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Advice To Single Women At 40 by Teflon7: 4:19am On Aug 06, 2023
Dear Ladies,
If you're clocking 40 years old and yet no husband is coming,
Look for a guy you love either married or single and let him knack you and impregnate you.

You need a child that will look after you at old age.

Don't let anyone deceive you, Marriage is not an achievement, and it's not everybody that will get married.

You can still be single with your own child and still be happy and fulfill your purpose here on earth.

Stop waiting for something that may never happen. I'm only trying to make common sense

I came in peace

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Re: Advice To Single Women At 40 by Omoawoke: 4:31am On Aug 06, 2023
Teflon7:
Dear Ladies,
If you're clocking 40 years old and yet no husband is coming,
Look for a guy you love either married or single and let him knack you and impregnate you.

You need a child that will look after you at old age.

Don't let anyone deceive you, Marriage is not an achievement, and it's not everybody that will get married.

You can still be single with your own child and still be happy and fulfill your purpose here on earth.

Stop waiting for something that may never happen. I'm only trying to make common sense

I came in peace

I blame unnecessary western system.
Polygamy is far better than divorce. It is time we bring back polygamy to Africa.
Too many single ladies when we should marry like 3 or 4.
I can comfortably take care of 3 wives at the moment. But I’m struggling to decide on choosing one because of westernization.

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Re: Advice To Single Women At 40 by Curse777: 5:05am On Aug 06, 2023
A single woman at 40 is mostly addicted to the single lifestyle and freedom... Some people hate responsibility

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Re: Advice To Single Women At 40 by advanceDNA: 5:10am On Aug 06, 2023
Omoawoke:


I blame unnecessary western system.
Polygamy is far better than divorce. It is time we bring back polygamy to Africa.
Too many single ladies when we should marry like 3 or 4.
I can comfortably take care of 3 wives at the moment. But I’m struggling to decide on choosing one because of westernization.

U are just capping..... grin
How is westernization making u struggle??
If u wan marry 3 wives...marry them naaa
.no one is stopping you....

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Re: Advice To Single Women At 40 by SanctifiedSista(f): 5:11am On Aug 06, 2023
Teflon7:
Dear Ladies,
If you're clocking 40 years old and yet no husband is coming,
Look for a guy you love either married or single and let him knack you and impregnate you.

You need a child that will look after you at old age.

Don't let anyone deceive you, Marriage is not an achievement, and it's not everybody that will get married.

You can still be single with your own child and still be happy and fulfill your purpose here on earth.

Stop waiting for something that may never happen. I'm only trying to make common sense

I came in peace

Keep your satanic advise to yourself before you attract a curse. Only bastards and worthless people will accept such advise from a devil. JESUS CHRIST did not marry,did he die? Better carry your mata to the Holy Spirit. You want HIM to help u, av a relationship with HIM and HE will wipe away your secret tears

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Re: Advice To Single Women At 40 by wrongman665(m): 5:52am On Aug 06, 2023
If you know you are more than 35 yrs without husband, just go and get pregnant and born for your papa house becouse you will neve marry again. You can born up to 6 childrend with defrence fathers nobody will ask you why.
Re: Advice To Single Women At 40 by Oxb90: 6:17am On Aug 06, 2023
wrongman665:
If you know you are more than 35 yrs without husband, just go and get pregnant and born for your papa house becouse you will neve marry again. You can born up to 6 childrend with defrence fathers nobody will ask you why.
This advice is choking to say the least.

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Re: Advice To Single Women At 40 by Rokiat(f): 6:18am On Aug 06, 2023
Why are you worried about the lives of women so much?

Worry about yourself. Smh.

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Re: Advice To Single Women At 40 by Nursepepeye(f): 7:38am On Aug 06, 2023
advanceDNA:


U are just capping..... grin
How is westernization making u struggle??
If u wan marry 3 wives...marry them naaa
.no one is stopping you....
that one single wife is always holding knife 🗡️🔪 around everywhere she goes that's the problem, women are thier own problem, they don't accept allow men to bring them together.

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Re: Advice To Single Women At 40 by CaptMarvel(m): 7:44am On Aug 06, 2023
It's a World problem.
I was watching a documentary on China and I was like OMG!

There's influx of Women and low income Men. Marriage will never happen to some women, it's just common sense analysis.

If you have a husband hold am tight. If you have a man you believe you can make a future with hold am tight.

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Re: Advice To Single Women At 40 by advanceDNA: 7:50am On Aug 06, 2023
Nursepepeye:
that one single wife is always holding knife 🗡️🔪 around everywhere she goes that's the problem, women are thier own problem, they don't accept allow men to bring them together.

Lol... the problem is men doing monogamous marriages and pretending to be monogamous.

