BItt:
the hate starts and ends online

This one is completely disconnected from the reality of things, it seems.

ideamonster:
The potential threat the career of a woman can cause to her marriage especially if her husband isn’t as successful as she is has always been a point of discussion. Moreover, some single men are even afraid to marry a woman who is successful in their chosen career than them. Some believe that the norm is husbands “should” hold higher job status relative to their wives. When this norm is violated, and wives hold the higher status job, negative consequences can follow: Women are more likely to be targets of husbands’ aggression, and the risk for divorce increases.

Question
is it a crime for a woman to succeed in her chosen field or earn more?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eUrng-mfZpQ

Is not a crime for a woman to succeed, I for one love when people around me succeed, more especially my woman. But when you allow that success or money you think you have get into your head and you start disrespecting me then we will definitely have problems.

sylve11:
Well, that question is not for me. I am in no competition with no one.

If my partner like make she become president of Nigeria, it won't do any issues on me.

I go even happy for her sef.

No be to happy for her be the thing , will you still be happy when her success gets into her head and she starts disrespecting you ??

Kobojunkiee:
This one is completely disconnected from the reality of things, it seems.

No I am not

BItt:
No I am not

Your words already betray you there.

Kobojunkiee:
Your words already betray you there.

kobo are you using 7g network

pansophist:

A wealthy ritualist will get the best of girls than a hardworking uber driver that is a church choir.

You be senior man.

AntiTerrorist:

1. Would you like it if your wife is the head of your family and you being submissive to the woman you paid for her bride price?

2. Your level of understanding though
Did that means women who have money don't get married?

Kobo like argument for the sake of argument. It's better to take a bow cos person no fit argument with am finish

oweniwe:
■ Kobo like argument for the sake of argument. It's better to take a bow cos person no fit argument with am finish

You couldn't answer a single one of the questions posed to support your claims. Now you take to accusing me of arguing for the sake of it. Typical Nigerian bubble head.

Kobojunkie:
You couldn't answer a single one of the questions posed to support your claims. Now you take to accusing me of arguing for the sake of it. Typical Nigerian bubble head.

Abeg o

What's the essence of responding only for a counter questions to be asked again?

And then it goes on and on and on... Well, I like your vibrant spirit. But in the end, make person no overdo himself

oweniwe:
Abeg o What's the essence of responding only for a counter questions to be asked again?
And then it goes on and on and on... Well, I like your vibrant spirit. But in the end, make person no overdo himself

Now whose arguing for the sake of argument abeg? So, you actually expected me to gobble up whatever you say without querying the intelligence behind the claims made? Please get off the internet if you are not ready to provide support for claims you make.... nonsense!

Kobojunkiee:
Now whose arguing for the sake of argument abeg? So, you actually expected me to gobble up whatever you say without querying the intelligence behind the claims made? Please get off the internet if you are not ready to provide support for claims you make.... nonsense!

Reality is different from theory.

A person can be very nice outside as a colleague and as a close friend too... but living with that same person can be an entirely different experience

And people do change with time too. So one cannot say as this person is doing now before marriage is how the person will continue doing after marriage.

So with respect to marriage, to be safe is better than to be sorry.

If anyone use marriage as social experiment in order to prove a point (in this case, whether it is okay for a man to marry a woman of higher status wealth than him), let them take fully responsibility for their actions when things don't go as they anticipated instead of passing the blame to someone else

oweniwe:
■ Reality is different from theory. A person can be very nice outside as a colleague and as a close friend too... but living with that same person can be an entirely different experience And people do change with time too. So one cannot say as this person is doing now before marriage is how the person will continue doing after marriage. So with respect to marriage, to be safe is better than to be sorry.
■ If anyone use marriage as social experiment in order to prove a point (in this case, whether it is okay for a man to marry a woman of higher status wealth than him), let them take fully responsibility for their actions when things don't go as they anticipated instead of passing the blame to someone else

Um... I see you have yet to realize the full meaning of the saying "Change is constant in Life"

2. Now you have gone completely off-topic!

cococandy:
Women if you are in a position to improve yourself, don’t do it so that you don’t mistakenly surpass your man. That would be too woke and unnatural. It goes against nature.

If you’re already married and an opportunity comes your way that will make you more money but unfortunately it means your income will now be higher than your husbands income, reject the opportunity. Or get divorced. either way it will ensure you are not in a marriage where your income can exceed your man’s.

Carefully curate your life so that you can have money but never more than him. If you’re getting paid for something and it turns out it’s going to be a bigger check than what’s he’s getting on his end, refund some of the money. God forbid you earn more than him.

If you have a business and get a chance to expand your operations, don’t take the chance. How are we going to explain it? That you defied the natural order of things and sought to grow yourself and your career?

Y’all are so mind numbingly xtupid with these threads and responses. May God protect women from marrying their enemies. Enemies of progress

dis is wat u like coco wen woman divorce her hubby u are a wicked demon coco.u are happily married enjoying ur family yet u love divorce and wish most women divorce to become lonely in pains.may God purnish u coco

oweniwe:


Kobo like argument for the sake of argument. It's better to take a bow cos person no fit argument with am finish