Or11:
Because of woman you wrote this fantastically long post, well done

Persephone1:
The only difference between all of you that comment is you took your own "simping" off public.

Off mic

Pukkalolo:
One lady uploaded her picture on Facebook. The picture was so sexy.

As expected, there was a sudden tsunami of compliment from men.

The compliments started flowing in:

"Wow that's my beautiful baby i love you"

Cuteness overload!

"Absolutely amazing and looking so beautiful."

What a beauty!!

"So pretty 💕"

So adorable!❤️


In response to their compliments, the lady was just replying "Thank you," "Thank you," "Thank you,"......

Then one dude came around and made attempt to be a bit different, he dropped this comment:

“I love your beautiful eyes, you and I will make cute kids”

Unfortunately, she still dish out the same response, "Thank you."

I'm sure he was disappointed because he was hoping she'd say something better

Before you know it, one rugged looking dude came around and made attempt to be totally different , the comment he dropped was,

““I dodge it joor, I refuse to fall in love with this your tempting picture”.


In my mind I was like, "Wow! that was a dope line.... let me see her response."

In fact, the moment he drop that line, there was a sudden earthquake; even the pillars of the earth could not handle the dopeness of that line.

The whole world had to stop what they were doing to check out her response. We were sure she was gonna be amazed by this rugged guy dope line.

But to everyone total surprise including mark zuckerberg, she still served him the same cliche response. Although she added a spice called "Lolz."

Her response was "Lolz, thank you."

Wait...is that all she had to say?

Is that it

Holy father! That was painful.


Anyways...

In the heat of the moment, I scrolled in, saw the picture, and ofcourse I just moved on....I rarely comment on a girl's post on social media.

But I quickly reverse back because something caught my attention. She looks exactly like Ayra Starr.

Then I dropped a comment: "Amazing! Ayra Starr won't find this picture funny."

With the speed of light, she replied my comment: " Ayra Starr? How"

I responded, "You are similar to the singer in two weird ways"

She replied, "weird way how, tell me?"

I said, "Sure...I'm gonna tell you but not in front of this crowd."

Few minutes later, she inbox me.

Isn't it funny how the rest of the packs got just 'thank you', but she made the move to inbox me.

Ok...Now you might be thinking, "Ok, Pukka, I get it but what exactly is your point"

Chill...


We are just starting...


The first rule of compliment is this: Your compliment should have different possible meaning and make her get curious.

Here's what I mean:

When you tell her "you are looking so beautiful and adorable,"....to her that means you're smitten by her beauty.

What if you twick the compliment by saying, "I dodge it joor, I refuse to fall in love with it," she might reward you with "Lolz" ........but to her it still means you are smitten by her beauty, you are just putting up a facade, so it makes no difference.

But when I told her, "Amazing! Ayra Starr won't find this picture funny," she got curious because that statement has different possible meaning; so she got curious and tries to engage more with me.

For example, If you tell her, "Wow, your dress is beautiful," then it's has just one meaning: "you admire her, you're smitten by her appearance." She will just smile and say "thank you," and the conversation ends there. Now you'll find yourself struggling to keep the conversation going.


Instead I'll tell her, "from your dressing, I can tell you are either a model or an actress." Now that statement has different possible meaning, so she might be like, "hmm, why did you say so?"....Now a real conversation will begin. Now she's engaging with me

The purpose of your compliments shouldn't be just to make her smile, laugh or tell you "thank you".... The purpose of your compliment is to make her curious and want to engage more with you.


Another example, if you say, "your hair is so nice." She'll just say "thank you." And that's all. The conversation ends.

Instead I'll put it differently. I'll say, "This hair style tells me few things about you.".... This will make her curious and want to engage more with me.



I believe you get the gist....



Ok.... Now let's get more real.

The truth is, there's no right way to compliments a woman. The real question is, "who is giving the compliment?"

The average woman gets complimented all the time...if she's beautiful, then it's even worse: she get loads and loads of compliments daily.

So giving her compliment is like bringing sand to the beach Or pouring a cup of water inside ocean: your compliment would make no difference in her world, she's already used to that.


In and of itself, the compliment doesn't matter.

Who is giving the compliment matters more than the compliment itself. You can drop a dope ass compliment but if you are not worth it, then the compliment would be useless to her. She'll just pat your back with a "thank you" and tell you to run along.

Women are attracted to "who you are" NOT the compliment you are giving her.