If from the start the man has told her "we are doing traditional marriage only because i may marry two wives"...them no born am will make she hold knife....will regina nwoko hold knife..is she not living with other wives....??

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Re: Advice To Single Women At 40 by Nursepepeye(f): 8:02am On Aug 06, 2023
advanceDNA:


Lol... the problem is men doing monogamous marriages and pretending to be monogamous.

If from the start the man has told her "we are doing traditional marriage only because i may marry two wives"...them no born am will make she hold knife....will regina nwoko hold knife..is she not living with other wives....??
Na RIP highest you dey type when he surp.
Re: Advice To Single Women At 40 by manchyme: 8:04am On Aug 06, 2023
Omoawoke:


I blame unnecessary western system.
Polygamy is far better than divorce. It is time we bring back polygamy to Africa.
Too many single ladies when we should marry like 3 or 4.
I can comfortably take care of 3 wives at the moment. But I’m struggling to decide on choosing one because of westernization.

Good to hear that you can comfortably take of three, what about the kids coming from them. That's like at least 9 kids.
You're right, that would be taking out three women from the streets.
I also have a sister who's almost 40 now, I don't know how to advise her to go and get pregnant for a man and take care of the product herself for her old age.

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Re: Advice To Single Women At 40 by manchyme: 8:08am On Aug 06, 2023
SanctifiedSista:


Keep your satanic advise to yourself before you attract a curse. Only bastards and worthless people will accept such advise from a devil. JESUS CHRIST did not marry,did he die? Better carry your mata to the Holy Spirit. You want HIM to help u, av a relationship with HIM and HE will wipe away your secret tears

Madam no be by force to marry oooo.
Old age is fast approaching, only your own kids can take care of you. Your sibling kids will not have your time. If you have small money to take care of a child kindly look for someone to get you pregnant. The person may not even know. It is not a satanic advice.

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Re: Advice To Single Women At 40 by advanceDNA: 8:26am On Aug 06, 2023
manchyme:


Madam no be by force to marry oooo.
Old age is fast approaching, only your own kids can take care of you. Your sibling kids will not have your time. If you have small money to take care of a child kindly look for someone to get you pregnant. The person may not even know. It is not a satanic advice.

Allow single 40 year old women breeeefff grin

Make una no dey tension these ladies abeg...

Their prime has passed....let them enjoy the remaining years of loneliness in peace

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Re: Advice To Single Women At 40 by Koppaguard: 8:49am On Aug 06, 2023
Op you are right, most times I used to wonder why their thought pattern ain't tilted towards that direction, how dumb and unreasonable could their reasoning be that they don't think about the future at all . Most times you as a concerned person wouldn't know how to go about advising them on this matter.

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Re: Advice To Single Women At 40 by Nobody: 9:32am On Aug 06, 2023
How does their life affect you? So many effeminate men these days, why will you carry women matter for head like heavy load? Face your existence and try to live a fulfilled life for yourself.

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Re: Advice To Single Women At 40 by myyansh68(m): 9:55am On Aug 06, 2023
So happy Women, are going against Marriage..
Look at the Marriage rate ,it's declining day after day.

Egyptian Women are saying No! [ I guess the ancient Egyptian gods will be weeping cool ].
Korean Women are saying No!
Japanese
Romania
Chinese
USA
Hungary
Latvia
Slovenia,
Portugal
Luxembourg
Moroccan Ladies
Nigerian Women

UK Women, all are standing up. This is to show that Men ain't shit no matter the location. They need a tranditional lady yet can't be one and will cheat on her with modern lady, running away from their responsibilities . I thank God, Women can't be easily be brainwashed lik our former Mothers. The more we have independent Women, the more y'all will see Men ain't worth the stress and your body/womb.

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Re: Advice To Single Women At 40 by ednut1(m): 10:31am On Aug 06, 2023
Omoawoke:


I blame unnecessary western system.
Polygamy is far better than divorce. It is time we bring back polygamy to Africa.
Too many single ladies when we should marry like 3 or 4.
I can comfortably take care of 3 wives at the moment. But I’m struggling to decide on choosing one because of westernization.
the average man these days can’t even feed a wife and few kids. You want them to marry more wives Generational poverty things

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Re: Advice To Single Women At 40 by goldust777: 10:53am On Aug 06, 2023
Most Nigerian women above 40 are not marriageable there is a dirty reason they are not married oloshoism,high body count, looking for men that only exist in their feeble minds, looking for dangote that doesn't want them,bad character, narcissism, sociopath and psychopathetic behavior marry Dem at your own peril undecided

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Re: Advice To Single Women At 40 by Zigzagman: 2:08pm On Aug 06, 2023
Interesting
Re: Advice To Single Women At 40 by Omoawoke: 2:30pm On Aug 06, 2023
ednut1:
the average man these days can’t even feed a wife and few kids. You want them to marry more wives Generational poverty things

