As you prepare to join the japa wave, these are the tips I have for you to guarantee peace in the abroad;

1. Forget women. One thing you should do is deemphasise your mind from the lies that you’ve been fed that they love Nigerian men. You’re probably gonna be sex starved for donkey years (well unless you’re really good looking 👀 ,have a good height and u have something going on for you)

2. Women can put u in trouble. Oyinbo women are hypocrite. They smile at you and still stab u at the back. You’re not going to die if u don’t talk to women for years. You’re going there to make money and live a decent life. Take women off ur mind completely for some years first.

3. Abroad is boring and lonely and can be depressing. But remember what take u there in the first place. You’re going to be transitioning between work and home. So be patient, prepared and everything will get better wit time.

4. Again, forget women!!

At point number two, not just white women, but everyone.

It's in their culture to smile (even with their dislike of you) and they see it as obligatory but the mistake would be to take it for likeness or friendliness. Don't!

When push comes to shove, they will treat your Bleep up without an ounce of remorse so always guard your end.

If they smile at you, smile back and keep it moving.

Raalsalghul:
At point number two, not just white women, but everyone.

It's in their culture to smile (even with their dislike of you) and they see it as obligatory but the mistake would be to take it for likeness or friendliness. Don't!

When push comes to shove, they will treat your Bleep up without an ounce of remorse so always guard your end.

If they smile at you, smile back and keep it moving.

It’s a fake smile. Especially their women. They do that when they sight someone that look like he’s a black immigrant and especially when they’re not in company of a male that can protect them. Maybe they think u want to harm them or something so they disarm u with a fake smile first

Raalsalghul:
At point number two, not just white women, but everyone.

It's in their culture to smile (even with their dislike of you) and they see it as obligatory but the mistake would be to take it for likeness or friendliness. Don't!

When push comes to shove, they will treat your Bleep up without an ounce of remorse so always guard your end.

If they smile at you, smile back and keep it moving.

So true. Have experienced this so many times at work

Right005:
As you prepare to join the japa wave, these are the tips I have for you to guarantee peace in the abroad;

1. Forget women. One thing you should do is deemphasise your mind from the lies that you’ve been fed that they love Nigerian men. You’re probably gonna be sex starved for donkey years (well unless you’re really good looking 👀 ,have a good height and u have something going on for you)

2. Women can put u in trouble. Oyinbo women are hypocrite. They smile at you and still stab u at the back. You’re not going to die if u don’t talk to women for years. You’re going there to make money and live a decent life. Take women off ur mind completely for some years first.

3. Abroad is boring and lonely and can be depressing. But remember what take u there in the first place. You’re going to be transitioning between work and home. So be patient, prepared and everything will get better wit time.

4. Again, forget women!!

Tensa20 don tell me say Muslim men are the real alpha males in Nigeria because of the closed system they benefit from regarding access to women and dating. A non-Muslim man cannot get access to their women unless the man converts to Islam. Unless she leaves outside her dominant area, most Muslim ladies cannot date or marry non-Muslim men. Effectively, only Muslim men can get married to Muslim women and due to it being closed, they enjoy everything inside. Sometimes, it gets racial as only black Muslim men can marry black Muslim women, as very few non-black Muslim men marry black Muslim females. Unlike Christianity, where a Zambian man can marry a white British woman. But an Indonesian man will instead marry a Malay Muslim woman instead of an Ivorien female Muslim

The closest to it is Northern Nigerian Christian women. Since they reside in a Muslim-majority region, they tend to adopt Islamic cultural traits and would display similar characteristics as outlined in the screenshot above. Like Muslim ladies, most Northern Nigerian Christian women marry from within because few non-Northern Christian men live in the north. Thus, if you are a Christian man from the south who wants access to women who have fewer suitors outside their dominant community BUT are willing to marry outsiders, head to regions in Northern Nigeria where Christians are the majority.

Right005:


It’s a fake smile. Especially their women. They do that when they sight someone that look like he’s a black immigrant and especially when they’re not in company of a male that can protect them. Maybe they think u want to harm them or something so they disarm u with a fake smile first

on point.

