My uncle promised to help feed me, house me and pay my bills. Then I was fresh out of the University. After my service he promised to make way for me to secure a job with the Federal Government.
I was doing a petty job which I stopped while expecting the one he promised.
He kept sending me money when I didn't secure the job. I called him last week and lamented about a pressing issue but he angrily ended the call. He sent me text that I should move into his house to help his wife do the dishes, laundry and other home chores meant for women and I am 39 years old, how can I do this kind of work? My problem is that the woman may begin to control me. What should I do? Move in or not? Lest I forget, he said he will not help me for free again.

When u are always asking money from him what then do u expect?''
Your uncle even try sef'' 39years'' bro man up and change ur hustle if not u go explain tireee'''

LewisHamilton15:
My uncle promised to help feed me, house me and pay my bills. Then I was fresh out of the University. After my service he promised to make way for me to secure a job with the Federal Government.
I was doing a petty job which I stopped while expecting the one he promised.
He kept sending me money when I didn't secure the job. I called him last week and lamented about a pressing issue but he angrily ended the call. He sent me text that I should move into his house to help his wife do the dishes, laundry and other home chores meant for women and I am 39 years old, how can I do this kind of work? My problem is that the woman may begin to control me. What should I do? Move in or not? Lest I forget, he said he will not help me for free again.

Your beggar still get choice... Very funny


Sorry Mr 39years old... So you are older than doing dishes, laundry and other house chores?

And who the F are you that a woman can't control..

Must you depend on your uncle for help. What happened to the money that he has been sending to you.
Don't be pu**y nigga.

His wife has taken over the wheel.

Don't move in rather move on with your life, else you will serve them for the rest of your life.

LewisHamilton15:
My uncle promised to help feed me, house me and pay my bills. Then I was fresh out of the University. After my service he promised to make way for me to secure a job with the Federal Government.
I was doing a petty job which I stopped while expecting the one he promised.
He kept sending me money when I didn't secure the job. I called him last week and lamented about a pressing issue but he angrily ended the call. He sent me text that I should move into his house to help his wife do the dishes, laundry and other home chores meant for women and I am 39 years old, how can I do this kind of work? My problem is that the woman may begin to control me. What should I do? Move in or not? Lest I forget, he said he will not help me for free again.

Don't go.

Face life as a man, you will be okay in a little time

Foodqueen:
His wife has taken over the wheel.

Don't move in rather move on with your life, else you will serve them for the rest of your life.

You are a knowledge lady..

Your uncle is the most foolish and wicked person in the world.

I lived in my cousins house after I graduated in Abuja.

I used to wash my cousin clothes,his wife clothes and even the children's clothes.

After I secured a job through them,I kept on doing all the above mentioned chores and they loved me so much and that enabled me to save money that,immediately I got married...I left and rented a house and started my life.

Lest I forget,I was in their house when I bought my first land and second land and even two taxis on higher purchase which they never knew...reason was that,staying with them made me saved money as I was not paying rent at all.

Nothing goes for nothing.

Troll .... 39yrs. Uncle has been footing your bills since you finished university? Hian! Better move in papapa to start earning your keep or go look for another way to earn your keep!

LewisHamilton15:
My uncle promised to help feed me, house me and pay my bills. Then I was fresh out of the University. After my service he promised to make way for me to secure a job with the Federal Government.
I was doing a petty job which I stopped while expecting the one he promised.
He kept sending me money when I didn't secure the job. I called him last week and lamented about a pressing issue but he angrily ended the call. He sent me text that I should move into his house to help his wife do the dishes, laundry and other home chores meant for women and I am 39 years old, how can I do this kind of work? My problem is that the woman may begin to control me. What should I do? Move in or not? Lest I forget, he said he will not help me for free again.

This man.. You even get uncle way ask you to come stay with him at39. My uncle promised me money since when I was in level 200. After three calls to him about the prosmise cos hand was touching me as a student then. No body tell me to use my sense. Your own even ask you to come stay with him.. Mine I even asked him to accommodate me after service so I could search for work then cos he was living in the oil rich region of Nigeria. He posted me. I just had to man up and ghost him....

Come and be doing me let me be paying you na.... As work no dey and you no ready hustle...

LewisHamilton15:
My uncle promised to help feed me, house me and pay my bills. Then I was fresh out of the University. After my service he promised to make way for me to secure a job with the Federal Government.
I was doing a petty job which I stopped while expecting the one he promised.
He kept sending me money when I didn't secure the job. I called him last week and lamented about a pressing issue but he angrily ended the call. He sent me text that I should move into his house to help his wife do the dishes, laundry and other home chores meant for women and I am 39 years old, how can I do this kind of work? My problem is that the woman may begin to control me. What should I do? Move in or not? Lest I forget, he said he will not help me for free again.

1. He has seen you as an ingrate. You called him for a pressing issue and at 39 years old can’t figure it out by yourself.

2. As someone has mentioned - move into his house you get free food and accommodation and an opportunity to earn some money.

Ask yourself what other opportunities do you have. ?
Suck up and be a man - the wife would be happy that at least he didn’t bring in a female maid .

Avoid..Man up and create your own path.My rich cousins,Aunty and relatives respect me in secret.All the stupid and humiliating jobs they got for me,I rejected all of them.I was seen as the bad egg,but I trust God and I trust my capabilities.I arrange my life and I am in a much more better situation.

Sacrifice pays' though i love ur writeup'' you see ehn many people has been brainwashed with the nonsense they read online with taking foolish advice from wicked and pride souls'' i make my first million living with my step mom while my mother is still alive.
People don't want to obey life circumstances thereby causing more harms to theirselves.

ibechris:
I lived in my cousins house after I graduated in Abuja.

I used to wash my cousin clothes,his wife clothes and even the children's clothes.

