Okay I’m dating this pretty girl she is cool and awesome we have been together for 8 months… she was a virgin when we met and I’m the one that disflowered her But I decided to quit the relationship cuz I’m broke and things are pretty tight for me


Not that she askes me for money or anything but I just felt bad cuz I know as a girl she has needs so I decided to let her go

The thing is I’m scared of seeing a nice girl like her again with good character that smell nice down there she is the only girl have given head cuz she is neat most girls have met do have a kind of odour down there

Please help me I’m I making the right decision?


Nlfpmode

How old is the girl and how old are you?

immortalcrown:
How old is the girl and how old are you?

I’m in early twenties while she is 19

Miravik900:

I’m in early twenties while she is 19

You took her virginity and dumped her. Lack of money will be a valid reason if the relationship never started. Be sincere, you have satisfied your lust for her.

You don't even believe in better days ahead

You never tell us why you dumped her.

immortalcrown:
You took her virginity and dumped her. Lack of money will be a valid reason if the relationship never started. Be sincere, you have satisfied your lust for her.

Bro I still love her

Miravik900:

Bro I still love her

The point is you have satisfied your lust for her.

immortalcrown:
The point is you have satisfied your lust for her.

No bro I’m very much into her is just because of my finances nothing else

Miravik900:

No bro I’m very much into her is just because of my finances nothing else

Story for the gods.

Miravik900:


No bro I’m very much into her is just because of my finances nothing else

But chairman you didn't tell us the kind of job u were into before meeting her cuz according to this your story now, it's like you just lost your job and won't be able to cater for her any longer so u decided to free her so she wouldn't suffer... Abi?
Chairman make you dey fear God. Fact is if you really love her as u r preaching here,u wld hate to let her go in ur dreams not to talk of in reality. Don't hurt that precious gift cuz u won't find a virgin like that everyday.

You are making the right decision if what you posted is the truth. It is a painful experience that you will feel for a very long time.

But you are building yourself with the right attitude towards a successful future, if you walk away from your comfort zone that gives you temporary reward

tommy589:
You are making the right decision if what you posted is the truth. It is a painful experience that you will feel for a very long time.

But you are building yourself with the right attitude towards a successful future, if you walk away from your comfort zone that gives you temporary reward

Dumping the girl cos dude's broke now means he's walking towards success?
Plain bullshit.

Forget about financing her needs now you are not her parents.what she needs from you now is attention if you really love her.

tommy589:
You are making the right decision if what you posted is the truth. It is a painful experience that you will feel for a very long time.

But you are building yourself with the right attitude towards a successful future, if you walk away from your comfort zone that gives you temporary reward

This would have been valid if he hasn't slept with her which was what he ever wanted. The truth is we won't be reading this if he's yet to sleep with her.
It's very good to be in the men's space and know how they reason. Opening legs anyhow and cheaply for a man as a teenager is one of her greatest mistake. Another one is dating a man who is financially unstable and still trying to find a balance in life.

Miravik900:
Okay I’m dating this pretty girl she is cool and awesome we have been together for 8 months… she was a virgin when we met and I’m the one that disflowered her But I decided to quit the relationship cuz I’m broke and things are pretty tight for me


Not that she askes me for money or anything but I just felt bad cuz I know as a girl she has needs so I decided to let her go

The thing is I’m scared of seeing a nice girl like her again with good character that smell nice down there she is the only girl have given head cuz she is neat most girls have met do have a kind of odour down there

Please help me I’m I making the right decision?

You let a virgin woman go?
Like, you let her go?

Son, you missed!
What is wrong with you?

Drop your phone and find that girl now!
Useless boy. Look at his head like sandpaper.

On a serious note, Try to get her back. If you tried to reach her and she rejected you, move on. You will find a better woman.

A girl you took her virginity, is a girl that will stick with you for life.
My advice go look for something to do for funds to be coming to your pocket daily, not monthly.
If you let her go, you go REGRET am, like the way I'm regretting mine till today.

When relationship is all about what a person gets financially this is what it results to.

A person thinking he is not capable of love because he can not give another money at this moment of time. Assuming you get married today, whenever you go broke you will divorce your wife and remarry when you bounce back.

You are amongst people who puts forward the notion some ladies carry around that once they don't get financial reward in a relationship then they should take a walk.

Relationship is a time to get to know someone's personality, likes and dislikes, future ambitions and a time to walk along and plan for how you both will meander through vicissitudes of life unscathed and not a financial rehabilitation center.

Been broke has nothing to do with wether you can go ahead with relationship with an opposite sex. If you keep discontinuing your relationship when you have financial constraint then you are only there to foot the lifestyle of another and not there to know that person.

Miravik900:
Okay I’m dating this pretty
Please help me I’m I making the right decision?


Nlfpmode

There is a picture of a couple trending on Nairaland...how it started versus how it's going...despite the guy's tattered clothes, the babe is still with him and even snapping pictures with him...therein lies your answer or lesson

Trust me bro,your greatest mistake was breaking things up by yourself.....You shouldn't have done that.. Instead you should have kept your cool and let her initiate the break up, probably when she gets fed up with your situation......

But the truth is that you may not be lucky to have her back or even find someone like her again..... just count your losses and move on with your life.....

Too bad.....

IconicR:
This would have been valid if he hasn't slept with her which was what he ever wanted. The truth is we won't be reading this if he's yet to sleep with her.
It's very good to be in the men's space and know how they reason. Opening legs anyhow and cheaply for a man as a teenager is one of her greatest mistake. Another one is dating a man who is financially unstable and still trying to find a balance in life.

Try not to judge men by his post or mine. He posted a relatable story of what I experienced and it was pure love and not sex. She was too good,not demanding and willing to give me the little she has,but I lost my job in the course of the relationship. With nothing to bring to the table, I knew I had leave.

No one has ever come close,despite that I have been married,divorced and even tried polygamy. To me,life is about winning some and losing some

There are 1001 girls out there who are better than her when you make money and living comfortably, you will have several choice os beautiful girls who smell nice down there according to you so your Excuse is lame btw

You have to talk to her like a man and not just dump her, explain to her your decision and why you have to work on your self right now, she may see it as you are running away after getting what you wanted, but it Is what It is

The other option is for you to persuade her, to be patient with you while you work on your self, I have inow gurls that stuck with their guys when the guy was struggling and today the guy is comfortable and the girl is still with him

Miravik900:


No bro I’m very much into her is just because of my finances nothing else

Did she ask you for money? I guess "No." The Spirit of Lust that had been hovering over you that made you disflower innocent girl had left you and you're now back to reality.

sad!