The compliment you give her might only buy you more time to show her who you really are. She'll eventually find out who you are. When she detect who you are and she's not pleased, she'll move on immediately.

For example, let's use these two old Nollywood actors as example: Emeka Ike and Jim Iyke. If you used to watch their movie back then, you know that Emeka Ike often play the role of a wimpy nice guy and simp, while Jim Iyke often play role of a dominant, confident bad boy.

Now, if Emeka Ike compliments a girl, "you are beautiful." Fellas might possibly scream, "simp, grow some spine..."

But if Jim Iyke compliment that same girl, "you are beautiful." Fellas might say, "Wow, so Jim Iyke can be this romantic...she must be really special to him."

Every compliment is just neutral...But the person giving the compliment is what makes the difference.

This is why--> when Cain brought fruit offering to compliment the Lord, and Abel also brought his flock offering to compliment the Lord, God accepted Abel's gift but He did not regard Cain's gift. This is has nothing to do with the content of the offering(compliment), it has more to with 'who' is offering it.

If you are "correct G" then anything you say to her will seem correct and attractive.

Emeka Ike complimenting a girl would seem weak and pathetic....but Jim Iyk or James bond complimenting a girl would seem cool and even attractive.

The compliment isn't the issue. The issue is, "who is giving out the compliment?"

Stay blessed.

Pukkalolo:
One lady uploaded her picture on Facebook. The picture was so sexy.

As expected, there was a sudden tsunami of compliment from men.

The compliments started flowing in:

"Wow that's my beautiful baby i love you"

Cuteness overload!

"Absolutely amazing and looking so beautiful."

What a beauty!!

"So pretty 💕"

So adorable!❤️


In response to their compliments, the lady was just replying "Thank you," "Thank you," "Thank you,"......

Then one dude came around and made attempt to be a bit different, he dropped this comment:

“I love your beautiful eyes, you and I will make cute kids”

Unfortunately, she still dish out the same response, "Thank you."

I'm sure he was disappointed because he was hoping she'd say something better

Before you know it, one rugged looking dude came around and made attempt to be totally different , the comment he dropped was,

““I dodge it joor, I refuse to fall in love with this your tempting picture”.


In my mind I was like, "Wow! that was a dope line.... let me see her response."

In fact, the moment he drop that line, there was a sudden earthquake; even the pillars of the earth could not handle the dopeness of that line.

The whole world had to stop what they were doing to check out her response. We were sure she was gonna be amazed by this rugged guy dope line.

But to everyone total surprise including mark zuckerberg, she still served him the same cliche response. Although she added a spice called "Lolz."

Her response was "Lolz, thank you."

Wait...is that all she had to say?

Is that it

Holy father! That was painful.


Anyways...

In the heat of the moment, I scrolled in, saw the picture, and ofcourse I just moved on....I rarely comment on a girl's post on social media.

But I quickly reverse back because something caught my attention. She looks exactly like Ayra Starr.

Then I dropped a comment: "Amazing! Ayra Starr won't find this picture funny."

With the speed of light, she replied my comment: " Ayra Starr? How"

I responded, "You are similar to the singer in two weird ways"

She replied, "weird way how, tell me?"

I said, "Sure...I'm gonna tell you but not in front of this crowd."

Few minutes later, she inbox me.

Isn't it funny how the rest of the packs got just 'thank you', but she made the move to inbox me.

Ok...Now you might be thinking, "Ok, Pukka, I get it but what exactly is your point"

Chill...


We are just starting...


The first rule of compliment is this: Your compliment should have different possible meaning and make her get curious.

Here's what I mean:

When you tell her "you are looking so beautiful and adorable,"....to her that means you're smitten by her beauty.

What if you twick the compliment by saying, "I dodge it joor, I refuse to fall in love with it," she might reward you with "Lolz" ........but to her it still means you are smitten by her beauty, you are just putting up a facade, so it makes no difference.

But when I told her, "Amazing! Ayra Starr won't find this picture funny," she got curious because that statement has different possible meaning; so she got curious and tries to engage more with me.

For example, If you tell her, "Wow, your dress is beautiful," then it's has just one meaning: "you admire her, you're smitten by her appearance." She will just smile and say "thank you," and the conversation ends there. Now you'll find yourself struggling to keep the conversation going.