Gerrard59:


Tensa20 don tell me say Muslim men are the real alpha males in Nigeria because of the closed system they benefit from regarding access to women and dating. A non-Muslim man cannot get access to their women unless the man converts to Islam. Unless she leaves outside her dominant area, most Muslim ladies cannot date or marry non-Muslim men. Effectively, only Muslim men can get married to Muslim women and due to it being closed, they enjoy everything inside. Sometimes, it gets racial as only black Muslim men can marry black Muslim women, as very few non-black Muslim men marry black Muslim females. Unlike Christianity, where a Zambian man can marry a white British woman. But an Indonesian man will instead marry a Malay Muslim woman instead of an Ivorien female Muslim

The closest to it is Northern Nigerian Christian women. Since they reside in a Muslim-majority region, they tend to adopt Islamic cultural traits and would display similar characteristics as outlined in the screenshot above. Like Muslim ladies, most Northern Nigerian Christian women marry from within because few non-Northern Christian men live in the north. Thus, if you are a Christian man from the south who wants access to women who have fewer suitors outside their dominant community BUT are willing to marry outsiders, head to regions in Northern Nigeria where Christians are the majority.

This is not what this thread is about so stop posting off-topic!

You don't need to tell them to forget women. They will lose that memory by themselves.

But hey. It's not all zero. Your social circle matters. If you want women visit clubs regularly! "When you go black, you can't go back" - if you don't gerrit forget about it.

Anyways, when you have better things to do with your life, women will be the last thing on your mind.

As you plan to japa, here are a few tips that helps


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eAiqIyuG0hM

Gerrard59:


Tensa20 don tell me say Muslim men are the real alpha males in Nigeria because of the closed system they benefit from regarding access to women and dating. A non-Muslim man cannot get access to their women unless the man converts to Islam. Unless she leaves outside her dominant area, most Muslim ladies cannot date or marry non-Muslim men. Effectively, only Muslim men can get married to Muslim women and due to it being closed, they enjoy everything inside. Sometimes, it gets racial as only black Muslim men can marry black Muslim women, as very few non-black Muslim men marry black Muslim females. Unlike Christianity, where a Zambian man can marry a white British woman. But an Indonesian man will instead marry a Malay Muslim woman instead of an Ivorien female Muslim

The closest to it is Northern Nigerian Christian women. Since they reside in a Muslim-majority region, they tend to adopt Islamic cultural traits and would display similar characteristics as outlined in the screenshot above. Like Muslim ladies, most Northern Nigerian Christian women marry from within because few non-Northern Christian men live in the north. Thus, if you are a Christian man from the south who wants access to women who have fewer suitors outside their dominant community BUT are willing to marry outsiders, head to regions in Northern Nigeria where Christians are the majority.

Yes. Muslim women can’t marry a man from other religion unless she’s not practising. However, on some conditions Muslim men can marry women from other religion and in fact we are allowed to marry up to 4

Obierika:


This is not what this thread is about so stop posting off-topic!

Did you not see the picture he posted?!

Gerrard59:


Tensa20 don tell me say Muslim men are the real alpha males in Nigeria because of the closed system they benefit from regarding access to women and dating. A non-Muslim man cannot get access to their women unless the man converts to Islam. Unless she leaves outside her dominant area, most Muslim ladies cannot date or marry non-Muslim men. Effectively, only Muslim men can get married to Muslim women and due to it being closed, they enjoy everything inside. Sometimes, it gets racial as only black Muslim men can marry black Muslim women, as very few non-black Muslim men marry black Muslim females. Unlike Christianity, where a Zambian man can marry a white British woman. But an Indonesian man will instead marry a Malay Muslim woman instead of an Ivorien female Muslim

The closest to it is Northern Nigerian Christian women. Since they reside in a Muslim-majority region, they tend to adopt Islamic cultural traits and would display similar characteristics as outlined in the screenshot above. Like Muslim ladies, most Northern Nigerian Christian women marry from within because few non-Northern Christian men live in the north. Thus, if you are a Christian man from the south who wants access to women who have fewer suitors outside their dominant community BUT are willing to marry outsiders, head to regions in Northern Nigeria where Christians are the majority.

Right005:
As you prepare to join the japa wave, these are the tips I have for you to guarantee peace in the abroad;

1. Forget women. One thing you should do is deemphasise your mind from the lies that you’ve been fed that they love Nigerian men. You’re probably gonna be sex starved for donkey years (well unless you’re really good looking 👀 ,have a good height and u have something going on for you)

2.[b] Women can put u in trouble. Oyinbo women are hypocrite. They smile at you and still stab u at the back. [/b]You’re not going to die if u don’t talk to women for years. You’re going there to make money and live a decent life. Take women off ur mind completely for some years first.

3. Abroad is boring and lonely and can be depressing. But remember what take u there in the first place. You’re going to be transitioning between work and home. So be patient, prepared and everything will get better wit time.

