Hi Guys ,Serious Advice is Urgently needed!! There is an international student doing his MSc Abroad in Europe.he traveled alone to the Europe and was planning to bring his wife later on . Meanwhile he met a white girl In school and they became friends with benefit, and she later on moved in with him , along the line she started catching feelings, the guy didn't tell her that he's married back in Nigeria . Now the wife is coming next week with his Child , so he opened up and told the girl that he's married. The girl got angry and threatened to accused him of RAPE if he quits the relationship. Knowing the full consequences of being accused of rape by a white woman abroad, what would you advice him to do

Be ready to face the consequences

Yugoslavia247:
Be ready to face the consequences

Person de find advice, you dey talk another thing .

KingintheNorth:


Person de find advice, you dey talk another thing .

Na im I talk.

Be ready to face the consequences.

Or you want run?

Better be ready

KingintheNorth:


Person de find advice, you dey talk another thing .

Go report yourself to police.

Fly come to your country na''' if not na 10 to 1000000 odd and the odd is against him.

Yugoslavia247:


Na im I talk.

Be ready to face the consequences.

Or you want run?

Better be ready

I'm posting for someone that's not on this forum , I'm not the one oga .

Record the conversation

The flight ticket for 1 person is now N2 million so your saying a master's student can afford N4 million. Does the wife not video call the husband at night.? Am sure the wife knows the kind of man she married and does not mind . Women don't care once the man has enough to go round .

Let him get his voice (and video) recorder on, and he should bring up the topic and make sure he gets her on record issuing the threat - he should bring in his own voice asking the lady if she would accuse him even if it was a lie. Just do it subtly with wisdom. Back up the recording on cloud or send copies to trusted friends.
This is the first step.

Second, avoid any more sexual encounters henceforth. She could make sure it's rough sex so she has vaginal bruises.

Next. Breaking up with a girl needs skill sometimes. A suggestion is to play the victim - there are many ways to achieve that.

I don't support what he did. But rape accusation can completely ruin his life, his wife and kids' lives.

Modified
Why did he wait till one week before his wife arrives? Why didn't he find one excuse and just break up without mentioning his wife?
If you want to be bad guy, be bad guy and be smart!
He is either not smart or the story is not even true

skj1377:
The flight ticket for 1 person is now N2 million so your saying a master's student can afford N4 million. Does the wife not video call the husband at night.? Am sure the wife knows the kind of man she married and does not mind . Women don't care once the man has enough to go round .

I don't know how me manages that, but he said his wife doesn't know about it.

skj1377:
The flight ticket for 1 person is now N2 million so your saying a master's student can afford N4 million. Does the wife not video call the husband at night.? Am sure the wife knows the kind of man she married and does not mind . Women don't care once the man has enough to go round .

Why not , You can earn more than 3million a month as a care worker here . Just that u will pay a tax of 25% of it .

WeirdAlien:
Let him get his voice (and video) recorder on, and he should bring up the topic and make sure he gets her on record issuing the threat - he should bring in his own voice asking the lady if she would accuse him even if it was a lie. Just do it subtly with wisdom. Back up the recording on cloud or send copies to trusted friends.
This is the first step.

Second, avoid any more sexual encounters henceforth.
Next. Breaking up with a girl needs skill sometimes. A suggestion is to play the victim - there are many ways to achieve that.

I don't support what he did. But rape accusation can completely ruin his life, his wife and kids' lives.

Nice one

Omoh.....The guy life don enter armed robber motor like this..........

The guy really bleeped up....One thing I've learnt about whites is that they easily trust,and when the trust is being trampled on,e dey pain dem well well............

Well, the nigha should better find a way to talk to the white girl,if not,na wahala he don enter.

Sonnobax15:

Omoh.....The guy life don enter armed robber motor like this..........

The guy really bleeped up....One thing I've learnt about whites is that they easily trust,and when the trust is being trampled on,e dey pain dem well well............