Instead I'll tell her, "from your dressing, I can tell you are either a model or an actress." Now that statement has different possible meaning, so she might be like, "hmm, why did you say so?"....Now a real conversation will begin. Now she's engaging with me

The purpose of your compliments shouldn't be just to make her smile, laugh or tell you "thank you".... The purpose of your compliment is to make her curious and want to engage more with you.


Another example, if you say, "your hair is so nice." She'll just say "thank you." And that's all. The conversation ends.

Instead I'll put it differently. I'll say, "This hair style tells me few things about you.".... This will make her curious and want to engage more with me.



I believe you get the gist....



Ok.... Now let's get more real.

The truth is, there's no right way to compliments a woman. The real question is, "who is giving the compliment?"

The average woman gets complimented all the time...if she's beautiful, then it's even worse: she get loads and loads of compliments daily.

So giving her compliment is like bringing sand to the beach Or pouring a cup of water inside ocean: your compliment would make no difference in her world, she's already used to that.


In and of itself, the compliment doesn't matter.

Who is giving the compliment matters more than the compliment itself. You can drop a dope ass compliment but if you are not worth it, then the compliment would be useless to her. She'll just pat your back with a "thank you" and tell you to run along.

Women are attracted to "who you are" NOT the compliment you are giving her.

The compliment you give her might only buy you more time to show her who you really are. She'll eventually find out who you are. When she detect who you are and she's not pleased, she'll move on immediately.

For example, let's use these two old Nollywood actors as example: Emeka Ike and Jim Iyke. If you used to watch their movie back then, you know that Emeka Ike often play the role of a wimpy nice guy and simp, while Jim Iyke often play role of a dominant, confident bad boy.

Now, if Emeka Ike compliments a girl, "you are beautiful." Fellas might possibly scream, "simp, grow some spine..."

But if Jim Iyke compliment that same girl, "you are beautiful." Fellas might say, "Wow, so Jim Iyke can be this romantic...she must be really special to him."

Every compliment is just neutral...But the person giving the compliment is what makes the difference.

This is why--> when Cain brought fruit offering to compliment the Lord, and Abel also brought his flock offering to compliment the Lord, God accepted Abel's gift but He did not regard Cain's gift. This is has nothing to do with the content of the offering(compliment), it has more to with 'who' is offering it.

If you are "correct G" then anything you say to her will seem correct and attractive.

Emeka Ike complimenting a girl would seem weak and pathetic....but Jim Iyk or James bond complimenting a girl would seem cool and even attractive.

The compliment isn't the issue. The issue is, "who is giving out the compliment?"

Stay blessed.

Pukkalolo:
One lady uploaded her picture on Facebook. The picture was so sexy.

As expected, there was a sudden tsunami of compliment from men.

The compliments started flowing in:

"Wow that's my beautiful baby i love you"

Cuteness overload!

"Absolutely amazing and looking so beautiful."

What a beauty!!

"So pretty 💕"

So adorable!❤️


In response to their compliments, the lady was just replying "Thank you," "Thank you," "Thank you,"......

Then one dude came around and made attempt to be a bit different, he dropped this comment:

“I love your beautiful eyes, you and I will make cute kids”

Unfortunately, she still dish out the same response, "Thank you."

I'm sure he was disappointed because he was hoping she'd say something better

Before you know it, one rugged looking dude came around and made attempt to be totally different , the comment he dropped was,

““I dodge it joor, I refuse to fall in love with this your tempting picture”.


In my mind I was like, "Wow! that was a dope line.... let me see her response."

In fact, the moment he drop that line, there was a sudden earthquake; even the pillars of the earth could not handle the dopeness of that line.

The whole world had to stop what they were doing to check out her response. We were sure she was gonna be amazed by this rugged guy dope line.

But to everyone total surprise including mark zuckerberg, she still served him the same cliche response. Although she added a spice called "Lolz."

Her response was "Lolz, thank you."

Wait...is that all she had to say?

Is that it

Holy father! That was painful.


Anyways...

In the heat of the moment, I scrolled in, saw the picture, and ofcourse I just moved on....I rarely comment on a girl's post on social media.

But I quickly reverse back because something caught my attention. She looks exactly like Ayra Starr.

Then I dropped a comment: "Amazing! Ayra Starr won't find this picture funny."

With the speed of light, she replied my comment: " Ayra Starr? How"

I responded, "You are similar to the singer in two weird ways"

She replied, "weird way how, tell me?"