4. Again, forget women!!

Yet it is believed women don't take responsibility for their actions.

Grope women and they report you=women can put you in trouble

Get a lady pregnant and she demands child support=women can put you in trouble

Abuse or assault women and you get deported or jailed=women can put you in trouble.

Never the man indiscipline or bad behavior, but the woman retaliation

And you are yet to wonder why it is only naija men that gets showed shege when they land abroad and never our naija women . Do we women have two heads or what?

Tell your brothers to act right,and behave themselves,else they keep getting issues with the law whilst our ladies keep flourishing and making us proud abroad

Right005:
As you prepare to join the japa wave, these are the tips I have for you to guarantee peace in the abroad;

1. Forget women. One thing you should do is deemphasise your mind from the lies that you’ve been fed that they love Nigerian men. You’re probably gonna be sex starved for donkey years (well unless you’re really good looking 👀 ,have a good height and u have something going on for you)

That is because there is no economic benefit for a white British/German/Norwegian woman to marry a black African. None whatsoever! Ask yourself, if you were a white Swedish female, what economic benefit do you derive from marrying a black African man? Marriage is a business transaction. Additionally, humans marry their type. Rarely do they marry outside their ethnic or racial group. The US - the most developed country that is diverse - has less than 20% interracial marriages. Brazil, the next racially diverse country, is slightly above that. The rest of the world is largely homogenous. Furthermore, these white women have seen black men for over half a century. So, what should freak her seeing these ones who look like refugees fleeing famine in black Africa?

At best, if she desires to marry a black man, she is better off with the one born and bred in the country - culturally assimilated or an African American - with economic benefit and no fear he is marrying because of residence status. But then, how many African American men are in the UK compared to black African men as recent migrants?

2. Women can put u in trouble. Oyinbo women are hypocrite. They smile at you and still stab u at the back. You’re not going to die if u don’t talk to women for years. You’re going there to make money and live a decent life. Take women off ur mind completely for some years first.

This is true. Hopefully, more Nigerian men know this before we get another episode of men travelling from Leeds to Scotland to sleep with teens or chatting with a 16 year old girl and doubling down even when she mentioned her age.

The question is: would they listen?

Abroad is boring and lonely and can be depressing. But remember what take u there in the first place. You’re going to be transitioning between work and home. So be patient, prepared and everything will get better wit time.

Yes. However, anyone who complains of abroad being depressing should go back to his dominant environment and ensure it is prosperous, then apply his sanguine cultural traits. The men in the abroad built those societies to fit their cultural concept of enjoyment. New migrants either fit in or go back home and create their own boisterous environment that is as wealthy as their counterparts in the abroad.

CuriousStudent:


Yet it is believed women don't take responsibility for their actions.

Grope women and they report you=women can put you in trouble

Get a lady pregnant and she demands child support=women can put you in trouble

Abuse or assault women and you get deported or jailed=women can put you in trouble.

Never the man indiscipline or bad behavior, but the woman retaliation

And you are yet to wonder why it is only naija men that gets showed shege when they land abroad and never our naija women . Do we women have two heads or what?

Tell your brothers to act right,and behave themselves,else they keep getting issues with the law whilst our ladies keep flourishing and making us proud abroad

Ok

Gerrard59:
Yes. However, anyone who complains of abroad being depressing should go back to his dominant environment and ensure it is prosperous, then apply his sanguine cultural traits. The men in the abroad built those societies to fit their cultural concept of enjoyment. New migrants either fit in or go back home and create their own boisterous environment that is as wealthy as their counterparts in the abroad.

This needs to be said until everyone understands.

Thank you sir

Right005:


Ok

Read to understand. No one was talking about black men or black women being desirable

It was about crime or getting in trouble. You said avoid women because they put you in trouble,and I was saying why has a naija woman that traveled abroad not been put in trouble with the law by their spouses? Why has no one ever called the cops on naija women abroad or report them,why only naija men getting reported or thrown into jail by the naija wives or white wives?

CuriousStudent:

Read to understand. No one was talking about black men or black women being desirable

It was about crime or getting in trouble. You said avoid women because they put you in trouble,and I was saying why has a naija woman that traveled abroad not been put in trouble with the law by their spouses? Why has no one ever called the cops on naija women abroad or report them,why only naija men getting reported or thrown into jail by the naija wives or white wives?

Use ur brain. It’s because women control domestic and other affairs there. Imagine a man calling to report his wife of violence in America, u think anyone will believe him when the wife can easily rope him to say he maltreated her?