Well, the nigha should better find a way to talk to the white girl,if not,na wahala he don enter.

The white girl have given him an ultimatum, it's either her or he face the music .

KingintheNorth:
Hi Guys ,Serious Advice is Urgently needed!! There is an international student doing his MSc in the Abroad in Europe.he traveled alone to the Europe and was planning to bring his wife later on . Meanwhile he met a white girl In school and they became friends with benefit, and she later on moved in with him , along the line she started catching feelings, the guy didn't tell her that he's married back in Nigeria . Now the wife is coming next week with his Child , so he opened up and told the girl that he's married. The girl got angry and threatened to accused him of RAPE if he quits the relationship. Knowing the full consequences of being accused of rape by a white woman abroad, what would you advice him to do

Buy a recording device and bring back the topic

Make she repeat the threat on record

Mtcheeew,nothing go happen.He should record the conversation.besides neighbours know they live together.he shud be smart.Nothing go happen at all with the right evidence

Why didnt he open up for white girl before nacking her? He should face his wahala.

skj1377:
The flight ticket for 1 person is now N2 million so your saying a master's student can afford N4 million. Does the wife not video call the husband at night.? Am sure the wife knows the kind of man she married and does not mind . Women don't care once the man has enough to go round .

Is he earning in naira or which Kain question be this....

KingintheNorth:


The white girl have given him an ultimatum, it's either her or he face the music .

She should go and report naaaa...rape charges cannot stick...but fvcking her under false pretense can fly..

KingintheNorth:
Hi Guys ,Serious Advice is Urgently needed!! There is an international student doing his MSc in the Abroad in Europe.he traveled alone to the Europe and was planning to bring his wife later on . Meanwhile he met a white girl In school and they became friends with benefit, and she later on moved in with him , along the line she started catching feelings, the guy didn't tell her that he's married back in Nigeria . Now the wife is coming next week with his Child , so he opened up and told the girl that he's married. The girl got angry and threatened to accused him of RAPE if he quits the relationship. Knowing the full consequences of being accused of rape by a white woman abroad, what would you advice him to do

If they've been dating and cohabiting then she doesn't have a case.

He should face the consequences.
He knows he has a wife and child in Nigeria, which he is even planning/going to bring down there and he has been using one white girl over there, and he just wanted her to go just like that?

Who does that?
He wants to eat his cake and still have it?

KingintheNorth:
Hi Guys ,Serious Advice is Urgently needed!! There is an international student doing his MSc Abroad in Europe.he traveled alone to the Europe and was planning to bring his wife later on . Meanwhile he met a white girl In school and they became friends with benefit, and she later on moved in with him , along the line she started catching feelings, the guy didn't tell her that he's married back in Nigeria . Now the wife is coming next week with his Child , so he opened up and told the girl that he's married. The girl got angry and threatened to accused him of RAPE if he quits the relationship. Knowing the full consequences of being accused of rape by a white woman abroad, what would you advice him to do

Accuse her first before it's too late

KingintheNorth:
Hi Guys ,Serious Advice is Urgently needed!! There is an international student doing his MSc Abroad in Europe.he traveled alone to the Europe and was planning to bring his wife later on . Meanwhile he met a white girl In school and they became friends with benefit, and she later on moved in with him , along the line she started catching feelings, the guy didn't tell her that he's married back in Nigeria . Now the wife is coming next week with his Child , so he opened up and told the girl that he's married. The girl got angry and threatened to accused him of RAPE if he quits the relationship. Knowing the full consequences of being accused of rape by a white woman abroad, what would you advice him to do

Oga this one is very easy now, the guy should always record their conversations. Atleast he will use it as a backup.

Na 9ja girls national anthem be that ooh! Even in America, UK or 9ja. They are all the same.

The only solution is, give her money and more knacking. That is the only thing that an Ashawo want. Give them money and more knacking nothing else and you will be in their good book

@OP Your friend abi you?.. when you dey enjoy with her, you tell us?
Just know your life is ruined if the akata girl eventually accuse you of rape. You shouldn't have told her you're married, you would have looked for one excuse or quarrel to end the relationship. No be me go teach you bad thing sha.

