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So You Think You Are A Man? by Lawricast(m): 12:45pm On Aug 17, 2023
The day you got married is not the day you became a man. The day you became a man was the day you put away childish things. It takes a lot to be a man, gender only helps to distinguish the reproductive organs in the body with reference to the social and cultural role that is considered appropriate for both sex, that is why God sees both gender as men or sons as often seen in the scriptures. To be a man means taking responsibilities, it’s not about wearing trousers or the physical muscular appearance. when a woman works very hard to sustain the family, she is term “the man of the house”. The man of the house is the one people look up to for answers, the bread winner of the family and the one that can shield the family from harms and danger. The moments you begin to give excuses without meeting needs and blaming others for your misfortune, you begin to lose grip in your sphere of influence as you won’t be taken seriously. Money does not make a man; it is a tool that makes you a fulfilled man. This is where most men miss it, they think when they get more money it will solve all their problems. Money cannot take the place of a father in the lives of your children; money cannot represent you during their graduation ceremonies and money cannot be a companion to your wife. So, you see, as important as money, it has limitations, and it cannot make you a man. To be a man is really not a day’s job, it requires bravery, initiative, tactics, strategy, and responsibility. no woman wants to marry a baby man (i.e., the one that is not bold enough to take responsibility) or mama’s boy (the one that frames his decision base on his mother’s opinion), they want to be sure they are marrying a real man.

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Re: So You Think You Are A Man? by fyzaila: 2:04pm On Aug 17, 2023
How do you juggle sentences together without paragraphs? 🤔 We were thought paragraphing in school for a reason.

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Re: So You Think You Are A Man? by Emmanuel30a: 3:40pm On Aug 17, 2023
Lawricast:
The day you got married is not the day you became a man. The day you became a man was the day you put away childish things. It takes a lot to be a man, gender only helps to distinguish the reproductive organs in the body with reference to the social and cultural role that is considered appropriate for both sex, that is why God sees both gender as men or sons as often seen in the scriptures. To be a man means taking responsibilities, it’s not about wearing trousers or the physical muscular appearance. when a woman works very hard to sustain the family, she is term “the man of the house”. The man of the house is the one people look up to for answers, the bread winner of the family and the one that can shield the family from harms and danger. The moments you begin to give excuses without meeting needs and blaming others for your misfortune, you begin to lose grip in your sphere of influence as you won’t be taken seriously. Money does not make a man; it is a tool that makes you a fulfilled man. This is where most men miss it, they think when they get more money it will solve all their problems. Money cannot take the place of a father in the lives of your children; money cannot represent you during their graduation ceremonies and money cannot be a companion to your wife. So, you see, as important as money, it has limitations, and it cannot make you a man. To be a man is really not a day’s job, it requires bravery, initiative, tactics, strategy, and responsibility. no woman wants to marry a baby man (i.e., the one that is not bold enough to take responsibility) or mama’s boy (the one that frames his decision base on his mother’s opinion), they want to be sure they are marrying a real man.
I don't know or don't get it... So, who and or what is a man...? Who and or what is a real man...? What is the difference between a man, a real man, a woman and a shaman,etc...? What does or did a woman has to do with a man, a real man and a shaman,etc...?...
Re: So You Think You Are A Man? by UnfairLife7(m): 4:39pm On Aug 17, 2023
Emmanuel30a:
I don't know or don't get it... So, who and or what is a man...? Who and or what is a real man...? What is the difference between a man, a real man, a woman and a shaman,etc...? What does or did a woman has to do with a man, a real man and a shaman,etc...?...
read it again, but this time around read without bias then you'd get the message. Very straightforward.
Re: So You Think You Are A Man? by Emmanuel30a: 5:29pm On Aug 17, 2023
UnfairLife7:
read it again, but this time around read without bias then you'd get the message. Very straightforward.
Now I get it...or, I now get it... Get what...?...
Re: So You Think You Are A Man? by werisetogether(m): 4:14am On Aug 18, 2023
Thanks

My thoughts exactly when I first saw this

Anyone who successfully read through that deserves some sort of award...

fyzaila:
How do you juggle sentences together without paragraphs? 🤔 We were thought paragraphing in school for a reason.

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