide into his DM to try and talk sense into him.

Bad idea!
This Bobo no get sense😕

Re: Why Do Guys Invite Girls Over For Hookup And Do Not Pay by GoldenShowers(f): 3:30pm On Jul 20, 2023
More screenshots below

Re: Why Do Guys Invite Girls Over For Hookup And Do Not Pay by GoldenShowers(f): 3:37pm On Jul 20, 2023
Read my messages to him and you will admit I was civil in my approach to him, now see below for his response, if this is someone who has sense. Because every normal person will try to resolve this amicably by paying off the little girl even in bits and pieces within a time frame. But he refused to choose that path. I’m making this post to warn girls in that city to be wary of him and his antics nothing more. No girl deserves this treatment and that’s the truth.

Re: Why Do Guys Invite Girls Over For Hookup And Do Not Pay by GoldenShowers(f): 3:45pm On Jul 20, 2023
More of his foolery and stupidity. From his conversations with me it’s clear this nigga never intended to pay that girl from the scratch. He was just an opportunist desperate for easy sëx. Obviously this is his stock in trade, this is what he does And that girl became his latest victim. He must be stopped please. Ladies be warned. Let’s expose him for the monster and con artist he is.

Re: Why Do Guys Invite Girls Over For Hookup And Do Not Pay by GoldenShowers(f): 4:00pm On Jul 20, 2023
Morning came and he did nothing, guys like this are the origin of the phrase, men are scum. Scum indeed.

Re: Why Do Guys Invite Girls Over For Hookup And Do Not Pay by GoldenShowers(f): 4:01pm On Jul 20, 2023
And on this note, I rest my case
Re: Why Do Guys Invite Girls Over For Hookup And Do Not Pay by GhostRider1991: 4:34pm On Jul 20, 2023
Since she has evidence and the guy social media handle, let her contact @edotalkroom__ on instagram, he has helped many to retrieve their money.

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Re: Why Do Guys Invite Girls Over For Hookup And Do Not Pay by GoldenShowers(f): 6:41pm On Jul 20, 2023
GhostRider1991:
Since she has evidence and the guy social media handle, let her contact @edotalkroom__ on instagram, he has helped many to retrieve their money.
Thank you very much
Re: Why Do Guys Invite Girls Over For Hookup And Do Not Pay by ozome15(m): 2:10am On Jul 21, 2023
This one big oh, very very let's see how it ends. This guy have just use his own hand and put up himself. Guy man if you are wise you wouldn't have let this get to social media. What ever you tend to achieve by letting it get to social media is not worth it.

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Re: Why Do Guys Invite Girls Over For Hookup And Do Not Pay by GoldenShowers(f): 7:29am On Jul 21, 2023
ozome15:
This one big oh, very very let's see how it ends. This guy have just use his own hand and put up himself. Guy man if you are wise you wouldn't have let this get to social media. What ever you tend to achieve by letting it get to social media is not worth it.

It’s the part he said he’s not paying the girl a dime that killed me!


Why are Uyo guys like this?!’
Re: Why Do Guys Invite Girls Over For Hookup And Do Not Pay by NoahHadNoArk: 7:43am On Jul 21, 2023
You no get money you carry woman come your house, some guys no just get sense Walahi. Na hotel or guest house men dey run dat kain package no b house. Dat girl fit track am anytime.

See as the guy don cast with im fake life 😁

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Re: Why Do Guys Invite Girls Over For Hookup And Do Not Pay by ozome15(m): 8:10am On Jul 21, 2023
GoldenShowers:


It’s the part he said he’s not paying the girl a dime that killed me!