After I secured a job through them,I kept on doing all the above mentioned chores and they loved me so much and that enabled me to save money that,immediately I got married...I left and rented a house and started my life.

Lest I forget,I was in their house when I bought my first land and second land and even two taxis on higher purchase which they never knew...reason was that,staying with them made me saved money as I was not paying rent at all.

Nothing goes for nothing.

talented321:
Sacrifice pays' though i love ur writeup'' you see ehn many people has been brainwashed with the nonsense they read online with taking foolish advice from wicked and pride souls'' i make my first million living with my step mom while my mother is still alive.
People don't want to obey life circumstances thereby causing more harms to theirselves.

Yea,a lot of people feel entitled these days and that is where most problem emanates from.

When did you finish NYSC?

Nairaland the home of ridiculous made up stories. This is joblessness at its peak. Instead of you to use your time and find something doing, you are here doing free work by creating content for seun.

https://www.nairaland.com/7511143/fiancee-broke-up-me-becoming
Here you are are keke rider

https://www.nairaland.com/7442612/aunty-sent-me-packing
Here you had to go live with your Aunty because your parents are traveling to Ghana and you school. Common sense suggest that you are a minor probably in primary or secondary school. Because why does a 39years old guy still schooling has to go live with somebody because his parents are traveling?

https://www.nairaland.com/7379286/it-okay-stay-single-rest
While here you own a business and a federal government job, house and 2 cars.

All this between November to now July.

Dey play.

Proserpina:
39 years old Man

He's single and searching, you can send him a DM. Who knows he might become the president of this country tomorrow and you'll automatically become the first lady. 🤐

LewisHamilton15:
My uncle promised to help feed me, house me and pay my bills. Then I was fresh out of the University. After my service he promised to make way for me to secure a job with the Federal Government.
I was doing a petty job which I stopped while expecting the one he promised.
He kept sending me money when I didn't secure the job. I called him last week and lamented about a pressing issue but he angrily ended the call. He sent me text that I should move into his house to help his wife do the dishes, laundry and other home chores meant for women and I am 39 years old, how can I do this kind of work? My problem is that the woman may begin to control me. What should I do? Move in or not? Lest I forget, he said he will not help me for free again.

is it a crime in doing that please? Do you want to live with them without lifting a finger? Or you expect her to do the laundry for You? You have two options

Either you move into the house and help out in house chores willingly without seeing it as anything

Or

Move on with your life

Just the truth

ibechris:



Yea,a lot of people feel entitled these days and that is where most problem emanates from.

Proserpina:
He should become a President first

Have a little fate jare...😏

You keep coming up with different stories hian
Uncle please rest okay

39 years isn't a kid o!


Please don't go....at this age you should quit depending on him and source for livelihood by yourself.
.
It'd be difficult but it's worth it... when are you going to have your own family if all you do at 39 is cleaning up after your uncle's wife?


Man up abeg!

Childfree:
Nairaland the home of ridiculous made up stories. This is joblessness at its peak. Instead of you to use your time and find something doing, you are here doing free work by creating content for seun.

https://www.nairaland.com/7511143/fiancee-broke-up-me-becoming
Here you are are keke rider

https://www.nairaland.com/7442612/aunty-sent-me-packing
Here you had to go live with your Aunty because your parents are traveling to Ghana and you school. Common sense suggest that you are a minor probably in primary or secondary school. Because why does a 39years old guy still schooling has to go live with somebody because his parents are traveling?

https://www.nairaland.com/7379286/it-okay-stay-single-rest
While here you own a business and a federal government job, house and 2 cars.

All this between November to now July.

Dey play.

Smells like VictorUSA

qtguru:


Smells like VictorUSA

He's the one

LewisHamilton15:
My uncle promised to help feed me, house me and pay my bills. Then I was fresh out of the University. After my service he promised to make way for me to secure a job with the Federal Government.
I was doing a petty job which I stopped while expecting the one he promised.
He kept sending me money when I didn't secure the job. I called him last week and lamented about a pressing issue but he angrily ended the call. He sent me text that I should move into his house to help his wife do the dishes, laundry and other home chores meant for women and I am 39 years old, how can I do this kind of work? My problem is that the woman may begin to control me. What should I do? Move in or not? Lest I forget, he said he will not help me for free again.

At 39 years?

LewisHamilton15:
My uncle promised to help feed me, house me and pay my bills. Then I was fresh out of the University. After my service he promised to make way for me to secure a job with the Federal Government.
I was doing a petty job which I stopped while expecting the one he promised.
He kept sending me money when I didn't secure the job. I called him last week and lamented about a pressing issue but he angrily ended the call. He sent me text that I should move into his house to help his wife do the dishes, laundry and other home chores meant for women and I am 39 years old, how can I do this kind of work? My problem is that the woman may begin to control me. What should I do? Move in or not? Lest I forget, he said he will not help me for free again.

At 39yrs, how do they want you to cope with this new system

I think you need to talk with the wife to beg her husband to assist you to find your bearing

At that age you can't really do such jobs when you are not a small boy or secondary school leaver

LewisHamilton15:
My uncle promised to help feed me, house me and pay my bills. Then I was fresh out of the University. After my service he promised to make way for me to secure a job with the Federal Government.
I was doing a petty job which I stopped while expecting the one he promised.
He kept sending me money when I didn't secure the job. I called him last week and lamented about a pressing issue but he angrily ended the call. He sent me text that I should move into his house to help his wife do the dishes, laundry and other home chores meant for women and I am 39 years old, how can I do this kind of work? My problem is that the woman may begin to control me. What should I do? Move in or not? Lest I forget, he said he will not help me for free again.

The boldfaced, you are a mumu person. Very lazy human being. You stopped working and started waiting for manna from your uncle. 39 years old mumu.