I said, "Sure...I'm gonna tell you but not in front of this crowd."

Few minutes later, she inbox me.

Isn't it funny how the rest of the packs got just 'thank you', but she made the move to inbox me.

Ok...Now you might be thinking, "Ok, Pukka, I get it but what exactly is your point"

Chill...


We are just starting...


The first rule of compliment is this: Your compliment should have different possible meaning and make her get curious.

Here's what I mean:

When you tell her "you are looking so beautiful and adorable,"....to her that means you're smitten by her beauty.

What if you twick the compliment by saying, "I dodge it joor, I refuse to fall in love with it," she might reward you with "Lolz" ........but to her it still means you are smitten by her beauty, you are just putting up a facade, so it makes no difference.

But when I told her, "Amazing! Ayra Starr won't find this picture funny," she got curious because that statement has different possible meaning; so she got curious and tries to engage more with me.

For example, If you tell her, "Wow, your dress is beautiful," then it's has just one meaning: "you admire her, you're smitten by her appearance." She will just smile and say "thank you," and the conversation ends there. Now you'll find yourself struggling to keep the conversation going.


Instead I'll tell her, "from your dressing, I can tell you are either a model or an actress." Now that statement has different possible meaning, so she might be like, "hmm, why did you say so?"....Now a real conversation will begin. Now she's engaging with me

The purpose of your compliments shouldn't be just to make her smile, laugh or tell you "thank you".... The purpose of your compliment is to make her curious and want to engage more with you.


Another example, if you say, "your hair is so nice." She'll just say "thank you." And that's all. The conversation ends.

Instead I'll put it differently. I'll say, "This hair style tells me few things about you.".... This will make her curious and want to engage more with me.



I believe you get the gist....



Ok.... Now let's get more real.

The truth is, there's no right way to compliments a woman. The real question is, "who is giving the compliment?"

The average woman gets complimented all the time...if she's beautiful, then it's even worse: she get loads and loads of compliments daily.

So giving her compliment is like bringing sand to the beach Or pouring a cup of water inside ocean: your compliment would make no difference in her world, she's already used to that.


In and of itself, the compliment doesn't matter.

Who is giving the compliment matters more than the compliment itself. You can drop a dope ass compliment but if you are not worth it, then the compliment would be useless to her. She'll just pat your back with a "thank you" and tell you to run along.

Women are attracted to "who you are" NOT the compliment you are giving her.

The compliment you give her might only buy you more time to show her who you really are. She'll eventually find out who you are. When she detect who you are and she's not pleased, she'll move on immediately.

For example, let's use these two old Nollywood actors as example: Emeka Ike and Jim Iyke. If you used to watch their movie back then, you know that Emeka Ike often play the role of a wimpy nice guy and simp, while Jim Iyke often play role of a dominant, confident bad boy.

Now, if Emeka Ike compliments a girl, "you are beautiful." Fellas might possibly scream, "simp, grow some spine..."

But if Jim Iyke compliment that same girl, "you are beautiful." Fellas might say, "Wow, so Jim Iyke can be this romantic...she must be really special to him."

Every compliment is just neutral...But the person giving the compliment is what makes the difference.

This is why--> when Cain brought fruit offering to compliment the Lord, and Abel also brought his flock offering to compliment the Lord, God accepted Abel's gift but He did not regard Cain's gift. This is has nothing to do with the content of the offering(compliment), it has more to with 'who' is offering it.

If you are "correct G" then anything you say to her will seem correct and attractive.

Emeka Ike complimenting a girl would seem weak and pathetic....but Jim Iyk or James bond complimenting a girl would seem cool and even attractive.

The compliment isn't the issue. The issue is, "who is giving out the compliment?"

Stay blessed.

OgaTheTop2:
Oga, just tell her to follow you go vacation to Dubai to appreciate her beauty...all expenses paid vacation. Forget this long epistle.

Albertone:


What makes you think they simp off public?

See, a simp that got his fingers burnt several times won't simp again(publicly or not). That's why I laugh at people teaching Redpill. When you simp and every lady you meet is using your heart to catch cruise, no one will teach you the Redpill before you swallow it.

So, I don't know why you think those guys simp when infact, they displayed the rizz of a non simp.

SenatePresdo:


The format is to get her attention, not to Bleep her.

Persephone1:
Which leaves me with a question: Is it necessary to comment on a lady's post at all?

Which guys?