Why are Uyo guys like this?!’
People they get mind, something that you enjoyed to pay come be wahala.
I just settle one in my compound last week.
I have to use my own money to pay the girl.
The fun the is this my compound own is married man. The wife and the kids stay in Lagos while the man works with Nigeria Guinness in Benin. I was so ashamed for my fellow man. The whole street almost gather in my compound. The girl really created a scene.
Re: Why Do Guys Invite Girls Over For Hookup And Do Not Pay by ozome15(m): 8:11am On Jul 21, 2023
GoldenShowers:


It’s the part he said he’s not paying the girl a dime that killed me!


Why are Uyo guys like this?!’
People they get mind, something that you enjoyed to pay come be wahala.
I just settle one in my compound last week.
I have to use my own money to pay the girl.
The funny the is this my compound own is married man. The wife and the kids stay in Lagos while the man works with Nigeria Guinness in Benin. I was so ashamed for my fellow man. The whole street almost gather in my compound. The girl really created a scene.
Re: Why Do Guys Invite Girls Over For Hookup And Do Not Pay by ozome15(m): 8:12am On Jul 21, 2023
GoldenShowers:


It’s the part he said he’s not paying the girl a dime that killed me!


Why are Uyo guys like this?!’
People they get mind, something that you enjoyed to pay come be wahala.
I just settle one in my compound last week.
I have to use my own money to pay the girl.
The funny thing is this my compound own is a married man. The wife and the kids stay in Lagos while the man works with Nigeria Guinness in Benin. I was so ashamed for my fellow man. The whole street almost gather in my compound. The girl really created a scene.

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Re: Why Do Guys Invite Girls Over For Hookup And Do Not Pay by NoahHadNoArk: 2:43pm On Jul 26, 2023
Eric Tope, Remedy Martins, see as you don cast yourself Ontop 20k kitten


Broda wey mumu🤣
Re: Why Do Guys Invite Girls Over For Hookup And Do Not Pay by toujurs: 11:36am On Feb 20
GoldenShowers:
So, this is one thing that beats me. Why would you negotiate with a girl to sleep with her, either a quickie or a night stand, you invite her over to your house or hotel, you have carnal knowledge of her and you leave her stranded, some guys don’t even give tfare just like the story I’m about to narrate.

These are the men who be forming big boys up and down social media, posting photos and videos in parties, clubs, driving posh cars and flying in choice aircrafts, then you see a girl post sexy photos and videos On her status, you initiate the conversation that you want to have sëx with her all night, you both agree a price, she sacrifices her studies and night sleep to come over to your place, you bang her brains out all night. The next morning you come up with a silly story of your bank app not working, asking her to leave your house that you will do the needful later in the day. She calls all day and you ignore calls and go ahead to block her.

Please let’s not get it twisted, the girl in the story below is 20yrs young student in a university in Uyo. And not your regular slay mama doing hookups. She’s from a struggling family and can barely feed, everyone will agree times are hard in our country today. The guy on the other hand has to be at least in his mid thirties or so. Does that justify why he will exploit that poor girl like that ?!? Will be posting everything I know and have received about the story which happened just two nights ago on Tuesday, including photos and screenshots as sent to me here in Abuja. It’s a tale of lust and exploitation. I bring it down to the courts of Nairaland. Beloved members be the judge.
Don't you have shame, this ashawo!
Re: Why Do Guys Invite Girls Over For Hookup And Do Not Pay by NoahHadNoArk: 11:59am On Feb 20
grin
Re: Why Do Guys Invite Girls Over For Hookup And Do Not Pay by GoldenShowers(f): 12:02pm On Feb 20
toujurs:
Don't you have shame, this ashawo!


Not all girls are like your mother

Keep calm
Re: Why Do Guys Invite Girls Over For Hookup And Do Not Pay by toujurs: 12:53pm On Feb 20
GoldenShowers:



Not all girls are like your mother

Keep calm
Why aren't you proud, of what you do. . Ashawo isn't work.
Re: Why Do Guys Invite Girls Over For Hookup And Do Not Pay by tinmy2016: 1:16pm On Feb 20
People they get mind, something that you enjoyed to pay come be wahala.

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