Okay... this is it, I’m very close to the admin at the place where I work, and we hang out every weekend to take a bottle of bear so we are very close. I can’t understand how this my senior female colleague will always ask me to order food for her and will refuse to pay me back, if I tell her I don’t have money she will call me stingy. A lot of times I have to ask the office guys to buy food for her during lunch break, like 3 times a week at this particular local but expensive restaurant. Her salary is N70,000k above mine and she knows mine but she’s always complaining of being broke. How do I get out of this,dont forget she is my senior colleague?

Stop being so generous bro. Are you attracted to her? If not, quit such simpish attitude.
You come first before anybody. Don't let her manipulate you no more.

Never allow any woman to use the word stingy to get money from you. It’s nothing but blackmail. I know it hurt because each time she said that you will want to spend in other to prove you are not stingy.

I always dump any girl after they use that word stingy. Because it will definitely affect how we run things. If she is so generous then ask her for a favor. If she refused to help you then use the opportunity to cut tie with her immediately. She will always feel guilty because she will stop coming close because she didn’t help you.

Lol.. see wahala?
Are you both dating? Why should you both go out every weekend?
If you are dating then don't complain about the expenses...
But if you aren't dating, then face your life and face what brought you to work... After work, go home, get busy with someone else...
Let her also get her man..

Puss360:
Lol.. see wahala?
Are you both dating? Why should you both go out every weekend?
If you are dating then don't complain about the expenses...
But if you aren't dating, then face your life and face what brought you to work... After work, go home, get busy with someone else...
Let her also get her man..

Bros.. you didn't read my message well. I hang out with me Admin not the lady..

OP, you're being gamed. Watch this video: How to skillfully reject the beggars in YOUR life without triggering hatred and jealousy .


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IPk4YT3ta_4

Pay close attention to what the women in this video say. Here, you have everyday Nigerian women,[b] many of them with huge savings confessing to shaming their colleagues to constantly keep paying for their food and transportation. [/b]One even confesses to topping up her account monthly by always sending requests for 2K to 100 of her suitors. So you're getting broke and she's saving up millions.

The good thing is , once you spot people's strategies, you can prevent it. Many of them have formed the habit of eating free off men who are toasting them, and once they now have to pay for their own food, it has become a problem

DOn't let anyone maga you. Thank me later.

scoobyblogspot:


Bros.. you didn't read my message well. I hang out with me Admin not the lady..

In the first place, why should you buy food for a colleague you both work in thesame environment...?
And even if you do, why always?
Abi no be the same time all of Una dey receive salary??
Abi na your own big pass?
That's why they say, "Don't start what you can't continue or finish"..

Don't mind d werey

Puss360:
Lol.. see wahala?
Are you both dating? Why should you both go out every weekend?
But if you aren't dating, then face your life and face what brought you to work... After work, go home, get busy with someone else...

.

Firstly, women don't like to spend their money and they derive joy spending men's money no matter how much they have.

I hate that attitude honestly.

scoobyblogspot:
Okay... this is it, I’m very close to the admin at the place where I work, and we hang out every weekend to take a bottle of bear so we are very close. I can’t understand how this my senior female colleague will always ask me to order food for her and will refuse to pay me back, if I tell her I don’t have money she will call me stingy. A lot of times I have to ask the office guys to buy food for her during lunch break, like 3 times a week at this particular local but expensive restaurant. Her salary is N70,000k above mine and she knows mine but she’s always complaining of being broke. How do I get out of this,dont forget she is my senior colleague?

In this case, it's better to be stingy than to be foolish. It's obvious that she likes you. I would advise that you shoot your shot and have fun with her. No go slack.

see how she's manipulating you.

oga wise up and tell her no

I pity men who fall for women's blackmail. Before any woman papertuate that shit with you, she has weigh you and concluded that you are foolish and lack the power to say No. Every sensable human being must learn to say no when necessary.

Osashalom:
I pity men who fall for women's blackmail. Before any woman papertuate that shit with you, she has weigh you and concluded that you are foolish and lack the power to say No. Every sensable human being must learn to say no when necessary.

You are indeed a wise man

Bannies!!! They always try to take advantage of a guy's generosity.....

In Erigga's voice--"Na the day wey I do for you I be better person,but the day wey I no do,you go say leave am,na yeye person"

Unless you're falling for her, stop being generous!
Remember that they're always broke no matter the amount of money they have.

scoobyblogspot:
Okay... this is it, I’m very close to the admin at the place where I work, and we hang out every weekend to take a bottle of bear so we are very close. I can’t understand how this my senior female colleague will always ask me to order food for her and will refuse to pay me back, if I tell her I don’t have money she will call me stingy. A lot of times I have to ask the office guys to buy food for her during lunch break, like 3 times a week at this particular local but expensive restaurant. Her salary is N70,000k above mine and she knows mine but she’s always complaining of being broke. How do I get out of this,dont forget she is my senior colleague?

If not for Nairaland, I would have called you Mumu1!
Give Yourself Brain my brother, you are both collecting salary.

Play this game with her anytime soon, start announcing you are broke to her from maybe this week, reduce buying food in the office, tell her to sponsor your food for at least 2–3days stylishly.
Trust me by day 2 she will start complaining, by day 3 Una go don scatter the arrangement. So what’s the point of the relationship.

If you like go and tell her, I told you what to do I will show you shege

you are a mumu man, do this to her, she'll be embarrassed, just take her to that restaurant one afternoon for lunch let it be only you and her then order for high price food, when she's eating the food just do as if someone is calling you on phone and the network is bad then move away from there. she'll never ever try that with you again i swear

I don’t think oo has told us the whole truth, if not why would a senior colleague who earns more than you do be taxing you for bfood, even up to three times in a week and your don’t have the voice to tell her no, your broke tooexcept you have been asking her out if you have a relationship going on with her secretly, why won’t you be bold enough to reject her demands

The next working day, go to her first and tell her you sef Dey broke for the main time due to the hardship, make she sef buy food for you, do that like three times in a week too, if she buy am make I turn to letter K, if you can use that opportunity to scatter Isuzu evil arrangements between you two then you be mumû man truly since you are weak to outrightly reject her demands

talk2hb1:

If not for Nairaland, I would have called you Mumu1!
Give Yourself Brain my brother, you are both collecting salary. Play this game with her anytime soon, start announcing you are broke to her from maybe this week, reduce buying food in the office, tell her to sponsor your food for at least 2–3days stylishly. Trust me by day 2 she will start complaining, by day 3 Una go don scatter the arrangement. So what’s the point of the relationship.
If you like go and tell her, I told you what to do I will show you shege

Bad guy