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Pls, Advise On How To Handle A Rude Soon To Be Inlaw Young Sister. by Alexbio: 7:46am On Aug 15, 2023
Good day all,
Actually, I need your sincere advice on my rude girlfriend young niece. For sometimes now I noticed my girlfriend niece had been very rude to me to the point that if she sees me outside she doesn't greet and even when I'm with her Aunty who is my girlfriend she doesn't greet me respectively and receptively, she just greet me casually. However, this a girl (my girlfriend's niece) I'm by far not her mate. Each time I sees her I become furious but don't speak in anger and for some reasons I would complain or challenge her because my reply could leave the the girl (my girlfriend's niece) in serious issue with her Aunty (my girlfriend) in spite of all the goods she has been enjoying from girlfriend.
Furthermore, from my observation I realized from my girlfriend family they actually lack manners and rude and that's why she (my girlfriend) hasn't felt any flag of disrespect from her niece to me (her boyfriend).
So far, I'm in a doubt if the relationship will work eventually because I'm from a background where my people cherish courtesy so much and never trade anything for it and I particularly already wired that way. In addition, my girlfriend love me but like I said they naturally rude in their family. By the way, I'm also tired of complaining on people's attributes seriously.
Pls, help with me with your best advices?
Thank you all
Re: Pls, Advise On How To Handle A Rude Soon To Be Inlaw Young Sister. by patrislayqueen: 7:52am On Aug 15, 2023
What tribe is your boyfriend?
Re: Pls, Advise On How To Handle A Rude Soon To Be Inlaw Young Sister. by jackmrandy: 7:56am On Aug 15, 2023
Alexbio:
Good day all,
Actually, I need your sincere advice on my rude girlfriend young niece. For sometimes now I noticed my girlfriend niece had been very rude to me to the point that if she sees me outside she doesn't greet and even when I'm with her Aunty who is my girlfriend she doesn't greet me respectively and receptively, she just greet me casually. However, this a girl (my girlfriend's niece) I'm by far not her mate. Each time I sees her I become furious but don't speak in anger and for some reasons I would complain or challenge her because my reply could leave the the girl (my girlfriend's niece) in serious issue with her Aunty (my girlfriend) in spite of all the goods she has been enjoying from girlfriend.
Furthermore, from my observation I realized from my girlfriend family they actually lack manners and rude and that's why she (my girlfriend) hasn't felt any flag of disrespect from her niece to me (her boyfriend).
So far, I'm in a doubt if the relationship will work eventually because I'm from a background where my people cherish courtesy so much and never trade anything for it and I particularly already wired that way. In addition, my girlfriend love me but like I said they naturally rude in their family. By the way, I'm also tired of complaining on people's attributes seriously.
Pls, help with me with your best advices?
Thank you all


IF SHE IS NOT INTERFERING IN THE RELATIONSHIP, I WOULD SUGGEST YOU MIND YOUR BUSINESS. LEAVE HER AND HER RUDENESS TO HERSELF. OR DOES HER GREETINGS ADD MONEY TO YOUR TABLE OR YOUR POCKET? ACT LIKE SHE DOES NOT EXIST, HI IS HI, ABI HOW DO YOU WANT IT TO BE AGAIN? SEE MY BROTHER I UNDERSTAND HOW YOU FEEL TO BE BROUGHT FROM A GOOD HOME AND EXPECT SAME FROM PEOPLE. BUT YOU KNOW WHAT LIFE IS NOT FAIR.
Re: Pls, Advise On How To Handle A Rude Soon To Be Inlaw Young Sister. by ahnie: 8:18am On Aug 15, 2023
Does her greeting you respectfully puts food on your table?

I believe there re better things bothering you than your fruitlessly trying to get validation from your babes niece!


Honestly una get time Sha

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