What of men above average.
Some men can take care of a family of 10 comfortably. Three wives with two kids each… that’s 10.
There are also many ladies out there that are doing very well. You will see a lady in US or Canada earning 10k dollars or more per month yet no man. And they are many in that category. She can get pregnant for a responsible man, it’s all about understanding. I know some ladies that leave US to Nigeria to find man

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Re: Advice To Single Women At 40 by ednut1(m): 2:33pm On Aug 06, 2023
Omoawoke:


What of men above average.
Some men can take care of a family of 10 comfortably. Three wives with two kids each… that’s 10.
There are also many ladies out there that are doing very well. You will see a lady in US or Canada earning 10k dollars or more per month yet no man. And they are many in that category. She can get pregnant for a responsible man, it’s all about understanding. I know some ladies that leave US to Nigeria to find man
majority if Nigerians are poor. The rich ones can do what they like. But the poor and struggling still want multiple wives and children. Madness

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Re: Advice To Single Women At 40 by Omoawoke: 2:36pm On Aug 06, 2023
ednut1:
the average man these days can’t even feed a wife and few kids. You want them to marry more wives Generational poverty things

These days with the exchange rate. You can have two wives comfortably in Nigeria while outside the country. Lmao
Just send like 1k dollars every month to each of them to take care of your kids. Do you know how much people pay for child support in US? People pay about 750 to over 1k per month. The only thing is to ensure your kids have dual citizenship, then go back to Nigeria with lower cost of living compared to abroad

And we are not even talking about broke girls. A girl doing well and earning well can be in Nigeria and be 2nd or 3rd wife to a guy that’s financially stable
Re: Advice To Single Women At 40 by Omoawoke: 2:38pm On Aug 06, 2023
ednut1:
majority if Nigerians are poor. The rich ones can do what they like. But the poor and struggling still want multiple wives and children. Madness

That’s the madness.
Nothing bad in having many children as long as one can give birth to healthy kids, mentally stable and finance is there to take care of them

Someone like Dangote should be the one giving birth to 40 children while someone living inside slum should not even reproduce.

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Re: Advice To Single Women At 40 by lordnkem000(m): 2:46pm On Aug 06, 2023
SanctifiedSista:


Keep your satanic advise to yourself before you attract a curse. Only bastards and worthless people will accept such advise from a devil. JESUS CHRIST did not marry,did he die? Better carry your mata to the Holy Spirit. You want HIM to help u, av a relationship with HIM and HE will wipe away your secret tears
Pretender, that's what u are..
Talk true pls, how many is your body count? Abeg allow the op to cap his capping, make sense

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Re: Advice To Single Women At 40 by lordnkem000(m): 2:49pm On Aug 06, 2023
Nursepepeye:
that one single wife is always holding knife 🗡️🔪 around everywhere she goes that's the problem, women are thier own problem, they don't accept allow men to bring them together.
U are right my friend.. God bless you
Re: Advice To Single Women At 40 by SanctifiedSista(f): 2:53pm On Aug 06, 2023
lordnkem000:

Pretender, that's what u are..
Talk true pls, how many is your body count? Abeg allow the op to cap his capping, make sense
grin grin grin cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy u tink every one is a Pig and dog like u that engages in carnality. Better repent and return the Jesus Christ

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Re: Advice To Single Women At 40 by lordnkem000(m): 3:04pm On Aug 06, 2023
SanctifiedSista:
grin grin grin cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy u tink every one is a Pig and dog like u that engages in carnality. Better repent and return the Jesus Christ
So u re in Christ right now abi?
Did u just see the names u called me? Did Christ insult the people that insulted, abused and even killed him? He lived by example, agbaya like u disturbing us with ur slack pussy as every man don leave u, u wan con carry church for head.. shi eba puor

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Re: Advice To Single Women At 40 by Nobody: 3:09pm On Aug 06, 2023
Every male on Nl is now a marriage counsellor grin grin


Let women breathhhhhezzzzz grin

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Re: Advice To Single Women At 40 by Nobody: 3:25pm On Aug 06, 2023
CaptMarvel:
It's a World problem.

There's influx of Women and low income Men. Marriage will never happen to some women, it's just common analysis.

If you have a husband hold am tight. If you have a man you believe you can make a future with hold am tight.
Re: Advice To Single Women At 40 by Nobody: 3:46pm On Aug 06, 2023
advanceDNA:


Allow single 40 year old women breeeefff grin

Make una no dey tension these ladies abeg...

Their prime has passed....let them enjoy the remaining years of loneliness in peace

grin grin grin

Uyai shey you don Hear!!!

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