If all you said is true and you did not rape her, go straight to the Police and report her threat. I am surprised that was not the first thing you did. How long ago did she make the threat? If you wait, then you will have to explain why you didn't go to the Police immediately she made the threat.

This is so very serious. I have seen good people go to jail here because of rape accusations and being African means you are more than likely not to get a robust hearing. The injustice of the UK justice system for Africans is horrendous.

Take all of the evidence on when you both met and started your fwb and when she moved in and exactly what led to her threat.

You better run straight to the Police before today ends. The terrible thing about threats of rape is that she can actually report and formally accuse you even in thirty years time. Maybe she will become poor at old age and decide to use you to make money. Go straight to the Police.

Be ready to be open to your wife about this. Don't try and hide it from her by not reporting to the Police as it will ultimately come out. It is better to be divorced than go to jail, register in the sex offenders register for life and be deported.

I also want you to know that if you do not report this today, you will most likely go to jail whenever she finally reports you. You have no excuse.

You also need to take a good look at yourself. If you are innocent, why did you come on here to seek advice for whoever? if someone stops you on the road and accuse you of murder, what will you do instinctively? You will go to the Police directly. Examine yourself and be honest with yourself. Accusation of rape is worse than accusation of murder, here.

KingintheNorth:
Hi Guys ,Serious Advice is Urgently needed!! There is an international student doing his MSc Abroad in Europe.he traveled alone to the Europe and was planning to bring his wife later on . Meanwhile he met a white girl In school and they became friends with benefit, and she later on moved in with him , along the line she started catching feelings, the guy didn't tell her that he's married back in Nigeria . Now the wife is coming next week with his Child , so he opened up and told the girl that he's married. The girl got angry and threatened to accused him of RAPE if he quits the relationship. Knowing the full consequences of being accused of rape by a white woman abroad, what would you advice him to do

You are actually safer in any type of relationship with a white woman than with a Nigerian woman. In the pecking order, I will go White, Africans from other African countries/Caribbean. Then if you have no choice, Nigerian women. They are by far the most dangerous set of women here, unless you are a street guy like them. You work professionally and have a lot to lose? Run from Nigerian women. I'm sure there are exceptions. But it's better to be safe than sorry.

Proserpina:
FWB with white lady in the UK, Op's friend has liver

Let him report himself to his school Union, they will tell him what to do. I hope he has money and can get a lawyer.

Na fear I dey fear you. But I guess you've been around a while and understand. That is exactly how I would have dealt with it.

But it is insanity to be a married man, your wife is coming to join you, even if it is in a year's time, yet you went and got yourself a live in lover.

He needs to pay a price for that stupidity. But definitely not the price of rape, if he didn't do it.

WeirdAlien:
Let him get his voice (and video) recorder on, and he should bring up the topic and make sure he gets her on record issuing the threat - he should bring in his own voice asking the lady if she would accuse him even if it was a lie. Just do it subtly with wisdom. Back up the recording on cloud or send copies to trusted friends.
This is the first step.

Second, avoid any more sexual encounters henceforth.
Next. Breaking up with a girl needs skill sometimes. A suggestion is to play the victim - there are many ways to achieve that.

I don't support what he did. But rape accusation can completely ruin his life, his wife and kids' lives.

Modified
Why did he wait till one week before his wife arrives? Why didn't he find one excuse and just break up without mentioning his wife?
If you want to be bad guy, be bad guy and be smart!
He is either not smart or the story is not even true

OP should start a discussion with the white lady and secretly record the conversation in both videos and audio.
He should ensure she express those blackmailing statement.

Living together does not preclude rape. Google marital rape law in the UK.

Aaaaarghmed:
Mtcheeew,nothing go happen.He should record the conversation.besides neighbours know they live together.he shud be smart.Nothing go happen at all with the right evidence